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I have these two best friends in school. I've known them like 9-10 years now. Basically they're like sisters. One's 15 going on 16, the other's 14 going on 15 and I'm 14. Well let's see since last week they have been being biotches to me...well the one going on 16 is. The other one is pretty nice to me.

The same one who's being mean to me hasn't been like this to me ever. Plus we might be going to diff classes or schools nex term...in 3 mnths and well we have 2 weeks together again. Is this why she's being mean? And I realy don't want to confront her cause last time she reallly got annoyed and everyone in class messed up my year. (link)
Yes i think that is why mayb she is sad that you are going and does not want 2 cry because she is embarresd.


My friend broke up with her bf just a few hours ago. She wanted him to be in tears, but he was happy. So she got revenge on him, and asked out this guy she knew would say yes! I felt horrible for the ex bf. I really want to call her new bf and tell him to break up with her, but I know that the new bf will tell her what I said and she'll get in a fight with me. I really don't want to fight with her because i'm the type of person who goes crazy when somebody is mad at me! Please tell me what I should do!


Thanks (link)
I would talk with your friend.


are triscuits good for you? they seem to be low in fat and sodium and have a lot of good things like calcium (link)
Yes they are.


Here's the backstory....Me and my husband's birthday's are 1 day apart. (July 3rd & 4th) We've only been married for 3 months...{He'll be turning 22 and I'll be turning 24} ok so here's my "prob" I want us to do something really cool for our birthdays but I cant think of anything. I know for a fact I dont want to do anything at home! Anyone have any idea's? Would like to spend no more than $100.00 for the 2 days. Thanks I'll rate ya bunches and drop ya some feedback!!~ (link)
I would definitly go out on a cruise for vacation it is romantic but still fun and you will not be 2 home.


i have horrible sunburn. i tried aloe, dermoplast, & noxima. i have basketball in a few hours & i can barely lift my arms up. i slept basically nothing & i don't know what to do. i took two showers & i tried ice & everythingggg. if my shirt even touches it, it's really painful so i'm not quite sure how i'm even going to run. does anyone have any other ideas??

thanks!! (link)
I would definitly go to the doctors and have them check it out and make sure it is not sun poisn because that can cause skin cancer and for baskettball i would not go there will be other practices would you rather die w/ the pain or not go to baskettball?.


13/f

i really like this guy everyone says i should tell him that i like him alot but how do you tell a guy you like him for some reason its hard for me to just come out and tell a guy i like him i really do want to tell him i just dont know how help! (link)
your friends are right tell him send him a note before class or build up your corage w/ ur friends suport because if you dont you will never now whats the worst he can say is no.


hii guys. my boyfriends birthday coming up, and im just wondering what i should get him. Its kind of the first time ive had to buy for a guy.

help? (link)
It defintely depends on how long you have been dating but f it has been a short time i would not go w/ something mushy because guys dnt like that if you havent known then that long. Try and find out what he is into dont go for something to expensive if you only dated for a short amount of time.


I had asked a question almost a week ago about my boyfriend dumping me out of the blue. Well, I find out today that he and one of my GOOD friends had sex.


Now, this is for anyone to answer. She thinks there is nothing wrong with it because we broke up. Tell me how FUCKED up it is that she would do that when she KNOWS I'm not over him and we broke up not even a week ago.


Right when I was just starting to be okay with us breaking up... This happens.
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she is not a friend ex bf are off limits to friends it is not right i would definitly talk to her and if she says the same thing i would not be her friend that is not right!.


help!! it is summertime and i have NO life! the 1st semester of school last year well i moved there then got in trouble, had to come back home, and homeschooled for the last semester. i had lost touch w/ mostly everyone around my area, and the ppl i still do talk to/hang out with have their own lives! i'm pretty good at making freinds and ppl always tell me they love to hang out with me, but where do i go to make new friends?? i've tried various things/activities and it seems like i'm just SOL b/c of age ranges being completely different and stuff like that. my mom is to lazy to take me anywhere ever and my dad (who has told me approx. 5 different times i can get my license, but has made no motion to set this into act- he says he's the one who needs to take care of it.) is never home! how can i make friends? how can i keep from losing my mind!? (link)
Get a job or hang out at a club because you will meet alot of people and even become friends and about your dad i think you should talk to him.


So I like this guy named Ryan and he likes me too so he says. But hes like in love with this girl named Karly and so he doesnt really want to like me too much casue of her or anything so what do i do. Help Please~! (link)
I would not chase after him because guys hate that i would tell him you have to decide between her or me cuz i am not gonna wait around for you forever.


