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is she wrong?
My friend broke up with her bf just a few hours ago. She wanted him to be in tears, but he was happy. So she got revenge on him, and asked out this guy she knew would say yes! I felt horrible for the ex bf. I really want to call her new bf and tell him to break up with her, but I know that the new bf will tell her what I said and she'll get in a fight with me. I really don't want to fight with her because i'm the type of person who goes crazy when somebody is mad at me! Please tell me what I should do!
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You should not feel sorry for the ex boyfriend because he was happy in the first place. Just simply talk to your friend about the situation. Don't go making her desicions for her! Hope i helped <3
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Your friend’s ex-boyfriend is happy she is gone.
She is a vicious idiot who needs her ex-boyfriend to feel crappy in order to feel good about herself.
So her ex-boyfriend is probably right to be happy the relationship is over. Her going out with some other guy isn't going to change the fact she is no good, if anything it will make him feel even more sure of the break-up.
Your friend is a moron who has gotten herself into another drama filled relationship in less then day. She will reap what she sows.
I don't know why you'd be worried so much about her feelings; she obviously has very little regard for anyone else's. But if you really don't want her to be angry with you, then just keep your mouth shut.
But don't you dare forget that your 'friend' likes play with people’s feelings. Sooner or later, she will try to play with yours and if you really can’t deal with people being mad at you, even when those people are being stupid and cruel, then she will walk all over you just like she is doing to these guys.
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Honestly, you should let it go. My friends make some horrible boy-related choices, but I try not to let it bother me. She is going to do whatever she wants, and it's best to just stay out of it. It's likely that this new relationship will not last very long, so you don't have to worry about this boy getting forced into a marriage with her. And don't feel sorry for the old boyfriend if he was happy about it. Making him happy is not your responsibility, and if he is upset, he'll get over it. You don't have to fight, just accept her and let it go.
-Lea
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Yeah at most, talk to your friend about it. Tell her that what she did (if you think so that is) is wrong. Why? Well going to the guy would involve you in the whole mess. Ever heard of the game 'kill the messanger'? Either way, by you telling the guy somebody will get hurt. So you shouldn't try to break things up between them - if it is going to go downhill then let it do so on its own. Yes, I know - you want to help and you feel bad... but taking a matter like that into your own hands makes it seem like you are intruding, and not too many people like that. Hope that helped and good luck.
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Leave it alone.
It's not your place.
You will start some majorrr D-r-a-m-a
Your friend will learn on her own time, that you have to be nice to everyone, or else karma will just comes back and hit her in the face.
Just leave it alone, definatley don't say anything.
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Yours Dearly,
LoveSucks[[♥]]
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hi its britt, Yes she is wrong to do it so is her old boyfriend maybe you should talk to them at the same time like a confrence call and work this all out u want the best for her right?
good luck -britt
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OOoooh Gosh
DO NOT say anything to the boyfriend.
Believe me, way too much more drama than you ant in your life. Let the guy figure out for himself that his girlfriend is using him. And you don't know, maybe your friend might actually kinda like the guy (or will grow to.) I guess you should talk to your friend though and tell her you think what she's doing isn't very...nice. Let me know how it goes-
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I would talk with your friend.
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