HEYY im THE RACK !!
im 16F and livin it up in Rhode Island. I love to just kickback and relax. I think i'm pretty mature for my age and have a interesting view on life.
iv been on this site for years, but i just made this new column. so i've prolly given you advice before, i love giving my opinion, i love helping ppl with what they dont know, so feel free to ask!! =]
Location: Rhode Island
Age: 16
AIM: THEE RACKK
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Today on the bus some girl said there wa a difference between a blowjob and giving head so i said i was going to google it and see and google brought me to this website. (link)
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lol dont listen to that first person, there is no difference.
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Well, I've had my period for a couple years but I've never used a tampon before.
Anyways, all my mom has are Super ones or whatever. Well I was wondering if this would be to big? Or if it would hurt.
14/f (link)
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definitely dont go for super for the first time, ive been using super for years and they still dont make me feel good. so try the smallest one. try the "on the go" ones, they are pretty small.
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im 17/f and so far, from what i've lived, life sucks. my boyfriend neglects me, my friends don't get me, my family tries to help but can't, so i've made a decision to move out when i'm 19 across the country to oregon.
can anyone give me any tips on how to start totally anew, on my own? (link)
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well first, im just curious..what is in oregon? but i dont suggest you move so far, because you might look back a few days later or however much later and be sad that you are so far away. you still have two years and by then i think you'll change your mind. but for right now maybe you are sure of this, so i think you have to be willing to be totally alone.. if you think you are alone now, be prepared to be even more alone. think the only support you have will be over the phone. can you handle that?
You should also be a very independent person, have a job before you move there, and an apartment obviously. Think about transportation, check out the area, local markets, clubs, salons, and everywhere you think you would need to go. have a way to make new friends, because having no way to make friends in a place where you have no one will be pretty depressing. Once you have all of that, basicaly just live your life and let time go by and maybe you'll be happy, or maybe you wont.. but I wish you the best.
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I have an env2 and it will just randomly turn off. It happens pretty frequently and I think it might have something to do with being closed to quickly. Is there any way I can fix this? (link)
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my phone did that when i had water damage.. check your phone's battery for the water damage lines, i think they are red. or remove your battery and shake your phone and towel dry it to make sure theres no water.
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is it possible to lose weight without exercising? its winter andi cant go out and run because of my asthma but is it possible to just not eat alot or just eat like fruits and drop like 10 lbs? (link)
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look up information on green tea.. its perfect for losing weight and keeping it off.
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I have the worst cramps. The type that will make me miss school, scream in pain, throw things, throw up, have cold sweats, and physically unable to walk. I think birth control pills are the answer but my mom says I cant use them. Even though she is a nurse she thinks that they are not healthy and does not like the "stigma" attached. I do not have sex or have a boyfriend so I am not using it for birth purposes but it is a plus. I really just want to not regret being female every month. I cant miss anymore school; i have 5 AP classes to handle.
I have not been to a gynecologist yet because of my mom. I am 17 years old is there a way to get these pills myself or any convincing ideas. (link)
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Definitely Planned Parenthood, and check out birth controls that you have your period only every 3 months, like seasonique.
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I ejected (Remove Hardware) my USB stick from my computer. Then this big virus attack happened and to eep it short, my desktop trned green and in big fat letters it says YOU HAVE BN TAKEN OVR BY A VIRUS.
Well anyway, I quicky took out my USB stick. It's ejected from the computer, (so if you click on My Computer you'd see that it isn't there) but it was still plugged into my computer.
Would the virus have gne into the USB stick or no?
I had to take my comuter to a computer expert and I'll be geting my computer back tomorrow and I paid A LOT of money to get it fixed, but my project is in my USB stick and...after paying that much money, I don't want a virus coming back into my computer!
But techniquely it wasn't in my cmputer, so wuld it have goten the virus transferred? (link)
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I don't know if it could have infected your flash drive.. but what you do is, go to the library and go on one of the computers and stick your flash drive in, if the virus things comes up again when you pull it out or whatever you did the first time, then bolt out of there.. if not then your flash drive is fine. =]
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Im 20 years old and I want my boobs bigger without the surgury..any wayy i can??? (link)
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look up a pill called Beauti-full, something like that. There are a lot of pills for breast enlargment but that is supposed to be the best one and its way cheaper than surgery and its all natural.
