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My 'friend' is ruining my life!!!!!!! She talks crap on me and ALL of my other good friends all the time! She spreads rumors that arent true! She is a SLUT and she is pround of it! You just can't stop her she is like this bug you just can't kill and I don't know what to do! What can I do to make her stop doing this?!?! She has new friends now, and I know she is going to ruin their lives as well. I dont want them going through the pain I went through because of her. THey say they don't like her at all, but they still are nice to her and hang around her. I know if they keep making her think that they are freinds that she will go around and screw them over jsut like she did to me and my other good friend. What can I say/do to make it stop before it happens? Thanks! I RATE HIGH! :)

Leave her dont talk to her its her life shes messing up, tell them other people to just walk away and leave her to it shes not worth anything.

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okay so I'm 14 f. I haven't had a boy firend yet, is that weird. See I'm in french immersion, and theres only lik 3 guys in it and there nerds. so all of my friends are nerds. I moved here last year so I don't really no many other people, but still. I mean, I've been asked out a lot, but that was at my old school and I was in grade 5-6-7 so "going out" with someone was just holding their hand in school, so I don't count that. Is it sad that I've never been on a REAL date? How can I change?

Just be you some guy will like you for you and not what you look like and how you dress but for the way you are, mabe you could be a bit more out going to the beach or the cinema depends where you live. And wear some fancey clothes and just have a good time.

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my xboyfriends brother just died today, and i i'm not dealing with it very well. i just dont know what to do, it feels like no matter who i talk to i cant lift up my spirits. my boyfriend right now has been doing everything he can to help me, but its not working. even people who arent my friends are helping me, im just not making any progress. what should i do??

Go see a counsiller it wont take long to get you over it lots of people die and you have to keep yourself busy and just deal with it i would have though that your xboyfriend would have been more upset. He is trying his best to keep you happy try doing the same for him.

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Hi, can you give me any flirting advice for SHY people? Because i really like this boy (people have told me he likes me too but I don't know). It's just that when he looks at me I immediately look down in case he sees me blushing or looking at him, and when he touched my foot under the table I pulled it away. I wanted to keep doing it, but I dunno, I just got nervous I guess. Help please? Thank-you xo

Be more out going shy is good some boys go for that! they like girls that shy away just be your self mabe smile and flick your hair and wear a bit of make up dont over do it though Because it will look awful.

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Hey guys! Well, I just got a dog and he's about a couple weeks old. I want to start training him now, but I can't do that without a name. Got any ideas? He's brown, black, and white. Thanks a million! =D

max
sam
bazil
pretzil

loads have a look on google and find some more

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well i just became a vegatarian 2 weeks ago and all my friend does is joke about it she even made up a song up about eating meat and this pisses me off and gives me stomache aches and makes me want to burst out and she knoes but i still feel like its rude of her and i hate that feeling .. what can i do ?? .. thnx ... Love, MauraAnN

Tell her to get a life and stop teasing you tell her that your trying really hard to give meat up and all she can do is make fun and laugh at you.

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My sister at a young age died of luekemia. I dont really uderstand where she got it from. But lately I've been finding random bruises on my boyd and i know my sister had random bruises and ashe was always tired and im always tired. Is there a possiblity that i could have it too?

Luekemia can be pasted on in the family i surgest you go see a doctor about the bruises and also tell your family. Im sorry to hear about your sister it must have been an awful time for you.

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There's this kid, Sam* and he was dumped by my best friend, Katie* in February.. Sam is the nicest kid you will ever meet..and Katie I think is just boy crazy. Well anyway, Sam and Katie went out for over 2 years on and off. Sam lives about 2 hours away though. Well this real jerk starting going out with Katie and she doesnt like him and is actually kind of attached to Sam still..but Katie wants him to dump her, because she doesnt have the heart to dump him..so my job is to try to make him break up with her..and its all confusing..but any suggestions?

Sorry Its long

I think you need to make your friend dump him because if he dumps her it will get around and people might start talking about it, Why doesnt she break up with him saying that its not going anywhere and that she doesnt want to do it anymore.

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hi im 11 she is 11 she is really hott very nice and athletic all around great kid but i dont know how 2 get her 2 like me??? but she deosnt know i lke her

Tell her that you like her hang out with her more, and be more out going 11 thats so young but go for it.

