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Hey!

I'm Jacky. =]

I used to have a pic of me up but now I don't because that one was really old but I'll be getting a new one soon.

I was born in Augsburg, Germany although I've lived in many other places because my dad was in the army and right now I am currently living in Rochester, Minnesota.

I hate the weather here.

I wish I could move back to Germany because I love it there. All my relatives live there.

I'm sane here because I have my friends and family.

I'm pretty optimistic most of the time unless someone gets on my really bad side and I try to be positive. It's hard sometimes.

I love to give people advice. I'm pretty good at that.

I play soccer and tennis. I'm pretty athletic and I love to dance. I used to be in precision. I also love to sing.

I'm pretty outgoing even around strangers but that's nothing new. Haha.

If you want to get to know me more just IM me on aim or something or if you need advice just ask anytime because I'm on daily.

Thanks lots!
Jacky.

advice

(Fourteen; Female)
I've been dealing with mild acne since age 11. I get blackheads on my nose and small pimples (not whiteheads, just bumps) all over my forhead and chin.

With the level of stress rising in school, I now get more and more pimples spreading to my cheeks, temples, neck, chest, arms, and back. Just a few here and there, but rapidly increasing.

Also, cystic pimples are popping up alot.

I've tried everything from Clean&Clear to AcneFree. ProActive is not choice right now due to money. A dermatolgist cannot happen either.

Does anyone have any sort of mirical worker?

Hmm well top thing you should do is wash your face morning and at night.

And when you get stresed try not to put all the pressure on you and do something you feel relaxed doing when you're stressed.

But I used this acne neutrogena stuff and it works very well. You should look in the section of neutrogena and I'm sure you'll see it.

It works great!
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I have a serious crash on this guy, and I think he likes me somehow, too. But I have bf, and he has gf.
We were both at this dinner, and nothing special (romantic) happened. We chatted and laughed with other friends there. Just like always. And end of night, we hug and said goodbye to each other.
When I got into my car, I got a text message from him. There's nothing special about what the msg said, just normal "good night" msg. But he never sent me txt msg before. And I just saw him 5 mins ago. Why did he send me the message?


That could mean anything. Maybe he could like you?

That's why you ask questions. You should just ask him if you're curious about it.

But normally if he just text messages you 'good night' and he's never done that before, it could be a sign but before you make any moves, I'd ask to be sure that he does like you.

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Okay
Im going to get straight to the point.
i REALLY like my best friend...we'll call him "joe"
he's nice, and down to earth, and funny...and
needless to say hes absolutly gorgeous.
so here's the problem..theres this other girl, we'll call her Beth.beth is one of those girls who is very concieted..and thinks everyone likes her. and she keeps pestering joe about going out with her...already. its been 2 days since joe and his ex broke up. he told me that he didnt see himself dating her..and didnt want to go out with her.

so now that i know Beth is out of the way-ish..i want to kind of make it a little bit more obvious that i like him in "that way". because i've liked him since the first day i met him(no lie) and all these other girls that are all of a sudden interested...werent interested at all untill he got thinner and changed his style...completely.

how can i go about winning him over more, and making him see that i would be just as good a girlfriend to him as i am a friend?

were both going to concert tomorrow with friends...any suggenstions would help tons!

thank you so much :DD

-15/f


Hah wow I've been through this before too. =]

Alright well if girls are chasing after him for right now you should just keep it on the dl for liking him.

If he likes you he'll chase after you instead of you after him because it a guy's work to come to you.

So just wait to see what happens. You can drop hints and stuff just don't ask him out or anything because you don't want yourself to look desperate.

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well i have an x called danny and he wont stop staring at me and i have know idea if i should get back with him but the thing is im with one of his bestfriends'jono'and jono at the moment doesnt like him but anyway should i get back with him or not?...he dumped me just cos i interupted him on his stupid game but he still likes me what do i do?

paige

Um..

If he dumped you because you interrupted his game, that's pretty pathetic. To tell you the truth..I don't think I would want him back. Haha.

But if you like him a lot and he stares at you he probably still has interest in you so you should ask him if he wants to get back together or something and see if it works out.

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i want a 6 pack its like a wicked goal whata re some excersizesss and how long will it be till ig et one if i do it consistently?

Haha um well I do those Billy Blanks DVD's and they work pretty good.

So try that out.

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iv been with my bf for about a month and we havent kissed yet. i really wanna kiss him but im too shy to make the first move. Is there any signs or something i could do to get him to kiss me?

Well try to tell him that that's what you wanna do, put your hand on his leg or sit on his lap and keep looking at his eyes.

Just do something, anything to get his attention.
I'm pretty sure he'll get what you're wanting to do.

Good luck.
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My ex and I went out for 9 months. I dont want the same old BS answer. YOU CANT MAKE ANYONE WANT YOU BACK! but i need a different answer. pretty much sabotage! Hes about to move on to a different girl and I need answers fast.
I need two things

1.)HOW TO GET HIM JEALOUS
2.)HOW TO GET HIM TO WANT ME BACK.

