about

Hey everyone! My name is Michelle and I'm fifteen, sixteen in a month! I'm a junior in high school. I've been in too many relationships, and I'm finally taking a break from boys. I'm a dancer and bowler. Ask me anything :) Thats why I'm here.


xoxo, Michelle

advice

OK, all the sudden, I get these urges to have sex, even though I haven't ever had sex.
I need to know to know how to vontrol it and what to do.
Thanks in advance!

Well, I think it happens to everyone, haha. Theres really no way to control it, just try to ignore it.

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my bf and i love each other but we are having a lot of problems because i feel like im not a priority because he never has time to talk to me. well right now his phone is broken too but he doesnt email and occasionally IMs. its just we used to talk so much and now we dont. we is super busy with school because its getting really tough and i know he wants to talk but he just doesnt have time!! what should we do because i keep getting hurt when he says he will call me and then doesnt. dont say understand him because this is serious. i am getting so upset and feel like their should be a way he can make time for me. and he cant do anything on fridays and a lot of times i cant on sat. or sun. and we cant on school nights. we go to different schools and im moving in 2 months so i want to spend every second possible with him. he does too and i know he wants to but he just cant seem to make time. i want to come up with a solution and stuff and i just want him to make me feel like he truly does love me and cares about me. if we cant solve this in a week (he asked me to give him a week to prove himself) then we are going to take a break(or breakup depending). he didnt want to call me today (like he promised!! he promised he was going to fix everything and make it all right and that it would OK and that he would call) but he didnt because he said it feels like i am upset with him (i AM...but i still love him) and he doesnt like going and talking to me when i am upset with him and unhappy with our relationship (he said). PLEEEASE what should i do? i dont even have a way of contacting him on a phone because his cell isnt working and hes getting a new one soon but idk when and he doesnt have a home phone. i have his dads # cause he has been calling on his dads cell when he had time to talk so should i call his dads phone?? thank you SO much...you dont know what this means.

i am so upset and sad and scared because i love him but i cant keep getting hurt. please help and i will rate thank you!!

I have the same problem with my boyfriend. I only get to hang out with him twice a week at the most. It's really hard, but it's something I have to deal with to be with him. So honestly, make the best of it. Plan special times together so when you don't get to see him for long periods of time you have something to look forward to. Me and my boyfriend also have a notebook. I know it's totally corny, but he'll write in it and give it to me and I'll write back. It's a great way to communicate, when it's not always easy to. He shouldn't be breaking promises though, so I would talk to him about that. Good luck,

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so my best friend aubry and i have been best friends since 6th grade (were freshman now) and 6th grade was great, we had tons of fun! like we learned about eachother so much. 7th grade was really rocky we fought so much, i would finally forgive her, we'd catch up, and a little while later i'd do something to screw it up and she'd get mad at me. but we still had fun, lots of it. 8th grade we didnt see to much of eachother (we were on different teams for school, no classes together,and eventually our lunch room got so bad they made us sit by teams so she was far from me,) we would still talk, we are good at reading body language and each others lips so thats how we communicated in lunch. this year we have 6th period together, gym and health and we had study last semester but this year she sort of shows off, not bragging (shes never like that) shes just loud and needs to joke around, we dont get to talk much, actually (she plays hardcore sotball and practices every day after school) then her boyfriend takes up whatever time she does have (like phone at night which used to be our thing since 7th grade) then when we do talk in class, i try to figure stuff out, like what were doing that friday and she needs to make a scene (which she kinda yells at me for doing) (i also like to cuddle and talk for hours, when we have a night just to ourselves i would just like to lay on the couch fooling around talking. she doesnt, she used to but not anymore)

i just miss the good times, and if i try to talk to her, she doesnt see to much wrong (i think its cause she has an awesome social life, always talking to someone, never home on a friday but me, i have her and thats really its a few other people.) i just want to me as important in her life (and feel it) as i did back then when people KNEW i was her best friend. what can i do?

I'm actually facing a similar problem. I've had a best friend since 6th grade too. Now that we are in high school, a lot of things changed. We aren't nearly as close as we used to be, considering she changed a lot. Sometimes there's no easy fix for things like this. Your not always going to stay best friends with a person. The only thing you can do is talk to her. Tell her you feel like your kind of getting pushed aside. I'm sure she will understand.

