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Hey- i'm Emily. I love my friends and most ask for my help with various situations... so I guess i'm good at giving advice lol. I am a freshman, i love the band, and i am somewhat outgoing. Ask me anything and i'll do my best to help. :)
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I get razor burn ever time i shave... does any one know a good shvegel or a good razor i could used to prevent this?
Make sure your razor isn't dull. If it's one of those disposable razors you should know they go dull VERY quickly.
Venus razors work real well. Skintimate is a really good shaving cream. If you don't want to use Skintimate you can try Garnier Fructisse hair conditioner and try that. It works really well. Hope I helped!
*emster*
well so i have this friend lets just call her Q i had a feeling she was cheeting w/ my boy friend. well one day i had my friend well call her C over and Q was there to well me and c had our boy friends over and Q was TOTALLY flirting with them and doing cartwhells purposly so you could see up her skirt! it reallly started to get on me and C's nerves! Q is usually really quiet and shy! so i pulled C aside and i told her to come in the other room. while we were in the room we heaerd our boyfriends bein like stop stop we were like WHAT? so we tuned in on the convo from the other side of the wall. little did we know Q was stripping and stuff!!!! so we figured wed catch her off guard so we could confront her. we walked out said and she was totally on top of MY boy friend alomst but naked! we were extremely discusted.we started screaming at her and she condiued doing what she was doing to C's boy friend figuring she was already in trouble! Should we break up w/ our boy friends? And Q wants to be friends w/ us again what do i say i dont want to forgive HER!!!
*CoNfUsEd*
Your friend totally was hitting on your bf when even when you already KNEW about it! I'm sorry to say this but she should be ashamed! Whether or not you want to be friends is your opinion but ask yourself this: Do you really want that to happen all over again? Can your really TRUST her anymore? From what you've told me it seems like you (literally) can't leave her alone in a room with your bf. I wouldn't trust her.
Why would you wanna break up? Unless he now has some huge crush on Q b/c of her strip episode then maybe yeah. But if he still has the same feeling for you and doesn't care for Q then yeah he's a keeper. He was even telling Q to STOP! He is def. a kepper!
Sry so long~Hope I helped!
*emster*
Okay so Halloween is only a month away and I've kind of been putting it off. Last year without thinking I promised my friend Kim (Names have been changed.) that she would come over to my house for halloween and we would be the pink ladies. I really don't want to be a pink lady and I don't know how to tell her. The worst part is I have no idea what I want to be for HAlloween. I want to be something totally original but pretty. I want to have a costume that nobody else has like last year I had an awesome costume and I loved all the attention I got for it. -Isn'tlifegreat?
age 13
P.S. I also have to tell Ashley she can't come over for Halloween because I really wan't to go to my friends Haloween Party. Gosh, I'm a mess.
Well since she is your friend she will probably understand. Tell her you decided you want to be something more original. Since you already promised her you were going to get together first you should at least bring her to the partay!
These are my lame ideas: Psycho, fortune teller, hobo, a mailbox(my friend did that last year), a filing cabinet(other friend), a punk, a hippy, a mermaid, an astronaut, the queen of hearts a black eyed P(last year my friend put on alot of eyeshadow and wore a shirt that said P), a idiot, a goth, or a blonde. I dont know- I'm out of ideas lol...
*emster*
PS- Can you feedback me and tell me what you were last year? hehe thanx!
I just got hired at a new superstore that is opening in November.
I'm really excited, but the only thing that worries me is there is a guy that got hired at the same store who I have an embarrasing history with.
I'll try to be brief. Well he had a crush on me but I wasnt interested. We used to be in a hockey pool together and he was always trying to pick me up.
Everyone warned me about he because he used to stalk other girls. He kind of gave me the creeps actually.
I told him last year that I wanted nothing to do with him and I guess he was quite pissed off.
Anyways, I saw him yesterday and he gave me a big smile.
I didn't want to smile back, but I did only because I knew we would be soon working at the same store.
I'm worried that his obsession with me will start up again and that it will put my job in jeapordy.
How should I handle this?
