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Ok there's a guy I like and it's summer already meaning schools out. We both go to the same school.
So we both like each other. There's one problem: When he's online and his best friend jamie(a girl) is on, he doesn't IM me or anything.
Then when she isn't on, he IM's me as SOON as I get online.
Why do you think he doesnt IM me when his best friend is on?
Thanks.
he probably talks to her
and doesnt see that you signed on
they probably just talk about games and stuff
its nothing to worry about
he likes her as a freind
My boyfriend and i have been dating for 5 wonderful months. he is the best, and i cant even describe him. though the other day, he talked to me about engagement, which i am quite excited for. though me and him would have to keep it on the downlow for i am going to be 16 and he will be 18. he isnt going to ask for awhile yet(falltime or beyond that time, hes thinking), he just brought it up because he wanted to see how i felt about it. i actually feel wonderful about it and i feel very ready. i love this man with all my heart and have never felt this way about someone before. i dont have much of a family, but him and his family makes up for it. im not reallt needing advice, cause i know id say yes in a heartbeat, but am i crazy for being excited at 16 y/o and i know it will be easy to hide from my parents because i hide everything from them, but is this a ridculous decision?!? thanks alot
thats so cute!
Aw
im happy for you too
its not rediculous at all
it just means your really in love with him!
that is seriously so cute
i wish i could find the love of my life..
but NOO.
i have to stick with getting old men.
lol ok i will stop
i hope you too will be happy together!
what are some good products for getting rid of acne quickly can be wash cream toner ive got a trip in a few days and want to get rid of these pimples on my forehead before i go
clean and clear ADVANTAGE acne spot treatment salicylic acid acne medication.
you put it on before you go to sleep and leave it on all night and wash or off in the morning.
or you can even leave it on all day and put makeup over it.
there is also
clearisel ultra acne wash
it clears your skin up in 3 days
GARANTEED.
you can get these at
fred myers
walgreens
target
etc.
Well I've known this girl for about a year now and we're really good friends, but I'm starting to like her more than a friend (if you know what I mean.) The only problem is I don't know if I should ask her out or not. If I do and she says "yes", then great, but if she said "no", that would just be really awkward and it would be wierd every time I see her again. So...what should I do?
aww!
cute!
lol
ok
tell her how you really feel about her she might feel the same way she could be hiding it just like you trust me my freind likes this one guy who she has known for about 4 years now and she hasnt told him but she obsesses over him ALL THE TIME
so i would tell her how you really feel or just start out saying
i need to tell you something.
i like you
so then if she doesnt feel the same way you can always be like
well i meant as a freind
or something like that
or i would do something romantic
like
cooking her dinner.
renting her favorite movie.
etc..
then she might confess her love for you.
this is so cute
well
goodluck!
Sometimes I get really lonely for no reason. I'm always around family and friends but I feel really lonely. I just feel down and depressed. I don't know why I feel so lonely and abandoned. Does anyone know what's wrong with me?
aww.its ok.
depression.
your not alone..
i would talk to your mom or dad..
like do something with them
like cooking or something?
lol boring i know.
or you can go shopping with freinds.
i know im not great at advice giving
but trust me
you will be ok
in two years you can move out or move in with a freind.
Hi, heres my love story... Theres this girl I really like but I just can't seem to make the first move. I don't have any friends and would like to get to know her alot. I just don't know when to approach her or what to say. The only time I see her is on the school bus. Of coarse theres loads of her friends and people on the bus. What good advice can you give me. I would like it from both girls and boys, but mainly girls. Thanks.
lol aww.
just go up and say hi in a kinda sweet way then say im (what ever your name is)and be like whats your name?
or
just make eyecontact with her and smile at her NOT TOO BIG but just a little then look away so she doesnt think your like staring at her.
lol aww
ok goodluck!
that is the cutest question ever.
These is for all you girls :) How would you like to be aproched to,loke if a guy wants to hit on you on the street what would youlike him to say?
your hot lets hangout.
hi whats your name.
hey do you want to go out to lunch.
come over NOW.
