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do guys like girls that play sports? i play ice hockey
hey, good for you. we need more hockey girl players out there. anyways it all depends on the guy. some like girly girls but some like jocks.
What places/stores/restaurants/etc. hire 14 or 15 year olds?
hey, well i know shaws hires 14 year olds. so doesnt the FYE arcade. i dont know if you have one of those where you live tho. news paper routes are always an option also.
i am a fifteen year old female. the boy i have been making out with recently wants to step up our relationship. he wants to finger me which i am totally ready for and excited for. the only concern is that i have a lot of pubic hair, so i wonder if he will be grossed out. should i shave it for him? Thanks.
hey, well dont shave your hair if its just going to be for him. because trust me, once you shave it you can never get it back to normal. it will always be prickely. make sure its something that you really want to do before you do it. also some guys are grossed out by pubic hair. actually most guys are. but just be sure the shaving is for you and not him.
alright
so i was wondering
like us girls care soo much about the little things like for example our hair has to be perfect.. i like mine straight and if one little part is not perfect straight i freak out and think it looks so bad, and if my make up is smared our something i feel ugly for the rest of the day..
but my point is do yull really care about these little things, or do yull not even notice them,
oo and one more thing,
what do you like in a girl?
thanks for the help
~confused on guys~
hey, well thats just the way us girls are! nothing anyone could ever say or do could change us. someone could say that we were drop dead gorgeous and we would still think otherwise.
some qualities that guys like are:
-girls that arent afraid to show there love.
-outgoing girls
-funny
-flirty
how do i make franch kissing more fun for me and my boyfriend
hey, well try different positons. if you guys makeout a lot when your standing up, try laying on a bed and kissing. switch it up. guys love change.
About a week ago i had sex with this guy and he was my first as in he took my virginity. I talked to him the day after it happened cause he came to my job to see me. And i havent talked to him since. I sent him a message on myspace asking him to please find a way to talk to me. And he told me hed work on it. He has a cell but he cant text or call right now. Im just really upset about everything that is going on.
Were not fighting about anything, he wouldnt of used me for sex.
I just need advice on what i should do before i flip out.
thanks
[id appriciate it more then anything if i dont get this long speech about how i shouldnt of had sex with him if i dont love him or how i could be pregnant, im old enough to realize the consequences thanks tho]
hey, well sometimes things can be a little akward between people after they had sex for the first time together. give it some time. if its already been a long time then ask him why hes holding back on talking to you. but you cant expect him to talk to you if your not warm and friendly towards him. warm and friendly people are way more approachable.
my friend asking me that why does she have hard time liking guys that who likes her?
it happens to her a lot when she likes a guy and if a guy likes her back she lose interest and all even though he's a mr. right for her
what do u think about this situation? do u think shes not ready for commitment? please tell me what you think thank you so much
hey, to put things in simple terms "she wants what she cant have". once she knows that she "has" the guy and knows that he likes her, its not fun for her anymore. she likes trying to get guys to like her.
okay, long version short:
theres this guy that i like and before winter break i was asking everyone for their numbers (i had over 20 so it wasn't personal or anything) and i asked for his and he said "i don't know" and so i took that as a clue to back off a little because before the number incident, he flirted with me like a lot so i often went to his lunch table for like 3min to talk to him and stuff. and then after the number incident, i was like hmm, maybe i'm suffocating him in some way or another. and now we've "grown distant" haha i guess. like i barely go to his table now but i still talk to him and stuff. but like i walk really slowly from lunch to my class hoping that he'll come up and put his arms around me (he does that often). and last week i went over to his table and he gave me one of those really strong bear hugs. and i love his hugs!! haha but i'm like resisting all temptations to run up to him everytime i see him.
but anywhos my question is...by going to his lunch table and going up to him when i see him (i don't see him much. just at lunch and RARELY another time other than lunch) often, does that seem clingy? if it does, what should i do to like be next to him but not seem clingy?
hey, well if hes not putting in the effort to come to your table to talk to you the days that you dont come to his then i dont think hes interested. if your not interested in someone and they do that, then yes that would seem clingy. do a little test. go to his table WAY LESS, but dont stop coming completly. see if he takes the time to come to your table. maybe hes scared to talk to you in front of the people you sit with? does he ever talk to you when your alone? if he does then hes either a) interested in you but doesnt want to show it in front of your friends or b) is embarrased that he likes you. if your pretty popular and have a lot of friends then i wouldnt see why it would be letter b). ask your self those questions and sort things out.
does anyone know a myspace tracker that actually works (preferrably have had experience with) so you know who has visited your account?
thanks so much
hey, okay well myspace trackers are scams. there completly fake. there is no such thing. if you look on the right hand side of oyur myspace after you login you can see how many views your myspace has had since youve had it, but you cant know who viewed it.
