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Q: see here is the thing!i like this guy named chad but my friend taryn liked/likes him, and i know he used to like her but he told me he didn't anymore and now i like him. he even invited me to one of his baseall games and everthing should i go and continue likeing him or wat?
go! it doesnt really matter what your friend says. but if you really care about her, just talk to your friend and tell her that you really like this guy, and if she's your real friend then she'll back off and she'll help you with him lol

Q: OK when i first learned about sex back in middle school...i said to myself "im waiting until marriage" right away. I want to wait..because i dont know if i can deal with the emotions..but then again i want to do it (not now..definately not ready) in the future..you know when i find a bf when im like 18 + ..probably more like in my 20's though. I dont know..i just cant picture myself only havving sex with one man..plus im only 15 and im so curious about it now..im scared that what if i dont get married til im 30? I dont know if i can wait 15 more years..it seems to distant. How do i know for sure if im going to wait? or if im not? Do any of you out there have premarital sex..or have done it with a few people? Was the emotion too much for you when you broke up ? Or a one night stand..was that too much for you? I'll rate 5's
i dont think its that bad, isnt it better to know what the sex with a guy is like before you marry him and commit to him forever, maybe its not good with him, i donno thats what i think anyway.

Q: im totally falling for my bestfriend. i liked him at the beginning of the year, and because of that we became the good friends we are now. we do everything together. Like EVERYTHING. and now, im falling for him again. hes just, hes perfect.
tell him, you never know, he might feel the same. if he doesnt or somthin say u were jokin.

Q: I need help because I have always been a sporty type of person, and now I like this one boy. People just don't understand that I have a sensitive side. I need help to make it seem that I have a sensitive side and for people to accept me for this.
well show them! talk to them act girly, get a makeover...wear more girly clothes....stuff like that....say aww thats nice or cute a lot.....hey i donno just suggestions sorry if theyre stupid.

Q: Hi i love music. I was wandering what r some really good songs and cd's?

~please help!

~i rate!
...:::My Chemical Romance:::...
...:::Green Day:::...
...:::Marilyn Manson:::...

Q: okay theres this gi..guy..irl....guyl..s/hes so fine. i cant really get over her, lets just call him/er..PAULine, but isee her everyday, and i want to rub her hair and poke her boobies. what should i do?

ps: is it weird if i stare at someone who works at walgreens? no, right?
the thing about that is, i cant give you any advice because i have the same problem! i cant stop staring a paulline. =( its like...im hypnotized by her beuty or something. when i dont see her for more than a day i miss her so much and i want to cry. i think you should just get her some velcro. that way you will always have her and she wont get away.

Q: I have a best friend, we fight ALL the time and last night she invited me to this skating thing.. so I went. Well I got there and she was ignoring me for this little 6th grader and her other annoying friends I want to be her bestfriend but when she treats me this way I just want to stay away from her.. what do I do?
if she treats you like that, then forget her. i dont think that she's worth your time. such an ass....

Q: hi. i have a cold sore ..well sort of, thats kinda the story. i was scratching at it and i accidentally like..picked it off and now its just all pink. i really dont want it to scar! last time this happened i had a scar for a year and im really not sure what i should do. i dont really thing theres anything i can do about it but if anyone has any ideas please answer this!!!! i really dont want a scar when i go to our school dance next wk., and i really just..dont..want one someone help me please!
i know who you are!! lol ok well you could put some gerbil saliva on it. i think that would help. but whatever, i feel bad for you.

Q: ok,
there is tons of girls that like me at my school and they all want to go out with me, so i need to know if i should become a "player" and go out with all of them at once or let them take turns?
WHAT? No players are bad, once you get the rep of a player, no girl will ever wanna go out with you and you will never get a girlfriend. girls hate players.
=)

Q: is it just me?..or do other people think like me, that they hate themselves, that theyre not worth living. Because there are so many stressful things in life, school, personal life, friends, family..so on and so on....im stressed over so much stuff, and all i do to make myself feel better is to cry. i keep my emotions up inside of me, and all i have to let my feelings out is in a journal i keep and write my deep thoughts and feelings in it. i dont think there is anyone in this world that i can tell ALL of my feelings to. is it just me?...is there anyone else out there who thinks just like me?...how do you solve your problems?...
a journal is a very good idea. i think a lot of people think like u, they just dont wanna admmit it or they end up really commiting suicide. its a hard thing to talk about but its not just u...dont worry.

Q: lets say me and my ex dated when we wre like 13 for 8 months then fought for a year then i moved cross county and hes talking to me nad im supposed to go back for a little while in 2 weeks do u think he still he wants sex or still has feelings or something like that
it depends on what kinda guy he was wen u dated. maybe he misses u. =)

Q: M/18. Me and my best friend talk on messenger all the time and we both have talked about how we have feelings for each other. Before we knew how we felt about each other, I could talk to her all day until my face turned blue. But now, I feel like I need to impress her since we will be starting something soon. So now whenever I am with her, it seems like I can't think of anything to say. It was so much easier when we were just best friends to get something out of my mouth. It's even getting more difficult on messenger. I don't know how to fix it. Somebody help me.
i dont think you should change like that. i mean be just like you were when you were friends, thats what she fell for right? just brself and she will like you, trust me.

Q: When a guy puts his arm around a girls waist do u think the girl should put her arm around his waist or like his shoulders??
waist waist waist waist waist

yep =)

Q: ok well, i swear im in love with this kid on my brothers basketball team, and he's really cute, sweet, athletic, and hes so cool. and he twisted his ankle, and i felt reallybad about it so i was talking to him about it and we kissed somehow and nowh he's all i can think about and i dont want my brother to know, because he's already mad at me because i became best friends with one of his best friends.
ur brother is an ass he cant pick ur friends or who u cant be friends with

Q: well i ordered the
Farouk CHI Transformation System Home Support Kit stuff and i thought it would straighten my hair because on this one website it had info on it and it gave me the impression that it would straighten my hair but it didnt and it was 40 bucks and i have really curly hair and i it didnt do anything but i found out that it just makes it shiny and stuff so i have it and i dont kno what to do with it could i return it *it was off a website and i ordered it from california and i live in florida* and does any one know something else that would straighten my hair and make it stay *i have really really curly hair* could some one give me websites and names thanks alot
signed
-confused girl
i think u need a perm maybe if its really curly

Q: what do you do as a parent about your young teenage daughter who cannot control their mouths or do what you ask of them..and all they ever want is to shop wat is up with that?
dont let them shop ne more

Q: what do i do if i think my boyfriend is lying to me? PLEASE HELP ~Emma~
confront him and ask him!! no trust=bad relationship

Q: Well I've been going out with this guy for a month and we hardly ever talk but all we have done is hugged! Is that really bad or what?
no....it just means your relationship is.....distant..

Q: when ever i have a boyfriend they always think im cheating on them because i flirt so much but thats just what i do and i dont know how to not flirt as much
flirting is not cheating dont worry

Q: THere is this guy and i really like him and hes in one of my classes and my friend asked him if he likes me and he said he doesnt like any one right now and i really wanna get closer to him like talk to him more and get him to like me so how do i do that?
I rate 5's
well i think u should be his friend first, or at least try to be

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