Guaranteed...I'm probably younger than you think. I know there's a time and place for everything so at times I seem pretty mature and serious. But believe me when I'm with my friends I'm the biggest goofy goober around XD. Don't let my scary girl picture fool you. I'm just wise beyond my years.
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i can guess what type of answers youll give me but ill hope theres some other scenario's you can think of :P
anyways, in the past 3 days iv been gettin overly horny. im 17 and a guy by the way. Before this, i was a normall nice guy with a load of girl mates (im the only guy in my class .. uurgh, its not that bad i guess lol) but iv got one really close girl mate and it was red nose day last friday ofc! fun day that was but she wore this really "Fitting" top that showed alot when she leant over. i dont normally get massivley sexual thoughts about her, i mean we'v done stuff (just as friends experimenting) but i found it a bit wierd an we stopped, shes really pretty with a cute personality...(just realised this isnt really helping my question) so the day went on and my classes lessons had finished and theres this one girl in the year below me on the same course, She's the only girl in her year on the course shes all alone :( so i told her that i stay through her next free period and talk to her to keep her company and then go to her last lesson with her and do some work and chat some more (i'v really really liked her before quite recently, but i hardly know her to be honest so nothing came of it. my feelings for her are cooled off now i dont think of her every second of the day like i used to) but through that free period it was just me and her in the common room we talked and i was fine, then she got up and i couldnt take my eyes off her ass o_o
i dont like being a perv but i just couldnt help it i was mezmorized hahaha then i got home and beat off like 3 times kus once just wasnt enough
i know its normall for my age but has any one been through this? and did it wear off?
have my hormones finnaly caught up with me? i didnt used to be this bad haha
thanks in advance i promise ill rate every comment (link)
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Of course people have gone through it. Hell I've gone through it. Hormones going crazy are so common especially at your age. It happens sometimes worst than others.
It really sucks when you don't have anyone to fool around with, believe me lol. Btw I'm a female. My guy friends talk about the same thing you're talking about. How horny they've been, how bad they need some etc. Both guys and girls go through it.
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i had sex with my bestie he did not put his dick all the way in and per-cum came in but my cherry did not pop can i have a baby (link)
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Yes you can get pregnant. Chances are low that you are but it still is possible regardless if he went all the way in.
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This past week I admitted to my ex that I still missed him after we had broken up last summer. We had been on/off since the beginning of last year, but after this summer we broke up, seemingly for good, and we both found other people to date. But neither of those relationships worked out for either of us. And so I admitted to him that I missed him, and he said he had been thinking the same thing. So we decided we were going to give us another shot. We agreed not to make anything official yet, but then I asked if this was for real, or if this was just a fling, and he said he wanted to committ to it. So the next day when I went to see him, we hooked up and made plans for a double date with some friends of mine. But later that night, he told me that he wasn't ready for a relationship like he thought he was, and he was sorry about it all. I understand this, but I just want outside opinions: Do you think we have a chance of being together if I wait for him? Or should I just move on because of the instability of our relationship? (link)
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"One monkey don't stop no show."...meaning in this case, one guy shouldn't stop you from doing anything. So move on. Apparently he doesn't want a girlfriend and isn't ready for a relationship but what about you. Personally I think it was pretty selfish of him to basically lead you on like he was ready. He got your hopes when he should have just been straight with you from the get-go. Don't wait for something that might never happen. Like I tell other people, if you guys' paths ever cross again then go from there.
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i Think im started to have feelings for my best friend im a girl and hes a guy so yeah nayways.
He has a girlfirend, but the things is, im sure that he jus "wants a girlfriend" dont ask why im just positive about it, well, i kinda think he likes me too why? well hes always saying "i love u" and stuff to me and like the other day he wrote it on my hand right and then the next day i came to school, he was like i wanna know why your hand.... and then he stops and pulls my sleeve up to see if the "ilove u " is still there,like he was jus lookin for an exuse to see it, not only that, whenever im sittin down he'd come pinch my cheecks or sit REALLLLLLLLY close next to me,
like srsly, and like wherever i am he wants to be with me no matter how many people are standing with us, hes always after me.
and hes always commenting me calling me cute
and that he loves me and stuff
i doknt know cause then again he says im his BEST FRIEND FOREVER..
i dont know what do u gyus think?? (link)
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Well who knows...he could just be being friendly and close because you guys are best friends but then again these could be subtle hints that he likes you.
