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can anyone recommend a good reliable music download site? One that is easy to access and I won't have to install a whole bunch of stuff, because I want to be able to access from work or at home. And what is the price range per tune? I'd heard it's roughly $ .99 to $2.50 each?

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go to limewire.com i use it to download and its for free


alrigh tim 13 and well im half a virgin ( i havent had sex but ive given something) and well it was with my x boyfriend and this was like in april of this year and people are still talking about it and every since then theres this group of boys in ym class that are all my friends but ever since that thing in april they've all been like well kinda giving me names and stuff like today they said im gonna be a hooker when i grow up, you know stuff likw that and i was just like wondering if i should be worried about that.. like do you think it'll go to far and well how oculd i convine them to stop it? (link)
You can never convince them to stop it boys will be..jackasses..thats the way it goes
Like during a football game at my school, i made out with my boyfriend at the time, on the treehouse in the school's nature center and there was this huge rumor that we had sex and it was all around school about the "big orgy in the treehouse" Guys still label me as a "slut" or "whore" and it's funny becuz all i did was kiss with my boyfriend....big deal...most of them said that just to get my attention and they loved to see my angry reaction, they tease you about it becuz they probly like you. How much you wanna bet these group of boyz want you to "give sumthing" to them to?


ok im 14 and my friend is 15 and we want to have a summer job somewhere. we were thinking of going to this one place that boards dogs while their owners are out of town or something but she doesnt really like dogs..and we were thinking about babysitting and stuff..do you guys have any ideas of what we could do?? thanks in advance! (link)
You could try babysitting and mow people's lawns...take care of their pets while their on vacation and clean their house or sumthing..watever works..but hey if that dont work u can always become a hooker or sell drugs lol jk well i hope it works out for ya


whats a hymen? and can girls really b born woithout a vagina? oh yeah, thanx 4 the advice it really helped (link)
A hymen is a part of the vulva, the external genital organs. Many people are under the impression that the hymen is located within the vagina. It is not. It's located outside the vagina. It's a layer of tissue, just like the tissue around the opening of your vagina. You may or may not have one, most females do. And yes, girls can really be born without a vagina or uterus and don't get periods becuz of it. When pple say "popped the cherry" thery are referring to the hymen, becuz when the thin tissue is broken through, it causes minor bleeding, not like a period, becuz the tissue's being torn by either a tampon, or if you are having sex.


Ok tonight my bofriend is comming over, and I don't know what to wear. He is comming over to watch the movie BoogieMan with me, and so what would be a good outfit for this occision?
Help (link)
guys usually dont care wat u wear
wear sumthing cute but comfortable
u always wanna look good


Okay, well.. this was my first time having sex. but it was like a spur of the moment thing and i didnt even realize it was going to happen. but i was like no i cant get pregnant but he said that if he didnt keep it in long enough to ejaculate that there was no chance that i could get pregnant, is this true? (link)
No it isnt true. There is no accurate precentage, but there is always a chance. I suggest you get a pregnancy test if you are that worried about it or go to the doctor to have one done. But i think that a test would be a lot easier becuz ur parents can find out if u go to a doctor. You still had sex without protection and you could very well be pregnant. get a check for STI's and keep an eye out for your period, and if it's late, then buy a test. But I would say defintly recommend you get an STI check, to be on the safe side. He may of thought he didnt keep it in long enough to ejaculate but during sex, they let out a little sperm.

I think that www.ruthinking.co.uk will probably have more information.


i havnt started my period yet and i'm a very short 13 year old so how do i know that i didnt stop growing? (link)
Some girls get their period at a late age, especially if they have lost weight or have developed an eating disorder. It is unlikely that you have stopped growing at age 13. It is normal to get your period as early as 9 years old and as late as 16 years old. This is a big time range and it is hard to be one of the first or one of the last. Girls who are active in sports or very thin may not develop until a later age. Losing weight while you are in your growth spurt can also delay your periods.If you haven't gotten your period by the time you are 15 or if you started your breast development more than three years ago and haven't gotten your menstrual period, get a check-up with your health care provider just to make sure everything is okay. Your health care provider sees many girls who develop late, so don't be embarrassed to ask. He/She may do a genital exam and check to see if your hymen is open. Some girls are born with an "imperforate hymen," which means that your hymen does not have an opening so that blood cannot leave the vagina. Some girls are also born without a vagina or uterus and do not have a period for this reason. It's a good idea to get regular check-ups during puberty just to make sure that everything is okay.



