|
| |
I just thought I'd get some different opinions from different people... The question is...
What is the meaning of Love? [define love]
Thank you (link)
|
love is undescribable as an emotion.
everyone has their own way of feeling this, or expresing it.
from current experience, i can tell you that without love i would not be complete.
you have ups and downs , but are still there for one another, and still feel the same for each other after.
love is unique, each person has a different experience, or story to tell, of how they would define it..but you will never find out until you have fallen in love yourself.
falling in love is the best thing that can happen to a person in my opinion.
its all you need to make you truely happy.
once you have fallen in love..you WILL know.
p.s: ignore people when they tell you that youre too young. we wouldnt claim that we were in love if we didnt believe where our hearts were leading us.
|
|
when my boyfriend and i make out. i get really wet. what is considered normal. i dont want to be a freak and get unusally wet. thats why i wont let him go any further because i think i get too wet. so what is normal (link)
|
do you know how much that turns a guy on?...if anything, he'd be all over you more if you did let him go any further.
yes, you are totally normal, and lucky you get aroused fairly easily. itll make anything you DO do with him alot better for you:)
the only way your "wetness" will vary is plainly on how aroused you are.
hope i helped :)
|
I don't know what to do with my life. I'm not great at anything. Like..every person has something.. like great writing skills or a band... but I have nothing.
What am I supposed to do? (link)
|
im not trying to make you feel worse, but im really good at english, and im in a band..BUT, Just like you, i have NO idea wheere my life is heading.
i cant make decisions. i cant see what ill be doing in ten years.
im only 17, om not sure if youre younger than me or older.
at least youve realised that you feel your struggling, thats the first step, the next step is to take further action.
you really need to think about what you LIKE TO DO. not what you cant do..believe me, everyone IS good at something, if its singing, writing,multiplication, philosopy or magic tricks (which is still cool ), what im trying to say is, dont put your self down, because everyone has a tallent. maybe with you, itd just a matter of finding out what it is.
try experimenting with different things.
if any if these interest you, why not try them out? or think about them... :
cooking/ creating recipies?
drawing?
photography?
computers?
child care?
psychology?
designing clothes, making clothes?
making music?
painting?
healthcare/beauty?
reatil?
management of some kimd?
promoter?
im sorry the chices are a bit crap, but maybe a certain category interests you.
im a creative person which includes all art forms, so i love to take photos, i study films, create music, and write. i like to use my imagination alot too.
you may be a logical person (unlike myself), which is towards the sciences/maths areas. there are all types of sciences:forenzic science, psychology, even domestic science is studied!
you could be a manual person, who likes to create and build phyisical things and structures.
maybe you are none of these. do not fret.
there are millions of carrers out there..i just wish they were all simply listed. but in this world, as you will learn you have to do everyhitng yourself.
you are not alone.
if you have a carers adviser at school, speak to them. have you spoken to your parents/guardian, or any other family member? theyd be happy to help- as would your friends :)
speak to some experienced people, i.e people who are in fulltime/part time carrers. ask them what choices they made. if they enjoy their jobs..what their past carrers were( if they had them), and how they came to decide what they wanted to be.
i wish you the best of luck, and i hope this helps you somehow :)
|
13/f. First of all please do NOT say use eye drops or non-disposable contacts. I already do, they don't help in *this* situation. (The brand my eye doctor recommended)
Now, my eyes are naturally dry. So I need to use eye drops often. Yes, they work. I have a pair of glasses but my mom has just spent about 300 dollars on disposable contacts that I cannot even wear. Apparently my eyes are dry enough that I can feel them. Sometimes I go through 10 contact lenses until I can only feel them a *little*. I tried putting eye drops in before I put them in, but it just made them hurt even more, or didn't work (which is why I asked not to say use eye drops). I'm really disappointed that we spent that much money.
However I don't want to just use my glasses instead. I'm not being self conscious, I'm being honest - I don't look very good in glasses. :( Any ideas on what I could do?
