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Hi my boyfriend and I are having some problems. Well first of all he is mad at me for getting a myspace and he wont leave me alone he's threatning to break up with me for it, its retarded he needs to just leave me alone. What should I do?
Um, I would be the one to break up with him if he's threatening to. 60 million people have myspace. Unless there's something inappropriate with your myspace that's bothering him, then he has no right to be upset. Tell him to go to Ethiopia or Lebanon & maybe he'll find a girl who doesn't have a myspace over there.
i am a fourteen year old girl.
here's the deal. i like this guy (who i have talked to and he knows i like him and blah, blah, blah) he said that he didn't want a relationship because of what his cousin said.
but his ex girlfriend said that he was too clingy. that's why she broke up with him. and one of my absolute best friends is his ex ,ex girlfriend. and she also said he was too clingy.
i am going to talk to him monday and tell him that he can keep his girlfriends because he is too clingy, but i would still except him even though he has a clinging problem.
do you think that is a good idea? should i change anything or what else should i do? is he one of those guys who aren't worth it?
thanks to who answers this question.
It's one of those things you have to find out for yourself. You're only 14; most relationships your age aren't even serious. You'll be onto guy number 9 by the time you're 18. Just have fun & give the guy a chance. & if he happens to be too clingy & you don't like it? No big deal. There are plenty of other guys out there. :)
okay so this guy thinks that i have kissed a guy before. i havent. he is much more experienced then i am sexually. will he know that i havent kissed someone before when we do kiss. should i let him make the first move and do the kissing. i want to be a good kisser. any tips would be great. and i know that i shouldnt lie to him. but. i already have. so any help would be greatly appreciated. thank you
He probably won't be able to tell you haven't. Do whatever you feel is comfortable. Personally, I think you can learn to become a good kisser with practice. & you can usually pick up pretty fast. But it's something natural [like walking] that you can't exactly explain to someone. There's no wrong or right way. When the time comes, you don't even think about how to to do it. Just give it time & practice & you'll be good. :)
I am finnaly getting a cell phone!! but.. it is my Mom's old one :( but y'know it is something. I am going into High School and they say like 100 minutes is enough, but i am afraid that when i get new friends i will be talking to them alot, and i cannot convince my parents that i NEED more minutes... what should i do???
1.) Offer to pay for the extra minutes.
2.) Stick to mostly texting your friends & using your minutes for when you can't use your house phone.
3.) Go 3492 minutes over your limit & let them bitch at the bill that is higher than it would have been if they just bumped up your minutes a bit. Bwaha.
what are some good
indie/emo/rock/alternative bands
i need a new band/song for my myspace
and i dont know of any
i had like every band on there already
help?!
daphne loves derby, death cab for cutie, & the postal service are my favorites.
Hey i am going to be a freshman this year and i am starting in a week i know there are a bunch of other questions like this but... i am really scared, when we had orientation i made like only 1 friend not even really... i have no friends going to the school i am going to! i do not know how to open my locker! and i have no clue where or when my classes are.... junior high was SO much easier!!! I came from a catholic school before this so it is WAYYYY different from classes to no uniforms and more!!! i am soo afraid of getting on the bus and sitting with no one and also very very very afraid of going to lunch and sitting by myself eating!!! i am terrified and i know i will get trampled in the hall ways... are there that many people in the hall way? like seriously is it full?? Ahhhh i am sooooo nervous not to mention i had a bad memory wif the boy across tha street and we will be getiing on the same bus! and he will be seeing me for like the first time up close in like 3 years!!! PLZ HELP and plz tell it like it is don't lie to make it feel better i need the TRUTH!
