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Im a jazz dancer and i love dancing! i also love singing. Im the youngest out of my 4 older brothers and i live in indiana. I want to be a performer when i am older and i also want to be a journalist. Feel free to AIM me because i *LOVE* to chat on it! Im also good at giving advice too. =]

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I dont know what to do! My scale says I'm 123,and my mom says its accurate,but I think I weigh a lot more! I'm 13, and i dont know what to do. And i wanna wear a bikini this summer. Any suggestions about exercising?

i just turned 14 and i weigh 100 pounds and im 4'9. i think it depends on your height hun. if you belly is "hanging" over ur pants then do what i do. 100 sit ups and 50 crunches a day. and also watch what you eat!

Hope i helped,
Cierra

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I love doing my own photoshoots for my Myspace.com - what are some good ideas? I want to do a pillow fight so how can i do that?

get a timed camera. so it gives u enought time to pose. also be crazy and hyper. it makes the pics look 20 times better!

Hearts,
Cierra

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My eyebrows are really hairy! I have super long hairs and I look really bad. My mom won't letme get them waxed..I have asked her many times and she won't let me. I've tried plucking them but they hurt! I don't know what to do because I'm about to be a junior in high school and it's really getting to me! Any advice would be greatly appriciated! Also, don't tell me to sit down and talk to my mom-it won't work..Also, peopple that give crazy answers that want attention, please don't answer!

do it with your own money. or try to shave them. TRY..it works for some not for others.

~Cierra

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Does anyone know if Billie from Green Day is married? i heard he had a wedding ring on. any info?

hes married..yet hes VERY sexy

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how do you know if a girl is lying to you like when you ask them out and they say something. How do you know if they are telling the truth or lying to make you feel better??

the way they say it! and if they dont look at you when they are talking to you, or when they try to avoid you!

~Cierra

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ok well, my friend, i really like him alot, but were like best friends, so i dont wanna mess that up. but anyway, last night i came home, and i wasnt at school yesterday. So i was online and he came on and usually i IM him first, and i was typing to him, but he IMed me first, and he was like... I MISSED YOU SO MUCH TODAY! and i was really surprised because i didnt think he would say that because i thought he was mad at me and i'd been thinking about it all day while i was away, and no matter what me and my friend were talking about his name always came out of my mouth. So anyway then we were talking and he was like, listen to this song i found today, and he made me listen to let me hold you by omarion and bowwow, and he was like, when i heard it i had to have you listen to it. And then i had to go and i was like, im gonna go, im dead tired. and he was like, go to bed, and that kinda surprised me because usually he's just like w/e bye. i know this sounds kinda gay, but does this mean anything?

probly that he missed you at school! and that he most likely likes you. but dont push it! and if you do "date" him u guys will porbly brake up. so remember that. whitch one do you want more? a friend or a boyfriend?

~Cierra

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ok, im caught between to guys & im currently with one of them. theyre friends-not too close but i feel like im kinda comming between them.
the first guy, my bf...well we have some communication issues. meaning we rarely talk & when we do its not for very long. its our first relationship, were both shy at times & he doesnt get out much (unlike me) he hasnt kissed me ever or gone on a date with me in a long time.
the second guy...i got him together with his ex.(she dumped him b/c she was into girls.) we take martial arts together & were together alot then he said he likes me. we talk online all the time even if he said he likes me b/c honestly, im attracted. i cant really say i am b/c im with his friend. he says a lot of sweet things too and since i have doubts about the 1st guy, i cant help but take it in positavly.
well yesterday he told me he wanted to kiss me after we talked for a really long time. its really weird cuz neither one of us agrees with cheating but for some reason, its almost impossible to avoid.
please help me! i dont wanna do anything stupid! thanks!

dump the first guy you are with. you are obviously not happy with him. let him know why you are dumping him. then tell the guy you like that you really like him and now your single. see what he does! and if he likes you as much as u say he does, then u should be together in no time!

Hope i helped,
Cierra

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I need to be inspired so that I can write better poems and stories. Maybe even making my life better by being more active, physically.

My question is: Do you know some place that I can go to be inspired? Or do you know any sayings that could maybe inspire me?

what inspires me is my life. i have had alot of problems. and it inspires me to write. also candels help. and when it thunderstorms. all of those things inspire me.

