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So there was this guy, and we used to have a thing for each other three years ago.
We were "seeing each other" for about a year and stopped after that due to him having commitment issues, and his parents not being accepting. Needless to say, there were some bad yet, good memories created in that relationship. After the year mark, he told me that we should probably not continue this relationship anymore because things were getting complicated, and that we should be friends instead , and that we should meet other people, and that maybe in the future if things are the same we could get back with each other. Of course i was furious and sad that in the end we stopped talking to each other all together for about a year and half. Although i've met other great guys, things were just never the same. I guess unconsciously i have been scared and have always compared the guys to my past, and because none of them lived up to my expectations, I've never been able to be in a relationship since then. A year and a half later of not talking to each other, i decided to say happy birthday to him, and after his birthday he said happy birthday to mine ( a month later) and called me by my nickname that he used to call me when we were still together. I know it all sounds silly, but that gave me hope, so i messaged him and asked how he was doing.And i'll admit the conversation was a bit awkward and kinda short, but in the end he said that it was nice to catch up even though it was kinda short, and that he had to go because he had to study. After that, i thought i was kinda rejected so i decided that was probably the end of that, and so i moved on. 2 months later, he messages me and he tells me good luck on my first year of university!;), and i was really surprised and taken off guard, we catch up for a bit, and then he ends with "haha ok, good luck w school" and i reply " thank you ! and good luck with applying to dentistry!". but then he never replied back, and so now I'm feeling like on a hang cliff.....
i feel really silly to be reading into things so much, but i don't know how to feel. i'm feeling hopeful, but at the same time I'm telling myself that its nothing...should i honestly not think too much of it and that he probably just wants to be friends?? what was the point of him messaging me ? when he said that maybe we could get back in the future, do you think he really meant it? or should i just stop with these mixed emotions and just move on ????? Because deep down i know that there will always be a part of me that misses him. (link)
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Hi sweetie,
Let me give you a hug
Our hearts always make choices,and there is nothing wrong with holding on to a grain of rice called hope.
I've been in your shoes before and there is this jolt in your heart that you feel and it lingers with you
Attachment is always something can linger on longer than love.I myself am going through that
You said he mentioned that ''In the future''
It is very possible that he did indeed mean it
However,as time goes on,people end up growing apart :( And from what I read,you guys spent some time apart,and feelings can subside.
It is possible that he messaged you to see where you are at in your heart.To see if you still felt anything.So its possible he himself was just curious.
Now then,what do you now?
Well,you must decide what is most important to you in how you feel.
You may want to speak with him,and bring up that question''In The future'',have this talk,to see once and for all whether you guys are a yes or a no.Because you need to know now.
If it doesn't happen,that you both arent together,be assured someone who can give you a wonderful love is coming.
Always be honest with yourself and eachother
And its always okay to cry!
Be blessed dear one!
If you need any more advice,let me know!
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How long does it take to kno if u have clymadia and what are the symptoms
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Hi there! Let's take this step-by-step!
What is chlamydia?
Chlamydia is a common STD that can infect both men and women. It can cause serious, permanent damage to a woman's reproductive system, making it difficult or impossible for her to get pregnant later on. Chlamydia can also cause a potentially fatal ectopic pregnancy (pregnancy that occurs outside the womb).
How is chlamydia spread?
You can get chlamydia by having vaginal, anal, or oral sex with someone who has chlamydia.
If your sex partner is male you can still get chlamydia even if he does not ejaculate (cum).
If you’ve had chlamydia and were treated in the past, you can still get infected again if you have unprotected sex with someone who has chlamydia.
If you are pregnant, you can give chlamydia to your baby during childbirth.
Women with symptoms may notice
An abnormal vaginal discharge;
A burning sensation when urinating.
Symptoms in men can include
A discharge from their penis;
A burning sensation when urinating;
Pain and swelling in one or both testicles (although this is less common).
Men and women can also get infected with chlamydia in their rectum, either by having receptive anal sex, or by spread from another infected site (such as the vagina). While these infections often cause no symptoms, they can cause
Rectal pain;
Discharge;
Bleeding.
You should be examined by your doctor if you notice any of these symptoms or if your partner has an STD or symptoms of an STD, such as an unusual sore, a smelly discharge, burning when urinating, or bleeding between periods.
Can chlamydia be cured?
