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OKEY.
There's this boy. He's half a year younger than me. He's a BITCH. How do I get over him(: I WAS over him, I really was. But now i'm going back and I really don't want to. I'm pretty sure he likes this other girl but sometimes when he talks to me when he says goodbye he says "I love you." But also other times he just doesn't talk to me and when we are talking doesn't even say goodbye, and just leaves. Help me? (o:
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gahh, i knew a guy like that except we didn't go out. well .. i don't know if you & the loser went out that you're talking about, but oh well.
he's just .. you know what? i don't know what he is. lol, that's what the guy did to me. he has a girlfriend & i hate him. not cause he has a girlfriend .. i don't care about that. yeahh, anyways, just find some other kid (who's on the good looking side. haha, that sounded stupid.) & tell yourself all the good things about him & maybe you'll end up liking him & forget about the jerkface. sometimes guys just say i love you because you guys are good friends. there was ANOTHER guy that i knew last year who always was telling me i was his best friend & everyone said he liked me. i didn't like him, though. guess where he is now? he's effing homeschooled. did he bother to tell me? NO. so, my point is, guys may act one way & then suddenly turn their back on you. it all depends on the guy. hey, even guys can be two-faced. the other times you guys are talking .. are his friends around or the girl he likes? maybe he doesn't want them to hear him talking to you. & if he doesn't say goodbye, maybe he just has other things on his mind & forgets. i do that all the time. don't stress over it. pull him off to the side or call him & just let him have it. tell him how much he's hurt you & much of an ass he's been. if he apologizes, i'd go back to him. if he doesn't give a crap, i'd slap him in the face next time you see him & hang out with your friends alot to help you forget about the loser. but, like i said, even guys can be two-faced sometimes.
yeahh, sorry that it was so long. just i can relate to you sort of.
well, goodluckkkk.
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hey, alright well if you really want to get over someone it will happen. trust me. you just have to be ready to get over him mentally. i was in love with this guy and i thought that i would never get over him. i just slowly started elminateing(sp?) him from my life. i didnt call him as much, talk to him as much, or do anything that has to do with him as much. its going to be hard but i think its going to be worth it for you and for the sake of your feelings. once your completly over him [if you ever get that far], start dating. its always nice to have a new love. put yourself out there. i have faith in you.
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There are three time-honored ways of getting over someone:
(1) Get blind drunk.
(2) Go out with someone else.
(3) Cut that person as much out of your life as possible.
I'm guessing that number one is probably not a good option for you, which is fine because it doesn't work anyway. Number two is great if you have someone lined up, but if things backfire it's really unfair to the poor sap when he finds out he's just a rebound guy. That leaves you with option three.
You need to stop yourself in your tracks, and consciously make the decision that you will NOT go back to him. Don't talk to him, don't call him, and if he calls you ask him not to. Tell him, if you can, that you're trying to get over him because a relationship between you just won't work. He may be willing to give you that space - if not, you are within your rights to get bitchy about it right back. You might start by telling him that he has no business saying he loves you if he doesn't really mean it; and if he does mean it, then why does he treat you the way he does? That will probably spark a good fight, which is another terrific way to end a relationship.
If you really WANT to get over him, you can, but it will take a certain amount of effort. Contrary to popular belief, we don't have to be slaves to our feelings; we can consciously change how we feel about someone. It just takes time.
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