sorry it was long
I won't lie. The first day will probably suck ass if you're a new at a school. Been there, done that. But it doesn't have to suck if you don't worry so much & atleast be somewhat optimistic & outgoing. Can't open your locker? That should probably be last of your worries. No big deal. Get to school early & get the hang of it before the day actually begins. If all else fails, just ask someone for help. Don't know where your classes are? Neither does half the school. No one will expect you to be right on time the first few days or so. Getting on the bus & sitting with no one? Who cares? Most people on the bus aren't too social anyway. Sit by yourself, it's not a big deal, really. Go to lunch by yourself? Go up to someone from one of your classes & ask them if you can sit with them. No one is going to be mean & say no. & if they do, then you wouldn't want to sit with them anyway. Trampled in the halls? I went to a couple schools with 2200-2600 kids, it can't be too much worse. Just don't stop & stand in the middle of the hall. I know I used to push them. The guy across the street? Just be yourself & ask if it's cool to sit with him on the bus; maybe you guys can be friends. I remember overreacting on my first day of freshman year & now I laugh at how pointless it was. New experiences are a little nerve-wrecking, but don't let it bother you. High school was fun; enjoy it while it lasts because pretty soon you'll be graduated & sitting on advicenators wishing you were that scared freshman just so you could experience it..all over again. Good luck :)
ya i really want a ipod soo bad and my parents said that if i want one i have to buy it myself.. and my friends are sayin that they got their ipods free online with no scams and every site i go to where it says free ipod its always a scam i either have to buy and offer or take a long ass survay and its soo annoying but i want one so bad soo please does anyone know a real non scam site where i just put in my address and name and get a free nano ipod??
Why don't you ask your friends who supposedly got them for scam free? Nothing is handed to you these days, so don't expect anything to be for real. Just save up your money or if you're old enough, get a Walmart credit card, buy one there for $197 & gradually pay it off. If not, see if your parents will get the card & you can make the payments to them. I don't know what else to tell you.
i told my friend i was afraid to die naked and now she makes fun of me. what should i do? :(
Don't take it too seriously or personally. She's probably just joking. & if not, then that's probably the lamest/weakest thing to make fun of someone for.
Okay, there is this new guy at school. He just moved here. He isn't cute at all, and is weird. I talked to him once because he was just sitrting there, and I felt bad. Now, he always stares at me. How do I get him to stop?
Just straight up say "Quit staring at me." Not too difficult.
does anyone know where i can buy really cheap clothing (thats still cute), jewlery and handbags. i want to buy a wholeeee lot of stuff...so i am looking for really cheap things...maybe buying things in bulk kind of things
thanks in advance.
Try Wet Seal. They always have good deals going out. (Ex: 3 shirts for $10 or 1 shirt for $7). Jeans were on sale for $20.05 this week.
i've been told that if you don't eat enough your body will go into starvation mode, and it will actually cause you to gain weight.
is this true? because i was thinking and then how do people with anorexia (not that i'm going to become anorexic or anything) lose weight. because if they hardly eat anything, won't their bodies go into starvation mode and cause them to gain weight?
THANKS!
Yeah, definitely true. & I know from experience. When you're in starvation mood, you'll gain everything you eat. Anorexia people don't normally eat [or enough], so therefore they continue to lose weight.
i was wondering what kind of actions that other vegetarians/vegans out there do to spread the word of PETA/PETA2??? tnx
Burning down animal testing sites. No joke. There's a difference between people who are for animal rights that want to make a difference & extremists who. That difference is PETA. Read into PETA before claiming to be apart of a group that resembles somewhat of a cult.
I like how they are for the idea of letting all animals roam freely, but complain about Orlando Bloom leaving his dog while he goes inside to eat, ha!:
http://www.contactmusic.com/news.nsf/article/peta%20slam%20bloom%20complaint%20reports_1003395
To answer your question - there's nothing wrong with not wanting to eat meat & being a vegan/vegetarian. But no one needs to hear it. People are going to eat meat if they want.
i was watching tv and i saw this commercial to lose weight using the sauna belt ..like you would put it around your stomach and you could lose inches.. i was wondering if anyone has ever tried this sauna belt before and if it acutally worked and where can i buy this and how much does it cost?
That concept has been around for decades & no it doesn't work. Don't be fat & expect some belt to do the job for you. If you want to lose weight, start eating healthy & go run.
I am a major prep and i just moved and the new school is full of emos and skater peeps. First of all it's kind of scary and im not used to it. My old school was a preppy private school. So when i go to school i am dacked out in lacoste, lilly, Ralph Lauren, and vineyard vines. people glare at me its scary~! I think im gonna get beat up or mugged!!!
