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Theres this boy that im in love with
and he kinda started hating me becuase of something [long story]
then i wrote him a message saying sorry and etc
then he IMed me and said "hey" and stuff like that
then he hasnt Imed me sense then
and tommorow is the first time im gonna see him sense he said " hey" and read the message.
I want him to talk to me, do you think he'll talk to me?
and I cant talk to him, seriously hes not the type.
But i miss him so much!
any advice? (link)
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Not much can be done cause you've dont it already. The best thing to do would be to just bite the bullet and tell him how you feel. Giving messages and clues won't really give a man much to know about. Only if you tell him streight up how you fell about him will let him know for sure cause of that direct response.
It will be nerve recking for sure, but once you go on and say it you'll feel so much better and glad that you did it. Besides... you don't want to spend the rest of your years what if? know what im saying? fight the good fight and good luck.
"what i do, i do with no regrets"
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My boyfriend tells me that I am a bitch most of the time, I feel like I cant control it. He just does stupid things without thinking and it irritates me so I get a pissy attitude. I mean, I try telling him..'Brandon take your time', or 'Why do you do that?' He gets my hopes up for many things and then right before we go to do them he says "oh, I didnt really think about this but.." and then comes the excuse..and this happens multiple times daily. I dont understand it. What should I do to stop letting this little crap get to me? (link)
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I'll be honest, it's not really going to stop. Men are mostly simple creatures that understand simple tasks. Example; yes, no, grunt, that sorta thing. Ha i should know. Although things happen bause we make em' happen, sorry to say but you can either put up with it or drop him ya know?
We can't change the way people are sometimes like the settlers tried to change the native american. OI we all know how that went right? My point being would be to just not let it get to you. The littler the problem is, the bigger it is when it gets under your skin. Hope this helps.
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Thanks for the answer. But could you tell some
source like a website or something from where
i can find out more about the elemental energy
stuff. I've been searching but uptil now i havent found anything useful.
i'll really appreciate your help. (link)
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Well, if you live near a borders they have some great books on chakras and divine energies. If you want to look online though, i would suggest Ask.com or try yahooing it. Boarders would have a better selection i think cause links now a days on the internet will lead anywhere know what im saying? anyway if you need any more help let me know. Take care man
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okay there is this guy I like and i've done a lot of pranks on him in the past but i stoped because all of a sudden I just started liking him. we don't have any classes and i'm so scared to say i'm sorry for what i have done..u know all the pranks. He stares at me a lot. I jut don't know what to do. I mean i want to at least let him know that i'm sorry for what i did but i don't know how to approach him and i don't know what to say. (link)
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Hmmmm... interesting, you shouldn't feel too bad about pranks. The pranks themselves show that you're interested in him. Knowing guys though, he wont get it. So that's when you have to bite the bullet and introduce yourself to him. Not right away but in a common manor. find out where he is and just bring up a conversation.
Like for example, if he's sitting by himself just ask if you can sit at the table and pick it up from there. Anyway, hope this helps and good luck
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Ohk so i was dateing this guy "Fred" for about a month. Now i went away for a week.. durning this week me and Fred decided to take a break and let whatever happen happen. Well things from the start were awakward between us and i couldnt get the feel of making out with him. so we talking about it one night during that week and we broke upp. well the two days later my sister comes and tells me that Fred is taking to one of her best friends and they have something going on and for me to stay away. well i find out that they started talking the day before i broke up with him and then the day after i find out that they "hooked up" at the movies.. since i broke up with Fred should i be mad at all about this? becuase i am and i want so badly to punch the girl he is with now in her face.