Yes, chlamydia can be cured with the right treatment. It is important that you take all of the medication your doctor prescribes to cure your infection. When taken properly it will stop the infection and could decrease your chances of having complications later on. Medication for chlamydia should not be shared with anyone.
Repeat infection with chlamydia is common. You should be tested again about three months after you are treated, even if your sex partner(s) was treated.
Hope all that helps!!
For more info,click on the link below!
https://search.yahoo.com/yhs/search?ei=UTF-8&type=odc089&hspart=avast&hsimp=yhs-001&p=Clymadia+
Be blessed!!
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F/18
I am currently taking some martial arts classes with one of my best Friends. Usually I don't pay attention to how a person looks or even think about things like having a boyfriend. There are times however where I might find someone attractive. That happens with one of the boys in my classes. I'm usually very shy and not straight forward with guys I like, therefore I barely talk to him. I talked to him once where both I and my bestie talked to him. The next time I saw him, when my best friend and I came in, he went straight to say hello to my best friend, didn't even acknowledge me. I already have a lot of self-esteem problems, so that was the cherry on top of my iceberg. I felt so depressed afterwards it was sad really. Then in the last class I never talked to him but neither did my best friend because some blonde was talking to him - that's what my bff said. He doesn't seem like the womanizer or disrespectful type, which is one of the things I find attractive about him. My problem is that I don't know if I should try to... you know, get him to notice me as more tan a friend. If so... what the hell do I do, because I am totally clueless as to what a guy could find attractive in me. (Just in case, I'm pretty plain; dark long hair, dark eyes, skinny figure, fair skin... see?) (link)
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Hi there! Boy do I know how it feels like when you like someone and you want them to notice you!
I was so very shy when it came to boys,because I didnt want to embarass myself or that the boy I liked didnt care much for me.
Now then,you are you,and you are who you are!!
This may require being bold.
Try practicing what you might say to him
(I still do this to this day)
I say that,because once you start feeling confident about what you are going to say to this young man,it wont seem like a big deal when you talk to him,and you will less shy and nervous!
Ask him when he gets to class about different things like
''Oh hi,hey I was so curious,how long have you been doing martial arts''?
If he responds try answering him,and then ask another question,try to get the ball rolling little bits at a time,so he can get to know you and see who he is missing out on!
Looks arent always everything! Just be yourself!!
Be blessed!
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Hi solidadvice4teens, I am not looking to start a fight. I am not a person who likes arguing. However, after reading your reply to my post I will not keep my thoughts about it to myself. Again, I am not replying to insult you in any way. With that in mind, first of all, let me tell you that in the past I have suggested to my current psychiatrist that she wean me off meds. She said exactly what you said. Was she right? Yes, for the most part yes. Adding onto that, at the beginning of your response you stated that you agreed with adviceman49. Saying that you are both right whether I like it or not. You both are PARTIALLY correct I say partially because you both assumed I was feeling mentally stable while on meds. There is a reason why I suggested to my psychiatrist that she wean me off meds. All those years I had been on them I never felt they truly helped me as much as they sedated me and I have been on loads of different cocktails of drugs. They have all been the same. They all dumb me down tremendously. Psychiatrists have tried prescribing me a smaller dose, changing the medicine altogether to a more "effective/modern" drug but the fact that I was drugged out, to the point of not knowing what I was really doing, on antipsychotics has never changed. Abilify was the last drug I was on and I do admit it was the most helpful one. Not 100% or even 80% either.(As my psychiatrist says the pill is the miracle worker, it does 80% of the work and you only have to do 20% of it). I was on it for four years and it was never the miracle worker my psychiatrist said it would be. Now, you also suggested I visit an emergency room. Why would I go to such an extreme? Doing that would surely result in me getting a 51/50. I have a tight work schedule, if I am gone for even 1 day without notice I would surely lose my job and if I told my employer to let me off the hook because I was in a mental hospital he would surely not sympathize. Not to mention how intense it would become at home with my own family members giving me looks of disapproval and disappointment or even amusement because of my mental "weakness". Adding on to that I was hospitalized when I was about twenty one twice in the time span of one month. I must say the psychiatrist there was horrible, HORRIBLE and the employee's were awful as well. They