This sounds kind of cliche, but I don't have any friends. I have acquatences (sp?) at school and really only one friend who goes to another school and she is going to another country in the summer. Its not that I'm unable to make friends. Most people that I meet like me and I like them, I'm quite friendly. I just never seem to become close with any of them. I used to be with a group of friends, but we're not in touch anymore. I don't want to be alone all summer, I was wondering of anyone could tell me where to meet new people that I could become friends with and stay in touch with. Any help along the lines of getting friends and keeping them would be very much appreciated. I'll rate high.
i have the same thing.
i go out shopping.
and pick up hot skater boys.
i know its sounds hard to do by yourself.
but its accually pretty easy.
just go somewhere like the mall or something and do it.
or you can go to a skating rink
youth group
church
and all that stuff
hi i want to know how to ask my mom how to shave can you please help me sk her i will rate high!!!!!
say
mom
i think since im (what ever age you are) i need to start shaving..
then say how do i shave?
ok, so my bf and i will just be talking and what not and he is lying on the couch and i just want to say to him" oh my god you are so effing hot i have every reason on earth to jump on top of you and furiously make out." But that would be wierd.... so how can i get to that place where i can actually do that. how can i "seduce him" into making out with me without sounding desperate?
PLEASE I NEED GUYS FOR THIS TOO!
just be like.
your fucking hot.
im going to rape you.
lol..
thats what i do.
When blocking someone on myspace, what actually happens? Will the user be sent a message saying so? Im not too sure on what it means. Would it mean that if they went to anothers myspace, and you were within the comments, they wouldnt be able to see you or something? Please explain : ]
It means you basicly remove them from your freinds.
how do you change your password on aim triton? thankss
sign on
go to the top
(file)
then go to aol
and it says change password
I'm 15/f. I have selective mutism. So it's an anxiety disorder. I've had it since I was little.
And I haven't talked in school for like 9 years. I tried talking this year but the whole "heart beating, my voice cracking, my voice sounding different" didn't help. For some reason I feel like that but half of the time.. I really want to say something but I can't because then I remember "I dont talk to these people". I get weird reactions from people. "OMG, YOU TALKED!" and they scream and stuff...
So do you think there's some sort of medication for me? I really want to start talking. But my anxiety is holding me back. I have the whole summer to deal with this. Because I feel like I'm wasting my life away and I'm having no fun.. and I really want a job too... Help?
i have the same thing.
i take A.D.D pills
they help
and they get you hiper and in the talking mood.
like i never talked to anyone before in school
i was just like you
then a week later i had a party and ran around naked.
lol.
my friend jim is really upset. its because his dad has lung cancer and it doesnt look too good. also his brother got hit by a car today and his leg is definitly demolished. and he saw his brother totally covered in blood and everything. some of the things he says put me in such a terrible position too. he literally says he wants to die. and i dont even know how to react.
can someone help me figure out what to say to my best friend? thank you
aww.
tell him you will always be there for him no matter what.
and if he died he would be doing something painful not just to himself. but to you too.
and get him into counceling.
hey everyone! this may sound gross but im 13/f and my arm hairs are like very dark brown and almost black. its not like its a little hair, its a ton! it looks gross and its very dark. i do not want to take on waxing/shaving or any type of hair removal. i just was wondeirng if i bleached it blonde would yu still be able to see teh large amount of hair? also it is worth my time? what are the pros and cons of it? this question is especially directed to this who have experience wiht this type of thing. cait♥
just use nair or something.
you dont want to look like a man....
What are some brands of mascara that make eyelashes REALLY long? I have an okay mascara by Clinique, but it gets kind of gloppy. So could you write if you have any preferable types that fit the description?
maybelline new york
intense XXL
vloume-length microfiber mascara
half is white and half is black
i curl my eyelashes then put on white
then wait for them to dry and curl them again
and do the black part
Okay lately I've been feeling extremely depressed. Here's what's been going on...
Ive just finished 9th grade and it's now summer. Well, half way through my 9th grade year after being in a private prep school (one of the top in the nation) my parents pulled me out because I felt like I didn't have any friends. So they pulled me out and put me into a magnet public school with the IB program, and I've made like only one friend here too. So now that I am realizing that the problem is more about a change from me than a change of a school, I feel really stupid about making my parents change my school as I honestly do not feel much happier here, and I wish they knew what was best for me and just made me stay at the private school. Question is...what do I do for next year. Stay in the same school, go to a different private school, I'm not sure. & what should I do to feel happier and less alone. I literally spend every weekend with my parents/on the computer. I seriously have no life, I am very depressed, and I see so many other people having lives (their pictures on myspace) and it makes me feel so crappy. Please give me some advice. Thanks soo much.
i feel the same way.
honestly its hard making freinds because people are stupid.
and think there better than everyone else.
i made my parents switch me schools like 3 times..
and now yeah anyways
you should just go in to school\be extremly social
or you can get home schooled?
or something like that
or alternitive
i don't know exactly what i'm asking. & i don't know if anyone will be able to help. but i do need help. and it'd be appreciated if you do try.