Ok, so I have this friend and I didnt know she had myspace until the other night. Well, I found her myspace and in her blogs, she had an entry about "How To Get Rid Of Old Friends?". Well, in the entry she was talking bad about two of my good friends and how she dont want to be their friend anymore. I sent her a message and told her what I say and that I think I should tell my friends about it. Should I? How can I handle this in the right manner? I want to do the right thing. Also, should I even be her friend anymore if she is going to act like this? Help! (link)
It doesnt seem like shes a good friend, actually i think the correct word for her would be "bitch"
Ur lucky your name isnt on her list of "old friends to ditch"
I suggest being a loyal good friend to the 2 friends she talked bad about and telling them what they deserve to know
It isn't good to keep this a secret from them becuz it could later on blow up in your face


Well..i have these two friends lets call themm Tina and Mellisa well Mellisa has been a very good friend of mine for a long time n she has been my bestestfriend for a while.. so the other day me tina n mellisa were hanging out n then mellisa was acting differnt around tina n i dont like it at all cuz they like talk n say its private n stuff, n i feel like there talking about me n now everytime we hang out it sucks cuz mellisa acts differnt..what do i do? (link)
well sumthings going on but theres only one way to know and thats to ask them about it


ive asked a question on here and when someone answers it i cant see the answer! why does it do that? (link)
well i guess u wont be able to read this answer lol


ok theres this guy that i might never see again but i think i love him and im pretty sure he likes/loves me too butim still not 100% sure that he does... but what should i do? the last time i will see him is thursday... should i tell him or wait and see what he does? (link)
Ok, two things can happen if you tell him how you feel, he'll either say he feels the same or reject you, either way it doesn't matter becuz he's leaving thursday
So...if you choose to hold back your feelings you'll have to live with the regret and wonder of what could of happend if you told him how you felt so DO IT!!!


My ex-boyfriend and I have remained friends for the past 2 1/2 years after we broke up. We haven't seen each other in 2 years. He lives many states away from me. A year ago, he started living with this girl and had a relationship with her. He broke up with her a couple of months ago. We made plans for me to visit him at the end of May. They got back together a week ago.

I mean, he still wants me to come too. He's still excited to see me. He said she's cool with it too. It's so painful to know he's back with her. But I want to see him, I need to see him.

I don't understand, when all he talked about was breaking up with her for months before he actually did it. He always told me he didn't want to be with her. And so now...? I mean, he told me he stayed with her for as long as he did because of her kid (from a previous relationship). He adores the kid. I think that's a big part of the reason he got back with her.

Is it hopeless for me to even want to be with him? I love him and I want this friendship more than anything. He really cares about his friendships and friends...and I'm a good friend to him...like a best friend...and I know he wants that. But how and why? Why not more? Does more ever come out of it? (link)
Well, first of all i suggest not listening to Flamepopa he or she,ok...IT has been giving out bad advice to everyone on this site so, yea who cares about what it says, now about ur problem, seems like you guys are very close and i think you should interfere with this relationship and tell him how you feel although this chick's got 2 things that might be a problem.
1. she lives in the same area
2. shes got this kid who he obviously can't seperate from

i wish u the best of luck


i would like ifyou could explain to me how to make clothes. what is your sisters screenname she sounds awesome thanks! (link)
on aim it is nawtyvixen4u