Personally I think he may like you. And since you guys are best friends and are close I say you tell him how you feel. Or ask him if he ever thinks about you in a more than just best friends kind of way. And regardless what his answer is say that you do. This way he'll at least have some idea that you like him.
Hope I helped
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First Question: I slept next to this guy and he wanted to have sex. I kept saying no, But he wouldnt get off me and I was still saying no when he ripped my clothes off and penetrated me. But I layed there and Let him do it because I wanted him to leave me alone. A couple times through this I said no, and tried to push him off me, but It didnt work. Is this considered Rape?
Second Question: I havent told anyone about this until now, and it happened a couple months ago, So theres no physical evidence left. But Ever since then Ive felt empty and numb to feelings and intimacy. Should I see a Counselor or therapist because of this? (link)
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Sweetie yes you were raped. And I'm sorry that that happened to you, no one deserves to be raped. You said no and tried to push him off so it wasn't consensual.
I think you should tell someone close to you. A parent or maybe your best friend and seek professional help. A counselor or therapist just like you said.
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Ok, here is the thing. I like to think that I can give really good relationship advice when I have an outsiders view. But when it comes to my own relationship issues, I get totally lost. Its like two different things. So, hopefully there is someone that will have a good perspective on this.
I met this boy a couple weeks ago at my school event where I hosted his school. We became friends, and text a lot. Sometimes we have deep conversations, and other times we just goof around. I know that he only sees me as a friend, because he has a girlfriend and they have a strong relationship. The thing is, I really like this boy. I haven't liked a guy that I get along so well with before. Our friendship is very laid-back, and relaxed. Very natural and it comes easily.
A friend of his told me that they don't think he and his girlfriend will be breaking up anytime soon. Plus I would pretty much feel like a terrible person if I was the cause for their break up. I wouldn't wanna cause the other girl a lot of hurt, because I know what it feels like to be heart-broken and devastated. And its not like he and I have even had romantic moments or anything like that. What do I do?
Thanks in advance. [16/f] (link)
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What do you do?
You leave it alone.
You seem like a good person and you said you wouldn't want to be the cause of her pain or their break up if it went that far.
So what now?
You move on, stay (strictly) friends, and date other guys.
If you guys' paths ever cross in a romantic way when he is single then you go for it.
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18 Female,
Okay so I've been with my boyfriend since the start of march & so far so good...BUT he and his ex are still friends. I understand he can't just not talk to her ever again because they dated for like 4 years but her flirting with him & text msgs asking to stay at his house, Im getting upset over it. Im not the type to get angry and start a fight, I usually get upset & become quiet so Im not going to argue with my boyfriend about it. But i obviously need to deal with the fact that they're going to be friends.
He says theres nothing going on between them anymore, & that he's friends with all his ex's and they don't do anything except be friends. He told me he won't go back to his recent ex(the one i have a problem with) because she constantly pissed him off for like the last 1 yr of their relationship and they always fought to the point where he couldnt handle it anymore & that she's said she'll change so many times that he doesnt believe her anymore so yeah.
Can anyone give me suggestions on how to deal with them being friends? (link)
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First, take this up with your BOYFRIEND, not her. It's a horrible thing to be the crazy jealous girlfriend. Not saying that you are but that is what you will be seen as if you take this up with her.
Tell your boyfriend that it definitely isn't okay for his ex to be texting him asking him to come over. And that is a major problem with you regardless if he flirts back. You have to tell him exactly how you feel about it and that he's need to handle it.
Hope I helped some.
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15/f.
I guess this isn't really a question, but to see if anyone has gone through what I am going through now.
You see I seem to be getting more and more depressed lately.
I just feel so alone. I have friends, but I don't have like a super close friend who is always there for me. I don't have a boyfriend. The guy that I have liked since seventh grade is now practically dating this amazingly pretty girl who seems to have everything. It just hurts so bad because for some reason I thought that he had feelings for me. It makes me feel like I am not good enough, or pretty enough.
I don't think people know what I am going through. I live in a nice home, my parents have good jobs, and I get good grades.
People don't understand that every night I turn up my music (so my family won't here me) and just cry.
I don't know if I should talk to my mom about going to counseling. But, you see, I've went to counseling before when I was younger because I was sexually harassed, and I know that if I talk to my mom about counseling she will think that its about that and really isn't.
