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One of my teachers is always making fun of the students. I know it is just in good fun but 2 girls started crying over this. Should i tell someone or just let him go on making fun of everyone?
Please i need help!
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You should definitely tell the principle or something. If no one listens in your school, write them a letter and put it in their mailbox so then the principle could read it without any interruptions.
If that doesn't work, and this teacher is still being horrible toward his students, then I'd tell a parent or get your friends involved to help you tell someone.. so it's more believable.

Good Luck --
`jessie


i joined lacrosse and my legs hurt really bad from running.. how can i make it feel better?? and do you have any lacrosse tips? (link)

The more you run, the more you will get used to how much you run. Also, stretch each time before you play - and drink only water or gatorade and stuff like that. Don't drink soda or anything else with a lot of sugar.

Hope this helps
`jessie


Does anyone think it is absolutley gross for a grade 7 to go out with a grade 8?

and why? (link)

uh..no?


today im goin to watch a movie with my boyfriend and some friends. i want to wear a thong with the pants in wearing but im afraid that the pants might slip and show my it while im sitting there. im not a slut so i dont want him or anyone else to see it. i dont know if they would tell me if they saw it since most of them dont even know i have any. any pointers? (link)

uhhh wear underwear tonight??


I like to be, well, free. When I'm in my room and the doors are closed I like to take off my shirt. I don't mind the free feeling, but I also go and stand in front of my mirror and look at myself. Is it wrong to look at myself like that, because I don't just do it for a short amount of time, I ususally have a stuck stair at my boobs.. what do I do, is this wrong? (link)

Why would it be wrong? I mean it's not like you're never supposed to look at your body. It's fine don't worry about it.

`jessie


My boyfriend like to fidle around with my chest, and oh do I not mind, I think it is pleasureable and feels incredible, but he also will ask me to touch myself like he does. The thing is, I don't mind touching my breats like that, I like the feeling of me touching them and it kind of turns me on. Is this weird or wrong? (link)

I'm not like that so I find it different.. but it's not wrong. It's just how you are.

`jessie


hey i was woundring if theyre is anythingi can do to stop popping my knuckles , its just a habbit , i dont it all the time , and what dose it to to your hands? (link)

It can give you arthritis. =/ I do it too..it's hard to stop..I crack my neck and back and stuff too. I mean it feels good but it's bad for you once you get older and stuff like that. Not sure how to stop though..sorry.

`jessie


Is there anyway to get bigger boobs besides breast implants? I'm 14, and have no boobs what-so-ever. Please don't tell me to wait. Im desperate here. (link)

um..you're only 14. You're still growing.


Oh My GOd! My sister is so annoying, She Wears my clothes, wakes me up at 5:00 on the weekends, hits me, puts fake worms in my bed, Steals my C-D's, and my parents do NOTHING about it! HELP! (link)

Get a lock for your door and.. *click*


what is adhd?? please help me bc my ex bf has it and every1s like YOU WENT OUT WITH A ADHD BOY?!!! (link)

...again with the reputation. *sigh*
Yeah..ADHD is nothing to worry about. He just has trouble focusing and staying calm sometimes, that he's for example (hyperactive). Medicine can help him, and its not life-threatening and no, you cant catch it or anything if you're worried about some thing like that. (since you don't know what it is).

`jessie


how do i tell someone that is cutting themselves that what they are doing is very dangerous, without a confrontation? (link)

Writing them a note, email, instant message. I mean other than that your only best bet is to actually talk to them about it up front. But I mean, I'm gonna warn you..this person may not stop with just one conversation. But worth a try..

good luck
`jessie


Im sorry to say that most of the time , when I sleep I dream about killing people or I die in my dreams, me and my grilfriend are really worried about this, does anyone have and advice for me? (link)

It doesnt necessarily mean anything bad. It could be internal anger or loss of something, or if you feel like you're lacking something in life or something like that. I know it sounds strange but trust me, dreams are more complex than that ONE thing you dream about. They have many different meanings, so don't be worried. But then again, if it does bother you a lot, then you can talk to someone who knows about this type of stuff, and see how it goes from there..

