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Worried that coworker has crush on me
I just got hired at a new superstore that is opening in November.
I'm really excited, but the only thing that worries me is there is a guy that got hired at the same store who I have an embarrasing history with.
I'll try to be brief. Well he had a crush on me but I wasnt interested. We used to be in a hockey pool together and he was always trying to pick me up.
Everyone warned me about he because he used to stalk other girls. He kind of gave me the creeps actually.
I told him last year that I wanted nothing to do with him and I guess he was quite pissed off.
Anyways, I saw him yesterday and he gave me a big smile.
I didn't want to smile back, but I did only because I knew we would be soon working at the same store.
I'm worried that his obsession with me will start up again and that it will put my job in jeapordy.
How should I handle this?
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Wow! You could try talking to your boss and asking to be put in a whole other place in the store than he is. Try and spend hardly any time with him.
If that is completely not going to happen then you could try confronting him. You said he got pissed before, so this may and may not work. Just tell him you are not and never will be interested, you don't want to ever be around him, and you are not the person to like to be stalked.
If not then the only other thing I can say is to file a restraining order. I've never really seen how they work, but I do knwo they will get you away from him, but it sadly might jeapordize your job.
Sorry so long, but I hope I helped! :)
*emster*
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umm im only 13 so i dont know much about this but umm i would tell your boss about it and have him/her put you in a different section from him, and if he starts stalking you then call the police and file a restraing order? sorry if i didnt help. im only 13, like i said.
~Danielle~
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