Wow! You could try talking to your boss and asking to be put in a whole other place in the store than he is. Try and spend hardly any time with him.
If that is completely not going to happen then you could try confronting him. You said he got pissed before, so this may and may not work. Just tell him you are not and never will be interested, you don't want to ever be around him, and you are not the person to like to be stalked.
If not then the only other thing I can say is to file a restraining order. I've never really seen how they work, but I do knwo they will get you away from him, but it sadly might jeapordize your job.
Sorry so long, but I hope I helped! :)
*emster*
I'm sooooo pissed off at the world right now!!! I can't talk to anyone about anything! Nobody knows how I feel... or what I'm going through... Sorry if some of this doesn't make sense, I'm waaaaay too frusturated to think!!!
13/m I'm going through puberty, I know it. Nothing physical yet. I'm still short. My voice is still insanely soprano. I don't have any acne yet. No facial hair. But I'm feeling everything mental. I'm getting smarter, I must be since I've been suddenly getting better at chess. And I'm experiencing every one of these what I like to call "true emotions": from love to infatuation, from rejection to jealousy, I'm feeling it all. I can't even remember everything else, I'm so distraught!
Now, if I had someone to talk with, things might be better. But my friends are only going through physical and not emotional/mental so far, except for those two guys who're obsessed with "is she hot?" right now. So many Advicenators are so obsessed with all that 13-year-olds-can't-love crap that their advice winds up getting me more depressed than it does help me. My parents figure that if I haven't physically changed, I couldn't possibly be mentally changing, and so they just tease me about it. I tried keeping a journal, but I'm not good at that stuff. And I'm way too busy to see a therapist or something.
I'm soooooo pissed off at the world, my life sucks. I shouldn't even bother living or making my regular jokes anymore. I'm nothing anymore... please help me!!!
~~Dakmor
PS Smartasses will be reported!!!
We all go through through this stage.
When you feel like you are at the end of your rope, go somewhere where no one can come up and bother you. Lie on your bed, sit on the floor, whatever... For a few minutes just try to think of nothing, well, clear your mind anyways. If you just wait for a little bit you will calm down or your mind will unscramble enough to have some useful thoughts. Hey, it works for, like, EVERYONE I know.
Good luck- *emster*
So I like a freshman and I'm a sophomore, and I'm a girl. He has a girlfriend [also a freshman] and I'm not too disappointed but I was considering hooking up with him if at all possible, I'm not sure if he's interested, right now I basically just have a small crush on him and we have a class together, that's it. What should I do?
You have to wait. Sorry, but the truth is he has a gf and unless you want to commit adultry at your young age I recommend you wait. Besides- they might have a very good relationship and you migth screw it up and then he ends up dumping you a few days later.
WAIT- and dont respond with cussing me out b/c your mad. Just know it's the right thing to do.
*emster*
I know you all hate these questions!
What is this song. its so old!
Its slow and romantic, I think by an african american singer. and Its not really like rap.
Its like 1- im in love with you 2-i just wanna be with you 3- its plain to see that youre the only one for me, and 4 repeat steps 1-3
does anyone remember that?
5's and feedback!
Thanks!
-Kelsey-
:)
That song is called Back At One by Brian McKnight. THAT SONG ROX!
*emster*
Is it true that if u sre a smaller girl you dont get your period until ur like older and if you are a bigger girl you get yours sooner????is that true or is that just a lie... or doe sit have nothing to do with how big you are its just the was your body develpos
You can only get your period when you weigh at or over 100 lbs. It does matter... Lol hope I helped!
I have a friend who is verbally and physically abusive. She called me and my other friend a**holes for stupid reasons, and she just us both (hard!). She's been doing little things like that forever, like calling me an idiot or stupid, and maybe hitting me a few times. I could deal with that, but now she's gone way too far. I know that's not how a friend is supposed to act. She doesn't seem to know that her behavior is mean and immature.
I'm avoiding her, but I know I can't do that forever. What should I do?
