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Hey! Whats up? I play Field Hockey and lax. I am a shoe whore!!!!!!!!!!!! I love to sail!!!!!!!! I love shopping, hanging out with my friends, my camp and Ice cream. So ask me any question and Ill answer it. Please rate me and make me a favorite collumnist!!

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ok well see I used to like this guy named ray..we never really talked by I thought he liked me too but he didn't..soo I just kinda gave up on him..but I still sorta have feelings for him just a LITTLE..but now I like this guy named joe..and we talk alot and we're good friends and we have alot in common..problem is ray asked me out! what do I do? please don't say follow your heart...cuz its going different ways?! (link)
Follow ur heart. Jkjk. Well obviousley Ray dus like u if he asked u out! I say u go on the date but if u end up still liking Joe more then ray, I say gfo with Joe. But for now Ray if Joe still hasnt asked u out


ok first day of school (freshmen) i am wearing jeans and a white with blue and orange lettering short sleeve shirt! and i have brown hair that i am going to wear up in a messy bun.. what color eye shadow!?! (link)
Well i no it sounds cheesey but i have like this eye shadow called midnight cowgirl by urban decay and it is the best eye shadow, its a light silvery shimery tone and i where it w/ lip gloss and it looks really good. If u dont have anything like that then id go w/ a light blue color


Ok well my boyfriend just randomly broke up with me-so im upset about that. and he just got a girlfriend...who is this girl that i totally hate!! but now i like this other guy. he always seems to be talking to other girls...so naturally im jealous. what should i do? (link)
You should talk to him/flirt with him. Show him that u wud be a great girl friend and let him now u like him. Guys often r mislead with stuff like that as my guy friend often says. So drop alot of hints. And start to be friends with him. Its never gunna work out unless u start out friends. And that way if for sum reason it dusnt, u and he can at least be friends!


hii.. im the gurl before that was askin about Nathan and smokin weed. i dumped him, but i got really stoned one night, and fell asleep.. and woke up naked but he wasn't there. I know we had to of had sex, cuz i was REALLLLLLLY sore down there.. and was bleedin but i didnt have my period, now i think im pregnant cuz i havn't got my period this month... i am s0o0o0 scared!! i've been non-stop crying.. like im only 14 years old!!! and i cant believe that happened... he is denyin anything happened but i dont believe him. Please, pretty please give me some advice on what to doo!! please i need help, i ratee!!!

signed,
scared and want help! (link)
First of all, u shud go to the doctors to find out if u r pregnant. If u r afraid to tell ur parents, have someone u know and r very close to take u to the doctors. If it turns out u r pregnant u need to talkl to nathan about it and decide what to do. U need to tell ur parents about what happened and ask ppl who were there if they no anything about what happenned. Also, if u said no to having sex, it is considered rape and u can press charges if u end up being pregnant with nathans baby. I hope i helped and good luck!


hi does any1 like no how to get natrual highlights by not acually dying ur hair and stuff...please help me out thx (link)
If u put lemon juice in ur hair and lay in the sun it will turn a lighter color wherever u put the lemon juice


hey i also have an advice column and i was just wantin to know how you change your background to gif or jpeg images! please get back to me! Thanks bunches! :*:SaRa:*: (link)
http://members.aol.com/jellybeans126/images/bg16.gif

thats where i got my backround and if ur lookin for the fh stick pick i just picked a pic and put it under url pic of me in collumn settings
\Hope I helped!


I have like a lot of friends but the only time i see them is at school or at a party i throw and none of them ever call me except for my bestfriend and maybe one other person once a month, and i just want to have people call me to see what im doing or to hang out, what should i do? (link)
Try calling them! If you call them and start hangin oout with them they will see how much fun you are and start to call you to do stuff! Good luck!


I'm a great advice columnist but i guess every advice person needs some advice as well.

Ok so about a month ago my sister and my brother in law came to visit us and i was sleeping (it was night time) and I remember waking up for my brother inlaw touching my leg. I didnt think much of it but after that I kept on thinking about it. Well i was at their house and last night he said he was sorry, and i didnt know what he was talking about and i was like for what and hes like I touched you in a place that you shouldnt have been touched by me (higher than my legs) I dont know what to do! because I mean I dont think he was doing it for more than a sec cuz i think i woke up right away but I dont want to tell my mom and dad because my dad would kill him and they would say something to my sister and then my sister and him would probably get a devorice and my sisters really happy. I mean that was the first time but I still cry about it like i feel so violated and i dont know what to do. I cant sleep cuz i think about it. All I do is cry about it. Please help me please!

I promise i'll rate a 5 no matter what! Atleast your trying to help me. (link)
You were violated and touched in a place that shouldn't be touched without permission, especially by ur brother in law! Im sry but You deffinatly havta tell ur parents and ur sister. It was completly wrong what he did! And for all u know u may not be the first he has done this to. How do you know he hasn't done stuff thats uncomfortable to ur sister? U have to tell ur parents. Good luck! And ur sis will thank u in the long run.

~Shea~


does n e on have n e GOOD qoute sites? PLEASE help me!! thanx a bunch PLEASE DONT DELETE THIS MODERATOR PLEASE =( (link)
www.quotestoliveby.com it is an awseome site!