{and please dont say its bececause i like him.. truthfuly i dont. in that way he seriously makes me sick and if i had the choice i would never talk to him again...} so why am i feeling this way? (link)
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I'm sorry that's happened to you, but i'm afriad it's jealously. the fact that he spent a month on you and leaving for another wad of arm candy. Listen, your better than this, and you should just forget it. Not saying pretend it never happend i'm saying let it roll off your shoulders and move on.
i can understand how you feel right now, but just ride the current till the seas calm. Let her suffer when it happens know what i'm saying? anyway i hope for the best and take care
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I dont know if what i wanna ask is related to
spirituality at all but what i wanna ask is that
when i listen to music not just any music but some which creates a feeling of euphoria i can feel my body release heat rather until the euphoria exists i can create this heat(alot of heat) on the palms of my hands i can almost feel something inside me flowing from my spine and back to my arms and then into my palms.
I've read something about chakras and energy as related to buddhist deciplines but idont really understand them if someone knows about this do tell. I can do this also when i am angry. (link)
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wow very intesting, you ahve a certain chakra flow like i do. When i listen to music or anything that is calming i too feel a chakra flow in me. It's a sort of meditation that your body can do. This is a great ability you possess, you should harness it well by just doing what you, playing music and letting it grow. But beware though when you get angry that your energy doesn't get the best of you.
What i mean is that you could end up using it for harm or for good. depending on how you use it. Continue reading up on chakras, and the buddist disapline. Just becuase your not buddist done't mean you can't learn from him am i right? You could figure out wat elemental energy you may have, the clues are simple. Sweaty palms, burning flow in the spine? yup you guessed it, you could be the element of Mars, fire ^^
Mine is of Neptune, water and the way use it is different. If improper use it could kill someone but that's if you're TOO reckless. i trust your judgement. well take care and hope this helps
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Ok I have a few questions that I'm not sure about. Is it ok to wear a chain necklace that consists of one chain from a wallet and one chain thats actually a bracelet? Cause I wanna wear it but I'm not sure if I should wear it to school, I'm like worried what other people would think and it gets a bit harder since I still have no friends yet. Another one is I have a long chain that's made of those soda can tops,the little thing that you pull up when your opening a soda can, is that ok to wear it like hang down on your leg? I'm not sure because it's not real and made of soda can tops or what ever. I just wanna use it to secure my keys since I have a bad memory and I end up losing them all the time. My final question is I like this girl but this one time I saw her myspace and it said her orientation was bisexual. I don't have a problem with that, it's just is it normal to like a girl that's bisexual? I don't think it's weird I mean if she likes guys and girls too, it's a good thing since I have a crush on her, but I'm not sure. I asked my friend but I didn't give any names and he thinks it's not normal and it scares him. I'm confused with these questions... (link)
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Aaah i see, well don't you worry cause good ol' Thief is here ^^ anyway the whole bracelete and chian idea does sound like a unique idea. it's your style after all and if you can strut your ideas out at school than everyone will pick up on it and notice. As for your soda top idea, that's a no. sorry but unless your going for the emo/punker thing then it wont go well.
Most of these styles is all about uniueness and confidence. Hell i wore goggles at my highschool, sure i got a lot of heads turned but i also gained a lot as an individual. I still do wear goggles in college and no one cares, hell i wear them cause I as an individual like to wear em ^^
plus they come in handy too incase of those damn windy sand days.
Anyway as for the bisexual chick, some cases they just put that there for show and make people guess. there really is no problem with it, it's just that some people don't get it cause they never encountered that sort of problem or they don't bother to understand. Change fears the man who doesn't bother to know. Anyway take care and hop this helps. remember, CONFIDENCE MAKES THE MAN
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i have a moterola phone with a digital music player on it. i made a playlist that i would like to put on my phone, but i don't know how. i have the usb to connect the phone to the computer, but i don't know what to do now. does anyone know what to do to get the music on my phone? (link)
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this is just my opinion but isn't it more of a hastle just to have one song on a phone than just a ring? Honestly, all you're really going to do is pick up the phone, not jam on some song am i right? that's what i pods are for anyway.
