Well Yo Dogs... yea... i don't think i'm black i just always say that. Its liek my trademark. Ask me whatever... i'll give ya straight up answer or a sarcastic answer... depending on my mood. But i'm usually brutally honest especailly since i don't knwo you peopel and your feelings won't get hurt and i don't care what you think of me. And thats that
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This is the only way i can make this short .. me and my boyfriend have been dating for over 2 months now and our relationship was going well. Like not even a week ago i started to hang out with these guys that he doesn't like or trust .. i told him that i was hanging with them and he got really pissed and we started arguing. In our relationship i am completely honest with him because i don't want to hide something from him and have him find out later from someone else and him get madder than he would've if i had told him in the first place. Well i am starting to have these feelings for a guy i've been hanging out with and i told my boyfriend. He totally flipped out because now he thinks that i like this guy more than i like him - which is NOT true at all. I love my boyfriend with all my heart and i always will no matter what happens between us. I'm just wondering if i should tell my boyfriend that we need to take a break from our relationship so i can figure out if the feelings for the other guy are deep or if i should just forget about the other guy or what?! PLEASE HELP! =( (link)
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Well first of all... you obviously don't "love" your current boyfriend if you are having feelings for another guy. Also 2 months typically isn't enough time to say you love them with all your heart. I would say that if you are goign to believe that you love him then you should be willing to stop hanging out with these guys for the best interest of the relationship. If you care abotu your boyfriends feeligns then you would be able to sacrafice. Maybe try haning out in a larger group with them, rather than just them and you.
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I made the cheerleading squad this year and i love it.. but our coach said any girls that argued or talked about each other behind their baQs or caused drama were going to be kicked off the squad.. and there is a girl on the squad that is so mean to me.. she makes fun of me but says she is just pickin but it bothers me and she says rude stuff that makes me mad.. but i havent said anything to her about it because i'm afraid it will make her mad and start a fight but i'm rele tired of being treated like that... wut should i do?!? (link)
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At a teenage level i knwo it is hard to confront a person without sounding like a wimp or a baby. So if you don't feel comfortable confronting her, you will either have to A: Ignore her and move on or B: Explain politley to the coach that you don't like the behavior of your fellow squad member and would appreciate if it could be solved in a uncontroversial manner.
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i just found out that my love is diabetic. i have no idea what it means. can anyone please tell me what it means? does drinking alcohol make it worst? (link)
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My boyfriends fatehr just got diagnosed with Diabetese. There are two levels of Diabetes. ONe is more severe than the other. I don't know what type he has but typically they put them on a pill and they have to monitor their blood sugar and control their diet. Alcohol is sometimes permitted, depending on teh level, but in small amounts. If it is the severer type then patients with go to get insulin shots. Diabetes control has come a long way and is often not fatal if treated properly, meaning getting regular shots or staying on a steady diet. If ignored the worst case scenario is likley a stroke or possible death.
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Does anyone know where I can find some good writing classes? (link)
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check local libraries. They often run community programs. Otherwise check through your school... They could possibly point you in the right direction. And i don't knwo how old you are but if you are in HS... local colleges often offer classes to HS age kids and older. These are college level classes but if you are looking for something challenging this might be the way to go.
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i have to pick between two things i reslly love a dog or a laptop what should i choose? (link)
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A dog is a life long friend and doesn't get annoying viruses... but a laptop can be very useful. It comes down to whether you want a companion or convience
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What are some things to talk about with friends and stuff. I always have trouble starting conversation over AIM, and I really need help. Thanks (link)
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Ask them Whats up? how's there summer going? Ask them about their interests? Their job? Sports? Family? It doesn't need to be big deep coversations each and every time... and don't feel obligated to talk to them for hours.
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Okay, i need help, well I have a myspace and my boyfriend does too. and he comments on some of my friends myspace's saying that they have a nice ass, and look hot etc. but when i confronted him about this he said "i was only playin please, dont be mad at me i love you soo much ill cry if your mad at me. etc." and i forgave him .. but now i found another one of my friends on myspace and she is flashing the camera and he said. nice pic. then commented again and said take off the bra lol j/p.....but the thing is i dont think he was just kidding. i mean wow .. i didnt know he was like that before i started going out with him? i dont know.. but can you guys help? please? (link)
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Boys will be Boys... if you've confronted him once and he doesn't understand he has obvious disrespect for oyu. Try confronting him again and don't fall for his sensetive act. But be direct. The first time you confronted him did you tell him it made you uncomfortable to see him commenting on other girls liek that? You need to be straight forward and tell him exactly how you feel. If that doesn't work then i'd say lose him because a man that doesn't respect you doens't deserve you.
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My sister is fifteen years old, but she acts like she is at least 30. We are the same age, but I feel that im am so much more machore than she is. I try to poin her in the right direction but She doe's not seem to want to listen. My mother just stoped careing, she let's her go were ever and when ever she wants to leave. There have been roomors about my sister from everyone, But my mother refuses to listen to them dispite the way she acts and dresses. It would be great if I could get some help with her. I have run out of opptions, and am afrade of what might happen next.
P.S. She has already gotton pregnant. (link)
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Its not really your place to safeguard your sister unless its putting you in danger or any other peoepl in your family. Its your parents jobs and if you feel like they are doing a bad job talk to a counsler at school. But don't take it upon yourself to directly tell your sister what she shoudl be doing. Who wants to listen to a sibling about life lessons? especially when that sibling is the same age?
