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i think its kinda wierd that a whole bunch of kids at my school know me and know who i am but i dont know a thing about them. they always say "HEY ITS ***** SUP DOG!!" and they make fun of me n sh*T. they think im all ghetto and that g-unit is my life. they think that i wanna be a gangsta and i act really ghetto. i dono why they think all this, it might be some stuff in my profile or my myspace but its really pissing me off and i dono what to do about it. i dont dress ghetto and i dont even act ghetto. theres tons of white kids of spanish kids that dress and act ghetto but i dont see them getting all this sh*t. this is especially pisses me off when theres a girl that i like but shes not interested in me b/c of what everybody thinks of me. please help me! you have always given me good advice before. what should i do? (link)
mann thats stupid! girls shouldn't judge you based on your appereance or if your ghetto or w/e lol. Well, are you ghetto first of all, and if you are, are you happy with how you act? if not then just change things around to be more comfortable with yourself. But one thing is, you really shouldn't change based on girls or anyone else's opinions. if kids start calin out "hey dogg" or w/e..just like add like its a joke and be like "hah heyy homiee" or w/e and then they'll just think you're kidding around and not think much of it..hope this helps :)


whats so soothing about putting cucumbers on your eyes? do you know? is there like a chemical or something in them? (link)
yea they do have some ingredients in them
this is what i found out:

Cucumbers are common ingredients in a lot of facial creams, masks, cleansers, etc. Cucumbers have a long folk-medicine history of being used as an astringent, or something that tightens your pores. Astringents are good at soothing sunburns and acne and reducing the appearance of pores and oily skin. In addition, cucumbers are usually cold from the refrigerator, and so help to reduce swelling (like a cold compress) and are conveniently the perfect size to put over your eyes.


hey i just wanted to say you are doing a kick ass job with the whole advice thing, i think you pretty much always answer my questions, and many many others that i see, and you are always serious and so so so helpful ,i just thought id praise you (link)
hey, i don't know if i answere this yet..but ill do it again. haha i thought i did i just didnt know if it wen tthourhg...anyway thank you so uch!! im glad i could have been such a help to you..im sure u great at givin advice to wat your columb ill add ya and check ya out..tnx again !!


What are some syptoms of strep? What about the flu?

Thanks! (link)
strep: sore throat, headache, fever, feeling genereally sick


flu: headache, fever, chills,sneezing, runny nose, cough, sweating

yea..sort of similar but strep is a REALLY bad sore throat..


kind of embarassing...

so when i pee it kinda feels like i still have to go after im done but i dont and nothing comes out. and please dont tell me its a UTI because i'v had them before and it feels like that but it goes away and only feels like i have to right after for like 5 minutes then goes away so i dont think its a UTI. could it just be wat i drank or ate today is doing it? not a big deal.. (link)
from what you're saying it sounds like a UTI, cuiz those are hte symptoms of it..but if you said it has gone away for you in the past when you felt that way..then maybe it isnt it..if it still feels that way for a few days go to your docotr, i think they just prescrive an anti biotic..but you might wanna double check :) Im not sure if what you eat could have affected what you feel like when yo pee, ive never heard of t hat before but, hey its possible i guess.


is it bad to put a warm/hot wash cloth over your eyes for like more than 5 minutes? idk why it would be but im just wondering. (link)
uhmm i think it should be fine, idk what it wouldnt be..as long as its not like scorchingly hot haha..if u wanna relax your eyes in another wa, try puttin thing cucumber slices over them :)


is it normal to get really down during the winter time as opposed to summer?

just curious. (link)
yes acutally it is..the weather can really effect your emotions and personality. sometimes ppl find a sun lamp helpful to make their emotions better..it givs you vitamin D and sometimes sun can help you feel happier and affect how you feel.


a few months ago i painted my bedroom this elaborate pinkish orange color and its beautiful but its sooo vibrant. not to sound gothic, but im not a VIBRANT kinda girl. i love the color but.. i need to off-set it a little with a darker color bedding or curtains.. any suggestions? (link)
wow, i was just about to say maroo acutally lol..i'm not really sure of the exact shade...b ut i was thinking maybe a maroonish color, or maybe a navy blue since blue is a compliment of orange


hey i just wanted to say you are doing a kick ass job with the whole advice thing, i think you pretty much always answer my questions, and many many others that i see, and you are always serious and so so so helpful ,i just thought id praise you (link)
hey thanks so much!! that really means a lot to me..got an advice column? i'll add ya..cuz i sure you give great advice as well! :)


ok so this might sound gross but i have had my period for like 2 years now and i am 13 and so well always after my period the WHOLE month till it starts again i have to wear a thick panty liner cause it all comes out like the goop does. the white goop. it dosnt smell or anything though please help i rate high (link)
that's fine, it just just discharge. it often comes before your period..if it seems like an extreme amount go to your doctor.i think you're fine thought cuz usually if its a bacteria it smels and looks off colored.


im am 13 i havent gotten im period and im afraid it will happen at the most embarrassing time like in class or something. i went to the doctor and she said that she etimated it would happen when im 17 but im scared that it will start and i wont knwo and ill be really embarrased :-( (link)
aw don't worry at all hun! When you get your period, its only a small amount, because it starts off pretty slow. It wont' be like gushing out of you lol, and if you feel like you might get it sometime soon, lik you have cramps, or you feel like your breakig out a little more or someting, put on a panty liner so you won't get it on ur underwear..and your doctor is pretty accurate most of the time so im sure you have plenty of time.


