I'm 13 and I think I have just started my period. I have a little bit of redish discharge. I'm just not for sure and need a little advice.
When I first got my period, I noticed I had brownish discharged. I was outta-my-mind excited, cause I was the last of my friends to develop [I was only 11]. I'm obviously not excited about it now though. I called my mom and she asked me if I'd been "touching myself" [haha]. The first thing you should do is of course tell your mom so she could show you how to put on a pad. Like the person below me said, you may get cramps your first time, but not everyone does. For these you can take motrin, midol, aleve, tylenol' or advil. Whatever works for you. Again, tell your mom, or an older female so they can help you.
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hi, 16/m :).
well on thursday, im starting college (equivalent of High School in the states?), and ive always been really really lacking in the confidence section of life. Im confident around my close circle of friends, and my close family. Anyone apart from them, and i just sit there, quietly. Obviousely i want to sort this problem out, i dont want to be quiet for the next two years.
The reason i thought i was quiet, was because everyone knew i was quiet at my last school. Even if i wanted to say something, or have an opinion, everyone would be shocked, because they most likely hadn't heard me speak for 5 years! I'm doubting this is the reason, as at college (induction) i was quite quiet also. Can anyone at all help me to sort this out, before it carries on to when i get a job? i dont want to be, "that really quiet guy" for the rest of my life! help? :)
That's cute. Anyway, the person below me is right. I'm kinda shy too, so I started hanging out with REALLY bold, outgoing people, just to see if some of that would rub off. I'd be lying if I said it didnt. Of course, it doesn't work for everyone, but sometimes all you need is a small push. Some of us break out of our shells when we want to, when we're ready to, and that's fine. Not everyone's gonna act the same. Sometimes you just need to tell yourself "allright now, I'm being ri-fucking-diculous. No one's gonna laugh at me for TALKING. And what do I care if they look at me? God gave me a mouth to speak, just like he gave them eyes to look, so enough of that. I gotta get over it." You can also do what did, though if you feel someone is pressuring you into doing something they KNOW makes you uncomfortable, loose them. Friends don't force friends to do anything, and they certainly do not make you feel ashamed of changing for the better. They encourage you to. Now that you're going into college, you can be a brand new person. No one knows you, so you can be a clean slate. Be whoever you wanna be, without compromising who you really are, of course. I hope some of this makes sense to you in some way, and more importantly, I hope I've helped you.
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15/f
Well, i went to a party on friday night with my friend and my friend introduced me to one of her friends named "joe." Well, i thought joe was a pretty nice guy and was really cute. My friend told him that and he said he thought i was pretty but he liked someone else. He said he wanted to talk to me and get to know me at school tomorrow and see how i am so he can see if he would like me or not. I get really nervous around guys, especially guys who know i like them. I really want to make a good first impression but i don't want to sound nervous or embarresed when he comes to talk to me. That's just my natural reaction. He also told my friend that he didn't like girls who wouldn't talk to him or who were really shy. I am kinda shy around new people and i don't know how i am going to act not shy around him because i know i will. What do i do? How do i make a good first impression? Is there any way i can make myself less nervous? Thanks for your tips and advice!
It's all about confidence. If you don't got it, fake it. Right now, he's empowered because HE'S evaluating you, as if you were some sort of object for sale at an auction. You gotta have a sort of I-really-dont-give-a-crap-whether-you-like-me-or-not attitude [lol]. Do you get what I'm saying? I mean, don't ADMIT you're better than him, just make it clear to him that you're fine with being friends, you have no time for games, and most importantly, that you can move on faster than he can. For some reason, us humans are attracted to those who ignore us the most. And really, he isn't better than you, so there's no need for you to act nervous or in any way submissive. Even though things hardly ever turn out the way we hope, you can try practicing the conversation you two might have. That way, you'll have the upper hand. Remind yourself that he's not the first, and certainly won't be the last cute guy you meet. And again, If it doesn't work out, he's STILL not better than you. Good luck
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So this is kinda gross but im trying to be serious..... i have one hard nipple and it wont go down and its really stiff and hard and it hurts. its only on the left side not the right. i didnt do anything to it but i noticed it when i had just a bra on and my hand brushed it and it hurt... i dont really know whats wrong its been like 5 mins and it wont go away. SOMEONE HELP MEEEEEE!