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So i am a freshman in high school and of course there is gunna be drama!! Well there are a few guys that I like and am not sure if they feel the same way!! I can tell that they like to hang around me but the problem is i can't tell if they want to hang out outside of school as more than friends!! For example, this one guy in my english and biology class (guy1) he is athletic but he seems to flirt with me all the time and tease me! See i am on the Varsity drill team which is a big deal for a freshman to make and he always puts on my cowboy hat that we have to wear as part of our uniform for drill team. He does it just as a joke and he will always make me chase him around to get it which i think is sooo cute. But anyways he talks to me a lot in class but we never see eachother outside of class what should I do?
Then There is (guy#2)he is in my frech class and he is new to the school! I figured out he lives in my neighborhood and he also teases me about drill team. He even made up this hilarious dance and song about it. He isn't very hott but i think he is really nice. so i dont know what to do about him either.
Okay now another guy which is kind of mysterious (guy #3)but he is so cute. He is also in my english class and we have actually never talked alone but still he is so much fun to look at. That is basically all about he besides he is hott and I have caught him looking at me across the room because our desks are turned into eachother. Then there is my ex-boyfriend who is kind of a jerk and I happen to just run into him in the halls all the time at school and it is so annoying. Somethimes i think i still like him but it is hard to tell because i am so mad at him. I would rather just forget about him and pertend he didn't exist but everytime i see him he gives me a high five for waves at me! ugh he is so immature too! I dont see how i ever like him! Well that is about it I would really like some advice on what I should do or what guys u think like me or what things i should do so they know that I like them too! This was long but for ever helps I really appreciate it I have been at lost for awhile for what I should do about the situation. Guys r so confusing!! Thanks! (link)
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AAAh i see, very interesting. Listen guys arn't too hard to figure out, they're mostly simple creature after one thing and one thing only, but not all ways. These teasing arn't just about likeing a person more like a test. The teaseing, the song and dance, they're more beating around the bush if you get what i mean. This mysterious fellow, is probably looking at you cause you look at him sometimes right? I'm not saying don't stare but if you are going to look, might as well talk to him am i right?
your Ex, is probably being freindly with you becuase in most relationships, when the couple break up they often still be good friends. the other two guys are either tring to be your friends or trying to get attention, it's a classic tail of tow males trying to get the female by a diffrent effection of displays. like a male peacock showings it's beautifuol feather to a female. if you get down to it we're all just animals.
Another note, it's often said that women like jerks even if they don't admit to it but most women do like jerks. Mainly becuase women believe they can change a man as anothe rform of test, then when they or if they do change the women leaves for another mate. As i said before it's all about instincts. Well hope this helps. take care now
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ugh.So my best friend [he's a guy im a girl] says he's gay, the thing is i dated him like twice and even thought we knew things couldnt work out it made us closer like seriously hes my best friend but the thing is i still have feelings for him i know i dont have a chance [obviously] i just dont know what to do he knows i like him and that doesnt change a thing about our friendship.but he doesnt know if hes gay or just "curious" he just got out of a 5 month relationship [w/ a girl] and i dont know if its a rebound thing, what do i do? (link)
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Hmm interesting, well you could one day sit him down and ask him weither or not he's gay or not. I know this sounds blunt, but if you really want to know drastic measures should be taken. Hope this helps
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my labia are somewhat black, and not pink AT ALL. is this normal?? i'm not african american. (link)
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Well have you been scrubbing and washing it harder? could be some excess dirt down there. If nothing else tell your mom and consult a doctor. Better safe than sorry ^^
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in what grade do you have the class sex ed? (link)
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They normally start in jounior high. Or sometimes in some schools they don't have them because some parents don't want thier kids to learn in school. thinking that they can do a better job, or they're just lazy and don't want you to know. Most likely it's in jounior high.
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I have a dark spot of discoloration in my breast cleavage, closer to my left breast. It sometimes blends into the rest of my skin and only the outline of it is darker, so it looks like a ring but when you look closer, the skin inside is a little darker.
It appeared about a few years ago as a slight spot and it grew a little bigger and darker until it was the size of a penny and it's been like that for the past year.
When I scratch it, it scratches off like it's going to come off but when I shower, it's back again.
