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girls/boys?
okay so i am definitely not gay because i LOVE guys. i mean i am like super boy crazy. but recently, ive been wanting to hook up with my best friend who is a girl. what does this mean? i just want to have sex with her, not like have a relationship or anything.??
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I think you are just curious. Most people are when they get to their teenage years. I think you should def. just find someone who is as curious as you,or, see if your friend is curious try it out, and if you like it then you like it.
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hey, alright well it could be that your just a) curious of what it would be like to have sex with another girl or b) you are bisexual. either way i wouldnt tell your friend how your feeling because it might effect your friendship. she might be afraid to hangout with you alone if you tell her. if your really serious about wanting to have sex with a girl then i would find a different person to do it with.
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There's nothing wrong with you or strange about your feelings. Many people occasionally become curious about different kinds of sex.
You don't mention whether you actually want to tell her about this or even see if she would be interested. However, in the spirit of giving unsolicited advice, I strongly suggest that in this case you keep these feelings to yourself. Consider the potential consequences if you told your friend about these urges:
(1) She might completely freak out, and effectively end your friendship.
(2) She might not freak out, but still feel very weird about hanging out with you.
(3) She might just take it in stride and say, "Yeah, I know what you mean." But seriously, what are the odds of that?
(4) She might be secretly in love with you, and then have her heart broken when she finds out that all you want is sex.
In short, there are certain things we just don't tell our friends about. This should probably be one of those things. Revealing information like this would almost certainly change the dynamic of your friendship, and the overwhelming odds are that it wouldn't be for the better.
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This means you have bisexual leanings. This was common in the ancient Greek era, when the mantra for men was "girls for family, boys for fun." It's not uncommon to want to have a relationship with one gender and only physical sex with another. Good luck.
Sabine
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