Oh my god that happens to me too! Every single time before I get my period, actually. Mine is also only on the left side and it usually only lasts about a day or two, so I wouldn't worry too much. You should still tell your mom, or someone that could help you, and if it lasts longer, a doctor.
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Hi, I'm 16/m I just started at a new school. There is a girl in my Hist. Class that is insanely gorgeous. Like, you don't even know. Crazy gorgeous. Anyway, I don't really know her yet. I'd like to get to know her though. How can I break the ice? And don't tell me to just go up to her and tell her I like her. I know girls like confidence, but you have to at least know them A LITTLE before you start telling them that. So... help?
You don't have to know her COMPLETELY before approaching her, but since you're new you should find out something about her. If she's pretty, people most likely know her, so ask any friends you've made about her. Find out if she has a man, or a crush. Observe her, and not like a stalker, just her reactions to certain things, facial expressions and body language towards certain people. Make sure to catch her eye, and when you do, SMILE [just make sure not to get caught staring dead at her TOo much, cause that can be creepy]. Also, try sitting next to her, or somewhere around her. The closer you are, the more likely you are to exchange words. Another option is to write her a little note simply reading "I think you're insanely gorgeous", which is true. Girls respond to compliments. Good luck.
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whats bleach [for hair] and what does it do? and is bleach just blonde or it can be other color?
All it is, is a very strong hair lightener. People do it when they wanna dye their hair light but have it really dark to begin with, or just to have lighter hair. Some leave it bleached, most dye it over the bleach. It usually goes blonde, since that's the lightest your hair can get before it turns white =].
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I have been with this guy for five yrs now and we have a son who will be three soon.There are many things about him that have just changed in the past four years and I'm only with him now for our son.I know I love him because he is my sons father and for the time we have been together but I'm just not in love with him. he has disappointed me so much.All the promises he made...he didn't accomplish not even one. He doesn't give me enough attention or time and he's just all about himself and not even since he has no car now and a sucky job so he isn't doing anything for himself anyways the list goes on and on....i have tried leaving him plenty of times but he just won't accept it even before I got pregnant and now it doesn't feel right trying to leave the father of my son. it doesn't feel right trying to look at anyone other than him for comfort but what should I do if I'm not happy by his side anymore? should I just keep sucking it up for my sons sake or try to move on and try to find love and happiness?? would that be selfish on my part? this is something that just kills me. I'm so confused and have mixed emotions because I also feel like it would be hard starting another relatinship now that I have a son, many guys don't want anuthing serious with women that already have children. and I want to get married and not have to date around...I'm 23 he is 26.please I would love to get some different opinions and just weigh out my pros and cons to conclude this dilema. thamks to all who respond.
My mom did that too. She stayed with my dad for 11 years for my brother and I. Frankly, I hate it when parent use that as an excuse, cause it makes you feel like, "Geeez, thanks. So it's all MY fault you were miserable all those years." I'm glad my parents divorced. My mom's happier, and my dad's a jerk. When we lived together we were ALL unhappy. If you really wanted to leave, you would have done so by now, cause no being can force you to do ANYTHING. Yet as a mother, you probably feel inclined to make your son happy first, which is good, except, he's only 2 years old. He knows nothing about nothing at this point, and what's best for you, is best for him. We all understand why you do what you do at some point. We wanna see our mothers happy too. But that's just from a daughter's perspective
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Hey I'm 18 and I met a guy through a site that is meant for Christian's to talk and meet to get to know more Christian's in their area...
Well, I met this guy and he seems to be really nice so far. He wanted to hang out and go to a younth group together or something and I normally would never want to meet people online, ever, but it's SUPPOSED to be safe since it's Christian based site it's not a dating site or anything it's meant more for friends really...
He even said I could bring my Mom or a friend or family member and we'd definitely, obviously, be in a public place if we did...
Now I'm 18 so I wouldn't bring my Mom but I would definitely probably bring a friend or something... But, I have been hurt really really hurt badly in the past by guys and I'm not sure if this guy is for real?
He said he's 26 which would make him like 7 years older than I am.... But like when I looked on his myspace and stuff all of his friends (which weren't many) are all 18-22 at the oldest... And he told me he was out of school but I read a comment on his myspace of someone needing to ask a questions before their test? So, if he's out of school, why is he taking a test and why does the person need to get his notes or ask questions or whatever? He said he isn't working right now because he is leaving for a military medical thing in Janurary but that he'll still be able to talk...