I wanna lose weight, on my stomach and my bum. But I wanna lose weight before I go back to school in 5 weeks, anyone got any good ways? (link)
You should go running and stop eating junk food. The occasional cookie or ice cream is fine but no chips or candy! Start out doing 30 situps a day then start doing more every day as u get better. Alos, be careful when you are dieting because 15% or teenage diets lead to an eating disorder. Good Luck!
~Shea~


A lot of people judge people by their looks and not by their personality. i used to do that too. i realized you arnt going to become a better person and your not going to meet people by judging other people by their looks. It makes me want to cry how i am experecing this. I realized i have been doing that too. i told some people about this person awhile back whom i liked. he wasn't the greatest looking person and the people i told knew that. when i told them, they all looked at me in discuss. that night i reconsidered liking him because of what he looked like and how dorky he was. Now i could have become really good friends with that cretin guy, but because of people and myself judging him, i am not friends with him. Everyone will not notice this, but every look you give a person, if its bad it will bring him/her down. just think about it. How would ypu fee; about it, people making fun of the way you look, or the cold looks you get every day when you walk down the halls. you see every popular boy and girl with someone, having un. Then you see yourslef looking at them wishing you were them. Christina Auhulara has inspired me to write this paragraph, Her song "Beautiful" is a great song. I hope some day you will listen to this song and think the same this i do.
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I really understand where you are coming from and it sucks. People say that this isn't true but in reality, sadley, it is. People tend to want to hang out with the person that is better looking. Now not to be stereotypical, but often this occurs more with girls then boys. Unless ofcourse a boy likes a girl, that can happen. But the sad thing is, girls are the ones who shed more tears over the subject but they also are the ones who tend to disregard some one for looks. I hope that someday people will understand the subject as well as you do. And Good Luck.
~Shea~


Hey theres this girl that im just dying to be with and she knows that I like her. Im 16 and shes 14 but her parents dont let her date guys my age cuz theyre more near her brothers ages. What should i do to get her parents to let her be with me? (link)
You should meet her parents. You should show them what a good guy you are and how much you want to be with their daughter and how much you deserve her. Also, if they let her go out with you, ask her dad for permission to take her on a date. That will give you big points. Good Luck! And if u have ne more ?s drop one in my inbox
~Shea~


hey everyone i play inline hockey and im a goalie and i just wanted to know if anyone know any workouts that i can do to improve my speed and skills.

thanx, hockeygoalie39 (link)
You should have someone throw like 20 balls nonstop at u while u stand in front of a net. Count how many u block and eachtime try to increase that record. But remember they have to be FAST! Good Luck!
~Shea~


I have been cheerleading for 3 years now. this past winter, i hurt both my knees, bad. i went to the doctor recently and she said that it was a rare disease that would take about 2 more years to go away. she said if it got any worse, i would have to stop cheerleading. cheerleading is what i do-it's my life. i can't just stop. what can i do to help my knees not to hurt as much? help!

~Injured Cheerleader~ (link)
Take advil every four hours every day. I have knee probs too and it works like a charm. Also stretch your legs and take baths and ice your knee. They make special knee pumps that like make ur knee more stable or sumthin I have one and it really works. Good luck with Cheerleading! xoxo~Shea

Also just incase, find another hobby that u also really like.!


PS- Drop one in my inbox and I can recomend some good stuff to help ur knees!


ok my boobs really hurt if i push directly on top of my nipples. is this normal? wat do i do?? (link)
Thats really normal if u r a growing girl or if u r having ur period. Also if u have had sex this is a HUGE symptom so check w/ a doctor or take a pregnancy test! Hope I helped!
~Shea~


ok i LOVE my boyfriend and all but i dont know if he loves me back b/c everytime i say i love u on the internet hes like ya luv ya and im like ok... ( i think that) and i always wonder if he likes me or not.
please i could use yalls help on to see if my boyfriend likes me or not like tell sum things like how u can tell that ur boyfriend loves u,
please and thank u!
luv yall... yall help so effin much!
sweetheart00 (link)
Maybe ur bf isnt ready to say he loves u yet. Maybe he is affraid to ake a commitment. But dont brake up with him becuz of it just talk to him. If he really cares about you he will understand why ur askin! Good luck and rate me!
~Shea~


Im a girl and I wanted to know is it wrong to like boys???? Both of my moms said it was bad!!!!! Please tell me!!!! (link)
Well if ur moms r lesbian, then that is what they believe in! But u may believe sumthing different. And thats really normal.! Hope I helped
~Shea~
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umm i think i walked in on my brother and his girlfriend having sex but i dont know if thats what they were doing or not. They may not have been going that far. It grosses me out to think he may have done that hes only 14 and is girlfriend is 16, i think. What should i do? (link)
Well its not the type of thing u shud talk to ur bro about cuz that wud be even more creepy. Lets just put it this way, if his u no was in her u no then yes. It was sex. Hahha neways just try not to think about it. Act like u never saw it happen, pretend it was a nightmare.


thanks to the ppl who helped me earlier but could u give me more symtoms of being preg...like earlier preg only a couple weeks i would say whhat would happen if u were a couple weeks preg..what would ur body go through? (link)
If u r a cuple weeks pregnant u often get nausia and have to puke. U also go to the bathroom ALOT and dont want to eat that much. Hope I helped! U can also go to a website for more info!
~Shea~


I've bee talking to this guy for a while and he's so awesome. I'm starting to really like him too, but he has a girlfriend and they'v been together for like 2 years. I'm not trying to get between them though...but I really like him. He told me that he doesn't like me more than a friend, but he keeps saying how hott and sexy I am...What do I do...? (link)
Maybe he really dus like u but at the same time he still likes his gf. Tell him how u feel and ask him how he feels. If it his gf is a good friend of urs, dont go for him cuz that wud be harsh. But other wise try talkin to him about it. Good luck!
~Shea~ Please rate me!!!!!




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