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eversince he started dating this slut, which my parents and his best friend totally disapprove of, he's been lying, having sex, and going out all the time. He barely talks to me, and he almost never buys me any food anymore. He's even telling me to lie to my mom for him. I do it anyway cuz I kno that he'll get seriously pissed at me

His girlfriend is a total gold digger and a skank, and they're probably just using each other for sex. I hate them both. I've been giving him the cold shoulder lately, but he hasnt been getting the message.

What should I do?

Okay. When he does try to talk to you,ignore him. You got to treat him the same way he does to you. And act like you don't care if he doesn't talk you. It'll get his attention real quick! =D Good luck!

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hey theres this guy who screwed me over and i want revenge. i kno it'll make it worse but i really want revenge. does anyone kno what i can do? something easy but not liek starting a rumor...somthin he'll remember i rate good

Egg his house. It always works. lol! = D

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Is it normal to be best friends with a girl you've known for half-a year?? This girl and I met in eighth grade this year, and I've become very attached to her. We're both best friends and we tell each other everything. We're like sisters. Is that normal to be this close after a short time??

Yes, perfectly normal.

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what happened when a guy gets an erection? can he get one from making out?

It is when blood fills up the blood vessels in the penis and it becomes hard. He can get hard from making out.

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does anyone know if covergirl wetslicks actually work?im going shopping this weekend n i dont wanna waste my money if its not worth it! thanx! i rate 5s =)

Yes. I have it. Works great!

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hey! ok so me and my boyfriend have sex frequently and sometimes we dont use a condom...but i tend to queef a lot and i was wondering what that might be from? or if its normal? or if theres anyway to prevent or minimalize it...he doesnt seem to mind it but it annoys me and makes me self concious in bed...any help would be great! thanks:-)

Well, you should use some kind of protection. And it is totally normal to queef.

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my boyfriend wants to finger and i was wondering does it hurt ? do you bleed? and do u use two fingers or one? it seems like it would hurt if you used two ? and what should i do about "shaving" down there i don't want to get embarrased but eerytime i shave down there its all stubbly and it get rashy and i get razor bumps! HELP PLEASE!

It shouldn't hurt. And it doesn't bleed, normally. Use lotion after you shave.

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any tips on how to housebreak a 10m month old pit bull terrier mix without using a crate?!!! i need help please....
-Kersten

You might be able to paper train them or else everytime they got potty on the floor tap them on the butt so they know not to do it.

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does yoga help you lose weight?

Nope, It's to relax and take away stress.

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Alright..I've lost a good amount of weight...but I still have a huge butt and thighs...and I'm pretty freaking skinny everywhere else...how do I get them smaller...any good toning exercises anyone knows of?

Running, riding bike and leg weights.

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ok well this is kind of embarassing(sp)but i have sweaty arm pits..even when im cold..i no i should see a doctor so i can get some med. but i dont want to tell my mom cause its embarassing(sp)should i tell her?im going on vacation in feb. and i dont want that problem to effect my good time because its going to be hot there..and in school people always ask why im always wearing a hoddie..and i dont want to tell them..but i want to tell my mom so it will stop but like i said it embarassing(sp)...please dont respond if your going to make fun of me

hope you can help!

Well, first of all..Mostly everyone gets this problem during a certain time during puberty. If you talk to your mom about seeing a doctor, they can give you a certain kind of deoderant or perscription for it. Good luck = )

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Alright me and my ex are really close and we talk about having sex alot...I mean all the time..I feel ready and I think Im ready...I'm only 14...He is 15...I have never hasd sex before and I'm not sure if I should wait or what I should do??? I mean he doesnt push me into anything and never has and never will... Will someone give me some advice on what to do???