What do you guys think of this situation? I wasn't and I'm not looking for a relationship so it's not so much that but as a friend do you think that's okay? Do you think he's being shady and maybe just hangs out with yonger people? If so id that creepy? Any extra input is fine but please don't be rude I'm asking for advice because I really am not sure, I've never been in this situation before, so there is no need to be mean please. I will rate and give feedback.
Nah, don't worry, it's clear enough. Anyway, about this guy you met, I can definitely see where you're coming from in your suspicions, but from what you've described, he doesn't really sound like a threat. What kinda guy would give you the go-ahead to invite your PARENTS to your first date? That doesn't mean you shouldn't be careful though. Do bring a friend, and go out to a very public place. Don't worry about him thinking you don't trust him, cause he suggested it! About his myspace, there's not really many years between 22 and 26, so it doesn't necessarily mean he's a pedofile if his friends just happen to be slightly younger. At least he didn't say he's 26, when in fact he's like 50, and the people in his myspace are 16 year olds. That would be disturbing. Maybe when he told you he was out of school [college?], he meant he was off for the semester or taking a break. These are both pretty answerable questions you can and should ask him, and not at all the kind of things to seriously worry about. Again, be sure to take a friend and be safe. Hope you hit it off =]. Good luck.
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This is probably the weirdest thing you've heard, but here it is. Have you ever wanted something to be wrong with you? Like you actualy wanted to be sick or have a disease or something. I don't know what it is, but thats how I feel. Am I the only one? Does anyone else ever feel like this, or know someone that feels or felt like this?
Yeah I get ya. I'm clinically depressed, and sometimes I don't WANT to feel better. I wanna stay feeling like crap! My therapist told me most depressive people do that, because they downsize themselves and don't think they deserve to be happy. I ALWAYS imagine my hand breaking, or one of my family members dying or something, or my mom not loving me, or not having ever met my dad. It's wrong because I don't think like this to see what it would be like, but to imagine people's sympathy. That's SAD. I really don't know why I think like this, but I hate having such horrible thoughts, and I've always thought I was alone in that. You should talk to your school counselor, so they could redirect you to a therapist. They're professionals, and they'll know what to tell you.
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http://www.cosmeticsolutions.biz/servlet/the-2053/Daggett-%26-Ramsdell-Lightening/Detail
does this product evidently realllllyyy works on lightening the skin?
I can't tell you it does, cause I've never really heard of it, but I would suggest that new Clinique even better skin tone corrector, which assures results in 4 weeks, though it's 40 bucks. If you do decide for the stick, I advise you to first try in on the back of your hand, or somewhere discreet. You don't wanna be putting cheap stuff on your face without knowing what it really does first, specially since anything that claims it can lighten skin probably has a strong bleaching agent in it. Good luck
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whats a store or a brand that has good quality cheap makeup..
like a dollar...
up to 5 dollars.
Anything you can get at k-mart or cvs, like max factor, almay,loreal, wet n wild, maybelline, U' ROCK!, I think there's a good one called physician's formula, and specially N.Y.C. [new york color] , though there's many many more. Hope this helps.
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ok. to start off. me and my boyfriend are very sexual. we do alot of stuff. but the one that i am so self consious about, is when he eats me out. i dont smell like "fish" and i do clean down there. he just said its a sweet and sour taste which he doesnt like. i was just wondering. what can i do to make it taste good. i do clean it and take care of it. so all i need is how do i make it where he wants to eat me out all the time.
I heard [on this same site a few years back, actually] that eating and drinking lots of fruits and water can make it smell and taste better, but I can't really assure you of that. It's a natural smell, but you can try washing up RIGHT before you begin foreplay. You can also decorate yourself with whipped cream, fudge or something else. Just make sure to wash REAL good afterwards. Lastly, remind him he doesn't exactly taste like heaven either =]. Hope this helps.
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ok i need a good comeback for when someone is calling you a hoe, and its not true. i need something b*tchy but also sweet so it can be b*tchy in a nice way, to where itll be even b*tchier...
I hate when girls play around like that, I don't take it. But for those annoying little biatches who think it's funny, just respond "so's your mom", with a serious face and a nonchalant tone in your voice, and watch them shut up. Luck =].
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At what time do you generally start talking to the admissions people at the college you want to go to? Like in relation to the start of the school year.