Any idea what this could be? I've googled it but can't find anything close. (link)
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That's very interesting, maybe it's an ingrown mole or something? but if you feel ill at ease then tell your mother and go see a doctor. could be something you don't want to wait up on you know? hope this helps and good luck.
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I heard my crush might have a gf in another school. I don't know if it is true or a rumor.
He is a total flirt and when I talk to him, and he says something pervy, he says "ew not like that' as if i disguist him. I want to tell him how I feel, but it would be completely embarrassing if he DID have a gf. HELP! (link)
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Ah i see, well if he has a girlfreind in another school, why would he be flirty? some guys are just dogs loking for scraps at any school table. Anyway if this guy says lame phrases like that, then obviously he's not mature enough for you. I'd say hold off for a bit. Make him want you. Pretend you don't care, and give a lil wave. Those things set a guy off like that craving for more. Know what i mean? anyway hope this helps and good luck ^^
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I had all of my money stolen from me and now I'm broke for X-mas. I'm going to manage to save up some money but not enough to buy my friends the wonderful presents I wanted to get them! I need some cheap/creative ideas for presents but I have no idea what anything is and I'm so stressed out the whole process is just giving me a headache! So could anyone please help with some cheap and/or creative ideas (that dont make it LOOK like I'm cheaping out, I mean they're gonna understand that I cant afford much but I still dont want to seem lame)? (link)
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The whole meaning of this christmas is giving with your heart, not the pricetag. Unfortunitly people today don't see that. Well you could recycle some cans and do some chores for more money. Also you could not spend money when you go eat at luch at school. explain the situation to your friends come the day of giving
If they're your true friends they wouldn't care of the price and accept it comming from one friend to another. for cheap gift ideas you could go to the 99cent store or some cheap retail. Haha, i remember my mom got me this nice dragon incense holder form the 99cents store and i thought it was pricey i loved it and i still use it.
Also people are used to pretty things so rap the cheap stuff in bows like it's from the mall. Explain the situation,ike i said and if they're dicks, just say "and here i thought you were my friend, you're just as greedy as anyother." that'll probably teach em, and then you could give the gifts to someone else would could need a brightened holiday. Maybe the cute shy girl in class. ^^
Well hope this helps, take care, good luck, and im sorry for the theft.
"Money is just paper when it comes down to it"
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I am 14 and we moved to a new house a year ago. My room is very not me. Yellow and flowery and matchy and lacey. I am bold and dramatic, girly and into Broadway and acting. Any tips on cool color combos for my walls, designs, or other things to redecorate and make my room say ME (link)
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aah i know what it's like to move in. three diffrent house i moved in i did ^^ but anyway a dancer eh? that's a good thing to get into. May i suggest a blue or a gymat gray, something that doesn't distract the eye but puts the mind in a suttle yet, calming mood. Also if you want to practice in your room. put some mirrors on your wall, the kind that's you hight so you can look at yourself while stretching or dancing. Something to practice by to notice if your doing the moves right. if anymore tips please let me know, hope this helps ^^
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My friend is really moody and suicidal. I really want to help her but, i dont know what to say. She emailed me this:
"Nope, I'm not okay and no matter what I'll probably never be happy like everyone else is. But as long as I keep pretending I'm happy then that will make other people satisfied cause whenever I complain or tell someone my problems they just act like they got more and mine don't mean anything to them...so why do they even ask me ,"how are you?" Or," how did your day go?" They need to shut up if they don't care. And I wonder why people even talk to me when their so "afraid" of me anyway, (like the whole school is for some reason). I have always been a loner type of person and yeah, I don't think life is fun, the only reason I'm not dead is cause I don't have a gun to kill myself with. But I'm quite tired of living and I just get more angry towards everyone everyday, but it's okay cause I only hurt myself and the only person I really hate is me. I will never get anywhere in life so I quit trying (my grades show it!) Well I'm done blabbering on and on about my problems cause oops...I forgot, no one
cares!!!"