Anyway... I am kind of babbling on... so I'll end it here. Any input would be great. (link)
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I think every girl has had at least one moment where she is depressed or sad and feels like no one in this world understands. I know I have. I've had times when I've felt just like you feel about this guy. He's with some other girl and she's super pretty.
When that happened I would sit at home and listen to "Unpretty" by TLC over and over again. And yet I know I'm not ugly I'm gorgeous regardless what anyone else thinks and so are you. It's amazing what a guy can do to a girl's mind.
I'm not so sure about the whole conseling thing but if you are feeling like this everyday. I think you should go again, they can help you.
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ok im not going to sugar coat this or anything im just gonna straight up tell you how it is. i need to get something off my chest and i want to hear what you have to say about it. im putting myself out there so, try not to be too harsh :/ i really appreciate you taking the time to read this and help me out.
16/f
been going out with my bf for 1 year and 6 months. let me just tell you for sure we definitely are in love, no questions asked. we go to different schools but only live 15 minutes away from each other and we make it work. even though i truly do love him, i have mildly [nothing horrible] cheated on him on several occasions.
okay, back last year when we were going out for about 4 or 5 months, i started to talk to this guy, G. he was blatantly flirty with me all the time and i guess sweet talked me into a situation i did not want to be in. one day in school he texted me saying to 'go to the bathroom' and meet him outside in the hall. so i did, and we were just walking around the school talking. we sorta got slower at the staircase and he turned around and kissed me. i kissed him back but it was just 2 short pecks held out for 2 seconds each id say. it felt like the WEIRDEST THING ever, i didnt like it. but it was almost like he had me brainwashed because i kept talking to the guy. over a break like the easter break or something when no one was home he snuck over to my house and i let him in... i kept him in my room because my brother was home and if he saw some guy in our house he would get me in trouble. so he almost forcefully laid me down and started kissing me. no tongue or anything, just kissing, like long pecks i suppose? so i felt sort of violated because i was very hesitant and it made me feel uncomfortable. right after i got up and didnt let him push me down anymore and told him he had to leave and i made him leave my house. i only told my boyfriend about the kiss in the hallway and i twisted the story and said that the guy kissed me but i did not kiss him back. eventually i realized talking to this kid got me nowhere but into trouble so i ended all contacts with him. so that was over. my boyfriend was upset of course but forgave me because he still doesnt even know the whole story.
next incident came in the summer, we were going out for 8 months. i went on vacation with my family to the bahamas at a resort. i made out with/kissed 3 boys within the vacation. nothing was passionate it was just regular kisses. out of curiosity i suppose? spur of the moment? the feeling of carelessness that the summer gives you? i was on vacation and i would never have to see these people again? im not sure why i did it but these reasons seem logical. right after every time i told the boys that i had a boyfriend and that i felt horrible that i did that. the first guy, B, it was his last night. we were walking on the beach at night after a teen activity that the resort had, and it was my first night there so i was naive. he said that he had never slow danced on the beach before and he asked me to. i thought it was the sweetest thing ever so i did as we listened to a song on his ipod. he kissed me 2 or 3 times that night, nothing passionate, just kisses. and he was really shy and inexperienced and would ask me if i was bad and stuff. i told him i had a bf and we both felt really bad and he understood because he had been cheated on before. the next guy was a total jerk, i was going back to the hotel room to get ready for dinner and before that i was with a group of my friends. he said he would walk me back and i thought that he was just being a gentleman, the naive person i am. little did i know he had other intentions. when we got to my door he leaned in fast and kissed me and grabbed my ass. i was insulted by this so i pulled away after a second once i realized what was happening. then i left him and went into my room. he later told my friends from the resort that he made out with me 3 times and that i let him grab my ass a lot, which was obviously a lie. the next time was with a boy, N. my group of friends was in the poolside hot tub one night. he put his hand on my leg and eventually i sat on his lap playfully because we were all friendly like that i didnt see harm in it at the time, but now i realize that is completely leading on. my friends ditched us thinking we wanted to hookup. once they left we started making out, i did think he was attractive but his personality was a jerk and he just wanted to get with girls, but anyway, after 7 seconds or so he started to go into my pants [ i was wearing full tank top and jeans bc i got pushed into the pool with my clothes on before] and i stopped him right there. i realized then that it was wrong and definetly did not want to go any farther. we met back up with my friends. later on a friend told me that he had said that 'he wanted to f*** me before i left" and that insulted me. it made me realize he wasnt a good guy. so then i went home. i told my boyfriend i didnt do anything and that one guy B tried to kiss me but didnt and lied about it and the last guy tried to get in my pants but i didnt let him. thats all i told him, basically a half lie. still bad i know.