Most colleges have deadlines anywhere in between December and January. If you're a senior, it's best to start now [even in the summer]. What you should do is google "request information about [name of preferred college here]" and fill up the forms. They'll send brochures to your home in about 2 days. Or you can just go to the college's website and go to where it says "admissions". You can email them, call, or even schedule a visit with the person in charge of admissions. Good luck
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what color would show up on a mediumish [sorry, i dont really know how to explain the color] brown eye?
You can get em any color, it has nothing to do with the color of your eyes. I'd focus more on your skin tone, and maybe even your hair color. If you're of a darker skin tone, hazel, green and gray would look really good. Hope this helps =].
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what does it mean when a guy blows in your ear?
He literally just blows air in your ear. It's supposed to be a turn on of some sort, though I don't find it so..
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So last night i went to a Jonas Brothers concert. I have been to 8 or 9 concerts of theirs and every time it's over i get kind of depressed.
It might be because i didn't get to meet them and some of my friends did. And it might be because i didn't have the best seats. Idk what it is but i just feel so sad!
What can i do?
Aww man..at least be glad that you're lucky enough to have gone to so many concerts. I can't even afford one! Not that I'd have anyone to go with anyway. Where I live, I'd get crucified if people knew I was into that sort of music, so unfortunately, I'm a closeted fan. But seriously, why haven't you met them when your friends have? Do you guys go together? Do you get too nervous? They love meeting fans, and I heard they do many meet & greets whenever they have the chance. I agree, save up money for better seats, or join contests, like that new one on Disney.com/urock. They'll be coming back to Jersey the 16th and the 27th, to places oh so close to me, yet I KNOW I'll never get to see them. Enjoy your concerts, and remember that they're people just like you and I. They grew up fifteen minutes from where I grew up, and they poop, fall, and forget their lyrics just like everyone else on this planet. By the way, I'd advise you to create an account PRONTO on Justin.tv. This is where they do their LIVE chats, and there's a rumor that the next one is August 12th at 2PM or 5PM! It's completely free, and you'll be able to ask them anything and WATCH them answer it. But remember, it's only a rumor as of now, so sorry if it's not true. Hope I helped
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How do you get rid of anoying friends?
Ignore their every word, find new friends, don't make any plans with them, and block their calls =]. although at some point they're gonna ask "why?", and you should have a darn good excuse...
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I just wanted to know wich hairstyle out of these three you like best
http://www.celebrity-hair-styles-magazine.com/images/keira-knightley-short-hair-photos-09.jpg
http://www.hairstylesplus.com/veryshorthairstyles/cute-pixie.htm
http://www.greatestlook.com/veryshorthair/veryshorthairstyle1.html
ive got it down to these three and i cant decide, so I want to know what you guys think.
Definitely the last one, it's soo Grr =]
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I'm going into my junior year this fall, and I'm nervous. I heard it's one of the most important, yet the most hard year in high school.
I'm also going to be getting my permit AND my job in October. I need a job simply because I'm BROKE.
I need study tips, any tips for balancing time, and any other advice for my junior year.
Also, should I be looking into college? I want to be a vet, so should I also be doing anything else? (Volunteering, etc.)
*edit* One more thing, you should create an account on collegeboard.com. That's where you have to register to take the SATs [depending the state you live in]. Anyway, the site helps you organize all your things, and matches you with colleges based on your preferences. Or you can pick your own colleges and the site makes a schedule on events happening in those colleges. It's true, many first year college students go in undecided and change their major many times before finally deciding on one because according to my cousin, they get sick of one single subject for 4 years plus the rest of their lives, but If you're absolutely sure of what you wanna do, that's even better.
I just finished my junior year, and I will also be getting my job and drivers permit in October, which is when I FINALLY turn 16, so I can understand all the stress you're under. Yes, being broke does suck. I know schools, as well as teachers may vary, but I don't consider it the hardest year of my life. People say the HSPA and the SATs are difficult, which is pretty much just to worry you. I would DEFINITELY kiss some teacher ass if I were you and try to do all the extra credit you possibly can. Remember that in a year, you'll have to humbly ask these people for college recomendations, even the stern ones. My high school requires us to complete 50 hours of community service, although yours may only ask you do 20 [I've done 1 hour :)]. Either way, start early and do extra if you can, cause it looks good on any application. It IS a pretty important year, so don't let yourself slack off, even at the end like I did =]. Supposedly colleges tend to look at your freshman and junior years. Don't get carried away by the madness of friends and parties, but enjoy the last worry-free year of your life. I hope this helps, and much luck
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