I've been dating my bf for almost 2 years. We get in fights easily. He has this thing where he is very immature and when people get mad, he still does it, acting like a 6 year old. I get tired of him quickly, but I know part of it is because I've been dating him for so long. I don't know what to do, because I love him to death. I don't know if I should keep dating him, and keep arguing.. or try someone else. What seems right here? (link)
I would see other people because it seems to me that this is not gonna work out much longer because you have dated him so long you will get tired of him and mayb he is tired of u to that could b y he is acting like a 6 year old because mayb he wants you to break up w/ him so he dnt hurt your feelings and you wont hurt his.


Ok, I met this girl at a friends party a while ago, she seemed nice. A few days ago he had another party and I talked to the girl again, and we are now friends on myspace. Here is where the question comes in. She is hitting on me, and telling me we should hang out. I am not sure of how I feel about her, so I was wondering what a safe way to hang out with her would be so I can avoid the question until I get to know her a little better. (link)
Tell her you would like to get to know her better before you realy get the time to meet her and stuff because you dont knw that much about her and she could not be safe.


Theres this boy Jordan, he`s in the grade above mine. We both liked each other before, and he kissed me. It was so sloppy and gross, he just became completley repulsive, and we got into fights over stupid things. Now we both like each other again, or atleast I thought I did. So I`ve totally lead him on, but now I just don`t feel like I like him very much again, he`s not exactly attractive, he`s really sensitive, and ugh he`s lame. I want somebody exciting, and cute ;] I went out today and saw a bunch of hotties and the whole time I was like " ugh, and all I`ve got is Jordan " So what should I say to him, were not going out, but were flirting like crazy, and I want that to end, please help! (link)
Try telling him that you dont like him as much as you did and that you cant help flirting w/ him because its just how you are and that you would like to b friends so you can talk 2 him and not send him the wrong message.


I really want to get a kitten, but my mom keeps saying no. My dad says its fine, as long as my mom says yes. The kitten is free, but it still needs shots and stuff. My dad would take care of the fees, but my mom still says no. How do I convince my mom that a kitten is in fact a good idea? What should I say to her to make her say yes? (link)
I dont think your mom thinks you are responsible yet but what you could do to prove to her that you are responsible is mayb earn money for the shots and stuffand then she will think that you are responsible enough 4 1.


Ok, I know this is another stupid boy question but I really want to know. I have a guyfriend that I know from school that's on myspace. I really like him. He's really hot and single. Should I tell him I like him? And if I do, I'd like to do it in a way that wouldn't ruin our friendship. Seriously, I can't stop thinking about the dude. He is so FINE!!!
Please help! I really need the advice. During the school year we did flirt a lot, but I don't know what to do. (link)
Dear Friendboy to Boyfriend,
I would tell him cuz if you never do you would never know if he liked you back and then you would hate yourself for that.


My dad said I could get my nose pierced; instead of my belly button.
-How much does it cost?
-What does it feel like?
-Addition Information,.
Thank you. (link)
To peirce your bellybutton it cost about $50 and all they do is take a clamp put ice on it and then take the needle and stick it threw your nose and it only feels like a little pince you cant feel it at all.


So i've been talking to this guy named Greg for about 5 days or so and i think i'm starting to like him. And he likes this other girl because he talked to me about it because he needed someone to talk to and he keeps asking me if he should move on or wait and stuff like that. I dont know what to do because were just friends and i like him and i dont know if i should keep it a secret or tell him... (link)
I would tell him because he might like you too and if you dont you could walk away not knowing if he liked you back and if you could hav dated.


I'm really nervous that this weekend at the beach I will get my period. My mom hasn't got me tampons yet cause I haven't even had my period for half a year. I can't go in the ocean and stuff though. And I am really scared I will get it over the fourth of July at the beach when MY WHOLE FAMILY is there. I want to perticipate in stuff and not worry about my period. What can I do? (link)
I would keep askin your mom to get them tell her how you feel and mayb she will buy them.


hey im 15/f and about 130 pounds. I want to lose a few pounds so i can look good in a bikini. I want to lose my leg "fat" and i want a flat tummy. See I cant get "dedicated" it doesn't usually last. No matter what i do i cant seem to lose weight diet or no diet.. i cant lose weight or gain it and i want to lose it. I want to lose 10 pounds. Any Suggestions, or tips to get dedicated? What foods to stay away from? Thanks!! I'll rate 5s! (link)
I would try all types of excersize which you can find on the internet and i would also watch out for carbs and fat and cut down on the sugar and by the time you go to the beach you will look great.


If the clothes from abercrombie are so...thin....why do they cost so much?
And I don't want this to sound mean, but why do so many people buy their clothes there, just for them to shrink in the laundry? (link)
Yes i knw how you feel i dnt go to abercrombie becasue they are thin and they cost too much.




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