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Candace Rae- the topic of everyone's coversations. Keep my name in your dome & out of your mouth. :] My parents were blessed on March 31st, 1994. I'm 13 years young, but I stride to act mature but it's not usually easy. I'm a good time. I'm a learning wakeboarder and my longest record of staying on the board is 13 seconds. WOOHOO! My second home is the soccer field, no lie. If I'm listening to hip-hop/rap/r&b I'm usually happy. Try to take my music away from me & see what happens. I can't stand people who haven't listened to 2 minutes of my music & assume it's negative. I will speak my mind until I knock some sense into them. Anyways I live in New England so I'm at the beach A LOT. Don't be stupid and ask if I live in England because I will tell you to pay more attention in geography class. I'm the type of girl who'd wear Red Sox clothes to a Yankee Game. Now let's see you top that, biotch.

I have a problem with liars & ditchers. I also have a problem with people who diss soccer. Soccer is the national sport in every country except the United States. Yeah foo' I think that speaks for itself.

I love love love Dunkin Donuts. Yummy! Coconut iced coffee & Tropical Fruit Smoothies make my day. Speaking of things I love, Abercrombie and Fitch is definitely one of them. I have a Sidekick and I treat it like my baby. It comes with me everywhere and that's the way I like it. =)

Ima huge flirt & if I see a hot guy, I'll go up to them and say "I'd tap that, bang that, slap that." Haha I don't care. [:

I tend to cause a scene.... EVERYWHERE. =]

Ask me for advice, I promise I won't give you the answer you want to hear. I'll do my best to help you though.

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I would really like some pics of blake lewis' hair from American Idol. I love it and want mine done like it. So if I couild get pics of the front and back of his hair. Thanks

Cody*

PS Just e-mail the pics at

CodyCAHSband@yahoo.com


There's this thing called www.google.com
And it REALLY is a lifesaver.

Type in Blake Lewis on google image and
POOF! you have some pictures.

hard to believe right?

nah just kidding. but really, try google before asking these kinds of questions.

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I have a wart on two of my fingers. Does anyone have any home remedies they can share? Thanks.


The putting duck tape over it method doesn't work. I did it for a couple of months. I highly suggest you go to the doctor and he might be able to get some creams or medicine to make the warts go away. Or he might suggest you get it surgically removed which is a fast way for your warts to disappear. So make an appointment with a local doctor quick and they will tell you how to treat your warts. Don't waste your time with ducktape!

Happy momma's day!
-Candace

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14/f well just yesterday my bf dumped me..this is how it went. We were online and lately he hasnt been talking to me and seemed really quiet.i asked him if he still loved me. hes like ive cheated on you since last saturday.i was like but do u love me and hes like of course not i cheated on you, you stupid little ass bitch and just left..but there is more to the story..does anyone wanna give me advice. ill tell you the rest if someone kind enough is willing to give me advice.

heartbroken girl...
ps i have AIM if some one wants to chat on there.


Wow. Are you positive it's him? I mean it could be a sibling or friend hacking into his screen name. Just make sure your positive it was really him because this happened to me before and it ended up not even being my boyfriend so I started shit for nothing...

Anyways, if you're 100% certain it's him, then think about what he said to you. Do you deserve to be treated like that? NO! He has no respect for you so don't dwell on him. He's not worth your time and think about all of the other sweet guys in your school that you could have. Just don't think about him and to keep him off your mind have a sleepover with your friends or do a girls day out. Remove his screen name from your buddylist and delete his number off your phone so you're not tempted to talk to him when you feel a little weak. I'm here to help you with your pain so leave me a message if you want my AIM screen name so we can chat. =)

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how can you make them fade away? what can you use ? i have been useing alivera but does that really work?


Try putting cocoa butter on them and it really does work it helps them fade away. If for some reason, they don't fade away then talk to a doctor about how you could make them fade. But everyone that I know that's used cocoa butter has been successful so try that. :]

Have a nice day!

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If you stand on your side in the mirrow and look at your hips, they should curve out like )

But mine sucks in like (. What's wrong? It's really noticeable if I wear a skirt


Everyone's body is different and nothing is wrong with yours. Some people have no curves at all and some people's bodies are perfect. I guess it all depends on your genes and you can't do much about it. If you're 13, 14, or 15 you probably are still developing and when you get a little older your body will look like how you want it to. Until then, just live with what you have because you can't change how your body is shaped. Unless, if you want to have a huge stomach, than just eat a lot. Lol, just kidding. =)

Have a nice day!
-Candace

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I'm a 15 year old female..

i want some cool up-to-date hair styles..

i do the whole clip the bangs back..
and im not dying hair hair.
or cutting it.

i just want cool things to dow ith my longish..
curly hair


These will work with straight and/or curly hair.

