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So, there's this gurl that im taking to prom, but she say's that it's just as friends, I don't understand why it can't be more, she is so flirty everytime we hang out, superbowl night she held my hand, and gave me a back rub, and I gave her one, but all she wants to be is friends?? I think she is going through a rough time, this guy lived with her family while he was getting sober, he lived there for 2 months and has been gone now for 2 months and I think she is having a hard time with that, Im not sure how much she liked him though, soo, just help, tell me what you think, and what I should do. thanx

i would talk to her about it. But she could also be scared, or just shy about being a couple. Just take things slow, but talk to her about what you think and try having her explain her feeling or if she is goiing through a rough time have her talk to you about it and let her know that you're there for her.
xoxo
Nat

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There is this girl that I don't know very well, and I overhear someone say that she likes me. She seems cool enough and I'd like to maybe get a relationship going but since I don't know her very well, I don't know what the best way is to kinda get things started in the right direction. I don't get a chance to talk to (or see) her much so to me it feels odd to just, out of the blue, walk up and start a conversation. Any advice on what to do or how to get something started?

Well, maybe try and see her, ask her friend to ask her to meet her friend somewhere and go there... to maybe see her and flirt, talk ect... but if you really like her maybe even call her... unless you think thats to much of a move.
feel free to IM me if you wanna know more cuz its hard to explaint the whole thing on here... :P
Natally-

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I like this boy and I know for a fact that the feeling is mutual. I know enough about boys to be able to tell. But he isnt making a move. He's said before that he's pretty shy when it comes to girls..But this particular boy has had sex before. Only once though (so he says). Is it possible for a boy who has had sex before to be shy around girls now?! =S Help.

yea its possibe, but not many do... well maybe they do but anyway... if you really think he likes you then go talk to him yourself. Even f he is shy, make him feel comftorble.

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i want to dye my hair either brown with blonde highlights or blonde with brown highlights, which sounds better? I am a white girl with blue eyes, and light tan.

id go for the blonde with brown highlights :)
natxo

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I'm 12 years old and weigh 105 lbs. I'M 5 FEET 7 INCHES TALL!!! Is that freakishley tall for someone my age??

dont worry! its fine! at least you would have a better chance of being a model :D
im 14 and 5'7' 1/4... but you know its all kool... dont worry and enjoy your body!

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ok when ever someone asks me to do something i almost instantly forget it and they get get mad...what am i supposed to do?

Just tell them you forgot, or maybe to help you not forget write it down... i have to do that sometimes too :P

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Alrighty...I'm sick of it! I don't know what to do...okay, I've only made out with a guy and I want to do other stuff because...I don't know lol I just do! I mean people think that I've been farther, I wouldn't say I'm considered a slut...but not a total prude you know? Well the problem is..I would want to do other stuff but I get like shy around they guy...I know you're probably going to tell me to relax when I am with them, but I am..it's just I'm shy about things when it comes to doing stuff! And you wouldn't think that, because I have a very outgoing personality!! Does anyone know what I can do to like break my little habit of being shy and scared of doing other stuff?? Thanks so much if you can!

just do the stuff u wanna do and then once you get the hang of it the first time you'll have an easyr time the next ;)
h.i.h.
natally

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Ok well im going to paint my room a light green and im wondering if i should get a different shade of green for my bedspread and stuff or should i get a light orange one? please help me out! Thanx!! :o)

Depending on how much color...
if you want more calm then go for the green bedspread.
if you want more color go for the orange! :P
me, id go for the orange, i like alot of color, no matter soft (calm) or strong...
h.i.h.
xonatally

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how do i turn my guy on or get him to go further than he usually does ? all he does now is to kiss me . he has been doing this for the past 3 weeks and since we meet like every day it's getting pretty boring . any ideas on how to speed things up or to arouse him or smth ?

well maybe he just wants to take things slow so he wont rewin the realtion ship but if you really wanna move faster tell him. and then he should feel more comftorble about movie on.
xoxonat

