okay question
do guys actually look at a girls clothes?
what do they like or look at? i know its broad and that every guy is different but im talking about in general.
do they look at eyes?
do they like smart girls, pretty girls, stupid girls, flirty girls.
i hang out with mostly guys at my school and every single one of them says the exact same thing,
they don't care about what brand of clothes you wear, as long as it looks good on you and you feel comfortable. the simple tee shirt and jeans is a favorite because itlooks like you're nt even trying, and you still look beautiful.
another thing girls obsess about is their body, and the truth is guys could care less if you are a little bit chubby or have a stomach on you, the real thing they care about is your face. they look at girls with hot body's as somebody they want to have sex with not have a lasting relationship, guys will fall in love with a great personality and cute face.
personality-wise, every guy says he loves a girl who is very nice. a good sense of humor is important, and caring about what you look like 24/7 is a major turn off... it's annoying. the most important thing is not to act dumb. i used to do this when flirtig because it got me a laugh until i was turned down by my crush because he said its sexy when girls are smart and there were plenty of smarter girls. yea that sucked ahaha
the best quality a girl can have - being spontaneous. being out the kid in him and he'll always want to talk to you, be around you, and be with you.
don't wear too much make up and dressing too sexy only attracts the wrong kind of attention. be cool and have fun, CONFIDENCE IS KEY so love yourself
that's all i hope i helped =]
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I used to have acne and I took medicine for it, but now I have like red spots all over my face ware the acne used to be and it's really bad looking. Will they ever go away?
it is most likely the red spots are scarring from your acne, but don't worry it isn't unmanagable.
many make-up brands provide green foundation, powders, and cover up sticks. the reason for this is the light tint of green nuetralizes the redness and both the green and red do not show up, but blend with your skin color. i personally use it under my other make up, it works great!
although it may takes years before the scars even start to deminish, that doesn't mean you have to live with it. i hope i helped and good luck!
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16/f
i just got out of the shower like 10 minutes ago, and i went to my room to get a shirt because i grabbed the wrong one, and i got this pain like i was gonna get sick or something. but then i came down stairs and it got worse. it felt like someone was stabbing me or hitting me with something repeatedly in my mid to lower back. because of the pain it was hard to breathe and i started crying cause it really hurt. it doesn't hurt right now, but what could it be?
i am not a doctor but from my experience i have seen these exact symptoms in two differant scenarios. the first possible reason for the pains is appendacitus, many people think it only hurt before it bursts but excruciating cramps near the stomach and/or sides can sometimes be warning signs that you need your appendix removed.
the seond cause may be stomach ulcers. if the pain was mainly in your stomach/belly this could ean you have a stomach ulcer which is also very serious
i hope you get better, and please keep me updated to make sure you're okay =]
get well
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Okay so..this is kinda a girl question. Male eyes - LOOK AWAY!
If I look at my tiny labia things, and on the inner part of my outer labia(vaginal lips)when you spread them out a little, there are all these lighter dot things under the skin like little tiny bumps. I don't think they're pimples or anything like that...They've been there for as long as I remember, and I never really thought twice about it. But now I'm wondering, is that normal? Are those suppose to be there? Are they glands are something? What are they? Haha sorry, I'm just curious.
first of all, it's COMPLETELY normal. every girl has them just some people don't really notice it as much.
my doctor told me the tiny bumps were merely large pores, no worries =]
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What kind of work out can i do with ankle weights to make my thigs less fat? i already do squats with out them but would they help? thanks in advance
first of all, targeting exercise is only effective for muscle building. if you are looking to lose weight on your thighs that can be done with any exercise for when fat burns it burns all over the body. you cannot JUST lose weight in one area.
but you can tone one area. this is done by building muscle while participating in regular exercise. This is the quickest way because as the fat burns the muscle shows through making the last couple pounds of fat less visable under the muscle.
squats really won't become more effective with ancle weights, but here are some activities that will...
-running
-leg lifts - laying flat on your back, arms at your side, while SLOWLY lifting your legs up in the air, and SLOWLY laying them back down. Holding them a couple inches from the ground for a minute while keeping your arms an your side and head down. Not only does this work out your legs but can be targeted towards your abs. keep your feet together.