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Does anyone know of a web site like match.com or eharmony that is free. (link)
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no serious sites thats for sure. espinthebottle.com is kind of fun. its not really for find love though
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what are some things to do on the internet when your stuck inside and verry bored cuz of like a rainy day or something? (link)
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Personally i look at clothes or gadgets or use various sites for message boards and such.
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i am going to defer enrollment to College for one year in order to train for tennis and hopefully get a scholarship. Has anyone taken a year off after high school, and if so, do you have any suggestions as to how I could continue studying (community college, etc...) I have already been accepted to a University (Drexel) and also accepted for my deferral request. Also, if I want to apply to other universities can I still do so? Does deferring hurt my chances of acceptance? Thanks! (link)
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Lots of peopel do this. Some people defer fro amny many years, not just one. Your chances are fine. People get accepted into university's in their 30's
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My friend is trying to change the things i believe in. He's jewish and i'm christian. I'm scared i won't get into heaven if i believe anything he does. i really dont know what i'm doing or getting myself into. He's one of my closest friends but it's almost like he's threatening to not be my friend anymore if i dont believe what he does.
what do i do? (link)
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Explain to him that your religion is important to you as is his to him. If anyone trys to change your beliefs abotu anything, they obviously sdon't believe in it enough themselves and are just trying to get moer peopel to make them feel liek what they believe in is in fact true.
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I'm being blammed from my friend that i have been hacking onto her account on another site!well, i'm not!how do i convince her i would never do that to her? (link)
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Being that she's your friend... you should already have some trust with her. Explain that she shoudl trust you and that your friendship mean more than some internet account. If she doesn't get it then you obviously weren't that good of friends
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Last night I slept over one of my best friend Maries house and we were just talking and stuff, but then we didnt even ask we just started to do sexual stuff and saying dirty stuff, kind of, like half laughing it off. Im a girl. And so we fingered eachother and rubbed eachothers boobs. It felt really good. But, I wanted a guy to be there with us more than anything. Im confused. What was last night? Am I a lesbian? Or bi? Or straight ?? Im confused. And is last night normal for 14 year old girls to do? (link)
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i'd say its pretty normal. Girls are curious around that age. I went through the curiosty of whether i was bi/straight/lez... i think a lot of peopel do. Don't worry abouti it. I know a guy that went through it too. Hormones can mess you up in the head and make you do funny things liek experiment with some one of the same sex. You are probably just Bi-Curious and thats nothing to be ashamed of not matter what people tell you.
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hey, so me and this guy want to be kind of like friends with benefits and do stuff but not sex you know so if i gave him head would i have to use a condom? he has gotten head from 2 other girls and for both of them it was their first time and i have never given it before and yeah anyt tips? can he really have any stds? i hear guys dont like it with condoms so what should i do (link)
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Condom's aren't really nessecary unless he's be extremely sexually active with numerous partners. If he ins't lying to you about his past than you shoul dbe ok.
Its hard to give tips really about how to do it because every guy is different. Usually best to go with the h/j b/j combo, so you avoid chocking or teeth. Work the head and the upper shaft in your mouth and keep a firm grip on the lower shaft, stroking slightly. Communication is the key. Ask him if he likes it or if it feels good
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I have this ex-girlfriend, ok? And see what happened is she just broke up with the guy that she broke up with me for. And I'm kinda worried that she might try to go back out with me just because I'm their and I'm familiar. Plus we also were lightly flirting last time we were together, which was about a month ago so I think I'm safe. What should I do to let her know, without a doubt, that I won't get back with her now, but do it lightly so it's not really noticeable? (link)
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Stop flriting with her when you see her. It send the wrong message. And if she asks politley explain that you don't feel that way for her anymore. Its a sticky situation theres not real easy way to go about this. Just gotta be tough and do it.
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heyy i have mild acne and im allergic to alot of antiobitiotics so my doctor gave me this whole pamphlet on a pill called ACCUTANE, it supposed tot stop your oil glands or something, does anybody take it? how well does it work clearing up your acne? what side effects do you experience, because it is supposed to be very dangerous! any indo would be great - im undecided if i should take it or not! thanks =] (link)
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If your doctors recommending it i don't think theres much to worry about
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What are good hairstyles for people with bigger heads/foreheads? (link)
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I'd say soemthign with bangs just cause it would shorten teh forehead... but i have a normal sized forehead and i'm not a hairdresser. Talk to your hair person and they can recommend hair styles for numerous head shapes/sizes
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Has anyone tried, I think Jergen's makes that lotion that gives you some color just by using their lotion? Its not really a self-tanner since its supposed to moisturize the skin but also give you a glow after a week of use.
I was just wondering if anyone has tried it & if they have, did it work for you? I have very fair skin & I try anything to get some color. Thanks! (link)
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I was watching Regis and Kelly the other day and Kelly said it worked. I've never used it myself but she said it worked good. Might as well try it.
Whatever you do, stay away from tanning beds or sun batheing... you'd much rather have a weird spray on tan than get skin cancer
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dose any body no how many stamps to put on an envolope that is going from NY to florida?/?/
I rAtE hIgH!1!1 (link)
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You don't need any more stamps for state to state than you would if you were mailing your neighbor. Unless its like a package or it feels unusally heavy
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