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well you know how when your young alot of pplz have an imaginary friend right well I have one and I'm 14 it keeps telling me what to do to myself and I feel crazy right now it made me take a perk...and I don't know where he is but I'm scared I don't know what to do and I don't want to go see my scary doctor....any suggestions??

what? what kind of stuff does he tell you to do?!I think you need to tell like your mom about it or something, and she can get you some help with that...

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Hey I need help with my buddy4u profile. First off I have a back round I would like to use but I dont know where to put the link for it to make it my back round?!?! I also dont know where to put other links like the non right click link, and stuff like that. Can anyone help me?

if you want it on the main page, then just paste it into the main page box, and if you want it on any of the subpages, then just paste it in the subpage box, and it doesnt matter where. If you need any more help then you can IM me--hazel x eyes91

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has anyone actually lost belly fat from their stomachs by doing crunches or does it just make u look like u have a 6 pack or w/e

i`ve lost belly fat, and it also makes your stomach nice and flat, and also gives you muscle. crunches rock man

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How do u put on liquid eye liner????? i rate high!

its like just the same as putting on regular, you just haveta be more careful. For the top, i always like take the side of my eye, and kinda pull it back, so it looks like i`m chineese or something so that the skin there is nice and firm and its easier to put on. but i dont put it on on the bottom, becuz it gets to messy with my eyelashes.

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Has anyone ever gone on a "water-diet"? nothing but water...ice/water...and then u eat something on the third day...?has anyone gone on this or know if it works??

Sounds like it would probably work, but i wouldnt do it! 1, its gotta be EXTREMLY dangerous. 2, Once you start eating you`re body will store all the food you eat, because it doesnt kno when you`ll givve it more food since you`re starving yourself. and 3, since yournot getting any food, and drinking lots of water it like stores all the water in your stomach, so it puffs out your stomach and makes you look like your fat. Thats why lots of aneorexic ppl you see look like skinand bones, but their stomach like poofs out.

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I mite try out for baskbetball or sum sport, so in a physical, do they have to do anythin w/ur private parts or down below? thanks

well for me, she just kinda was like rubbing my stomach down to that area, and then she was like i`m just gonna take a quick peek and she looked at it for like a second and then that was it.

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Ive been with my boyfriend for about 3 years and when i entered middle school everyone started making fun of me because my boyfriend is a different race. He means alot to me but i am soo tired of all the laughs and jokes i get from a lot of people. What should i do??

Sincerely,
I really love him.. but just annoyed

dont listen to what they say! believe me, i`ve done it before and just ended up miserable without him. It shouldn't matter if he`s a different race! if you TRULEY love him then don't think anything of it. Next time someone says something to you just tell them "at least im not a racist b*tch" be mean if you have to, to get them to stop. But make sure not to be TOO mean cuz you dont want everyone to like, hate you

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Ok, I need makeup tips. I'm 5'8, dirty blonde hair a lil past my shoulders, hazel eyes, fair skin, nd i guess an ovel shaped face. Do u have any color suggestions or makeup tips in general? thanks

Aww you already sound pretty. Hmm get like a bronzer for your face, and im not blonde, but i think that pinks and golds look the best for eyeshadow. black or dark brown eyeliner. and don't forget the blush to add more color, becuz i`m really fair skinned and during the winter my face gets SO pale, so i use a light bronzer so theres not a big difference on my face to my neck, and then i put blush on so theres more color.

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During your first year of h.s. do u hang out with new friends or friends from ur grammar school cause idont have many friends from my grammar school and im worried that i wont have nayone to hang out with if i dont make friends ritee away?

i bet you`ll make friends pretty fast. I mean, maybe you might stick close with people you know for the first week or so, but after that you'll be meeting so many people. And i bet there`s like a lot of people in the same position you're gonna be in. Try making friends with the new kids! Or someone you see alot during the day.

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Ok i have been away for about 3 weeks and my boyfriend has been hanging out with all these different girls.. I am kinda jelous and worried because I am moving in about 5 months but we wanted to keep it strong until i go. I feel that with him being with these different girls is going ot make him loose interest in me.. should I feel this way?

Well it depends. First of all, in my opinion boyfriends should be hanging out with their girlfriends. Is he someone you can trust easily? Or does he have a reputation for not being the greatest boyfriend. Why don't you just talk to him and tell him that you're worried that whenn you move, since he`s hanging out with all these girls he'll loose intrest in you.

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I have a really good friend (thats a guy) and well we have gone out a couple times. And i like him again and he told one of my friends he kinda likes me. i wanna just grab him and kiss him one day but im scared he'll push me away. what should i do.


*female 15*

Talk to him and see how he feels. Say something like "so who do you like?" And if he says something like i dont kno right now just say "i heard you kinda like me.." and if he says he does then say that you do too! Or just wait for a time when you two are hanging out together, and the moment seems right then move in for it and see how he reacts.