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Are you insecure about your new relationship about your new boy/girl friend? Do you know if there cheating on you, but they might not or might be?

I'm not insecure now, because I've been with my boyfriend for a while now. But at the beginning I was. I think you always are when somethings brand new to you. It goes away with time though as you build trust with the person.

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whats the best brand of makeup?

I swear by covergirl. (:

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i have a lot of hair on my arms. And now that summer is comming i want to not have hair on my arms or make it so noticeable. Do u know what to do??? And also just for a summer tip, how long should i stay out in the sun?? b/c i have very light skin, and i get burned easily. And what kind of suscreen could i use. thank you b/c all the boys in skool make fun of my hair and that i'm pale!

Well I shave my arms. So you could do that. Just use the same razor you use to shave your legs. And I'm really light skinned too. Stay out in the sun untill you feel your getting burned. You will know, trust me. And for sunscreen just use anything you find at the store. I like the kind that sprays on.

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Do you have to pay for registering or sending pictures to your PIX Place or any charge of that sort?

thanks in advance!

You automatically get PIX place with most cell phone plans & sending pictures to PIX place is free. (:

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whats up with the rumor of aubrey almost joining pussycat dolls.. .can someone please explain to me?

This site pretty much explains everything:
http://www.shoutmouth.com/index.php/emo-news/Aubrey_O'Day_Leaving_Danity_Kane_for_the_Pussycat_Dolls%3F

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okay, so i have this huge fear that i have a major case of B.O.
like, no matter what i do, i always end up sweating wicked bad at the end of the day and i can smell myself.

its kind of embarrasing, and i really don't know what to try.
do you think it might be a doctor-type thing to go too?
or ist here a stronger deodarent i can try?

i already tried arrid - extra dry
and BAN.

help, please?

I use Secret Clinical Strength. It's a deodorant that you apply at night to clog pores. So far it's worked great for me. I've heard that Certain-Dri works good too but I've never tried it. I would definitely try one of those before considering going to the doctor. It's probably a lot cheaper.

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okay so i saw alot of pictures of people kissing in which the girl kisses the top lip of the guy's, is that what your suppose to do? im never really romantically kissed a guy before so im really unsure. please help, thanks.

Honestly, there's no boundaries to kissing. You can kiss his top lip, bottom lip, both lips, anything. Do whatever feels right. (:

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im 15yr old guy and my penis is almost 6 inches long is that average do girls care?

Honestly, it doesn't matter to me. It depends on the girl. But its perfectly normal (:

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so my boyfriend wants to finger me
but im not sure
because one, i can only fit one finger in my vagina
is this normal?
two, i shave all my pubic hair off but it grows back
does it bother a guy if theres stubble?
please help

Don't let him do anything your too uncomfortable to do. The best way to handle things is to talk to him. Tell him that you can only fit one finger and that he'll have to start with one. And pubic hair doesn't matter. If he really loves you and wants to take this step in your relationship then he wont care.

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i had a dream i was walking in the park with my ex-boyfriend

what does that mean?

Yes, It could mean that your thinking about him. But it could also mean absolutely nothing. I had a dream about me going to a baseball game and running into all my ex-boyfriends and having sex with them. I have a boyfriend. And that dream pretty much meant nothing. haha.

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Okay i have a problem. I am in eigth grade and i only had one boyfriend more than a year ago. he wanted to hook up but i wasnt ready, but now i am and we broke up and i want a boyfriend! and i want someone i trust to hook up with, and i just want someone to hold me and i have really bad taste in guys, they're always jerks, so what do i do!!!

Honestly, you just have to wait for the right guy to come around. Even though you might want a boyfriend right at this moment, wait and see what comes along. Don't push it.

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my boyfriend and i have been together for eight months now. its really nice but i think hes getting tired of me. everytime i mention taking a break he goes crazy though. i dont want him to stay just because he thinks i wont be here later. what can i dooo.