Just tell her she is hurting you and she isn't acting like a friend is supposed to act. If she really cares about you as a friend then she might stop. She is probably just doing it because she thinks she can get away with it. If not do your best to stay away from her> If it's completely unavoidable then tell a parent, a counselor, SOMEONE who can stop her.
Hope I helped
*emster*
ok my birthday is coming up soon well not really but i like to know things before ok my birthday is in the spring and i was wondering what are some fun things to do like what games and where can i have it at like my house or like bowling rink or skating place. i dont know can you give me more ideas and things to do with about 13 people i go to private school and theres about 13 in my class.i rate high
Who knows, it's your party. Do what you wanna do adn since your friends love you they'll have fun no matta what!
But When you base your party on mainly one thign, like bowling or roller skatin, for instance, some people get tired of doing just one thing. You could try having a swimming party (postponed to summer) and evntually you could get out and play games inside or watch movies...
Or you could just do what I just said w/o the swimming....
Hope I helped!
*emster*
Im not allowed to have a boy friend and im going to be 13 they treat me like im two. well i have a bf named chris and i been sneaking him for a LONG time now since i was a little kid we keep fighting and getting back together and fighting and well ne wayz i am sick of sneaking but i love him soo much and i dont want ne thing to happen between us but i am sick of my parents...what should i do.
LoVe,
puppyluv
You need to tell your parents how you feel. Telling them whethe or not you've been sneaking around is your desicion. I do suggest though you tell them you feel mature enough to have a bf et cetera...
If they don't listen to you and you end up still sneaking around I suggest you tell the 'rents what is going on. Your trust will be completely ruined if you keep it up for much longer. Think of how hurt your parents will be when they find out. And imagine their reactions if they find otu FROM SOMEONE ELSE! Trying not to be jerky...
*emster*
I already asked this question but not many people answered please can you guys help me.
HOw can i tell if these guys like me
Okay there are three guys whom maybe show signs they like me or something like that. One is called Ben, the other is called Connor and the other called Ryan
Ben always asks me weird questions like Are you a lion tamer? when i say no he's like well only cool people are tamers. then he's like oh sorry never mind, I didn't mean it. And one time I was trying to open my locker and this guy we'll call him Jim just kept on closing my locker door whenever I tried to open it. Ben started pulling his arm away and he's like leave her (me) alone.
Connor sits behind me and he always rubs his shoe against my shoe when I told him to stop he just smiles at me and keeps doing it and he has a girlfriend.
Ryan always bothers me whenever I try to do my locker combination he messes me up by turning the nunbers the wrong way. He also shuts my lucker when I open. Today he asked me what my name was.
Sorry its so long but are these signs of them crushing on me or what. Please HElp !!
Ben is either really nice or has a small cruch on you.
Connor probably wants to get caught cheating on his gf and if not he has some commitment issues. If not those two, then he just wants to have some fun and see your reaction. Just ignore it.
Ryan is probably just trying to mess with you. He sounds like one of those annoying people who like to (gasp!) annoy people.
Lol... Hope I helped some...
*emster*
What is a good teeth whitener in your opinion? I'll rate good
Crest whitestrips work! But if you use those get one for both top row and bottom row of teeth because if you only use it on the top it will turn real white and the bottom won't. So in otherwords you'll have two different colors of teeth on your hands. So just take my advice and get them both. LoL so thanks for askin sorry so long!
I really like this guy and i think he likes me back... i know him pretty well... any good flirting tips?
Ask him if he wants to hang out somewhere. Do you have any classes with him. Talk about the homework and ask if you two can study together.
As for flirting and all... just be natural. I mean, just to flirt dont' change your whole attitude. I know some girls that when they flirt they put on a huge act and its real fake. So.. just be yourself.
Sorry so little of info but that is all I have lol...