- inner thigh lifts - laying on your side, lift your leg up and down slowly. with ancle weights this can be the best evercise available for you
here is a great website with more information
http://www.lhj.com/home/Thigh-Exercises.html
good luck! =]
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Okay im worry about my friend she haset been eating latly..how long do you go without eating befor you start to lose wight..thnkyou
first of if your friend is not eating an you are aware of it, even if she seems like shes trying to hide it, subconciously she is trying to let you know. this is her cry for help, doubtful she really has an eating disorder because speaking from personal experience, people who truly have a disorder are quite skilled at hiding it. The real issue may not be her eating habits, she is asking for somebody to listen or for some attention so the best solution is to sit and speak with her.
and to answer your question, it all depends on the amount of activity. if a person is not eating, or eating 400 calories or less per day, then on average they will lose 1-2 lbs. per day. this may not be entirely visible until a week after because a few lbs. won't make much of a differance in your appearance.
i really hope your friend is alright, it is important you help her through this struggle. please let me know if there is anymore questions or concern with this. i hope i helped =]
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my desktop computer isnt working and i cant even get onto it but like all my music is on that computer. right now im using my laptop and i really want to add music to it. so is there anywhere i can add music onto my ipod with my laptop? do i need to download itunes onto this laptop and just plug in my ipod? i dont want any of my music to get erased..please help and thanks!
well first of all you can download itunes right off the itunes website! i did that when i got my new computer, it is quick and easy and you'll get the latest version of iTunes. And it's completely free. here is a link...
http://www.apple.com/itunes/download/
after you have downloaded iTunes just plug your iPod in and it will load for a few minutes and all your music will show up on your new iTunes library, none of it will be lost.
i took these very steps when i got my new computer and everything worked out perfectly, i didn't lose any music and it was easy. so don't worry, it works.
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alright i have been going out with my boyfriend for like 2 weeks and when we talk on the phone its mostly about kid stuff so we got into an argument about somthing and he was like do you want to break up with me i was like no i didnt say that so he was like if you break up with me i am going to break your heart and i was like what do you mean by that but he just kept saying if you break up with me im going to break his heart and i was like what if i just like another dude hee was like i dont care do what you do but your heart will be broke though??????????????? what does that mean??????? I NEED HELP :::(((((
first of all, you need to let your boyfriend know that threats will not keep you around, and you don't react well to them. what he is doing is trying to control you with threats, its wrong and it may be a hint that the relationship can potentially become abusive.
second of all, im guessing you are in middle school/high school, and believe me boys are immature as they come around that time. by this i think he means he will make you jealous by 1. dating one of your friends or another girl 2. talking trash about you. he thinks these things will break your heart and they may upset you, but they certainly shouldn't break your heart: you're stronger than that.
ehhh what he said was wrong and you should tell him calmly that you won't be heartbroken because if he ever did TRY to hurt you then he isn't worth caring about in the first place
good luck =]
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I just had sex with my bf of 5 months.
We had it and it felt amazing for the first time.
It hurt a little at first and they we just started going and I got wider.
After we were done it hurt to take his dick out of my vagina..
Now my vagina is sore and their was a little blood on the condom.
Is that normal for me to be sore? Also, do you think I popped my cherry? (Earlier today I had just got done with my period. So maybe it's a little bit of the leftovers, possibly.)
Thanks!
first of all, you should know this is all completely normal.
after a woman loses her virginity she may go through many differant side effects such as:
- soreness for 1-5 days
- bladder or urethral infection. It is not a sexually transmitted disease, the bacterium is “regular”, intestinal and needs antibiotic treatment. The most common symptoms are burning during urination, frequent urination, dribbling, etc
- bleeding for a few days is common
- excessive discharge which could mean you have a bacterial infection. if your area smells then you most likely do, no worries antibiotics will cure you within days.
fun stuff right? i'm sure your fine but i figured i'd add those in there just in case. hope i helped =]
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can u put two condoms on for double protection>>>????lol
this is a common misconception. The truth is when two condoms are on the rbber rubs against the rubber making it almost for sure the condoms will break, leading to pregnancy. Also, it leaves little room for pleasure for the male.
If you want to be sure YOU can take part. Using birth control and/or a diaphram while using a condom will make pregnancy impossible so you can have fun without the consequences ;)
have fun
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my boyfriend and i have been having sex for over six months now, but it doesn't seem as pleasant when he uses a condom. Does anyone have any solutions as to other things we could use for protection instead?
there are many alternatives such as...
birth control pills- these will not only incredibly decrease the chances of pregnancy but reduce cramping during your period, and make your period lighter and shorter. you may feel bloated once you start taking the pill but that should reside over a period of time. Birth control can be 98% effective
diaphram- A diaphragm is a thin rubber dome with a springy and flexible rim, it kind of looks like a small rubber bowl. It is inserted into the vagina, deep enough where you don't feel it. A diaphragm holds spermicide in it which kills the sperm before it reaches your cervix, thus making pregnancy almost impossible. After intercourse, it should be left in place for 6-8 hours. Diaphragms are 94% effective
have fun ;)
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what's the best shampoo and conditioner in your opinion?
i've found that aussie shampoo and conditioner is absolutely AMAZING.
it gives my hair body and shine, it's always super soft and my boyfriend always comments on how great my hair smells.
the aussie sprunch spray it th best hairspray to use while scrunching, i have wavy hair and right when i get out of a bed a few sprays and it makes my hair super curly and cute in five minutes. My sister has very straight hair and again, a few sprays and it curls up cute!
you're gonna have one sexy set of locks if you use aussie lol
good luck!