Good luck -- and dont worry.
`jessie


i have this really good guy friend who is a year older than me .in fact , i call him my "big brother" and he calls me "little sis" . LOL . anyway , the other day when i was just talking to him , i reached across him to get something from the person sitting on the other side of him . ( we were sitting in a row , with him in the center ) and i sort of brushed against his chest while bending back . After that , i noticed that he got a boner and there was a lump in his pants . well now i'm kinda freaked out cos i never thought that he would like me ( especially bcos of the little sis big bro thing ) . i'm confused and don't know if i like him .. what should i do ? (link)

Who said he liked you? (not to be rude..because Im sure you're a great person), but something else could have set it off. Guys always get boners. Guys could be in the middle of CLASS and get a boner. Or he could be thinking about something totally different. Don't read too much into it... it's just a boner lol..I hear guys even wake up with one ya know..girls dont always have to be around them for them to get one.

But I mean..as far as liking him goes. It's not bad to like him. If you DO end up liking him it's not something you can help anyways. But I understand what you're saying as far as the "brother/sister" thing goes. Your feelings will all fall into place soon enough.

good luck.
`jessie


well i want to go and laser hair removal and i was wonderin how old do you have to be? i am 14 but my mom will be taken me. how much does it cost? i want to go and get and get hair removed under my chin. how often do have to go and get it done? plz and thank u! (link)

I would just get one of those hair precision removers. Ya know, the kind they show on TV. They sell them at stores now. Just ask about them in a pharmacy or even any general stores. They run on batteries and you turn it on, and it removes all the hair you want it to remove. It doesn't hurt at all and it cant leave marks or cut you. It doesnt make your hair grow back darker either.

`jessie =)


im not really sure what is happening.. but lately like the last 3 or 4 times my boyfriend has fingered me it has stung so bad! im not sure why it is or anything.. i mean like when he does it just hurts so bad i want him to stop.. but then like if he does it again the same night it doesnt hurt like really really bad.. i think its the way im sitting or something im not sure.. its not easy talkin to him about things like this.. bc he wouldnt know what to say i know.. i mean we have been together for a long time but it jus wouldnt be easy.. but when i come home or w.e i check and see if anything looks any different and it doesnt it jus stings and it even does like two days afterward im not sure what to do can someone quickly give me some advice! (link)

Maybe he doesnt wash his hands before?? I'm serious, that could be why. And unless you tell him to stop or that it hurts, then it will just keep happening..and just keep hurting. So yeah, I'd tell him the truth if I were you. He shouldn't get hurt feelings or anything, I mean it's not his body.

`jessie


My boyfriend and i were in my aunts hot tub, and well i had my period so we couldnt do anything but neither of us knew if condoms still worked as well in water as they do out? and do they make ones for jsut water..i know its a dumb question but i dont know..pleeze let me know!! (link)

umm..uhhhh...*walks away fast*


Ok well I have tried to use a tampon like a million times but everytime I try to put in, It doesn't go in all the way even though it looks like it!! When I walk, it's realllyyy uncomfertable..What am I doing wrong??? (link)

You're probably not putting it in all the way. You don't have to worry about putting it up too far, because once you put it in a certain amount, there's like a "barrier" type thing that will stop it from going any further, and you'll know how far it can go, you'll feel it.

`jessie


I am 13, I live in The Conroe area in Texas and I am very sexually active. It seems as if all my guy friends preasure me to do it. Like my friend Kellen... he always pushes himself up on me and I try to say NO but he does it anyways... once we start It doesn't really bother me.. but I really wanta stop!! and every1 asks me if I like Kellen or if we did have sex I always try to deny it cause I don't know what to do... Kellen's friedn Andy, always trys to have sex with me too! but I don't know! I don't want it to happen! what can I do to get them to stop? PLEASE help me! (link)

You tell someone. That can be considered rape.
Very serious...

`jessie


i really like this guy and he's a big flirt and thats hott. what kind of things can i do to make him like touch me and you no hang around me more because he likes to flirt wit people by like touching them. he does it to me but what are some ways that i can make him touch me more often and if u dont no wat im refering to by toughting im refering to like touching in those certian places that only some people like to be touched. but wat kind of things should i do to get him to do it more often. thanks so much but plzz really help. (link)

uhhh..he's not going to go up and randomly touch your chest and crotch..and if he does well thats a shocker.
But seriously..why don't you just get a steady boyfriend where you two respect eachother.
Either that or ask that kid out. I mean asking him out is better then going "hey you, touch me."
But only ask him out if you TRULY like him. But ehh..doesnt really seem like you LIKE him. You just want stuff from him.

`jessie


I have very vivide dreams where I can feel everything is this normal? (link)

That's awesome!! and yes, normal. I have those dreams sometimes. Like REALLY vivid..Like where I can taste and feel everything..its so weird.
You're lucky.

`jessie




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