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i am a christian, and i have a problem with sex, i want to do it, :-( when i think about it i cant get it out of my head. i dont know what to do. please help. (link)
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I am a Christian as well and I'm pretty sure you know that sex is a sin only when you do it not to produce. However, I'm not an uptight christian and I totally believe in living life to the fullest. If you're going to do, be careful.Do it for the right reasons and with someone you genuially care about. There's nothing wrong with having sex before marriage.
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Heyy! I am a 14 year old girl
I have a MAJOR problem... I have a boyfriend of almost 5 months and we are really happy! He was my first kiss...let alone that but we haev madeout and french kissed! which sounds like alot but when you see how happy we are you could see why we have done that! The only problem is our parents dont know and we dont plan to tell them any time soon...both of us arent supposed to have a gf/bf until we are 16 or 17.... we are seriously meant for each other and he says he loves me and i love him...i haev never felt this way!
WHAT SHOULD I DO! I dont know if we shoudl tell our parents or just wait to tell them...what would you do???? any advice would be helpful!
thx (link)
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I think you should be open and honest to your parents. Once you start lying to them, when it is ok for you to have a boyfriend(according to your parents)they're really not going to trust you. They will always go back to when you lied to us at 14. They should know that by now you are interested in boys and they are interested in you. You should take responsibility, go to your parents, and tell them that you have a wonderful relationship with this guy. He should do the same. You do it ALONE with your parents, and he does it alone as well. Also, do not tell them that you "love him." Parents never buy it until you're about 20 anyway. Don't rush into anything just yet...HAVE FUN!!
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