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Well I've been going out with this guy for a month and we hardly ever talk but all we have done is hugged! Is that really bad or what?
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Dear BF-
How old you are may have helped!
This much I can tell you.If you want a good relationship you have to talk.Hugging is good, Hugging is fun-But,if you can't talk-move on.
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No i dont think its bad, Everyone goes at their own pace. The fact that you dont really talk should be worked on though. Try hanging out with him a little more..and while your out you two will naturally start talking .Like if you go to a movie..talk about it after you get out. As far as the affection part..dont sweat it. Maybe your guy wants to go further too but hes shy. so if your ready for kissing..make the move! It might seem weird at first because your the girl..but there is nothing wrong with the girl taking control..guys like it sometimes :)
Hope everything works out
-melissa-
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ummm...don't know different people do different things in a realtionship....some have sex in the first month...some make out in the first month some get married in the first...romeo and juliet...so don't worry...if its beeen for a year...then u should be worried!
Courtney!
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Take the initiative to get more intimate. Make the moves, sometimes guys are more nervous then girls and we just fail to notice it.
-Farren
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hi there,
Maybe you're boyfriend isnt ready for whatever you're expecting. Give him some time, maybe he's just too afraid to kiss you or whatever. Let him know you want him to kiss you! Flirt flirt flirt!
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Nope, that's not bad at all. You should start striking up conversations with him. Ask him how his day was and so on. Your boyfriend is probably just worried that if you two talk about something, he may say something wrong and such. You need to just tell him how you feel. Once you two start to talk more often, you will start talking more but it's alright to hug him and not talk to him that much.
-Karen
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no....it just means your relationship is.....distant..
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Thats not bad. Give it time. He will make the first move sometime.. me n my boyfriend have been going out for 3 months and thats all we`ve done l0l ! anyways! he will make the first move eventually! x0
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my ex was like that. talk 2 him bout it. tell him that ya need 2 move ya relationship a little up to the next level.but it could be dat you dont feel comfortable around each yet. but wait a little while and see wat happens. hope i helped!
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When things go slow usually the relationship lasts longer.. rushing into things might ruin the relationship..but you should probably talk to him more..much luv dez
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No that's thats not bad at all, if your not ready then your not ready. If its the fact that your not into him then dump him. If you want to go further just talk to him about, or wait for him to make the first move. If he's interested in you then i'm sure he will. Don't worry, it'll happen sometime. Just wait for the right moment. ~*kt*~
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