either hated their jobs or loved their jobs because the patient's crazy behavior entertained them. This is no lie, I got a rash on my face while I was hospitalized because a negligent nurse didn't tell me how to properly use a prescription acne face wash. Yet another thing that sparks my curiosity about what the psychiatry and drug industries true intentions are. Why would they give me a prescription for my acne when that has nothing to do with my mental health. Also, because I was put on so many drugs that had potential increased appetite/weight gain listed as side effects I was eating A LOT. I gained twenty pounds in ONE WEEK. That is ridiculously fast weight gain. They had no problem with serving me three meals in one sitting. That was extremely hazardous to my health. The way everything played out while I was there steers me into believing they were milking my health insurance for all it was worth. In conclusion, adviceman49 suggested I keep a note on my fridge to remind myself that I feel okay because of medications. If you took your time to read this which, I know, ended up being really long you now know that was never the case and also never will be. If I have managed to stay even slightly productive it has mostly been because of my own will. As a teenager I honestly thought they were helping me but I realize now that some of the craziest and most destructive things I have done in my life were done when I was on meds. I completely agree that my mind isn't average. Possibly even inferior and defective but one thing I don't agree with is psychiatry's approach to people like me. My last words may be shocking and insulting to either one or both of you: I am back on my meds. After all these years of being on if go off them my mind becomes too much to handle. It is bad when I am on them but worse when I am not. I hate being overly sedated. Most people see right through it and view me as slow and mentally impaired and I have never in my right mind told anyone other than family and psychiatrist's about my diagnosis. If anything those drugs that you refer to as meds. have done nothing good but turn me into their slave. I know 100% deep down that if the first psychologist I saw didn't order me to take drugs and would have stuck to therapies and counseling my situation in the long run would have been much better. I am not stating everything that has to do with psychiatry is bad but MOST psychiatrist's are and the pharmaceutical industry most definitely is. (link)
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Hello there,I'm BoogeyLady.Not solidadvice4teens
I am unsure whether your reply was specifically for me,or the other user ''solidadvice4teens''
Please let me know if there was some kind of mix up,thank you!
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14 / F / About 120 pounds / 5 foot 3 inches
When I was younger, I was a little overweight. I do believe I still have weight from back then.
I want to lose the fat in my face and stomach. I don't eat much sodium either, so I know it's not from that. I don't exercise because I'm just too lazy to; But I can. I just don't know which exercises to do. It's also hot outside, so I don't want to go running or anything. I barely leave my house too.
I eat somewhat healthy; I'm a vegetarian, so I eat fake meat that's made out of vegetables and all that. I drink a lot of water, and I count my calories to make sure I don't go over 1200. I'm trying to eat less, because - I admit - I eat when I'm not hungry. But I still count my calories.
What are some exercises or some ways to lose weight quickly? I am SO self concious, and can barely do anything. Sorry if this was long, I just need some advice.
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Sweetie,you are fine!! You are actually very very healthy!!
Make sure you have a good healthy nutritious breakfast.Eating a good one can help you feel fuller throughout the day.
Stay away from carbs like pasta,and eat beans.
Also,no diet drinks,as they are packed with harmful stuff! Yikes!
Also,drink a glass of water before each meal as it can help cleanse your stomach and help you eat a little less when eating your meal.
Please,stay away from diet pills.They can be very very dangerous.
Just stay as healthy as you can
Be confident and be yourself!
Be blessed!
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I sent a few nudes to a guy I met online and he's sent me money in return for them and now he's blackmailing me saying if I don't send him something else then he'll post all my pics on the internet.. Is there anything I can do to stop him? Can the police do anything? (link)
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Hi sweetheart! Im so sorry about this!
How dare he! Yes! Go to the police and file a complaint or file a harrasment suit/or file for hrrasment
Make sure you have a copy of any texts of what he has sent to you and show them.Make sure you completely honest
Shame on him for taking advantage of you! He should be ashamed!
Please don't be scared and know it will all work in the end.
He is threatening you and that is wrong.
Make sure,if you can you are able,if possible to get those photos back.
Always be careful to what you post online also.
If you have any more info on him,give it to the Police
Be blessed and be safe and thanks for writing to me!