the last incident occured around christmas time, we were going out for 1 year and 2 months. this time i didnt do anything physically, but emotionally. my bf and i were fighting a lot, had a rough patch if you will. i just felt unhappy a lot of the time so i turned to another boy. we had just met and just started talking through insignificant means, like facebook, IM, and texting. he started to tell me that he liked me and would also sweet talk me as the first guy did. it sort of persuaded me into liking him. i did find him attractive and i did like his personality. but i learned from the past mistakes and knew i would not kiss him. we wanted to hangout one time to get to know each other, as friends of course, even though we had little crushes on each other, but he respected that i had a bf and didnt want to mess it up'. i felt my bf couldnt know about it because he would feel jealous or start worrying, couldnt blame him though. so it was originally set up that we would hangout at the mall with other people. he would bring some friends and i would bring some. i was supposed to bring my friend jenny but at the last minute she couldnt go so it was just me. he had 2 of his friends with him, and we saw other friends while we were there too so it wasnt any sort of a date. my bf thought i was just at the mall with jenny though, bc that was the original plan. but thats all he knew. anyway, this guy and i never kissed or did anything innappropriate. i did later admit to my boyfriend that this kid and i were talking and that i had developed a crush on him. my bf and i had a long talk and i eventually ended contacts with this kid and stopped liking him, and things between me and my bf got better. i am completely over that guy. but i can tell my bf is still hurt that i could like another guy so easily and he probably feels insecure, which is understandable, i would too.
so there it is. he really only knows half or even 1/3 of all of that. i have a terrible conscience inside that reminds me of this stuff constantly. i was in denial with my self for a while and would refuse to think that i did any of that stuff, i just couldnt deal with it, i was so upset with myself and still am. i know i should tell him one day... sooner is probably better. but i am SO scared. he told me a few times that if i ever cheat on me he would be so devastated and heartbroken and it would show that 'i never loved him'. but that is not true at all. i KNOW i love him with all my heart, i dont know what i would do if he broke up with me, i would be so incredibly upset. i dont want to lose him but i know that what i did was very wrong and i am truly sorry for it. it was a mistake and i meant nothing by it, i never loved anyone at any point in my life but my bf. i used to be so naive and curious and just stupid and i see that now, ...i know i will never do those things again. i am just so afraid that if i tell him everything that he will just start thinking... and it will end up with us breaking up or something to that horrible effect. i really need advice on this. thanks so much for your time. (link)
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I'm not going to be too harsh but I am going to be honest.
The fact that you tried to down play all of these events and basically make it seem like you're the victim is not cool. Seriously. You did lead all these guys on in one way or another.
Now put yourself in your boyfriends shoes. What if it were him on the beach slow dancing with some girl, or making out with some girl, or even letting some girl sit on his lap. Would you believe that he loved you even though he did all these things and more?
Sure, you didn't go past kissing (which I can respect, you do have your limits) but you were still wrong. I don't know how old you are, but you seem young. Apparently you're a teen. It seems like your boyfriend is kind of like your first real love so of course you don't want to lose him. But right now your relationship is tip toeing around lies
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(16/f) I am really into pretty much everything retro and I absolutely love those old banana seat bikes they used to ride in the 60s and 70s. I was wondering where I might be able to find one of those that I would actually be able to ride (meaning not one just for display) Any ideas would be great! thanks (link)
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Actually banana seated bikes aren't as old as you think. My sister had one when she was little and she was born in 1990. As a matter fact we still have it. And it's still rideable.
I suggest you look online. I can't say this enough the internet has everything. But the question is how much are you willing to pay. Banana seated bikes are hard to come across now days and aren't cheap.
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I seem to scream, "Walk all over me!" All my friends do it, and people I'm not so close to. I'm always getting canceled on or "I'll be late" type of stuff. Its only started a few months ago, but its starting to get on my nerves. In fact, my closest friend does it the most. When I talk to her about it, she acts all bitchy and it makes me feel like I've done something wrong.
Should I say something to people? And if I should, what would I even begin to say?
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First off: DO NOT LET PEOPLE WALK ALL OVER YOU. DO NOT BE A PUSH OVER.