-High ponytail
-Low ponytail to the side
-Messy bun
-Two big messy braids
-Scrunch your hair (my favorite)
-Ponytail with a lot of clips
-Only put the top of your hair up
-Clip the front of your hair up with a big clip
-Low pigtails (they actually look cute)
-Curl your hair
-Straighten it
-Curl your hair and straighten your bangs
-Any hairstyle with headbands!
-Wear your hair down parted to the side
-Wear your hair down parted in the middle

If you don't know how to do any of these hair styles just contact me and I'll give you instructions.

Have a nice day!
Xo, Candace.

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oka where should i start ok my friend is going out with this boy name chris and they been goin out for like 4 weeks. Anywayz one day she told me that she was on the chat room and met this boy and they statred talking and stuff. And so everyday she would go on just to talk to him and she told me she like him becasue he sweet and everything. But she already have a boyfriend and im just wondering is it wrong that she talking to a boy on the internet when she got a boyfriend. Oh and she said she might break up with him becasue of all this.


If she is just talking to the kid online as though he is a FRIEND, then no it's not cheating. If she's talking sexually to him like saying she wants to kiss him or "do" him than I guess to a point some people WOULD consider it cheating. If she goes out with this kid online AND her boyfriend, and is having two boyfriends at once, that is definitely cheating. Has she ever met this kid online? Because if they go on dates or have kissed and hugged, than yes it's cheating. If they just talk a lot but they aren't being sexual or going out then it's fine and I wouldn't worry about it.

If she's going to break up with her boyfriend for a kid online, then it's her choice. If she's never met this kid online than I suggest she doesn't get into a long distance relationship because it won't work out. But she shouldn't just break up with Chris just because she might "like" a kid online. She needs to decide who she likes more and choose from there.

I'm sorry I gave so many different answers from different points of views, but if you give more detail about this relationship I can help you better!

Have a nice day.
-Candace

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I 'm a 17 year old girl and my brother's wife tried to kill my brother while driving today. I wanted to know how many years can you get for attempt murder?

Aww, that's ridiculous. I feel really sorry for you and your brother and I hope your brother is okay. I'm almost positive that "attempted" murder is as bad as murder so your brother's wife could be sentenced a lifetime in jail and/or a fine. I'm pretty sure murder and attempt at murder is almost or just as bad. Or if it's not a lifetime in jail, it will be at least 20-30 years. Maybe more.

I'm sooo sorry for your brother and your whole family and that's extremely unacceptable for his WIFE to try to kill him. =/

-Candace

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For a LONG time, This guy likes me, and yesturday I just started liking him. He was talking to me and he's like flirting with me and stuff. I just cant stop thinking about this and him. He helped me with my homework, laughed, talked. But then I found out later that he was dating someone by one of my friends. My heart was crushed, and she's like OH YOUR JEALOUS. But really I didnt want to show it but I kind of am. I like him but then again I wonder why am I liking him? Hes not cute, but he has a great personality. The guy I like and the girl (who he is going to prom with) are going to prom today, and I cant go because I'm a sophmore and hes a junior. Which is even weirder is one of my other friends told me that the guy I like doesnt even want to go to prom with that girl. HE wants to go with me. But yea so proms tonight and Im wishing I can go. But I cant so any ideas how I should feel better about this?


Tough situation. Don't blame him for taking another girl to the prom because he's liked you for a "long" time and you haven't started liking him back until recently.. So it's not like he should be blamed for not waiting forever for you to like him (although you say he still likes you.) Maybe he wasn't sure if you liked him so he invited another girl to the prom to see your reaction and whether you would get jealous or not. Guys act weird sometimes. But don't ruin his night tonight by being like "I like you a lot" and making him feel guilty for taking another girl to the prom because everyone deserves a good prom night. It's too late for him to ask you to the prom anyways since he already has a date and it's the DAY of the prom, so wait a couple days before letting him know how you feel. If he still likes you, which you say he does, than he'll tell you that he likes you back. Don't wait a year to show your feelings because he can easily move on. Just enjoy the weekend and don't let this boy ruin your Saturday. Trust me, if he's liked you and waited around for you for a LONG time, than another couple of days won't hurt him.