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So I had a miscairage 3months ago and I want to get pregnant!!! Im 15 and need tips on how to conceive. Thnx (: (link)
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I dont think anyone is going to give you tips on how to CONCEIEVE at 15.. your young, and your body is young, you should wait longer to develop, young women who give birth at a young age have a higher chance of giving birth to babies who are underdeveloped and premature, causing them to get sick. Think about what is best for your child. You are in school, probably arent rich, and probably have a young boyfriend who is looking to have fun not have babies. You dont want to be tied down with that responsibily. Go be a babysitter for a while and see if you still want a kid.
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i can't remember if i put a tampon in. i looked in amirror and i couldn't find anything up there...i dont really want to go sticking my finger up there but i did bleed a little on my underwear and my period is light...do you think i'm good? or did the string just disappear? lol thanks (link)
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wether you want to stick your finger up there or not, you might have to if you unsure. so instead of wasting time asking and possibly getting tss, i would go check.. its your body, so you should feel comfortable going up there. or just dont wear tampons, because leaving them in for too long can lead to bad things.
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Alright then... This is gonna be long but, main topic: sex. Here's whats up. When me and my girlies were like ten haha we made this dinky little pact/promise that we would wait for marriage to have sex. And since then thats what Ive always wanted. I am a pretty strict catholic so not only is that like a big rule in the church, Ive just wanted it done that way. I wanted my first time to be with that special guy that Ive waited my life for, and will spend the rest of it with him. I'm a sucker for that romantic stuff hahah. Plus to me (tooootally not passing judgement here) Ive always found it kind of trashy to have sex in highschool. Not that I look down on anyone or think any differently of those who have, thats just what Ive always thought for myself, if that makes sense. Then again, when I made that pact and when I thought those things, I didn't have a boyfriend, I had never even kissed a boy. Those same girls have been my buds since pre-k and were still tight. I know they still want to wait... There are four of us girls k? Ones had two relationships, both wierd and awkward and not very physical, and the other has had a realllllly fast moving relationship and I'm not quite sure how far they went, could be third base, I don't know. And the last has only kissed. (Were fourteen/fifteen; freshmen by the way). Well I've been dating this awesome guy for like four months (Ive been friends and known him for much much longer) and we haven't gone past second base, skimmed third... kinda... hahaha. Anyway. The thing is, I find myself wanting to have sex with him. Badly. Maybe its just lust and its all stupid and dumb but I want to. Guys have tried to have sex with me before, and I wasn't ready. And when I started dating my current boyfriend (who is sixteen; sophomore) I let him know that I am not ready for sex. And he's totally cool with that. He's amazing, hasn't pressured or pushed it AT ALL, this is all me here. But I want to do it. But I don't know... there are certain things that make me not. The fact that its going against my religion, I KNOW my friends would totally not be cool with it, and I don't know, I'd feel dirty. But I want to. I want to so much. I love him and I think I'm ready. Maybe I need a reality check. So give it to me guys. Talk me out of it. Do something cuz I don't know what to do... (link)
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In my opinion people treat sex way to seriously, the first time most likely wont even be good, i say do what you want.. but dont plan it. if you let things take their course naturally then i think you'll feel better about it where as planning it all out,doing it, and then blaming yourself and regretting it will just make you feel worse. the next time you guys get intimate dont think about sex sex sex, just go with the flow, and if you guys havent hit third base yet then i doubt you'll have sex right away. any more questions? just ask me.
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Umm this is a really weird question
im 15/f
I saw a picture of a penis...no questions please.
Um I think that they are really gross looking... uhh it makes me feel really awkward that all my guy friends have them...ughh
And yes, I'm 15, not 11.
I'm not like, a lesbian or something am i..?