I think you should wait, since he is your ex and even though you're close, sex might distance you guys. Plus, you should wait until you've found the person you love and want to spend the rest of your life with. I am just telling you this because I've learned from my mistake, and I should of done what I am telling you now. Good luck! = )

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im 15 and well honstly ive only made out with 3 guys, and thats all ive ever sexually done... ive never "masterbated" whatever that means or anything like that but my bf keeps trying to finger me and stuff! if i let him do it..is it gonna hurt? can my "cherry" pop? is it gonna feel really bad? and if i let him do it will i be labled a slut? (me and my bf have been together 10-11 months now) anything?

Not at all. Not normally does your cherry pop from being fingered. It usually doesn't hurt. Let him do it once, see how it goes and if it hurts you just tell him to stop.You will not be labeled a slut. You seem well healthy and you shouldn't have to worry about what people say when you haven't done anything, but make out! It's hard to find people still virgins at your age,and that's a really good thing that you still are! =D Good luck!

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theres this random guy that hates me for no reason...he says im annoying but i dont talk to him...and yesterday he threw an egg or something at my window...what can i do to get him back so that i wont get in (much) trouble?

Don't do anything back. He oviously likes you. Guys that are assholes to you like that, usually end up liking you. So, just let everything go and see how he reacts. Good luck! = )

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My life stinks and i hate it I have like no friends cuz i go to such a small school. And my parents are having a divorse which is not going good. We are losing all are money my parents are both dating i hate my moms boyfriend who is a jerk my mom doesnt want to tell my dad that she has a boyfriend cuz shes a weirdo and she just yells at me all the time because i dont like her stupid boyfriend i have a boyfriend but he is MIA (missing in action) havnt heard from him in like a month. And my brother is a big jerk and i just want advice on what i should do I want to kill my self.

HELP ME

No matter how bad you feel about yourself, nothing can be bad enough to kill yourself. Don't do anything to risk your own life. You're more important than that. Just maybe try talking to your mom and dad,see if they would be willing to see a counsler, it might sound a bit lame, but it does help big time. Or do you have a really close best friend that you can talk too? Maybe their parents could talk to yours about what you're going through. And it also seemed to help if someone else tells your parents what your going through. That seems to make them understand more. If you need anymore advice, my advice column is CaitLynnG. Hope I helped! = )

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Ive noticed in the last few months I am always tired when I wake up. And its not because lack of sleep because no matter how early i go to sleep or how late i wake up or vice versa I always feel the same. Any suggestions? What can I do to make myself feel better and not be so tired in the morning?

Well, when you wake up in the afternoon on the weekend.. You shouldn't be so tired. Before school, I understand you being tired. I am dragging every morning before school, because it's early. I would say though, When you're tired..take a cold shower, that always helps me. I hope I helped! = )

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WE've only had 1 sleepover and we have been best freinds forever!! WE never hang out and i don't think her mom likes me. I'm not rude to her. I just don't get it! I need your help! HSould i be best friends or not????????

Ofcourse, Try calling her and keeping in contact, no matter what happens you absolutely do not want to lose a great friendship!

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O.K- My dog (Millie Light) keeps pooping on the floor and I literally clean up poop 6 times a day! Is this just plain diaria? Is this normal? Please Help!
P.S- I'm cleaning up poop as we speak!
~~~Kayla~~~

If it is a puppy, it's perfectly normal.. But if its an older dog, Check out with your vet and see if there is anything to give the dog.

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i have a new booyfriend and we are sleeping together but he always comes really quickly. is there anyway i can help him so i can enjoy sex aswel? im over 16 and at first i thought it was because it was because he was just with someone new but its all the time. help!

Well, Me and the ex always did it where I was on top, and he always lasted longer than when I was on bottom, So I would recommend being on top sometimes also. Hope I helped! = )

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i have a Question. The guy that beats me. His brother likes me and he said that if i do anything with his brother he will kill me. His brother is not like my ex he is a lot nicer and i really like him what should i do? Michy

Call the police on the guy that beats you, no matter if it is your boyfriend, Your boyfriend should have more respect for you. And then, Just so it doesn't cause more drama, let the other guy and find someone better. Good Luck! = D

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