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I'm going to a banquet later this week and I got my outfit today, but the thing is, I have no idea what to do for my hair or make-up. Just something simple, but cute Any ideas?

(My hair is about shoulder-length and I'm wearing a white tanktop with a cute yellow sweater over it.)

Where cream colours or gold, dont over to did because it will just look tacky! just put a bit of cream or foundation on and a bit of eye linder and then your fine.

You could tye your hair in a bun or curl it! or even put it in a french plait.

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Okay Me and my botfriend just started going out, and i have ALOT of feelings for him. He is moving in April though and I dont want to break up with, but i dont want to get hurt. He told me that he would come back every weekend and wednesday, and he is finishing out the year. What was so convient is that he lived right down the street. I need some good advice for this one.

much love yal!

Well sometimes the people you love have to move away, its not like your never going to see him. You could arrange to meet him on school days and ring him like everyday if hesot that far away and he can still vist you everything will be fine.

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well i have like more guy friends then i do girlfriends, and my brother is always calling me a whore because i hang out with them and not any girls.. and the other day i had my boyfriend over and my brother knew he was my boyfriend and he was like, "oh did you tell jake about your 100 other boyfriends?" and now hes all mad at me.

Tell your boyfriend that your brother is a little shit and hes been an idiot and tell him that you loads of guy friends and they mean nothing more. And i would surgest you have a really good shouting match with your brother he sounds awful.

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ok in my english class I have to write a paper on a assigned topic. My topic is abortions. I need opinions and any information that is good and bad about abortions. Please I need help on this. I have my own opinion but I need more than just what I think.

Im very against abortion i thinks its all wrong to kill a human beening go to google and type in information about abortions for and aganist.

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A few months ago, I fell for my friend, we went out and it was really great and all. At first, I didn't want to go out with him because we were such great friends and I didn't want that to change. Now, since we broke up, we never talk and he always talks about me behind my back! What can I do to help change this? Pleass help me!

Talk to him tell him that the reason you broke up with him was to still be great friends because you didnt feel comfortable been together.

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hey is it bad to charge your cell fone to much ??
and do you knoe of any stores to get cute cell fone face plates?? (i rate high)!
xoxo need advice

No i dont think its bad to charge ur phone to much, but if you dont want to then thats your choices, im sorry i dont live where you do!

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what are some exersises i can do daily to help lose weight?

(without any machineary)

do you have any good diet suggestions?
do you suggest eating fruits more?
ahh please help

Cut out the fatty food like sweets and chocolate, eat more health stuff like nuts and fruit and vegtables like carrots and loads more.
Walking the dogs if you have then playing football or other sports you enjoy. You could rid a bike. Streaches and pushups can help just go on google have a look.

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i have curly shoulder lenghth brown hair and i strighten it everyday .. whats the quieckest way to do so? i rate high

I do this on my friends hair tie half of it up and put sections down and straighten then and it do the rest. Keep it in smaller sections make sure that you dont use big chunks because it wont do it as well.

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Okay, i have really light brown hair and i got blonde highlights awhile ago. but now i want to go completely blonde. i spent over 75 dollars on highlights so my mom refuses to bring me back to a professional. i heard that u can do a "peroxide wash" on ur hair to get out the color but i dont know how to do it? ive tried using hair dye, it doesnt work no matter how blonde i go. i want to be COMPLETELY blonde (like a medium blonde) does anyone know how to do this?!??

You could buy a blonde hair dye that is permanant.

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Hey, my family might move from here in Wisconsin to Florida. I want to sooo bad for the weather. But I just can't leave all my friends here. i love em all to death. And my best friend and I are really close and it will be so hard for me to leave her, and everyone else. How can I not miss her so much??

Promise her that you will vist her and ring her everyday and keep intouch because shes your best friend and nothing will replace her.

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Whenever i have like.. time to myself, i always seem sad, and sometimes even when im with friends, family, or people in groups im in.. i never talk..because.. well im just sad. sometiems there are no reasons, and i always wonder why.. but other times, its because since im adopted.. i never met my parents, and sometimes i just want to meet them so bad that i dream about who i would be if i never got adopted and stuff.. then i start crying... can you help me stop this, or find out.. why???
THANKS IF YOU ANSWER!!

Because you want to no your real parents ask your adopted parents if you could track the parents down. Do something that makes you happy go out with your friends.

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