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There is this boy at my school who everyone is saying his Penis is Uncircumcised..
What does a penis Uncircumcised differ from the Regular Circumcised penis.
I heard it was a bad thing, Yikes!
Help, Anyone?
when a male child is born most families remove the tip of the penis, also referred to as the "foreskin." This is just an extra flap of skin that is useless which is why it is removed. Although being uncircumsized makes the penis look larger it then has much less sensativity thus the pleasure is lessened during sex, and the foreskin is often a turn off for girls for it looks gross. Imagine a glob of silly puddy over the tip of the penis, that is what it would look like. Not so pretty
unfortunate for your classmate that everybody is talking about his manhood =/
hope i helped!
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My sister has loads of anger problems and for the past six years she has caused a lot of tension in our family. During this time I've always been the 'good one' but recently my Dad has been taking things out on me more and more. I admit that I'm not always as well behaved as I should be, but it's not like I'm worse than any other average teen. Now even when I haven't done anything wrong my Dad will be unreasonable and start shouting and swearing. I always try and be mature and walk away from the situation then come back and talk things through calmly later but 9 times out of 10 he will refuse to admit that he has been wrong and usually he won't even listen to what I have to say.
I know that he's under a lot of stress from work and my sister which has also put his relationship with my Mum has been put under strain but I'm finding it increasingly hard to deal with it. It's got to the point where I'll say something completely politely and innocently and he'll start yelling and cause a huge family argument for no reason.
What can I do? I've tried talking to him, my Mum and my sister many times but it makes no difference. We've also completed several sessions with a family counciller but that only made things worse.
you should not be so harsh in your rating
we are trying to help you
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On myspace, there are a selected few that seem to have their profiles hacked or something of the sort. It's obvious by the bullitens posted that they don't have control over what is being typed on their account. Should I delete them off my friends list to protect my account?
no, having them as friends will not cause your myspace to be hacked
in fact, the culprit is when you log in.
when you open Myspace and login, make sure the URL address is Myspace.com or myspace.com/login
often when you are searching, signed in, a screen will pop up sayin 'you must be logged in for that'
MAKE SURE THE URL ADDRESS IS MYSPACE.COM
the reason for this is, spammers created a site identical to the login page of Myspace, it redirects you many times when you go to login. When you type in your password it will redirect you back to your home, but they then have your password. Once they have your password it is all downhill from there.
Also, in your Heros section, if there is soemthign that sayd 'but most of all nathan is my hero'
erase it, change your password
he is a hacker
he isnt a spammer, so he probably wnt post bullitons, but he tends to screw things up every once in a while.
so if you every do get the spamming bulltions, just change your password and they will stop. tell your friends to change their password, and make sure you check the URL Address before typing anything in
good luck and i hope i helped!
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is there anything i can do or get so my eyeliner stays on all day without reapplying it constantly? btw no liquid eyeliner.
any tips?..
thanks in advance!
I used to have the same issue, that is until i started to sue waterproof eyeliner. Even if you are not going to be crying or swimming, it really stays on as long as you want!
the only trick is you need to get very black eyeliner instead of just regular black, because waterproof eyeliner tends to be lighter colored. I used the very black waterproof eyeliner and it looks great, and really lasts
have fun!
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what are some foods that are high in iron?
List of Grains Rich in Iron: Iron (mg.)