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ok, i think this is going to sound really dumb, but i may as well ask it anyway. im 14/f.
well, im going out with this guy, we've been going out for nearly a month now, and he's my first proper boyfriend, and i know im the most serious he's had.
anyway, we're going to watch a movie in a couple of days, and some of my mates and some of his are coming too. the thing is, when we've been out before, we've been out in town, in the park, ive been to his house and things like that, so its not really the most romantic of settings, and i havent kissed him properly yet. i mean, we're fairly comfortable with each other and stuff, thre just hasnt been the right time to kiss him. and ive never kissed a guy before. so, any tips on how to handle the back row of the cinema? any advice would be appreciated. thanks

Well... ive never actually went out with a boy but all i know is just be yourself and things will happen automaticly. Go with the flow. If he desides to kiss you and you fell comftorble with it just lean in with him. or maybe talk to him everyonce and a while druing the movie. but dont talk to much becuase you might get bugged by the ppl infront of you :P but just take it by how things happen and all will be good.
xoxo
h.i.h
Natally

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My lip is bleeding really bad from being chapped. Is there a way I can stop it? It's a reddish black and I'm about to go to school so it's going to look weird. Any tips?

use chap stick. doesnt really matter what kind but as long as it works for you... cuz all lips react different to the chap sticks.
h.i.h.
xoxo

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my mom has this bf and he is at my house every night and i cant stand it last night i was asleep in my moms room and she made me get out so that her bf could sleep in there im just so mad

talk to her about. if your used to just having your mom around its probably a big change having another person just being added to the family (if he stays) but talk to her about it... it will get all that anger off your chest and you'll feel alot better.
xoxo nat+*

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i really wanna make money off babysitting but like i wanna do it with friends and alot of times i wanna do it alone but im scared to doit alone and my mom wont trust me to baby sitt my sisters baby

Well showing her that your scared to babysit alone is maybe a reason why she wont let you babysit her sisters baby. When i started babysitting i always got nervus and scared but now im used to it because i do it more often. so just try a few times on your own and you too will get better practice and it will feel like a regular job. And maybe try and show your mom responcibility so she'll let you babysit her sisters baby.
xoxo

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when are you "old" enough to wear makeup (not just lipgloss and glitter)

i dont think it matters but i started wearing a little eye shadow in like 7th grade... but mainly 7th is when all the girls start to wear makeup.

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I was wondering, what's hooking up, because my mom's always talking about it (she's 29, i'm 10) and i think it has something to do with having sex, but i'm not sure.

its jus friends or bf/gf getting to gether. not having sex, but yea she's probably planning to get together with friends or a boyfriends, or husband.
xoxo

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i liked this guy and all of my friends knew about it. i was talking to my friend one day and she said that he had a girlfriend and today i was asking my friend who she liked and she said that she was going out with the guy that i like. i'm really mad but i dont know if i should tell her.

well dont tell her that your mad but you can talk to her about her going out with the guy that you like and that your upset with it but... you know theres no need to because guys arent there to fight over... well they are but theres no need too, but best talk to her about how you feel with them 2 going out.
xoxo

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Has anyone ever humped their dog?

my brother, my firends brother... my other friends brother...

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okay i believe in god but i guess i doubt it somtimes, i get scared of "what if there isnt one" and is there a heaven :/ i think i should go to church to build up more faith but then again i dont get how that could actually help... I really get upset over this, any suggestions?

just dont focus on it to much... but church maybe once a week could help... how i dono either but what ever you believe in believe in it. and theres no worrys about doubts.

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ok heres the issue-
theres this guy at my school(lets call him josh) and me and josh always hang out at school. about the second day after we started hanging out, josh started to flirt with me. ALOT. the problem is hes a senior, and i think he has a girlfriend, but she doenst go to our school. should i flirt back???
thanks

well if you like him and you think that you have a chance with him and that he really likes you back... sure go for it grl!!!
xoxo

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ok with every guy ive dating they have been touchy and lovey and stuff but this one guy now is just so shy and wont open up how do i get him to and be touchy and huggy and affectionate?

maybe he really likes you, and he wants to take it slow so that he wont ruin the relation ship between you, but by opening him up more... maybe talk to him about personal things that you wouldnt mind telling him and maybe hang around him like youve known eachother for years.
just take it slow with him.
good luck!
Nat xoxo

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