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i have really thick hair, is there any way to make straightening it not as long so i can get up later but still have time to make it stick straight?

Maybe you can go and get it professionally straightened? That`s what my friend does, and all she has to do now is like blow dry it, and then straighten it with a straightener in only a few places

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i collect hentai for a liveing! but i dont masturbate to it or anything... my sis sais im a big pervert and my mom doesent mind. im verry interested in that kind of art. is it wrong to do this?

Not at all. I mean if you like it, but you dont get like turned on by it then its not wrong at all! A lot of people are like that, i mean, artists make that kinda stuff because they kno that thats what people like....

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ok i've posted before about how i like my bff guy friend. and i thought he liked me back i mean flirt totally and he always talks to me on aim and everything was going great! and then his sister tells me he likes his old girlfriend again. i have nothing against his old girlfriend (besides the fact i like him.) i mean i really really like this guy. more than any other guy i've liked before. what should i do?

Have you told him how you feel yet? the next time you guys talk, just casually be like have you ever liked me? or thought i was hott? or anything? and see what he says, and if he asks you if youve ever liked him, be like yea i do right now but i dont kno what to do because you like your old girlfriend. and then take it from there. If he waits a while before he does anything about liking his old girlfriend, then stick with him! But if he gives you an automatic reason like i dont want to ruin our friendship, then maybe wait a little while, but if nothing happens then its probably time to let go.

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How many people are on a typical volleyball team? And what are the names of the positions, and describe what each postition does.

i think it depends on how big your school is. only 6 people play on a court at a time. And high school volleyball is different & much more difficult from middle school volleyball. so it depends, are you a middle schooler or high schooler?

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can i have a lover before my university level or in my university level

sure! why couldn't you? I mean, if you kno someone and you like them and they like you, then id say its like perfectly fine

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okay, so im taking my school picture in two days and i was wondering how i should look i guess, quick description of me: really tan skin, medium dark brown hair (long and straight), not skinny or fat, big hazel eyes, straight smile i guess, im really lost on what i should wear and how i should do my hair if anyone could please help me quick it would be greatly appreciated thanks (by the way im a freshman) i rate! -Nicole

hmmm...well its like up to you what you want to wear, depends on if you want to like go and buy something else. As for your hair, you should wear it down, and put like a few spirley curls in it from like top to bottom, thats always pretty cute. Or just curl the ends all different directions, yea i kno it sounds like it would be ugly but if you do it right it turns out being REALLY cute!

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i really like this guy, chris, and i have for the whole summer, but the thing is, my dad doesnt like him, he says things about him that really make me mad, i know that my dad just cares and doesnt want me to get hurt or anything, but there really isnt anything wrong with chris, like the things that my dad says are completely ridiculous! just this morning i asked my dad if I could have my phone back because chris might call me from out of town, but as soon as I mentioned his name, my dad said no, its really beginning to annoy me that my dad can't trust my good judgement, I'm a smart girl and I know what I'm doing, someone please help me here! i rate (btw 14f)

Talk to your dad! and tell him everything you just said here! I mean, your 14 years old, he should trust you, and if you`ve never really done anything bad, then point that out. And tell him you kno what your doing and you can handle it, and he just needs to loosen up a bit. And ask him what is so bad about chris, and try and prove that the things he says like arent true at all.

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hey...this is gonna be pretty long im guessing so ill rate 5's to whoever takes the time to answer this..thanks.