I will rate zeros to anyone who doesnt answer how to get someone jealous or want you back. Just for a warning

1st, getting someone jealous is not the way to go but if that's your philosophy then alright, but I know how you feel.

To get him to be jealous you have to get your own guy and act your life is perfect and dress slutty. Try to get his attention in any way possible.

2nd, If you want him back act like you don't want him back and everything is perfect with you and he'll probably start thinking about you and just wait to see what happens.

Good luck. =D
Jacky.

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I'm concerned about a couple of friends I have...I was wondering what age is appropriate to have sex...12?...14?...16?...18?...older?...they say they love the guy but come on...what's too young?

Well actually it doesn't matter about the age it just matters if you are ready emotially and physically and if you are actually in love with this person.

You should know if you're in love with them if you've been with them for awhile.

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ok this is kind of nasty i know, but i really need help. it burns when i urinate, and i went to the bathroom and it started bleeding and its not the time i usually have my period but i've only had it a few times so its kind of irregular. so i put a tampon in and this watery fluid with little whitish chunks or something came out and it was disgusting. i don't know what is wrong with me and i really dont want to talk to my mom or anyone about it. PLEASE HELP ME
f/14

Hmm well you could have a yeast infection. If that's true then you should get some vagisil or monastat to fix your problem.

But you should really tell your mom about it because it could help you out a lot and I've had this before to so I know what you're going through.

So ask your mom about it. =]

Jacky.

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15 f missouri
I like this guy, and he told me that he likes me too. His gf just broke up w/ him and he is still trying to get over it. He says that the only girls that he is really intrested is his ex and i. I totally understand that he is still trying to get over her and everything. He asked me to go out and eat w/ him and some other people, but he invited another girl. At first i didn't mind but i have never really liked the girl. I think he was making out w/ her on the way back home, and he told me sorry, not that he needed to cuz it isn't like we are going out or anything, but it still kinda hurt because of what he told me. His friends tell me that he dosn't like her, but then when i find out about this stuff it kinda confuses me. He flerts w/ me and holds my ands and stuff like that, but he has never really tried to kiss me. I was just wondering, does he like me, or should i move on. Most opinions are appriciated.

Alright..

This guy seems like he's a bit of a pimp. I see where this is going and I've been in a situation like this.

If you really wanna know what he's up to and your curious about it you should just ask him!

But for some reason I don't think it's good..He's probably thinking your a rebound or he's wanting some other girls to date to. It's happened to me before but my best advice is to just talk to him about it and tell him how you feel about it.

Jacky.

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16/f
so my friend asked this kid if he liked me and he said why do you care? and then she was like i just wanna know. and then he didnt say anything. and then she asked him again and he said SERIOUSLY why do you care? and she was like i just wanna know. and then she said im not gunna stop bothering you until you answer me so do you? and he said maybe maybe not.

do you think that means he does or he doesnt? even if he didnt say it but most likely.
thanks in advance =)

It could be.

Usually to me if a guy says maybe maybe not then that's a definete yes. They don't just say maybe maybe not..

That's so typical of guys. If they don't like you they say no straight up, unless he's a tease and let's hope he's not.

But I'm pretty sure he might like you.

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So I'm like really close friends with this guy named adrian. We just met this year and I've liked him and he knows I do. We tell each otehr a lot of things and talk about almost everything. Well he flirts with me a lot.. like hes always hugging me and we fell asleep on a couch together last night. But he doesnt like me even though he flirts with me..maybe thats how he is but hes not reallly like that to everyone. We used to talk on the phone every night but now theres a girl in the picture her name is Patty. She likes him and he likes her and supposably they arent dating yet but they are close. I'm soo jealous and hes always asking to use my phone to call her and shes called my phone looking for him the other night. Ugh it pisses me off and makes me soo jealous. I like him a lot and i've tried to get over him but its just too hard. I dont know what to do.. help pleaseE?

Well sounds to me that you are a rebound or he's just using you and that's not right.

If he's gonna be flirting with you and doing stuff with you then you should really tell him off because that's not right..

Unles he's thinking fwb's and I don't think you want that seeing as you like him more than a friend.

So just tell him how you feel and see how it goes.

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so i told my boyfriend I think we shoudl take abreak because he was being way to controlling and overpowering and he fraked out saying he was gonna drive his car into a tree and drove away..i found him and we talked and he keeps saying that if we broke up he would die..this relationship isn't good for me..how do i get out of it

Hmm well I know exacly what you're going through.

But all I can say is that if he's gonna act all immature or I wish I was dead and shit like that then he's not worth your time.

He's doing that to get your attention so you don't ever break up with him.

But just tell him you wanna take a break for now and if he really loves you I'm sure he will understand.

Good luck.
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okay so im 16/f and im a junior.
and i like this kid whos a freshman i know how awful is that? but i mean hes supposed to be a sophmore. so its not that bad. but yeah. and my friend said i should invite him to junior prom. and i know thats a long way away. but would it be kinda dorkish to bring a freshman to junior prom??

thanks in advance.
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Haha wow.

I've definetly been in a situation like this. But not really having to do with prom.

But if you really think you like him then you shouldn't care what other people think.

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