There's this boy. He's half a year younger than me. He's a BITCH. How do I get over him(: I WAS over him, I really was. But now i'm going back and I really don't want to. I'm pretty sure he likes this other girl but sometimes when he talks to me when he says goodbye he says "I love you." But also other times he just doesn't talk to me and when we are talking doesn't even say goodbye, and just leaves. Help me? (o:
hey, alright well if you really want to get over someone it will happen. trust me. you just have to be ready to get over him mentally. i was in love with this guy and i thought that i would never get over him. i just slowly started elminateing(sp?) him from my life. i didnt call him as much, talk to him as much, or do anything that has to do with him as much. its going to be hard but i think its going to be worth it for you and for the sake of your feelings. once your completly over him [if you ever get that far], start dating. its always nice to have a new love. put yourself out there. i have faith in you.
where can i get the default layout code for myspace? like those skinny layouts that hav a layout and then they hav the regular myspace thing??? xoxo
hey, well you can get premade skinny layouts at any myspace layout site. just request to be there friend and there will be tons of layout codes. the other advicenator that answered before me gave you a myspace layout site. go from there and look in there friends and get more layout sites.
okay well this is pretty disgusting so bare with me. i am 13 and well my "baggage" in the pubic area is kind of "loose". lol i know its weird but whenever i look in the mirror naked just standing up straight, i can see my stuff like hanging there (not hanging really far down or anything.) but i just wanted to know if that's normal. all the girls i see, you can barely see any of their "stuff" when they face me standing straight up, but i can just see a little bit of it when i look at myself. is it normal for it to be a little low?
hey, well peoples vaginas are suppose to be different seeing that god created no one alike. but since your only thirteen im kind of shocked that your vagina would be so loose. ask yourself these questions. is my vagina stretched out everywhere? is my vagina just kind of long and has some extra fat on it? if the answer is yes to the first one then your either a) having to much sex, b) masturbating too much, or c)you just have a vagina with extra fat. im not really sure about choice c). i mean anything is possible so it is a possiblilty(sp?), but ive never heard of such a thing. if the answer is yes to the second one, then like i said before maybe thats just how you were born. that seems strange, but maybe its true.
okay so i am definitely not gay because i LOVE guys. i mean i am like super boy crazy. but recently, ive been wanting to hook up with my best friend who is a girl. what does this mean? i just want to have sex with her, not like have a relationship or anything.??
hey, alright well it could be that your just a) curious of what it would be like to have sex with another girl or b) you are bisexual. either way i wouldnt tell your friend how your feeling because it might effect your friendship. she might be afraid to hangout with you alone if you tell her. if your really serious about wanting to have sex with a girl then i would find a different person to do it with.
So I was dating this guy ( we are both 13) and it was going wicked great. Then one day I got a call from one of his friends saying he wanted to break up. Later that night he sent me a instant message saying he was sorry and was hoping we could still be friends I said sure. He asked if I was mad at him and I told him yes. But I don’t know I really wasn’t, I was irritated because just that Friday he had told me he still liked me (something came up and I thought he liked another girl) I sent him one that Monday (that took place on Sunday) and said I was sorry for flipping and yea I hope we can be friends too, but he went on an away message and ignored it completely.. Since then he hasn’t said a word to me. I had said something to him (it was about school, we had to be partners) but he just shook his head. I’ve been really upset since, I’m normally not the kind of girl to cry, but this is the first time this has happened to me and I really can’t help it. I feel unwanted, and I like him so much. I want to go back out with him, but that would be kind of hard because he said he didn’t like me anymore (that’s why he had broken up with me) plus it would be awkward but, as of now I don’t care what its like. Now (I might be a little paranoid) be is flirting with one of his best friend’s girl friends and she is one of those people that would dump her boyfriend for him. She knows I still like him. I talk to her about it, she’s kind of a friend but not best friend. But that doesn’t give her any reason to do this to me, or her boyfriend. I just don’t know what to do. My friends have been understanding and let me talk about it whenever I want but after a while, I have a feeling there going to get tired of this. WHAT DO I DO??? I WANT HIM BACK SO BAD!!! Thank you guys in advance.
