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ignoring me
About a week ago i had sex with this guy and he was my first as in he took my virginity. I talked to him the day after it happened cause he came to my job to see me. And i havent talked to him since. I sent him a message on myspace asking him to please find a way to talk to me. And he told me hed work on it. He has a cell but he cant text or call right now. Im just really upset about everything that is going on.
Were not fighting about anything, he wouldnt of used me for sex.
I just need advice on what i should do before i flip out.
thanks
[id appriciate it more then anything if i dont get this long speech about how i shouldnt of had sex with him if i dont love him or how i could be pregnant, im old enough to realize the consequences thanks tho]
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hey, well sometimes things can be a little akward between people after they had sex for the first time together. give it some time. if its already been a long time then ask him why hes holding back on talking to you. but you cant expect him to talk to you if your not warm and friendly towards him. warm and friendly people are way more approachable.
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then what was the point of this question. if your not willing to talk to him then how can you expect him to be willing to talk to you. you had to be attracted to him to have sex so he probably already thinks your attracted to him anyways.
are you sure he didnt use you..people can decieve. maybe if it was unexpected he just feels uncomfortable or cant face you or maybe hes trying to stop it from progressing into anything more. you should take matters into your hands and find away to talk to him. if he keeps it up then your better off and should chuck it off as a loss.youll know better next time i guess to prevent your self from being so upset. your not the first person in the world to do it.
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