I'm asking this because I saw the commercial for Acuvue contact lenses. Does anyone have them? Are they really good? And do you think they'd work for my dry eyes? Thanks in advance. I'm not sure if this will be hard to answer or not so thanks for taking the time to write it out for me. (link)
|
to add to the 1st response, im sure your mother would rather you HAVE your eyesight than you wear the $300 contacts..which could permantley damge your eyes!
good luck :)
they wont damage your eyes straight away..im on about, it could take years for damage to develop..my parents yell at me that i leave mine in too long..the hard lenses,..they dry your eyes out..its not good for yourr eyes :(.
if you really want to wear them, what i sometimes do is take them out, pour some saline soloution on them, and put them back in. very refreshing :)
|
|
I love my cat very much. I am crazy about her!! I spoil her with an endless amount of toys, and I treat her to cat treats like several times a day. Now she has that "royal" attitude. So she goes around and drops things from the shelves to the floor by kicking it or hitting it with her paw (thinking it's a toy), and it drops on the floor. I have had numerous drink spills. I learned the lesson of supervising her when I do have a drink in my room but she is always sneaking up on it and spilling it. I get angered, wanting to punish her. I want her to learn a lesson, but yelling at her does nothing. I also tried putting her in the cage for awhile like as a "time-out" - that didn't work. So how can I discipline her without being too harsh? (link)
|
ok, this isnt being harsh...but have a spray bottle with you...when she does something bad, squirt her..just once, and if she reacts, thats great as she'll soon associate the squirting with her misbehaviour.
give it time and it'll work (providing you squirt her when shes bad)
she should stop in no time.
dont ignore her, as this may increase her bad behaviour.
however, if ths doesnt help..it might be worth asking a vet or someone.
good luck :)
|
|
im in 8th grade, in a really small school. there is only 8 guys in my whole 8th grade. there all shallow, and will only go out with "hot" girls. sometimes they say, "if you cant supply, we will deny." Is that true about all guys? (link)
|
no they are not.
if they say that to you...just tell them they're immature, and rely on the "easy" girls to get what they want,(even though what they want will be no use to them once they have it) and if theyre always going to be like that..they wont get anywhere in life.
shame for the really..because the girls who those shallow guys dont class as "hot" get the better guys anyway :)
They arent woth the time, or effort. tell them that too.
if they STILL have something to say, you can tell them :by that comment they just gave..,they just confirmed themselves to be an asshole.
i can safely say that by you asking this, youre one of the mature ones, who havent fallen for them or their stupid ways.
good on you :)
|
|
I was told that guys don't like hairy vaginas. So what does that mean...when ever I'm going to a guys house and I know were going to do something make sure I wax it all off or whatever? (link)
|
sweetie..dont feel you have to change for any guy.
genuine guys dont care..because its YOU. i know my boyfriend doesnt care...after all... the majority of guys dont care what we think about their bits, so why should you? :)
unless they tell you directly that they dont like it..then you can take action..until then, be happy with how it is :)
good luck :)
|
|
does anyone know of any bands that are alternative/rock, but still kind of soul? Like Augustana, This Providence, or Goo Goo dolls? (link)
|
myspace.com/forbiddenlust
this band are from the UK
youre sure to find something you like..they vary their style :)
good luck :)
|
|
Is it normal for the guy who loves u to check out other girls? because i find it sorta disrespectful but i also hear its normal and im confused.. (link)
|
would you like it if your girlfriend checked out other guys? thinking "man..HE'S hot!"
how would you feel...honstly now!
you may say you dont mind...but deep down you pprobably do...she may not like it at all..i know id get upset if my BF did it..which he probably does.
yes it is natural...we all do it.
just dont let it get in the way of your relationship. have respect for your GF and DONT , DONT say "shes pretty."
now THATS insulting to a girl :(
good luck :)
|
i would like to loose 30lbs by April. But i'm not sure how to do it.
I've been eating healthy, but lately i've been overeating. I need some tips on how to stop thinking about food all the time and grabbing another plate/serving of food. what can i do? (link)
|
if you like to eat, substitute a chocloate bar or cookie for an apple, or carrot sticks etc.
carrot is noce dipped in yoghurt..dont ask..but its true! :)
fruit and veg is great as a substitute, and you can eat as much of it as you want without that guilty feeling.
it doesnt have to be boring either...mix the fruit, blend it and drink it as a shake
for example:
apple juice
grapes
strawberries
blend it...drink it.
or banana and milk (maybe a bit of icecream for flavour) and blend :)
dont know what strwberries would taste like with milk :S
making fruit salds if fun too vary the friuts you mix, see what tastes the best
make sure you have your 5 a day :)
exercise is good too...maybe walk around the block a few times a day.
this will improve all sorts of things on you..and youll be looking great...i hope you stick to it! ;P
good luck :)
|
14/f
is it bad that i like to look at porn online? (link)
|
youre at an age where sexuality may confuse you.