*emster*
My boyfriend, Justin, and I, went to a rodeo tonight. This one girl, Destanie, was there. She likes him. Alot. And she doesn't like me at all (for what reason I don't know.) Anyways, she came up and was all over Justin and he was backing off and stuff and she pulled him aside and started telling him how I was cheating on my and walking down the hall with some guy holding his hand and stuff. Which is total BS! I would never cheat on him, I love him so much. Anyhow though, he came up and asked me about it. I blew up (for one reason or the other, I was just pissed because I'm sick of her telling him this stuff, and she's told him other lies like that recently.) He was really pissed off for me blowing up at him, which I can see because it might have came off like something WAS up. But I was just getting tired of all of it. Anyways, we made up I guess, but how can I let him know that I really would never cheat on him? I don't want him getting tired of Destanie saying stuff and break up with me, because I love him more than anything. I can't confront Destanie because she'd kick my butt. I rate high! Thanks so much.
Well you love him and all so spend more time with him. I'm not saying on the clock 24-7 but just be with him long enough to show him that you couldnt fit another guy in.
Tell him that there is no other guy (CALMLY lol) and tell him not to trust destanie. She sounds like she is just bad news. Try (if you can) to keep her away from justin. If she pulls him aside try to follow along or just say, anything you wanna tell him you can tell me. If she starts to beat you up Justin would probably stop her.
Just tell him you like him to much to cheat on him. Tell him you would never think of doing that.
I'm sorry so long, but I hope I helped some!!!
*emster*
umm yea ok i'm osrt of over weight and I hate it a lot nad i mean i just don't have any motivation in me like i do when ever i og shopping and i can't fit into some of the stuff but yea umm any ways to loose weight even if i can't stop eating and tips or stuff and don't tell me to eat healthy( i'm very picky) thanx i rate high
Claire
The main key (even though you may not like it) is to eat healthier. Find a fruit you like and chow down on it instead of those Cheetos. Basically cut down on junk food. You dont have to only eat salads and fruit, but cut your junkfood intake in half.
Try walking. If you have a dog you can walk him or "run" him. Try exercising some....
Hope I helped a little!
*emster*
13!Femalle I got caught stealing from a drugstore. My parents don't know. I feel bad about it and really regret it. I said sorry and paid for the item but I haven't wen't back there since this was in June. I want to go back to the drugstore; When should I go back there? Do you think they called the cops?(I've learned my lesson and will NEVER steal again.)
If you paid back and all I think you should go back whenevr you need to. If you do it again they probably wont allow you to go back,
As bad as this may seem to you, you probably need to tell you parents. The longer you wait to tell them the more hurt they will be. IMagine you never tell them and you are older and they find out. They probably will never trust you again (this saying if you are like 30)
Good Luck though!
*emster*
PS if they called the police i think they would have gotten in contact/run into you by now
how pften do u have to change a tampon, and wat happens if u don't in that time?
You should probably change it every hour or two. I don't know what would happen because I haven't had to worry about that- sorry! Lol but good luck! =)
*emster*
ok heres what. we got our schedules in the mail. i was hoping for one teacher but i got this other one everyone says is awful and they say he fails you if you dont bring your stuff to class. what do i do? please answer now b/c everyone is like o yeah you got the mean teacher. my sisters friend had him and she said he fails everyone a lot for dumb stuff.
sorry so long but help me please!
You can't judge a teacher on what evryone else says. You have to experience it first. My sister who is 1 year older than me told me I wanted this one science teacher, but I ended up getting another. Everyone was like, "I'm sry", "stinx 4 ya", and "I had him last year-sry you have to go through it." Well, it's been a few weeks now, and we do a bunhc of fun things in his class. It's real awsome. So give it some hope and try it out.
Good Luck! *emster*
ok i am a 14 female and i want to start wearin tampons for PE bc i have to start PE but my MOM wont elt em she says,"no you shouldnt be puttin things up there" and i told ehr i had to for PE and she goes that she will talk to the PE teachers herself and not make me go swimmin but the thing is she thinks THAT I AM TOO YOUNG TO WEAR THEM. she said " ur a lil girl and your body is still developin and shouldnt be puttin that up there" what should i do? do you guys think i am to young to wear one??
My mom decided when my Sis and I turned 13 we could wear them. Your Mom needs to realize you NEED to wear them. Pads are messy and tampons are easier. They make them so you can wear them at this age, to. Try explaining how you need to wear them to your Mom and maybe she will lighten up. Good Luck!