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Cheating...
My boyfriend, Justin, and I, went to a rodeo tonight. This one girl, Destanie, was there. She likes him. Alot. And she doesn't like me at all (for what reason I don't know.) Anyways, she came up and was all over Justin and he was backing off and stuff and she pulled him aside and started telling him how I was cheating on my and walking down the hall with some guy holding his hand and stuff. Which is total BS! I would never cheat on him, I love him so much. Anyhow though, he came up and asked me about it. I blew up (for one reason or the other, I was just pissed because I'm sick of her telling him this stuff, and she's told him other lies like that recently.) He was really pissed off for me blowing up at him, which I can see because it might have came off like something WAS up. But I was just getting tired of all of it. Anyways, we made up I guess, but how can I let him know that I really would never cheat on him? I don't want him getting tired of Destanie saying stuff and break up with me, because I love him more than anything. I can't confront Destanie because she'd kick my butt. I rate high! Thanks so much.
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Next time you guys are hanging out, bring up what happened again. Look him right in the guy and simply tell him "I will never cheat on you." If he accuses you of cheating again because of Destanie then you might want to consider breaking up with him. At that point if he hasn't figured out that Destanie is trying to ruin your relationship then he never will.
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ok you need to go up to him and tell him you 2 need to talk tell him the problem about the girl!
tell him all that needs to be said ! hope i helped XOSHANNONOX
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try to avoid her and get her jelous and get in a cat fight grrrr.
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You know, i can see why you would get pissed. That is total BS. Your boyfriend should trust you and know you wouldnt do that. thats why you got mad. and that Deastanie girl needs to back off. Maybe if you aks your bofriend to talk to her about it. Or just leave her out of it in a calm voice just tell him you didnt do anything. and if he still cant believe you hes got issues.
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You know what? Your boyfriend needs to learn to trust you. You need to have a talk with him about that when you are both calm.
As for miss Destanie, Your boyfriend and not you needs to stand up to this girl and just tell her to get lost. He shouldn't even be listening to her lies. He knows shes lying and all she is doing is causing trouble.
Tell him to get rid of her. You stay out of it because she will only get worse if she thinks she is getting to you. :)
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I'm glad that you both have made up, but you there are still unfinished conversations such as this other girl and how you feel about it. He needs to know that. You don't need to explain to him how you'd never cheat on him, explain that its like Destanie to lie to him like that. I think he knows whats going on, and you need to talk about it more, the problem isn't that he thinks hes being cheated on, the problem is her putting ideas into his head and having him believe it. No wonder you blew up, any normal, jealous girl would be driven up the wall by that inccident. You need to explain how you are when you see him with Destanie, tell him what you're thinking, tell him you really get angry, and that explains your blowing up for even coming up to you and asking if what she said was true. And that girl doesn't like you because Justin is yours, and not hers. She has a jealousy issue too, except shes handling it the worst way possible. Throwing herself at someone. Explain to your boyfriend what happens when you see her, and find a way together to fix it.
-TheTeenGirl
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Well you love him and all so spend more time with him. I'm not saying on the clock 24-7 but just be with him long enough to show him that you couldnt fit another guy in.
Tell him that there is no other guy (CALMLY lol) and tell him not to trust destanie. She sounds like she is just bad news. Try (if you can) to keep her away from justin. If she pulls him aside try to follow along or just say, anything you wanna tell him you can tell me. If she starts to beat you up Justin would probably stop her.
Just tell him you like him to much to cheat on him. Tell him you would never think of doing that.
I'm sorry so long, but I hope I helped some!!!
*emster*
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