~preppy rymes with steppy>
Likeomg. You're gonna meet different people everywhere you go. Get used to it & accept the fact everyone around you doesn't wear the same brand. & quit making such ridiculous stereotypes. Please tell me this question is a joke.
Is it possible for a guy to cum during dry sex? If so, how? Because everytime me and my boyfriend have dry sex, he can never cum, only i can. Any advice?
I'm sure it's possible, but not too likely. For some guys, it just takes more to get more than just aroused.
i havent even made out with a guy yet. like ive been planning on to, but i guess it just hasnt happend. a few times i got peer pressured into it, but i would back away cause i dont wanna everyone there watching. i just get uncomfortable. i just want it to be the right moment with the right guy. and im only 13. is that normal that i havent hooked up with a guy yet?
Yeah, definitely don't just make out with anyone jut because you're that desperate to say you've made out before. Wait till you find a guy you like & a place where you can be alone & comfortable together.
& yeah, it's totally normal for you to not have experienced it yet; you're only 13. Pshh, I was getting close to 18 before I ever made out with anyone. It's worth it to wait for the right time & right person, even if you end up havin to pass up a lot of opportunities.
I have gotten so many comments on how big my eyes look. I don't really know if this is a good or bad thing....but i would kinda like ur guy's opinion. Also, Is it because i wear eyeliner??? will that make it look bigger? some people say it makes their eyes look smaller...but i dunno. I use a dark brown eyeliner and i only do the bottom...not the top. (i have fair skin too)
I would consider it to be a compliment. Yes, wearing eyeliner can give that effect depending on how you wear it. Surprisingly, applying eyeliner on the top can make your eyes look smaller. But I suppose it depends the thickness & what color eyeshadow you use.
can you listen to ipods in tanning beds ?
Well, it should be fine. If there's a table by the tanning bed, I'd leave the actual ipod out of the tanning bed & place it there (just to be safe.) The headphones are perfectly fine to wear because I use the headphones for the radio they provide already.
Last year I took Algebra 1, and I sucked at it, but it wasn't me, it was the teacher. At the end of the year she ended up passing everyone in my class by one or two points, probably to make herself look good, because we were all failing miserable. Point is, I'm still moving onto Geometry next year..but I know absolutely nothing about Algebra 1, I didn't get anything out of that class. My mom will be getting me a tutor outside of school & I have notes on Algebra 1 now. But my question is, is Geometry harder than Algebra 1? Or is it similar? Does it deal with Algebra 1 alot/at all? Thank you.
Hardly any Algebra is used in Geometry, so there's a chance you can be even better or worse at Geometry. Geometry mainly deals with postulates, theorems, & angles. I think you should do perfectly fine if you have a tutor & keep good notes. When I took Algebra 1, I think I passed with a 93%. & when I took Geometry, I passed with an 83%. It all depends on how your teacher teaches grades & how hard you work for your grade. But to give you a heads up - most people aren't very good when they hit Geometry. But to do good in that class, I think all it takes is good notes, more studying, & your full attention in class. Atleast that's how it was for me.
whats the QUICKEST way to loose weight beore augest 18!!? please help me i no i'm getting fat and idk what to do!! i'm thinking about aneroxicaa b/c it seems like the quickest way but idk you tell me
First off, anorexia is NOT a quick way to lose weight. It's a serious mental disorder that's difficult to cure & recover from. It makes me mad when people think of it as some "temporary diet." To answer your question:
1. Start eating 4-5 SMALL healthy meals a day. By doing this, it'll keep you from overindulging everytime you eat & it will help increase your metabolism.
2. Avoid caffeine or anything with a lot of sugar. I quit soda for a couple weeks & lost 7 lbs.
3. Get plenty of sleep & try not to stress too much because that will make you gain weight.
4. Exercise 3-5 days a week. Do about 30-45 minutes of cardio during those days. And on your off days, try non-cardio exercises such as crunches, push ups, & squats.
5. Drink plenty of water to clean out your system from toxicans that can contribute to weight gain.
That's all I can tell you. But don't consider starving yourself. I hardly ate for a year or two & now my metabolism is so slow, that I gain just about anything I eat. & a slow metabolism isn't the worst result of starvation either. Heart failure/problems, malnourishment, & even death come along with it.