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I am 20 years old girl.I am from Bnagladesh. 2 years ago I met a boy on facebook.He was from the another city of my country.I never add unknown people. Actually I was searching someone from his company. And I sent friend request to him. But after chatting I came to know that he was not the one. I decided to remove him. But from his old status I came to know that he lost his mother last year. I really felt bad. And decided not to remove him. We became friends. We used to chat for long time. He shared a lot of things with me so did I. He was a nice boy. He cared for me. I forgot to take my medicine. He asked me everyday that I took my medicine or not. He asked my opinion about his business card. I mean he gave me priorities. But after 2 months don't know what happened he started to change. He didn't reply me back like before. I didn't ask why. And I started to realize that I liked him. I felt bad about it, how I fall in love with someone on internet!. I decided to move on and not to talk to him anymore. But that time it seemed very difficult to me. I decided to remove him. One night I knocked him and told him something about my family and then told him that I am going to remove him. He said please tell me the reason. I told him and removed him.But still I used to message him and he replied me. That time I came to know from other source that he hided things from me. He didn't told me that his father got married few days ago. He told me that he had a girlfriend for one year but he never loved her. But I came to know that after that he also had a girlfriend almost for 3 years. But he didn't tell me anything about it. After one months I added him again. He accepted friend request and talked to me like nothing happened. Everything became normal again. I gave him my number. We started to chat on whatsapp. Almost like before. It was my birthday. I asked for gift. He asked what I want. I told as your wish. He told me to ask for something. I told him that you won't be able to give me. He asked me what. I didn't want to tell him. But he forced me and requested me to tell what I want. I told him that I liked him seriously and I really wanted to spent my life with him. He told me that we didn't meet each other ever so we shouldn't think about it. After that I didn't knock him. After one day he knocked me and told me that he added me on his new facebook id.In which he refused me to add before, he told me that this account was for his family.one day i called him and we talked for the first time. That day he told me about his father marriage. We talked for 20 minutes. And he was nice. After that we used to talk. His birthday was coming I decided to send him a gift. I asked for his address but refused to give it to me. But I knew his addressed already so I sent the gift. And he accepted it. There was his another female friend. She also liked him. She also send him gift but he didn't accept it. I came to know from someone. And on his birthday he called me and said that I am crazy. But he was happy.Every thing was going well. One day I knocked him on whatsapp and after sometime he replied. Like he always does. But I felt something is wrong. Don't know why!!! But my mind telling me that something is wrong. I felt that he was not replying me. Someone else was doing it. And the person tried to insult me. I knew that he couldn't talk to me like that. I ended the conversation. I was so upset that he allowed someone to reply me by his phone. After 7 days I knocked him and asked about the matter. He told that it wasn't he. I asked who it was. He told it was his colleague. But he didn't tell the name. I got very angry. He tried to explain me that it wasn't international. But I didn't pay any heed to his talk. I asked him how could he allowed someone to message me. He said that his colleague borrowed his phone for some work and I knocked that time and she replied. She also deleted the messages but told him what she wrote. And she did it for fun. I was so angry. I shouted at him. And told him not to contact me ever. At last he also got angry and told me that I was just a facebook friend to him nothing else and he never thought about me.
After that I found out the girls name. She is 1 year older than him. She also proposed him. But he said no. I contacted him again almost after 3 months. He also did. One night he called me we talked for so long. And after next day the girl tried to commit suicide and admited into hospital but he didn't go to see her. When I heard about it I really felt bad. Its been 6 months. We don't talk like before. He doesn't reply like before. I also ask him that if he has any problem to talk to me he can tell me directly I won't contact him again. But he says he has no problem to talk to me. But still he doesn't reply every time. I also don't knock him like before. I come to know that the girl comes back in his life.They talk to each other.But they are friend. He never tell me anything about the girl ever. I found it out from another source. I still miss him. Want to talk to him. But when I remember about the girl I stepped back. And didn't knock him. Don't know what to do.Should I contact him?Should I try to fix things? And I still think did he ever care for me? and still does? but unable to show it or I am just a fool??? (link)
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Hi sweetheart!! Im so sorry about this!!
Alot has happened to you and I am sorry it has
This young man you Facebooked. It sounds like he does not know what he wants and is confused.
He did not treat you well or right.You gave him much love and I see your heart was pure in doing so.
You dont knock him because of the other girl.
If he has not in a few weeks,knock you,then his intrests may be elsewhere.I am sorry sweetie.But it doesnt for the time being sound like he wants to be with you.
You are NOT a fool.Just a young lady who loves someone.You arent alone sweetie.You are never alone.