youre not a pervert, neither may are you gay..its probably just curiosity...we've all seen some sort of pornographic images and liked them for one reason for another..mainly: "i wish i had her body!! "
you needent worry
innocently looking at porn is not a sin.
look at it all you want if thats what makes you happy :)
|
|
Okay, so do you know what those little fuzzy things that are on shirts called? Like, you could have a shirt, all clean and stuff, but after a while it gets these little fuzzy thingies all over. Not lint or anything.. I actually have no idea what it's called. Hopefully, you understand me? & If you know what they are, why do they get there? (link)
|
you can get a machine to remove them!! its small..not much bigger than your hand my mum has one when my nan went to America about 5 years ago..its really good, and you should try to find one :D
i doubt theyre expensive...my nan isnt one to pay out loads of money for a random thing like that! haha
|
|
Ok when you inhale helium form balloons to have that funny voice it's bad for your body. If somethign bad WERE to happen to me, what would it be and how could I fix it? (link)
| |
brain damage in some cases..try fixing that one hehehe ;P
|
|
my bf's friend died. i want to give him something sweet to show how sorry i am. but i dont know what. we just started going out. i already told him i am so soo sorry for him, but i want to give him a sweet little something. what should it be (link)
|
he'll appriciate a gift from the heart..i dont mean a physical gift i mean an emotional gesture.
that means your support and your companionship.
dont be too sympathetic...he may not want it.
just hug him and be there for him when he needs you :)
im sorry to hear his frind died (but dont tell him :S)
good luck :)
|
|
To make that funny voice, do you have to breathe in helium(which is just from balloons bought in the store already) or can you just buy balloons in a bag fromt he dollar store, blow air into it with your mouth, then swallow it, and have that funny voice? (link)
|
make sure you dont have more than 4 balloons a day....as it CAN cause brain damage if you have too much :S
but it is fun, i have to admit!!
have fun :)
|
|
what good movies are there to download?I want to know,in your opinions what your favorite movies are.I like comdeys and horror movies the best. (link)
|
Hot Fuzz...in the cinemas at the moment..you must have seen Shaun Of The Dead...same director...amazing to say the least. really funny!
back to the future
high fidelity
psycho
scary movie
Borat
school of rock
waynes world
johnny English
uhhh... check out peekvid.com
they have LOADS of movies you can watch...if you like them...download them!!
good luck :)
|
Ok. So I really really wat 2 find a vintage store in New york are there any around here? Also, I live in corona n.y if that helps. any siggestions is good enough
Thanks! (link)
|
visit:
www.sarasattic.co.uk/ritzyretro.htm
i know you wanted an actua; shop you could visit,but this is a shop in England. Their stuff is amazing to say the least...they post to all over the world (even to japan!)
you may find something youll be ablle to treasure for the rest of yor life.
their vintage ranges from 1930s-1970s
and whats even better is that its English Vintage! (you can make other Americans jealous! hahaha)
hope this was ok :)
good luck :)
|
I just found out that britney shaved all her hair out. I couldn't believe it.
Why did she do it?. What's going on with her? (link)
|
i thought that id add to these responses by telling you that she is about to have a mental breakdown..hell..i think shes at/past that point!
we were discussing her in bglish lit today and it really quite tragic to hear about a woman who used to be so succcessful downfalling.
its worse that the media are exposing it so much :(
im not a fan- i dislike her actually ..but i do have a little but of sympathy for her :)
|
|
i woke up this morning with a stiff neck and it hurts really bad. i cant move but head to the left at all or it kills. what can i do to help this!? i need all the help i can get, thanks. (link)
|
first off..depending on how long youve had this..i'd go and see a doctor!
if you wake up with it and its still hurts as much as it did today, i think you should see a doctor..if you dont, and it hurts the day after...you know you NEED to make an appointment. youll probably be prescribed something, or they'll tell you what to do.
in the meantime: keep it warm eg..wear a scarf, take a bath or shower too to relieve the muscles (as this is whats creating the pain).
if you hava barley bag...i think thats what theyre called...theyre a long bag full of bean type things used to relieve injuries like this, that would help alot! (put it in the microwave for about a minute)
i hope the pain stops soon..ive had tis before :(
good luck :)
|
|
i want to get rid of my thick hips. i know you cant make them narrower but i havea little chub there. idk how to excerseize it. (link)
|
well, i have a step mahine that when you walk/ step on it, the feet parts twist so that it tones your hips/waist too.
this should work for it...if you are able to buy one if you dont already have a step machine.
mine want expensive at all.
and itll tone your legs as well :)
good luck :)
|
|