:S (link)
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I think there gross too and im definitely straight. Depending on the picture and the way the guy is positioning himself it can be more or less gross. lol
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I love singing but i don't think I'm all that great at it. haha I want to be though..anyways that can help me without spending thousands to get voice lessons? Plus i have no clue how to get them where i live. So any ideas?
thanks in advance (link)
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usually schools have chorus, but you might not be in school, so you could try downloading like voice techniques for singing, im not sure exactly what to call it, but cds for vocal practice and sing along to it.
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im 17/f
i wanna get my belly button pierced, but my boyfriend of 2 years told me i could do whatever i want, he just doesnt like them. idk if i should get it or not bc his opinion matters a lot to me. what would you do? (link)
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get your bellybutton pierced. its what you want and what you like. all he has to do is like you, its a small piercing, it wont change who you are and barely your appearance, he will get over it. get that pierced!
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Hello,
I was just curious about what the best white strips out there were. Ive heard crest is good, and rembrandt strips work well too. If anyone can tell me which ones work well for you that would be great. Also, please be specific such as the trays or strips and so on..
Thank you. (link)
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crest white strips, the ones you use for a week for 30 minutes. very good.
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so i snowboard a lott. and i always see a bunch of cute guys there. i want to strike up a conversation with them but i don't want it to look like i'm desperate you know? so what can i say/do? (link)
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one day just act like you need help with something about something and if there close enough and nice enough they will come over and help, or you can ask for a hand.
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Recently, my friend has been talking about how hot he thinks his teacher his. He keeps saying he fantasizes about her and he worships her. He said he likes walking past her room having excuses just to walk by her and at the end of the day waiting to see her leave, he said he wants to buy the yearbook and school newsaper just to oogle and at any pictures of her in them, saying "pictures of my hot teacher are like what pornography is to other people. Worst of all, he said he wishes she was a pedophile and if she wanted to rape him he'd be all for it, and he also said he hopes her boyfriend dies. This sounds kind of funny but also weird to me. I guess you could find a teacher hot, but still. Is this normal, or has he gone too far?
friend is 16 teacher is about 26 (link)
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lol yes it is very normal, for girls and guys to like their teachers. the stuff he says sounds sarcastic like he is just trying to be funny but at the same time serious that he would get with her. its not a big deal, hes a 16 year old boy with raging hormones. lol
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im a girl, and i have a bump 'down there'. its small and it hurts a little bit. not itchy or anything and ive had it for a couple weeks. ive never had sex, but im starting to get nervous. ive givin my [ex] bf a handjob and hes fingered me (the last time this happened was december 5th) . its only one bump and it hasnt spread. what are ALL of the possibilities. what do i do? should i tell my parents or do i wait for some more time? is there a chance it isnt sexually related . please help. thank you (link)
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its most likely from shaving, it happens. wait like a month and it should go away. but dont squish at it and try to pop it, that will just be gross and can get infected.
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My Boyfriend of 4 months and I just had sex for the first time. Although this was my first time ever, it wasn't his, he's been with other girls of all shapes and sizes. He's very confident in his... sexual abilities. Anyway, we tried it a couple different times, and he just could not hold an erection. He said Its the first time that's ever happened to him, and he didn't know why he couldn't cum. He kept reassuring me that it wasn't me, and that he was interested, but he just couldn't stay hard. I Don't know of any other reasons why this problem would occur if he's done it so much before. is there anything I could do, or are there any other reasons why this could be happening? Thanks guys..
Sincerly, First time Failure. (link)
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try giving him a blowjob right before you have sex. he'll get more excited.
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15/f
hi, i was just wondering: is it weird to be still "spooning" with my 25 year old brother every once in a while?
not that it's sexual in anyway but ever since he left college when i was younger, i've tried sleeping with him and being as close as i possibly could because i missed him so much.
i'm not a little girl anymore and he's DEFINITELY not a kid either...but it's ok...right?
i'm just wondering what most peoples opinions are on this since most of my friends think it's weird. :P (link)
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first i would never use the term "spooning" with a family member. if your spooning how spooning is done, then its just weird, because hes your brother and hes 25, you guys arent 5 and 7.. you can keep doing it, but in my opinion its strange.
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