i have depression, in addition, i'm most likely the shyest person on planet earth. i don't have too many friends because of both of these. in feel really insecure about my social life as well as myself. each time i attend school i feel like everyone's judging me & in a terrible way. In a way, i'm scared to show up to school. the idea of it really scares me. i psyche myself out for it. each day i think i'll go to school, but i get ready in the morning, can't find the right thing to wear & break down. See, i haven't exactly been to school for two weeks now. usually my dad would make me go to school; but in a sense he's given up. & i have to. each day i don't show up for school i realize that it will be harder to go back. but i can't bring myself to go. i haven't been in contact with friends in days & feel like i'll use the few i have, and i'm in the proccess of doing so. i don't know why i feel so bad, and i don't know why school is so scary for me. i want to feel better & be better but i'm doing nothing to helo myself.
so i guess i'm asking a few things.
1. why is it that school is scary to me?
2. how can i make it less scary?
3. ... just any advice is what im looking for. thought - or anything. just ideas as to what i can do.
... just ideas as to what i NEED to do. 5's for anyone who bothered reading with a sensible response. xx
I HAVE THE SAME EXACT PROBLAM
THIS IS WEIRD
I HAVENT BEEN TO SCHOOL IN TWO WEEKS
and my dad just stop bothering me about it because he just gave up
and when ever i do go to school i feel like everyones judging me or talking bad about me behind my back
like idk
and i break down at myself when i look in the mirror
and once im ready or on my way to school its like my heart is beating really fast
its not really nervousness but its kinda like that
i think we have A.D.D
you should go to the doctor and ask them for that medicine
it helps you concentrate
and social anxiaty
ask your dad to take you to the doctor
for A.D.D pills
and social anxiaty
im so relifed im not the only one with this problam.
i thought i was.
lol ok i hope my advice helps
if you need someone to talk to im here
because i have the same problam
hey..i have this boyfriend and he's really cute but i don't really have feelings for him anymore. i mean he's very sweet but like he's moving too fast and it's making me like turned off. and now he's making me feel like he should be my brother. idk what to do anymore! please someone help me!
i'll give 5 for trying..thanx!
talk too him
tell him you want to take it slower
so the relationship can be more exsiting
because if you know whats going to happen
whats the point of that
I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 months now. I know, its not a long time at all but he and I are already in love with eachother. We had this connection right off the bat and we just clicked and have been pretty much inseperable ever since then.
The only issue is he is 6 years older than I am. I'm still 16. So that makes him 22 (if you were too lazy to do the math). I'm sure by now you are all thinking that he's in it just for the sex, but really he's not after that. And I'm sure you are all going to say "Well you don't know that" but I do.
And I'm going to say he's not like your typical 22 year old at all, he is totally different. But I'm sure you will say "All girls say that", but trust me, I'm not them. I've "been" with older guys before and I can tell if they are fake or not. I've been around ones that wanted sex and told me that they weren't interested in it. So, I know that he's not in it just for the sex. If he wanted that, he could get it anywhere else, I'm not saying this just because he's my boyfriend - But he's freakin' hot. Trust me, he's got plenty of girls that would be willing to be lined up to get a chance with him.
I have sort of told my parents about him. But not the whole story. My mom knows that he is 22, but not that I am dating him nor that I am in love with him. And my dad knows that I am in love with him, but doesn't know that he is 22 or that I am dating him. I believe he suspects that I am, but doesn't know for a fact. **My parents have never met him***
I was talking to my dad and he said that he would be willing to meet him. He had shared a story with me about when he met my grandmother (my mom's mom) and she didn't like my dad because he's Puerto Rican and he only wanted to get in my mom's pants, take her money then divorce her. But my dad told her otherwise. My dad told me that if he can stick up for what he believes in, then he would have respect for him. And that's true, that is how my dad is but I'm still scared as to how he would react when he finds out he is 22. I know that he (my boyfriend) would tell my dad that he loves me and that his intensions are good, but my dad can be a hypocrite sometimes.
So I guess my question is, how do I tell my parents that he and I are dating?
Should I even tell them that we are or should I make my boyfriend ask my parents their permission to date me?
I don't want to end our relationship. Trust me, we have an amazing relationship. When I think about us, our age difference is the last thing on my mind. Love doesn't see age.
awe thats cute
lol hes accually wanting to meet your parents?
DONT LISTEN TO THE IDIOT BELOW ME
your right
if your in love with someone it doesnt matter the age.
my mom dated someone 12 years younger
haha
but yeah anyways
you should ask your boyfreind to ask your parents for permission
so then they will know hes responsible and cares
but if you asked then they would be all like.
you cant date him hes too old!
all he wants is blablabla
but you know its not true
so have him ask for permission
and if they say no
just keep dating him secretly