Okay..so i met this guy who i fell totaly inlove for and cared about him sooo much. he knew that i was moving to a different country soon, and it started affecting our relationship badly. one night we got in a fight and were on the verge of a break up after i found out he told people he dindt like me anymore. i called him up and told him im comming to him as a source of it all and i need to know if he still likes me or not, and that i dont want him to lie to me , or fuck with me, just tell me the truth. well that night he never gave me a straight out answer if he still liked me or not, he was really quiet, and every time id cuss he would ask me to stop cussing. but i jsut kept on yellin and crying and tellin him i cared a lot, and i just need the truth, then ill leave him alone if thats what he wants. well he said he had a lot to say but he needs to figure it out nad he'll call me back. i said okay. this was around 11 at night or so. but he dindt call for like 2 hours, and i got worn out and tired so i went to bed. he called around 5, but i dindt pick up cuase i was sleepin and my phone was on silent so i missed it. i keep thinking to waht if that was the call that would fix my relationship with him. the next day, i called him back but he wasnt home. I called my "bst friend" and aksed her what she was up 2, and if she wasnt busy i needed to talk to her (i wanted to tell her hwat happened) and she goes "oh actually im just with ur boyfriend right now nad we're just chillin with some other people" I had NO problem with that whatsoever caust i trusted her completely with everything i had..and it takes a long time to gain trust with me cuase i been backstabbed way too many times..so this gurl had my trust completely, and i trusted my boyfriend and i understood that maybe he needded some time to think things over and stuff..well my best friend, all the guys think shes one of the hottest girls ever, and pretty and perfect and eveyrthing..blah. anyways, my boyfriend calls me from my best friends cellphone later on that night and i pick up and he talks to me and hes like "hey....im really sorry but i dont think we shuld be together anymore..u cna hate me if u want, u hvae every right to, but i still wanna be friends. i really dont want to..i just think this is comming to end.." and i was just like "alright, bye" cause i was really upset!! i mean i loved this boi!! and he broke my heart in thousand pieces!! and so i knew hed be with my best friend for the next few hours, so i called him around 12 am, and i was like "hey..i think i deserve to know why" and he was like "know why i broke up with u" and i said yes so he tells me all this crap about hwo he thought i was somebody else who i wasnt and how he met someone special who is so perfect and amazing and how i deserve better than him and it ended and that he has unrealistic expections of ppl. basically a bunch of BS and he never gave me a real answer. so w/e. it NEVER evven crossed my mind that my best friend was his new special someone!!!!! I found out that she hooked up with him the night we broke up! she gave him head, he fingered her, and ate her out and she gave him a hand job!! ON the FREAKING night we broke up1!!!!!!!! i was like omg r u kidding me.. but when i told her i was hurt she freaked out on me and told my ex that she cant like him cause of me! and so my ex freaked out on me and got pissed cuase supposebly hes in love with my slutty ex best friend..and i still cared a lot about my ex, like damn i care so much for him.so i told her she can do whatever she wants, and to not involve me in it..but i couldnt really get mad at her and let her know how much anger i have, and how betrayed i felt and how i would never trust her again..so i reminaed silent, which was a mistake. now them two are fucking going out, and she lost her VIRGINITY to him. i dunno what to do. i cdant say anything now, but i feel so betrayed bt here. should i still let her know that im realy hurt and i have a lot of anger! cuase when she has problems with my ex and is sad she comes to me and tells me about them and i dont wnt to hear it, he was MY ex!! and when he does cute stuff she tells me and im like how much more unsensitive cna u be? but i just sit there and listen..i dunno. shulld i tell her off and break friendship off completely? cuase i have no trust for her. and baout him, what do i do. cuase even after it all i still love this boi like no other and care os much and really dont want to lose him..even as a friend..i hookked up with him one time after we broke up..and i was crying cause i was drunk and i told him evertthing i felt and we stood infront of the mirror and my make up was completly smirred and we were huggin really tightly and he goes look at us, look at the mirror and we both look, and then he turns his head away, kisses my forhead and he syas i cant look at u this way i cant look at us cuase then its gonna hurt more..and i was way drunk and i dindt say anythin just kept crying. and we just stood there..so i duno cuas ei still care lots about him and i duunno if i shold just act like i dont care anymore and eventually stop..or should i still care for him and talk to him and be friends..cause being friends with him hurts me somuch cuase i see him with her and it makes my heart crash to a thousand more pieces evry time. and also his birthday is comming up soon, and i dunno if i should get him something or not? and if i should..what? hes a bab boi skater type..so u cant really get nice things, and i dont want to get it over done to make him think im obsessed with him.

I AM sorry this is soo long!! but i really needed to elt it all out! thanks for whoever replys! ill rate 5!! xoxoxoxoxo thnaks!

wow...thats so horrible for both of those people. First off, with your "best friend" tell her you can't believe she went and betrayed you like that. She's suposed to be your "best friend" yet she basically didnt even consider you on the night you two broke up. And tell her your really not interested in their relationships, because your still not over him, so if she wants to go tell someone about him then she can choose someone else. As for your ex boyfriend, i definitly wouldn't get him anything for his stupid birthday. Unless you want to get him something that would make him feel like REALLY bad, like something from an inside joke between you two and then right like "member this? wow we had some fun didnt we? too bad you dumped me like a pile of crap for no reason" or i duno something like that, you could probably think of something better to write. Or, if you want to piss off your friend, if you have like a really cute picture of you n your ex then get that n frame it and give it to him, or else you could like by a box of condoms ( as a JOKE!) and say something like "i was saving these for our time" or like " i wish we couldve made it this far" Which will probably get your friend mad.

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me and my boyfriend give each other oral every now and then. well he recently mentioned something about me shaving my pubic hair. he said it would be sexy and easier to perform oral on me. i dont know if i should, it would grow in thicker and darker and id have to shave it all the time. i wouldnt mind it tho probably... what do you think ?

hmm, if you like wouldn't mind doing that, then you should go ahead and do it. I've heard its a lot better when its all gone for the guys. As long as its what YOU want to do, and as long as you don't mind keeping up with it, then go for it.

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