Hope i helped,
Cierra

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well theres this kid that liked me for a couple months, and i never really liked him back until he started liking this other girl and it got me real jealous, does this mean i like him or what. everytime i see them together i just don't know what to do.. its really upsetting me and i really don't know what i`m asking but do u have any advice...plz

you probly do like him. you jus havent realized it until now. and jealousy is also involved in this. if you really like him let hime know! =]

Herats,
Cierra

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Me and this guy i really liked just broke up awhile ago and he said that he thought we should just be friends and stuff well it hurt but i was being a good player and put a smile on my face we talked on the fone a couple times but then when we hung out it got all weird i wanted to put my arms around him and stuff like i use to but i couldnt cuz we werent going out he just kinda chilled with everyone else..i still like him i cant get my mind off him i want to still be together i dont know if i should talk to him about it and tell him how im feeling and see if we can try again or just move on. can someone please help me!

tell him how you feel! =] and if you get rejected move on! theres alot more people out there then just him!

Hearts,
Cierra

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does any one know any cute quote websites?

no but AIM profiles have alot of cute qoutes!

Hearts,
Cierra

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hey , uhm well you see i love my best friends bro . he asked me out . but the only thing is he is 11 and i am 13 . everyone is asking me if i am with him and i dont no what to do cuz i dont wanna get made fun of . please help me make my desicion signed

perfect flaw

that happened to me once! annd you will get made fun of..but if u really love him then go for it! you know they say. "hey its love make it hurt"

Hearts,
Cierra

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i might have one friend that is still a virgin besides me.... i mean when we get into deep converstaions about sex and stuff i can't relate cuz i am still a virgin. every single time i watch a movie with a sex scene in it i get this weird feeling all over my body like i want sex that very minute. could someone please tell me if this is all normal or should i just give in and have sex?

yes its normal!

everyone has those sudden urges but i think its best that u stay a virgin. you have made it this far! you just are having teen~age hormone changes so u get sudden urges. keep your pants on!

Hearts,
Cierra

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how do you have an orgasism??

when your having sexual intercourse.

Hearts,
Cierra

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urgh i hate this! it feels like my jaw is gonna fall out like in the grudge! i can't open my mouth really wide to eat because it feels like theres an extra bone there that isn't allowing me to open my mouth any further, and if i chew it feels like my jaw is like cracking.. like it kinda feels like when you crack your knuckles. anyway this really hurts so does any of you have any advice on how i can deal with this? thanks in advance i really appreciate this

go to the dentist! tell hom about it and you mom. they will know what to do. =]

Hearts,
Cierra

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Ever since I started shaving I've always gotten pimples on my legs and thighs. It's really annoying because I don't get any on my face just my legs! What should I do? And why is this happening?

get a new shaving cream, razor and put alot of lotion on your legs after you shave!

Hearts,
Cierra

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Ugh...okay I HATE my clothes. I went through this whole phase recently of "I care what everyone else thinks and my opinion doesnt matter". And that includes clothes. I wear the same old crappy polo tees from hollister and stupid jeans and stupid shoes. I just look like every other boring un-unique "prep". Well, i've finally grown out of this. I now want to start dressing like my personality which is edgy, unique, and artsy. I like rock/emo/indie music if it helps? I'm looking for some fashion tips (example...stuff like wearing your belt to the side, etc.) And some stores online I could check out to help me dress more "edgy". Also, i dont have alot of money. How can i rock out a plain polo? Any hair ideas? Makeup ideas? I hate dressing "preppy" when inside im not like that. THANKS!

black eye liner, make ur hair straight yet edgy,where punky clothes & fishnet.

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hi im 15 f and going to my friends party this aft, shes also going to be 15. we are having a meal and then going back to hers. what kinds of things could we do back at hers that she wont know about. i want 2 make it fun for her and the people who are going.
thanxz xxx

play twister give each other make overs and make each other look really silly, dance to music, prank call people, get her lots of presents, and get her some silly gag gifts!

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I forgot to get something for my mom because i didnt know it was mothers day - what should i do!? I cant make her anything special or buy anything.

make her a card! one u made urself. and maybe bake some cookies.

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Can you get genital herpes without having any sexual contact?

yes

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