I've been with my boyfriend for nine months, exactly today actually, and I know exactly what you are talking about. If he's getting tired of you it just means things might be getting boring to him. If you are just in the routine of things, that may be your problem. Trying hanging out at a new place, or trying new things that you haven't done to each other before. This will spice up the relationship, and make it more interesting so he's not tired of you.

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ok i really want to tease my boyfriend and act all sexy and get him really turned on and excited. we both agreed no sex we dont even want to go to 3rd. actually we havent gone to 2nd but gotten reeeally close. we have had dry sex though. the last time we hung out we had dry sex a couple times and made out A LOT and he put his hands up my shirt right under my bra and kept asking to take my shirt off but i said no. he was really turned on tho and even had really red cheeks! so to make him happy and get him excited i want some more ideas for that. he knows we arent gonne go to 3rd or have sex so im not like being mean or anything. he likes it when i do sexy things. also i dont feel comfortable doing like a stripped dance for him or rubbing him 'down there' but i am cool with some sort of game if anyone has one. thanks so much and i will rate!! :]

There's a lot of fun things you can do. I totally know how you feel because I'm dating someone and we agreed no sex. What I love to do is lay my boyfriend down, and pull his shirt up and trail your kisses all the way down his stomach but stop right before you get to his pants. He'll want you to go lower, so its fun to make him want it (: hahaha. Even like getting on top of him or kissing his neck. All these things will make him want it, even though he knows he;s not going to get it. Have fun!

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what do guys think when you rub their thigh? kinda high and possibly like the inner part of their thigh? thanks! i will rate :)

I agree with the two girls below. It definitely gets them horny. At least with my boyfriend it does, haha.

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16/m
is it wierd to shave my pubes, like most girls said they'd like it better if i shaved

Yeah it's normal. A lot of guys I know do.

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hey i just needed some advice on make-up tips.
my objective is really to make my skin on my face look a little tanner and my eyes to stand out more.

my eyes are dark blue and my skin is ..let's say out of fair, light, medium, tan, and dark, its light. i really want my eyes to look lighter blue and my complexion to be not so pale. i usually wear black mascara and black eyeliner. i'm thinking eye shadow maybe?

anyone whos good at makeup please help, thanks =)

16/f

Eyeliner and mascara do help bring out your eyes more, but if you want your blue eyes to pop, then any color blue or brown eyeshadow will definitely help. Almay products have their "intense i-color" line, and they have a lot of things for bringing out your eyes depending on your eye color. I would check it out. Here's the eyeshadow I'm talking about:

http://www.almay.com/Pg/Main/CatProdDet.aspx?catid=32&catnm=Eyes&subid=242&subnm=Shadow&prd=28616&osubnm=Blue

Also, to make you look less pale, a bronzer will help. These add a tint to your skin. But don't over do it, it will be too obvious that it's fake. Blush helps too.

Hope I helped!

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so, like, probably about a month ago i started cutting myself. now, i can't stop. it has turned into an addiction. i can't hide it anymore, i wera like tons of hair things on my wrist, but it still doesn't fully cover all of the cuts and if one accidentley moves, people are like omg what is that?! and i always tell them i axcidentley burnt myself. and i have been going to the doctor ALOT lately because i'm really sick and they don't no what is wrong with me and so they always check my body and stuff, and i have been getting I.V.'s and stuff and the nurse just pulls up my sleeve and see's it and looks at me then just acts like she didn't see it because she no's. so, i have been trying to stop, i really have, but it is so hard because i like to do it so much. it's not like im really doing anything bad to me, they are harmless little cuts that barley bleed, so what i really want is to no how to hide them! anyone who can help will be well appreciated! thanks.

Like the person below, I too had a best friend that started cutting herself. It messed her whole life up. And thats not an understatement. For a long time, she wasn't herself and as a friend it was scary to watch her go through that. Instead of trying to find ways to cover it up, you need to stop. If you have no idea how to do this, I would definitely recommend telling a good friend you trust. Thats what my friend did. She told me she needed help. So just friend support and someone there to encourage you and be there for you will help a lot. There is other ways to relieve stress. Take up a new hobby, or new sport. Any activity to take your mind off of it. I know you can get over it, I watched my friend heal and you can too. Good luck.

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