I really dont know what to say to that without having her mad at me. I tried the "suck it up" thing but, I can tell that didnt work. Please help me. (link)
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Oh wow, this is serious. how good of friends are you to her? if you're semi-close that's just as good. From the words i read i can tell that's she's in imense pain from her heart. As if giving up on all life itself. Hopefully i can help. Being her friend is one chance of saveing her. Tell her confidently to not do what she thinks of doing.
Tell her that no other women can replace her and that you care for her very much. say something like " I'm not afraid of you, but i am afriad of loseing someone like you, so please dont. The world is a cruel and useless place, but it's what you make of it. I have confidence in you even if no one else does." The power of words will seep in even if she turns away
This may sound corny but in her state of mind something like this has to be done. if after you tell her how you feel and she looks like she needs a hug, give her a hug and with all feeling, say something like "even if no one else is here, im here" try and calm her down, there's very much rage in her.
I hope this helps, i really do. in the event this doesn't and you need more info. my e-mail's BlueDragon072@aol.com please take care and let me know how it goes.
'human lives can never be replaced... only remembered"
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i have a guy friend that likes me, but i don't like him. I really have no idea what to do about it either. He constantly hugs me, puts his arm around me, touches my waist, etc. and i really want him to stop! I always avoid it or shrug it off, and i've asked him to stop a few times, but he hasn't.
Also, his best friend is also one of my good friends. He and i hug a lot and we flirt, but we don't like each other.(everyone thinks he likes me, but i highly doubt it) He's such a good friend of mine, but i think it hurts his friend's feelings when he sees us hanging out.
I really want to avoid hurting anyone, but it looks like theres no other way. I found a balance, but with the guy who likes me constantly hitting on me...it sorta doesn't work.
I need suggestions!!! (link)
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I see how this is going, he feels left out and wishes for more am i right? It seems to me like a two man complex. I know you've tried it but tell him to quit it. Nothing's more powerful than the use of words in a confident tone. Sure you could slap him and tell him no like a child. Although it would have negitive affects, if he brings up the subject about you and your other friend just tell him that "he's a good friend just like you are, nothing more" Hope this helps, let me know how it goes. "sometimes some things need to be spoken"
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I AM;
-5'2
-petite body
-i have olvie toned skin [italian]
-brown and blonde hair [medium length]
-huge bright brown eyes
-i can will dress my makeup and what not around the dress but keep in mind i have 2 peircings. which i wouldnt mind incorrperating.
-i want to look elgant and pretty with a bit of edgyness.
any ideas?
at least maybe color ideas?
or length?
THANKYOU! (link)
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hmmm, interesting, i have two color ideas. Red or Black. Red makes it so you will stand out in a crowd and people will notice you. As for Black, it makes the eprson slimming but it's classy and or elygant with a hint of mystery. As for edgyness that's all in the adittude hun. hope this helps
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Sigh...ive been reviewing the answers to other peoples questions about what to get for their boyfriends....and i just cant find anything that clicks. ive also been researching alot...but im hoping just one of you can help me out! :-)
So my boyfriend and i have been dating for a year now...and hes given me the most romantic presents and like presented them in the cutest ways...and i just dont feel like i can compare.
Does anyone have ANY really romantic thing to give him that will finally even us up? (if it helps...hes a 16 year old basketball/soccer player..dresses preppy..board game player...romantic...uhm...idk what else)
Thanks to all answers! (link)
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The thing about guys is that most guys don't go for the cutesy bullshit, i mean honestly we don't care for cards and fancy bows. We just want the money. Although when a guy does this fancy stuff to impres a girl it's just showing that he's still worthy. It's more like when a male animal wishes to present the finest whatever to his mate. If she excepts she'll keep him for now. If you get right down to it, we're all animals. Everylast one of us, we're just higher evolved and have the same characteristics of lesser mammals. Anywho what kinds of bored games? like D&D? cause that should be easy, just those D&D mini's should do it really. Or give him something like a charm, not all presents have to be big. Get what i'm saying? Use the knawlege i've giving you. Although it's in a diffrent wording it's key. Good luck and let me know how it turns out ^^
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