It's a lack of respect you are getting. And you deserve respect and nothing less. Do not let people disrespect you. But don't be a bitch about it. Just say something the next time your best friend or someone else decides to get "bitchy" with you. You know say anything that will let them know you know that it's not cool for them to treat you like that. Something simple like "Don't get smart.", keep your tone firm to let them know you're serious. Or when they cancel on you tell them like it is, it's not cool. Voice your opinion. Always.
Or maybe you could just talk to your friends and let them know how you feel. Tell them what you've told us.
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I was out with some of my best friends yesterday. Some of my friends are black and others are Mexican (yes, from Mexico) and I am white. I'm the only white girl of the group.
Anyway, we were walking and talking and the racial subjects came up because I said this guy that passed us was really hot (and he was white). They were like, "Ewww...gross!" and so I asked them why they thought he was not hot.
All of them agreed that "my" race was nasty. They said that white people are dirty. I shrugged it off (though I was offended) in the end but then I got to thinking...
Do you think my friends think I'm dirty?
Why would they think that Caucasians are dirty people anyway?
Should I tell them that I was offended? And, if so, how do I do that?
I love my friends to death but I don't want them to see me as a dirty person just because I'm white. If they DO view me as nasty simply because of my race then I'd like to know anyway so I know that my friends really aren't my friends, you know?
Help? (link)
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It's really simple why they think that. It's a sterotype. You know for example: black people are loud and ghetto; mexicans are dirty border jumping immigrants; white people are white trash (live in trailers and are dirty).
It's a sterotype. Is it right? No not all. But people sterotype others all the time.
Should you tell your friends? Uh yea of course. The next time they mention something about white people being dirty, say something. Tell them it's offensive and not true. Although I doubt they think that you are dirty.
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Are there any advice sites that have your question answer really fast? (beside yahoo answers.) (link)
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http://www.Gurl.com
I suggest you register and go to the shout out boards...it's not only for girls, it's also for guys. Personally I love gurl.com...there is advice and support for just about all topics.
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how and what do you do to make your butt biggger, NOT smaller and tighter. (link)
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How and what do you do to make your butt bigger, huh?
Well personally I would say your best choice is to shape it by exercising but then again that would make it tighter. I guess you could try to gain weight but like the person front has me has said you could also gain weight in your stomach area as well. And even if you do gain some weight that's no guarantee you'll gain weight in your butt area.
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My ex and I broke up thursday 3/5 that night.. He had been talking to someone with a strange number. first told me he didnt know who it was then it was an old buddy well i found out it was a girl. he had keep asking me if i worked sunday what time was i planning on coming home for lunch etc. well i started having a gut feeling looked at his phone cut him cheating on me. and i left him the next day. I really loved this guy. i had to work the night i left. started crying at work.. i guy i talked to way before i meet my ex we started talking again.. I had strong feelings for him. the only thing we werent sure about was age. but we are okay with it. even when i dated my ex i still though about him. and i had to stop talking to him when i dated my ex (he was controling) last few nights i have been going to my friends watching movies holding each other and he gave me a back massage and i kissed him them turned into making out and then more. i dont feel bad about it.. i loved it and has made me like my friend alot lot more. and i havent been thinking about my ex.. is it wrong?? is it to soon for me?? how do you know... also i have a two year old who was attached to my ex. hes a little confussed on why we left. (link)
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I for one do not think it's wrong at all and no one but you can know for sure if it is too soon for you. I mean sure you jumped into something new kind of fast but are you happier? It seems like you are, you're not even thinking of your ex: a controlling guy who not only lied to you but also cheated on you. You deserve better and it seems like you're getting it. Although you may have needed time to sort things out but whatever.
Now as for your little boy, you really need to talk to him about what happened between you and your ex. You know sugar coated version. But make sure he is aware of what happened.
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16/m
Well i have had several girlfreinds and well it usually never works out for me, im never been in a relationship that last longer than 2 or 3 weeks, i dont know what im doing wrong am i picking the wrong girls, or bugging them too much or am i too quiet i really dont know,
I really need help i met this other girl and i really like her and she likes me but im really scared that im going to screw up im not going last with her, i dont want that i want this one to work out fot once any help at all o appreciate it : )
Also im a really nice guy sometimes people take advantage of me but my one big porblem is i worry too much, like if i see sonething and i think its wrong i think the worst even though its not true. sucks but i cant help it.
Thanks once again and any help id apreciate it (link)
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Always, always be yourself especially if your a nice guy. But do not let to take advantage of you or make a pushover out of you. It's not okay for anyone to do that.
