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is it normal for a girls breasts to be uneven? im a 14/f and like my left is alot bigger than the other one like practically a half a size or a full size. and its annoying . is it going to change?


sorry if this is in the wrong category (link)
that is normal because that means your boobs haven't fully grown yet so they will end up being close to the same size but think of it this way noones boobs are perfect


okay, ive been thinking about what i am...straight, bi, lesbian. and i dont know.like i think i am bi but im not sure. i found out the other day that my ex is bi and that made me think alot about myself. like if i did anything wrong or something. but i dont know. i think i am bi. but i dont want to be, cuz if i am, then my friends and family would hate me. im only 13 an usually when kids are younge and say the arent straight, people usually dont take them seriously and say "oh your straight, your just saying that to get attention" well im not trying to get attention. im just confused. (link)
well if your bi your bi but im sure you can help yourself by going to a gay rehab


I am 15 and I will be turning 16 in October. Should I be worried that I haven't had one sign of a period yet? (link)
well if you don't start when you turn 16 then go to a genataligist basically go see a doctor


my boyfriend is wants to have sex, and, im cosidering it. im 15, am i old enuff? i know about being safe and all, and i dont need to be lecture about how its not right cause the bible says its rong, im not religiouse. i just dont know if im old enuff to be having sex. (link)
there isn't a certain age that you can or can't ahve sex because you have sex when yu feel yoiu are ready if youf eel ready then go ahead


How can I bring up wanting birth control to my mom? I dont think she ever had sex until she was married..and she was brought up in a strict christian home (no sex until marriage) but i dont find a reason wrong with sex before marriage. I am 16/f and ive been going out with my boyfriend for a little more than a year now. I love him and he loves me and we are sexually active (condom every time). I cant let her know I am sexually active because i dont think she would understand. Should i start pretending to complain about cramps so she will get hints or whaT????????? (link)
ok what you should do is tell your mom your period is weird and then tell her you looked up on the internet what you should do about weird periods and tell her that it said it would help your period if you got on birth control it really dose to so good luck

jessica


me and my bf had sex for the first time the other night. it was great... but.... when he finished he pulled out and i dont know if the condom was too small or what. but "it" got all over... we were so scared. i wont get my period until the end of the month. do you think there can be a bad outcome. ps. i cant go to a gynocologist cuz my mom thinks im a virgin. well sorta. i was raped. adn she knows that. but not about this. what can i do. and is there a chance of anything bad happenign. please help. ill rate hella high. (link)
ok listen there is a chance you could be pregnate

but there is the day after pill

and you can be a virgin and go to a gynocologist


I hope I helped

Jessica


Ok, I'm about to have sex for the first time. I've been waiting for ages and I am prepared now. My boyfriend has had sex before a few times so I need a little help on stuff:
a. Is there going to be a lot of blood?
b. Is it going to hurt? (My friend told me it hurt like a mother- through the whole thing on her first time)
c. Is there anything I should know? I know I'm not going to be that great but I don't want to look stupid.
d. What should I do once it's over? (link)
well if you are ready you should know but i think you are just nervious so just try to think about somthing other then the pain and sometimes there is blood not all the time

I hope I helped

Jessica


okay for a while (long while actually) ive had this white sticky, weird stuff in my underwear... its been about a year or so maybe less... and i havnt had my period yet... idk what to do? and what is it?? ill rate 5! (link)
the white stuff is called discharge and just like go out or ask your mom to go out and buy you some pantieliner and that will help k


I hope I helped

Jessica


Ok, for about 2 months now I got white stuff in my underwear, and always feel wet. I think its discarge. I haven't had a period yet but I don't know when its comming. Should i tell my mom or just leave it be? (link)
tell your mom aobut it so she can get you some pantieliner k


I hope I helped

Jessica


ok the thought of a guys thing going into your thing kinda gets me freaked out cause it sounds like it hurts and is painful i mean really.. so what does it really feel like.. does it hurt? (link)
The first time doesn't hurt it jsut isn't that comfortable the first time
just if you wear a tmapon then it shouldn't be that uncomfortable for you because your hymen has already been strechted or broken


I hope I helped

Jessica


so im 15, and i've been wearing tampons for quite a while now, and well ive never done this, but ive always wondered if you can pee while the tampon is still in you? because when i try to, it feels like its being pressured out, so i just take it out while i pee and just put a new tampon in.. (link)
yes you can pee with a tampon in you


I hope I helped

Jessica


i know it's not necessarily sex, but i didn't know what to put it under.
well, when i try to put on tampons, i get it in a little, but it doesn't go in anymore..
and also, when they teach you how to put tampons in (or, the pictures), it shows the plastic applicator going into the vagina. but i see the plastic part in the garbage can all the time (because my mom) and it's never covered in blood.. i don't know. i'm confused. people have showed me sites to help me, but it doesn't really necessarily help. (link)
ok what you do is you have a tampon and insid of the applicater is a cotton type thing and what you do is you take the applicater stick it into your vagina only like tell the grip or until you think it is in far enough and then you just pull the applicater out and the cotton is in you and a string should be hanging out and then after a few hours when you change it pull the cotton out by the string and then do over