If you feel,just try one more time to knock him,and ask what it is that he wants,and go from there
Tell him how YOU feel.That you think about him and you love him.Tell him you can give him time to think about it.If he says no,then sadly,you must stay away :(
Be blessed sweetheart!
Thank you for writing,and if you ever need more advice,please let me know!
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If you penatrate a woman from the ass can she cumm (link)
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If she is feeling in the mood and she is atracted to you,yes she can
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I have a lovely circle of friends and we all get on really well and I'm so chatty and confident when there is atleast 3 of us but when it's just me and a friend I find it really difficult to hold/start a conversation and I'm worried that I'm boring. Can someone please give me advice on how to hold and start a conversation please?
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No problem! We all get stuck with getting a conversation started!!
How about''Guess what I saw on the Yahoo! Home Page today??'' And then tell them something about Kim K looking riduclous in some outfit!
See a new movie recently? Spill to your friends,then go on from the movie,and talk about actors and actresses that are your favorite!
Still stuck Cant go wrong with a card game!! Like ever!! Bring games like UNO,or Jenga.Something fun.
Play truth or dare.Maybe,hangout at a mall,and start a conversation with anything that may intrest you!
Be blessed!
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I'm going into 8th grade and super scared that I will get bad grades or something. Should I be worried? (link)
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Hi there!!
Don't be worried or scared!!
If ever should you ever get a bad grade or test score,you may consider a tutor or ask your teacher for a make-up test.
As your school year starts,it will start with basic things that you already know,and it will be just mostly review!!
Good luck!
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Hello, I'm nineteen and female, he is 19 as well. We started talking at the end of sophomore year in college and we parted ways for the summer where he went home to Jersey and I to Pennsylvania. However, we've been texting non stop everyday. A few times he's told me that he's changing his mind about commitment and how he wants a girlfriend and how he wants it to be me but I told him I was never in a very committed relationship so I told him I need time to think if that's what I want. He knows I like him and care about him and I know he cares about me so he let me think about it. I went away with my family for a weekend to our cabin in the mountains and didn't have any cell service, when I came back and we were talking again, he was different and I asked him what was wrong and he said while I was gone, he did some thinking that he doesn't want a girlfriend anymore and that hurt because while I was away, I decided that I wanted to be with him and commit to him but he changed his mind.
I got over that and we were still talking like we used to, hanging out and hooking up and being cute. That lasted for a while until I noticed him not being the same again and we talked about it and he said he's losing feelings, he still cares a lot but not as much as he used to. So, I gave him space. I thought we weren't really getting along and I thought it was best that we got over each other. It's been a few days that we haven't talked since he said that and we got into a fight about how every time I wanted to give up on us, he always pulled me back telling me we can work it out but when he wants to pull away, I can never bring him back.
It's been a few days and he texted me and just asked what was up, like nothing happened so I blatantly asked where he was on the scale of being over this and me and he said it definitely isn't a ten. I was on my way to fully getting over him and ever since he said that, it's like it drew me back to him.
I just can't seem to get over him and it sucks. I deleted his number and told him I need time away to get over him because he's definitely working on getting over me as our conversations are getting so short and we fight all the time and he isn't being cute to me like he used to. I even unfollowed him on twitter and instagram so I don't have to see him or hear from him and we even got into a fight about that. He doesn't understand the whole "out of sight, out of mind" thing and I told him that's what that was that if I don't see his face on instagram, it would be easy for me to get over him and he got mad at that.
I'm just getting sick of the games. I thought that if I talked to him about other guys that that would help me to get over him, like hanging out wise. He even got mad at that saying "I don't care what you do with them, I'm not involved. Don't talk to me about other guys that you would give a change, it's like you're rubbing them in my face." But I brought up that he can talk to me about his work friends ALL THE TIME to which he said "yea, work friends, not girls that I would date or hook up with." I'm sick of the games and the double standards and how when he says one thing, it just draws me right back to him.
So, the point of this is.. why do you think we fight all the time (as that is what broke up apart mostly) and why is he getting so mad at me for the dumbest things? He decided he didn't want to be with me yet he gets mad at me when I talk about other guys. And, lastly, how do I get over him?
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Hi angel!! Wow!!! Your hands are full!!!
Ive been in your situation,and it sucks so bad!!