i want to start making my own clothes. does anyone know of any websites that can teach me how to make cute clothes that i would actually want to wear in public? i am pretty good at sewing and i have previous experience with making clothes. (link)
Go here http://www.barbelith.com/topic/17783
And if you want to talk to someone first hand, I suggest talking to my sister Sherah, she is so great at making clothes and is going to major in fashion design. She makes cute designs and sews her own clothes. People have asked her "Where did you get that awesome outfit???" And they are completely shocked and impressed when they hear that she made it herself. Well message me for her screenname or email address if you want to ask her for advice


ok well i'm 14 and i like this guy named steven and i think he likes me because hes always looking at me. it seems like he gets very nervous and quiet when i walk by him or something. but hes always loud around his friends. do i have a problem or is it Steven? what do his reactions mean? (link)
It seems as if you have some sort of effect on this guy. Theres only one reason why he could be acting shy around you and thats if he likes you, at least im guessing. You wont completely know for sure if he has feelings for you, unless you get to know him. A lot of eye contact, a lot of big smiles and good conversation are hints of good chemistry. So..get to know Steven and have some simple conversation with him. Hopefully when his friends aren't around lol


i dont know if someone already answered my ? but i cant find it so ill type it again. theres this girl that is 15 and she called me a loser and a freak a lot last year. now shes all over me. she squeezes my cheeks and she calls me cute and gives me a lot of hugs. shes goin away for the summer and she was sad that i was leaving. i think she maybe was crying. i dont know what to do. i dont want her to think that im a freak by askin her if i like her but all i think about is her. what should i do????? (link)
You should let her know how you feel. Everyone is absolutly (exuse my language) scared shitless of being rejected, but it is always worth a shot. Theres only one way to find out if all that ass squeezing and calling you cute was for nothing or if it means something, and thats to tell her you like her.


one of my best friends ever is friends w/ my enemy ((lets call her sam))! no one in our skewl likes sam except for my friend because she lies, shes a slut nd a bitch!! its one thing when youre excluded w/ yur bbf! its another when the person who took yur place is your enemy! wut can i do? how can i make her understand? (link)
Well, you can't "make" her understand.
I am friends with all sorts of people and there are some that my best friend doesn't care for.
But I'm not going to tell them "hey my best friend doesn't like you, so GO AWAY!"
There is obviously something your bbf likes about this "slut" you don't care for. Don't ruin things with your friends just because she simply is hanging out with someone else. And don't think of it like your being replaced. I think you should tell her how you feel and see if it means anything to her at all. Then you will know what to do.


ok i have been with my boyfriend for about 2 weeks but every1 says he is playing me so i am goin to break up with him. i dont know what to say to him though. i dont wanna break his heart! he says that he really like me! but he never calls me and he acts like he doesnt wanna be around me. what should i say to him when i break up with him?? please help me out!! (link)
First of all, just because people tell you something doesn't mean it is true. But you clearly have your mind made up. And no girls like to be ignored. When your in a relationship you have to feel comfortable with that person like you can be able to tell them anything. Let him know exactly how you feel. Tell him exactly how it is, he isnt calling and he does'nt hang out with you as much as you'd like. The point is, he isnt reaching up to your expectations and if you don't want to be with him than end it. Theres no right words or right way to say it, you don't have to have a long speech. Either way, he may be upset and feel disapointed and miserable, but either way...he'll get over it


can u get pregnant from giving bloow jobs? swallowing sperm>? help. (link)
I so agree with IceySparks...I'm goin to be honest with you..that is the stupidest question I've ever heard! Why ask a question that everyone knows the answer to? Why ask a question that makes people want to smack you?
Are you eight or sumthing? I have 2 things left to say to you
1. Go to the doctor
2. Take some sex ed courses


Ok latly my boyfriend has been coming over to the house im 13 and he is 14. But the point is... my brothers 8 and everytime where around him or he follows us and he sees us kiss he like starts to choke my boyfriend until he stops! its so annoying and when we try to get away from him he just follows us help!!!! (link)
Either find another place to hangout like his and pray he doesn't have an annoying brother or talk to your brother about how much you like your boyfriend and how much he means to you




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