I am 5'1" & I weigh around 139 to 143 lbs. I am not happy with this at all..I am a lil pudgy around the middle and want to loose this! I have tried and tried with the crunches everynight but that hasn't seem to help so now I am at a loss of what to do next! =[ One of my friends can loose 10 lbs in a week by just drinking water...maybe I can try this! If you have any suggestions then PLEASE let me know ASAP!! (link)
i think the water thing isn't the best idea..its not healthy for your body to survive off of water..try some cardio..like running everday or..biking around at a decent speed..and then add crunches to it too to help tone. And just you know, eat healthy..and a fwe pounds should be gone in no time :) don't over do it though.


ok so im going to a party soon and this guys gonna be there, hes a friend of a really good friend of mine and we have talked online a little and im kinda excited to meet him, so my question is, how should i act, should i flirt a little, or play hard to get, anything with help, eve if your not sure, it will, and ill rate a 5 if thats what you want, please heeeelp (link)
hmm..i think you should definately flirt and talk to him to get his attention and just try and talk and spend a lot of time with hinm, then wen you are pretty s ure you have him hookd you can play hard to get alittle..but not too much so that he thinks you're not interested, but enought to make him question it and want you even more! have fun, hope it helped.


Okay, any time I'm around a guy I like, I either:
1) Blush really, really bad.
OR
2) Act stupid, maybe even mean (to him), because I'm nervous.

Since I really don't want this guy to think I'm crazy, is there anything I can do to make me less nervous? Thanks! (link)
aww that happens to so many girls hun! what i think you should do is maybe start talking to guys with some of your friens so you feel more like yourself, and won't have any akward silences cuz you and your friend can just keep up the conversation together..another way to help yourself feel less nervous is to just act like the guy is one of your good guy friends and just treat him like he's a good guy friend.


okay uhm. my breath always smells! i brush my toungue use mouthwash and all how come it always smells like crap (link)
hmm, you might have a clinical problem called halitosis (a big word that means bad breath)..

this site should help you out

http://www.tau.ac.il/~melros/faq/index.html


Does anyone have any good rock band recommendations? I love the ones I listen to now, but listening to them over and over again sometimes gets tiring. Help would be appreciated. (link)
Oh yes! i have so many for you..depends on what type of music you like..but here's a lot that i like. || underoath, static lullaby, shotblue, the smashup, drive by romance, boy sets fire, alexisonfire, boy sets fire, plans for revenge, The used, at midnight, bleed the dream, kill switchengage, silverstein, my american heart, anberlin, senses fail, dead poetic, The calm, Number one fan, Bedlight for blue eyes, a change of pace, so they say, haste the day, 5 minute ride, piebald, love hate hero, die like me, the twiligh collective, idiot pilot, amber sky, a beautiful elegy, my eyes darken, divide the day, ikarus, roses are red, it dies today, from first to last, spitalfield, black maria, head automatica, hopesfall, mareen, blame it on rio, inmemory, farewell to twilight, a dying dream, a shattered hope, black out skies, secret lies of freemasons, the darbe, kids in the way, nature living, the smashup, drive by romance, plans for revenge, open hand, section 8, a dead give awy, vaeda, end result, a thorn for every heart, norma jean,jagstar,a life in vain, keeping distance, blood on the tracks, my own victory


ya ! have fun lol


I'm underweight, I want to be healthier and stuff. I need to gain weight. Can you help me?
I have 2 meals a day lunch and dinner (No time for breakfast.) (link)
hm.breakfast is the most important meal of the day i'm sure you've heard. So try and bring like a high caloric breakfast bar to school, and eat it on the bus or something. You could also try having shakes at night..shakes are very high in calories and will help you gain weight. there are also special shakes that are made specifically to help you gain weight, ask your doctor or pharmacy about them.


hey guys, alright one question.

i last had my period october 30th, and right now i have my period. at least i think i do. i'm not sure if its my period... or if it's cause i "had my cherry popped" or something. do you bleed alot when that happens? cause i think i have my period. but i'm really honestly not sure.

answer, please?

(link)
hmm..it could be your cherry popping..depends when you got it popped..and do you mean octobor 30th or sebtember 30th? Becuase if its september..then it is possible that you could have your period again..when you get your cherry popped you do bleed, but not an extreme amount from what i've heard.


how come there arent any chat rooms on aim anymore? (link)
I think there still may some chats there, i acutally haven't notcied that there weren't any left..maybe there wer some problems with the computers or just some problems in the chat room..go to the AIM website for more info :)


my grilfriend lay on her back put my sprem fallout? (link)
i dont' realy understandyour question, could you possible write it agian? thanks :)




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