Making a relationship work is about compromise. You win some and you'll lose some. But you always want to come to an agreement to make the both of you happy. This won't always happen but that should be your goal.
Making a relationship work is about communication. Always tell her when something is bothering you. Do not keep your feelings bottled up inside because the more you do it, the more it will bother you. Let it out in a reasonable manner.
Making a relationship work is all about honest and trust. Without that you really don't have anything. If you truly trust your girl you won't worry but don't be blind. Trust her but don't play the fool.
Hope I helped some.
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Hi, Im 13 And I Have Found Love... I Had A Boyfriend For 9 Months And We Really Loved Eachover Buh We Split Up For A Reason i Cannot Say, I Still Love Him Buh He Has Moved Way On... I Feel Im Forgotten Even Though We R Still Such Close Mates... Im In A Mess And Need A Way To Get Over Him, Please Help ME fIND a wAY, He Likes This Girl Buh They Arnt Goin Out Even Though They Like Eachother. I Dont Know Y Buh I Would Be So Heartbroken If He Was happy With Someone Else. He Was So Nice Buh Now We Are Just friends And My Heart Is Hurting . HELP! x (link)
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I'm not going to tell you that it was not love because you are so young because it could have been. I found my first real love at the age of 13 and get this: we were together for 9 months too. So I feel your pain believe me, I know it hurts so bad now but you will get over him. There is no secret remedy to get magically get over someone over night. But there are things to help smooth the path you have to follow to get over him. I believe this can help...
Realize that part of what hurts is not reality. It's the pain of losing the picture you've kept creating in your own mind of how wonderful things would be if he/she'd just get over that other woman/man, be ready for commitment, get a job, quit the bottle, or whatever. CHOOSE to create different pictures. All of us find certain types of people, certain behaviors, and certain looks repulsive. Each of us has our own, personal list. Put yours down on paper. Then, every time you miss him/her, and every time you go to the bathroom... picture the one you miss so terribly and whom you've already figured out isn't coming back with a row of festering zits all around their __________ (insert their feature you love best here). Picture them with a greasy, sleazy personality, hawking lugies at your mother's church. Picture it in full color, include sound, odors, details. You own your brain. It believes whatever pictures you create regularly. Create pictures that help you get over rather than pictures that prevent getting over. And, by all means... stop listening to tear jerking, obsessive songs. You know the ones... "I can't live without you, breathe without you, dance without you. I can't get over you, stop loving you, etc." That's bull! That's the way the songwriter felt the day he wrote that song. For all you know, he got over it the next day, and here you are, clinging to the words like they're going to help! Maybe you feel like your love wasn't real if you don't hurt really, really bad for a long, long time. Or, just possibly, all those obsessive songs have convinced you that unrequited love is romantic. BULL!
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Why cant i find the right guy? (link)
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Girl it is hard but the right guy for you isn't just going to knock on your front door. You have to put yourself out. Every wrong guy will lead you to the right one. And one day "Mr. Right Now" will became "Mr. Right". Patience is a virtue
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ok.
so, i really want to be a model.
i have wanted to be one since 3rd grade.
but more like a hannah beth/ audrey kitching kind of model.
i wanna stand in weird positions.
and wear horrible ugly things but make it look like art.
i wanna make people question their sense of style.
im a site model for multiple layout myspaces.
but do you think i can cut out for the real deal?
i'm 5'1, and well, i kinda have a big butt and boobs.
but im skinny. i weigh 102 lbs.
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i know, alot of pictures.
most of these are me with my friends.
and some of them im making a weird face.
lol. sorry about that.
i just wanted you to get an idea of my body type.
thanks so much.(:
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Uhhh yeah your pics do not portray your body that well if you're top and bottom heavy because your butt and chest do not look big at all really.
I think you can do it. Put yourself out there. I suggest you look online---the internet has everything. So what your on the shorter side. Try and break the mold. Other women have done it. I say you write Tyra Banks.
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Im planning on giving a bj this weekend but im abit nervous about what exactly to do, it'll be my first so im very unexperienced and i was just hoping someone would have some good advice and a few tips ?
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I do not think tips on any sexual activity are allowed here but I will say this:
But be sure this is something you want to do. Shake all the nervousness out, relax, and try to enjoy it as much as you want your guy to. Make yourself as comfortable as possible and go for it. You may want to google tips though.
Hope I helped as much as I could, sorry.
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