So,let's start with this dude. He's definately playing a tug of war with you which is not right.Playing with someone's emotions is careless,as that what he has done
Now then,your heart is heavy,and I understand.
It seems to me like he doesn't know what he wants!
He may also have liked the convinience of having someone around but not really committed.
Also,you may have heard of the term''I don't want to be alone,but I also want to be alone''
It may be where he is at right now.He doesnt know what he wants.
I applaud your efforts into getting him ''out of site and out of mind''
Sometimes when you train your mind into thinking that youre over the person you like,chances are your mind will get the message and he will be out of site and mind.
Distract yourself with various activities.How about painting? Maybe take an acting class and be the next Jennifer Lawrence?!! How about writing a kids book? Choose something that will grab your intrest while also being fun and rewarding you to make a positive choice in your life!!!
Be blessed!
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Here's a picture of me: http://i.imgur.com/e2uF7w6.jpg
I have a stupid haircut and i don't look good.
I have no idea what hairstyle would look good for me, but could someone tell me what hairstyle would look best with my face? Every time I've asked this, people have just made fun for how I look; I know I'm ugly, but I just want legitimate advice as to what would look good for me. (link)
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Your hair reeks of awesomeness!! Oh how silly people are making fun of you!!
Ive done just about everything to this crazy hair of mine,colored,perm,cut,dyed it,braided,straightened it.Even got a haircut that made me look like Moe from the 3 Stooges!!
Actually,your hair styled quite best for how it has been cut hello Prompadour!
However,you can grow it out,may I suggest,Biotin? Its natural,and celebs use it to grow out their hair!!
Need anymore advice,let me know!!!
Be blessed!
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I'm a 13 year old girl and my friend (also 13) drinks. Let's call my friend Donna. So Donna was never a good girl. Constantly saving her phone taken away for texting threats. She said she was abused as a child and if that's true, that could be part if the problem, but she's also a notorious liar.... I've gotten in trouble for a few of her schemes before so I'll probably be breaking off the friendship soon but aside from all of that.... Here's my real problem: Donna and I were texting yesterday and she sends me a picture of this drink with the caption "Delicious!!!!". It did look pretty good so I said "What's in it?" And she gives me a list of ingredients but one really catches my eye: alcohol. I'm not sure what kind if alchohal it is but by the color I assume that it's vodka. The rest of our conversation goes like this:
Me: Alchohal?????
Donna: Yes, but shhhhh....
Me: I'm not gonna tell anyone, but aren't you a little too young to be ruining you're liver?
Donna: Yeah, but it's only like a quarter of an ounce. Besides, my parents use to give me alchohal when I was little so I would learn to hate the taste.
Me: Still Donna, it's not good.
She stopped replying after that..... Should I tell my mom, her mom, the school counseler? I don't know who I should tell honestly. If that's the only time she's ever drank and she doesn't do it again then can I let it go? And she'sthe kinda person who will tell the whole school that I'm a snitch.... (link)
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You are an awesome friend that you care so much!!
Im sorry this has affected you!! Its so hard!
I believe,that it would be wise to tell your mom.You are concerned and you aren't doing it to hurt Donna's feelings. It sounds like she does have emotionial problems,and she is acting because of her life.
Yes,please tell your mom,and maybe she can call Donna's mom
Im sorry sweetheart.
Be blessed and remember,that tattling doesnt always mean a tattletale!
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I'm 14 years old and I think I might be depressed. Ever since I moved almost a year ago I've been upset. At first I cut my arms and made suicudal abd dark drawings and poems (although I'm not suicidal). I haven't cut in months though, I think I'm over that. I'm still very depressed though. I look at depressing pictures to see who else is depressed so I don't feel alone, I cry my self to sleep every single night, I dread going back to school in September because I don't like anyone. Two or three people try to talk to me but I don't like them. I spend my days in my room reading or surfing the internet. The only time I leave the house is to go to the library for more books. To top it all off I'm fat. It's not just in my mind either, I'm 5 feet and 150 pounds. I'm trying to lose some, but cravings get the best of me, so there goes my self-esteem. What can I do? I don't want to talk to my parents. I don't feel comfortable talking to them, we never sit down and talk so it makes me feel awakward and even just talking to them gets my social anxiety started. They don't take me seriously anyway. (link)
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Hello there!
Im so sorry you are going through this.