Ps. If any guys have any idea what to do I would really appreciate the advice. And the thing I want to know most is how to get him to like me again (I’ll do anything) not that I'm desperate, but I miss him so MUCH!!!
hey, well let me just start by telling you that there is no way to get someone to like you. they either like you or they dont. also ive learned that the more you try to get them to like you, the more you push them away. its kinda like the class nerd trying to ask you out and he knows that you dont like him but hes still going to try to get you to like him anyways, so hes going to talk to you as much as he can. think of it like that. it would get pretty annoying, dontcha think? i also think that your life would be better without him in it. you could do better than someone who a) lies to you so you wont feel bad [example: he says he likes you then, he breaks up with you], b) is not mature enough to breakup with you in person [example: having his friend break up with you for him], and c) gets over you in 2.5 seconds [example: if he really loved you, you wouldnt be that easy to get over]. im sorry to say but i seems like you picked a real loser. find a guy that likes you for you and has better qualities then your last choice. im kind of happy that your only thirteen because when your younger you learn from your mistakes. i think that from this situation you will know what kind of guys to choose and not to choose.
I have to come up with a story that includes the phrse "Is your father a terrist".It can be one paragraph to ten pages.Please help.
P.S.It is not for English class but If do not come up with 3 stories I willbe made to wear my underwear on the outside,then I will be tickled and then my face will be painted.It will all be caught on camera.
hey, well im not going to right it for you. you obviously got yourself into this [it sounds like a dare] and brought it upon yourself. anyways just write somewhere along the lines of a poem. a funny fictional poem.
Again, its me mariahwannabe.
Yeah so anyway, as you all know I am a huge fan of mariah, she is my idol and I am always looking for new mariah merchandice.But the thing is my friends friend owns a gold mariah carey necklace and it has like jewels in it. If you can find me that one online or find a really nice necklace online saying mariah carey that would be great also.Also i live in uk, so it would be easier if it was a uk site, but dont worry.Never mind about the price.!And if there is anyother merchandice tell me!!But not cds as I have them all xx!
hey, well i know that claires has mariah carey jewelery called "glamorized" by mariah carey. it doesnt say her name on it or anything but the jewelry is by her.
http://claires.com/fashion_celebstyle_mariah1.asp?top=f&bcid=cw
if you choose your state it will tell you the location of your nearest claires stores incase your interested.
i need to know how do you hide my pictures on myspace? please help me im desperate. thank you
hey, you could put like an msn icon as your default picture and make your myspace private. then once people accept you they can see the rest of your pictures and those can be pictures of you.
Does mastrobating for a girl that hasnt started her period make it come later?
hey, nope. that has nothing to do with it. you`ll get your period when your body`s ready.
does anyone have any tips on convincing my mom to let me pierce my bellybutton? i already have 6 piercings in my ears and she said no more after i got my 5th hole (cartilage).. i pierced the 6th one (other cartilage) myself hehehe woo but she didnt like it (that was like a year ago). so she said no more but i want it soooo bad. i already tried asking for it as my 17th bday present (in september). no. i tried askin if i can get it if i keep a job for so many months, get all A's in school, etc. no. i tried researching and telling her the facts/risks/care/faqs/etc. no. so basically whenever i ask i get yelled at to quit asking. ahh but i want it lol! any ideas? :D
hey, im not trying to trash bishtuz`s advice but i wouldnt do that. that would just lead to trouble. if she doesnt want to let you get it done then thats that. it seems like you`ve tried almost everything to convince her. just wait it out till your eighteen.
is there a site where you can like upload a file to? im on my computer and i dont have a printer, so i want to upload some paint files to a site so i can go on my other computer and get the files. is it possible?
hey, try http://www.photobucket.com