I hope I helped

Jessica


ok so the other day i put on a pad from my moms package of em (they were light flow ones) just to see what a pad would feel like when i finally got my period. well omg it was like wearing a diaper, it was huge on my underwear and i couldnt even like move in my pants lol cause it itched and was so big.. why is this what am i going to do when the time comes for a pad! (link)
wear a tampon instead

I hope I helped

Jessica


OK sorry if this is long
My friend is 13 and she is very nice, an A student and is always pretty good, well she went to new Jersey during Thanks Giving and she met a really hot guy there named ****. and well 2 days after she met him they went to a party and she had sex with him. She only did it 4 like 5 minutes then she chickened out and left. he is 14 and she hasnt started her period yet so she cant get pregnant but she feels so bad because it was her 1st time and she wanted to save herself for someone special. Last night we were at my friends party and we were all playing Secrets, and she told us she wasnt a virgin anymore but i am the ONLY one who really knows she isnt because everyone else thought she was joking. and last night we didnt get to sleep til 3 and i woke up to her crying at 4 and we talked for like 2 hours and she said she wished she didnt do that and that if her parents found out, they would literally kill her and that she was really scared because she thinks her cousin might have found out that she did it because she was at the party and everything and she doesnt know what to do and I am really worried about her because she is really good and that she might get into a lot of trouble because of it and I am really worried for her and she said she couldnt stop thinking about him (the guy) and I dont know what to tell her!!!!!! I am afraid she will hurt herself because she said she used to cut!!!!!


Please help me i will rate 5s THANKS!!! (link)
Tell her that everything is all right and that mabey youi could find out his phone number or an e-mail address of his try everything you can to help her and if she ever needed a friend this would be the time k well

I hope I helped

sorry for your friend

Jessica


Hello
i really need an answer by wednesday night becuase i am very scared. im 15/F and i am going to the gyno for the first time and i am not a virgin anymore and i was just owndering if when they ask do i have to tell them and if i tell them will they tell my mom or can i ask the doctor to not tell my mom. or can i jsut say i use tampons? im reaslly scared becuase i do not want my mom to know! PLease help me..i rate high!
thanks (link)
Ok I think what you should do is tell your doctor that you have had sex before but you don't want your mom to know and that you will tell your mom when you are ready k
don't use the tampon excuse that will not work


I hope I helped

Jessica


Ok this is weird but when ur "cherry pops" what does that mean and wat happens? I'm sorry if this isnt aloud. (link)
when your cherry pops okl lets start with this your cherry can pop while you are doing almost anything like running but mostly it pops when you ahve sex and what happens when you cherry pops you bleed it is like a period but different it hink your cherry can only pop once

I hope I helped

Jessica


well my friend i think lied about being pregnant and after a while to get her way out of it she said she lost the baby which i think is an awful lie. but if you do lose your baby when your say 3 to 5 months pregnant do they like have to take it out of you? or does it just like go away? i feel like an idiot :/ ill rate any answer (link)
yes i think if you go through like 3 or 5 months with a baby they got to take it out if you miscarrie it

I hope I Helped

Jessica


well i'll have my period for about 5 days and then it will wind down and then when its completely stopped i will masterbate ( i will not still any thing "up there") put ill like press against my bed and then about a 1/2 hour later when i go to the bathroom there is blood everywere so i put a tampon in and when i took it out i got a REALLY heavy period , like extremely heavy and i don't know why it starts back up is it like from the pressure like i'm pushing down with when i masterbate? ill rate any answer PLEASE HELP QUICK ! (link)
No it is not the masturbating because that happens to me and i don't masturbate

I hope I helped

Jessica


Im really really scared about getting my perdiod i have no idea when its comming like no idea. Im scared one of my friends will find out or i will be the last one. My crush is in like all my classes. And the nurse had pads and tampons and stuff but Im scared when im gon aget it (link)
it will be ok don't worrie about it ok you will be fine it will be scary and a period is part of life so if you do have an accident then just say hey guys it is just part of life and when it happens to you then you wouldn't be laughing
well i don't know what grade you r in so i don't know i am 14 and i have ahd my period for a year and i started in class

you could help by wearing pantiliners ask you parents about them k

I hope I helped

Jessica


ok im a virgon(well, not any more) and so was she (um.. well not any more) just say there was alot of blood involved. anyone knows why??!!

(and it wasnt from me....) probably seems dumb, i just wanna know why, i know a little about it, but hlp plz (link)
You popped her cherry k

I hope I helped

Jessica

lol jk




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