I understand the awkwardness you are going through,and I have been through what you have been through!
Sweetie,you arent alone,its a hard thing to deal with!
Dont feel bad,or feel like quitting,you have a purpose in your life!
There is nothing wrong with you! I promise!
So here are a few things that you can look up and these people will never tell anyone your situation.Just a one on one,and I urge you to call and or visit these websites!!
1-800-784-2433 This is a suicide hotline
Text “CTL” to 741741. Help place via text mesage if you have a cell!
www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org
I hope this helps you!
Be blessed! I wish you love joy and beauty in your life!!!
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So I have the same cliché dream as every 14 year old girl: To become an actor. I was wondering how I get a career of some sort started so that I can work my way up to being on popular and successful shows like those on Nickelodean and Disney Channel. I'm involved with my school's drama club and musicals and such, but where do I go to get something bigger? I live fairly close to some major cities (New York for example) where I'm sure some auditions are held, but how do I find them? Also, how do I tell my parents that I want to be an actress? I feel like they frown upon that sort of thing. I really love acting; being on stage gives me a thrill and happiness like nothing else. It's just the most amazing thing when you can completely embody someone else and be anything you want. This is so important to me, please give me some advice. (link)
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Simple! Talent Agency! A talent agency will help guide you and set you up!
Make sure you talk it over with your parents,as they will need to sign papers on your behalf!
This website will change your life!
https://www.onesourcetalent.com/models/app/index.cfm?r=451
Be Blessed!
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What color looks best in harem pants? (link)
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Black! You can never go wrong with black! If you can,find black ones with gold accents!
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So I'm 15 years old and I met a guy while I was visiting my family in Florida. And he he says he likes me and that's why he broke up with his girlfriend but he doesn't want to date me because I live so far away. But we have done stuff like made out a lot I've given him a blow job etc. But we haven't went all the way because I'm afraid that if I go all the way with him he will leave me and never speak to me again. I asked him what are we and he said I'm not a booty call cuz I deserve better but I'm not his girlfriend either. It's just so confusing, like what are we? I want a boyfriend but he doesn't want a relationship. I need help please! :( (link)
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Hmmmf!! To your boyfriend,not to you darling!
Lets take this piece by piece.
So you met him,and he lives far away.
Second,it sadly sounds like he wants somebody around but no commitment watsoever! AS IF!!
Second,please do not sleep with him!! He is not deserving of you,and he is being very cruel,and not nice to you.
Sleeping with him,and staying with him,will actually make it worse,and it will hurt you more.
See,girls mature faster than boys do,so he is no way at the mindset you are!
You my dear,as hard it is,is probably better for you to say goodbye to this boy,and maybe you should be with someone who is around you and is more mature and also,someone who respects you!!
You see respect is so important,and this young man you are speaking of lacks respect for you,and your body and that is a no no no.
Be blessed and I know some wonderful young man will come your way and love and respect you! Always makes sure you treated right and like a young lady and a human being!
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What qualifies someone to give advice on this site? (link)
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What qualifies someone?
Having a listening ear for one,and having discernment for one thing.
Personally for me,Im unsure if Im even doing a good job,but I remeber that I have many expiriences,and things in life that Ive learned from that helps me,help others
Being wise,and of course being smart,and also remebering that watever advice you give,you are impacting someones life!
Remeber that!
Be Blessed!
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Do they still make Puppy Surprise dolls? If not is there a place for collectors of them or something? (link)
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Oh yes they do!!
Head on over to ebay.com!! I did a search for you and you can order them there!!
Here's a link below and you can look around!! Good luck!!
http://www.ebay.com/sch/i.html?_from=R40&_sacat=0&_nkw=Puppy+surprise+doll&_nkwusc=Puppy+Suprise+doll&_rdc=1
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So I've been with my boyfriend for awhile and I'm not afraid to touch his penis but I don't like him touching me down there for some reason idk if it's just because I'm embarrassed about getting wet or what but plz help! (link)
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Whoa honey! Calm down.Lets start from the top!
First,what he is doing,is a very new expirience for you.If it is uncomfortable for you,dont keep quiet.Instead tell your boyfriend that is doesnt feel right to you.
Never ever feel forced or pressure to do something that you dont want to do! Dont worry about being embarrassed,this is new for you.When you are ready for him to try that again in the future,you will be more at ease.
Be blessed
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