If you need more advice, hit up the inbox.

-Candace =)

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Ok, well last weekend my band took a trip to san antonio and i hooked up with someone. i'm 14/f and a freshman and he's 17/m and a junior. On the bus ride home (about 5 hours) we sat together and shared a blanket, cuddled, held hands, leaned heads on each other, etc. And he did sit with another girl earlier on thr trip but he never acted like that with her. When it was dark I had my head in his lap and we started kissing and making out for the rest of the way home which was about 30ish minutes. It's been three days and he hasn't really taked to me much. He's in my first period class and lunch. He kind of talks to me during first period but only noticed me once in lunch. And after school I'll be standing in the hall and he walks right past me without even looking at me. I like him, but I don't know if he likes me because it's not really seeming that way right now. And I don't to be the naive little freshman who thinks there's a relationsihp there that's really not and follow him around and be annoying. Several of my friends have told me just to forget about him and find someone else, and believe me, I've tried, but for some reason I just can't. But does anyone think that he might like me? And if it doesn't seem that way how can I forget about him? Thanks!!


Well you see that's what happened when you hook up with Juniors that you don't even really know! His idea was probably just to bang you and leave you! You need to have some respect for yourself and don't hook up with every hot guy you meet. I'm not trying to be rude but you were just looking for trouble when you hooked up with him. If he walks right past you he's either shy or doesn't like you. He's obviously not shy because he got you to hook up with him. YOU need to go up to him and find out what's going on. Either start a conversation or ask him on a date. Or try texting or call him. You can't wait around trying to figure how he feels about you. Just find it out fast and either call, text or talk to him in person so you'll know. Just don't hook up with any more Juniors that you don't really know. Because this goes to show that boys will hook up with anyone even if they don't like that person. But I don't know him in person so I won't judge him but you know him so YOU have to decide, not me.

Have a nice day. =)

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My thighs are huge
and my stomach is flabby?

how can i change this?


60 or more minutes of exercise a day. (Running, sit ups, etc.)
Eat healthy! (Cut the junk food and more fruits & veggies)

Try that and you should be all set. =)

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How much is it at a local vet to declaw a kittens front paws roughly.


Yeah yeah I know its painful and I dont want opinions. Its not my choice because if it was they would have all their claws.


Hey.

My cousin got her cat declawed for $15 and the normal prices ranges from $10-$25 depending on where you go. Also to get it spayed and clawed it's about $120.

=)

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i heard that if you wash your hair in cold water in the shower it makes it straight, is this true?


Um no I've never heard that one but it's definitely not true! Cold water makes it nice and shiny if that's something you're looking for.. =)

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do you think it would be pretty or wierd? like if i get like one big layer. and the bottome layer like the hair underneath is a redhead color then the top is a dirty blonde?

Aww.

That would be soo cute! I`ve seen it maybe once before and it looked really good. Let the haters hate if they say they don't like it because they are prob. jealous. =)

Good luck!

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how do i get rid of the dark circles under my eyes?


Get a LOT of sleep and try not to get too stressed out because stress causes dark circles. Also, go to CVS and get some concealer or cover-up to cover it up. That's basically all I can say. =)

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is it possible to get pregnant having buttsex


No.

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Nake women dont trun me on but why do i want to trun on my friend who is a women that i like for years?


Maybe your bi? Or just bi-curious. Sometimes all it takes is one person to turn you bi. If naked women don't turn you on, maybe you just really care for your friend. YOU decided whether your bi. You're very blunt in your question so the best advice I can give you is to choose your own sexuality. =)

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What are some good websites that have MySpace layouts on them?

Other than createblog.

Thanks.


www.whateverlife.com

Yeah I won't give you any more and confuse you. That has layouts for EVERYONE and tons of them.

Have fun browsing =)

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so i know this guy through my brother, (i never met him, but i spoken to him online a couple of times) he gave me his number and i wnat to text him and be like we should hang out but i dont no how to say it...help please


Be like "heyy what are you doing saturday?" if he says he's free be like "umm wanna hang out?"

You have to be straight out like that. Beating around the bush isn't going to work.

=)

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what store can i buy liquid eyeliner at and can i have a picture of it i need a actuall store not website.


CVS/Brooks/Walmart/Walgreens - All of those stores carry TONS of different brands of liquid eyeliner. And they are all for a reasonable price. Don't think "oh those stores are so cheap" because they sell the same makeup as regular makeup stores. =)

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