Brown rice, 1 cup cooked 0.8
Whole wheat bread, 1 slice 0.9
Wheat germ, 2 tablespoons 1.1
English Muffin, 1 plain 1.4
Oatmeal, 1 cup cooked 1.6
Total cereal, 1 ounce 18.0
Cream of Wheat, 1 cup 10.0
Pita, whole wheat, 1 slice/piece, 6 ½ inch 1.9
Spaghetti, enriched, 1 cup, cooked 2.0
Raisin bran cereal, 1 cup 6.3
List of Iron Rich Legumes, Seeds, and Soy:
Sunflower seeds, 1 ounce 1.4
Soy milk, 1 cup 1.4
Kidney beans, ½ cup canned 1.6
Chickpeas, ½ cup, canned 1.6
Tofu, firm, ½ cup 1.8
Soy burger, 1 average 1.8 to 3.9*
List of Vegetables Rich in Iron:
Broccoli, ½ cup, boiled 0.7
Green beans, ½ cup, boiled 0.8
Lima beans, baby, frozen, ½ cup, boiled 1.8
Beets, 1 cup 1.8
Peas, ½ cup frozen, boiled 1.3
Potato, fresh baked, cooked w/skin on 4.0
Vegetables, green leafy, ½ cup 2.0
Watermelon, 6 inch x ½ inch slice 3.0
A Sample List of Foods Rich in Iron:
Blackstrap Molasses, one tablespoon 3.0
Dates or Prunes, ½ cup 2.4
Beef, Pork, Lamb, three ounces 2.3 to 3.0
Liver (beef, chicken), three ounces 8.0 to 25.0
Clams, Oysters ¾ cup 3.0
Dark meat Turkey ¾ cup 2.6
Pizza, cheese or pepperoni, ½ of 10 inch pie 4.5 to 5.5
the numbers represent the amount of iron in the food listed
hope i helped!
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Are there any products that get rid of stretch marks?
cocoa butter && shea butter are well known to ease the effects of stretch marks. Cocoa stretch mark solution cna be found at Bath & Bodyworks and according to my mother, works like a charm after pregnancy.
Also, Tummy Honey is supposively the most popular, and most effective solution to stretch marks out there. Here is a website for Tummy Honey products...
http://www.mothersintuition.com/
im sure these will give you the results you are looking for in no time!
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might be long, please help.
16/f
In ocotber i started going out with a boy. I had liked him all summer and we got really close but it took him a while to ask me out. Wel went out a little over a month(i know not long) and broke up with me because he liked another girl and didnt think it was right. I was really sad cause we were relaly good together eveyone said so. Well we still stayed friend though it was werid at first i sucked it up because i didnt want to loose him all together. He was talking to me online the other day and somehow got into talking about when we were going out and all the times and that we were good together and was like well do ou ever think that we could be back together and i was like im not sure because as much as i want to because i do miss him and liked being with him he hurt me because of another girl and im afraid of it happening again. My friends tell me that he always talks about how he misses me and wishes he didnt do what he did. So i Dont know what to do i just want HONEST opinons. If he asked me back out shoud i do it or would it just be a bad idea.
so many people will tell you he is no good, don't let him hurt you again, but i disagree. He broke up with you because he was trying to do the right thing, he had feelings for another girl and he did not want to string you along. In the end, he cannot control his feelings but he did do his best to do what he thougth was best
guys are stupid, they make mistakes, everybody deserves a second chance.
it seems like he misses you like crazy, and you miss him. You two obviously have feelings for each other so take a chance. You can't see the rainbow without the storm, remember that.
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14/f
This girl in my class, is writing a book. Well.. let me show how I found out first.. lol. ok, one of my best friends, Hillary, sits next to this girl morgan in math. So, hillary saw these two pieces of paper, & they had my name & a bunch of other peoples names [everyone in my homeroom to be exact] & then next to our names was a different name, so my friend hillary asked her what that was.. & shes like.."Oh, i'm writing a story" & then later on that day, at lunch we were all talking at lunch.. & hillarys like.."Yeah, morgans making a story about all of us in homeroom" & then i was like.."thats kinda creepy? haha" so then I decided to ask her about it.. so I went over to her.. & I was like.."So, I hear your writing a story..whats it about..?" & she goes.."Its a murder story." & I was like...."ok?" & then I asked more about it.. & shes like "Yeah, its kinda like saw.. where everyone kills eachother, & each person, I'm gonna have them get killed differently" & then I was likee. all freaked out .. like wouldnt you think thats tottaly weird if someone is writing about how you die??
Well, it gets better. haha..now, she decided me hillary & this other girl.. are all gonna get tortured in the school basement, & then we die.
WOULD YOU BE CONCERNED?
& if soo.. what would you do?
Should I tell my mom? Shes good friends with the assitant principal.
btw. shes like a total goth.
& i don't have anything against her or anything for her to even do that to me! i actually am friends with this one boy whos super cool,but hes like emo. so its not like i'm ever even mean to her...
yes that is incredibly creepy! If she is fantasizing about how her classmates die there is something seriously mentally wrong with her. She should get help... and telling soembody wouldn't be a bad idea
it's kids like that that shoot up the school
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