If you have sex, you're eligible to be pregnant. But only if you're a female,of course.There's no set age to lose your virginity, chances are you'll end up regretting it sooner or later. I don't know if he or she likes you. I can't tell from where I live. If you need to lose some weight, run, excerise and eat right, but you can't lose 30 pounds in a week. Please don't ask me questions like that, I've answered them all in the paragraph you just read. Thank you.
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My boyfriend and i have been having sex for a while and i got drunk and gave him a blow job, now my face is red and itchy. what should i do? (link)
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See a doctor. But I doubt it's a disease because you'd have caught a disease,if you've been fucking for awhile. It may be a disease,if you've been having protected sex,and this time you didn't. See a doctor,now.
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do you think girls like me need to get sexy underwear like thongs to impress her boyfriend, or do u think there are more important things to worry about in a relationship, like having fun together or their personalities? should i get some to make him the slightest bit happier, or should i just not get anymore? does it turn guys on to see girls in their sexy underwear or anything? where is the best place to get cute, but inexpensive thongs?
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Once you get the personality shit out of the way,buy sexy thongs. He'll have a permanent hard on. Does it turn guys on to see girls in sexy underwear? No. Of course not,guys hate to see that. Come on babe.
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I had sex about 6 days ago, and i didnt use a condom! im supposed to start my period sometime this week, or at the end of the month! WHat do i do if i dont have my period, i wouldnt kno what to do because i dont talk to my parents about this stuff..pleez help me!!! (link)
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If you don't have your period,then hopefully you're just late. But you could be pregnant. You could talk to your doctor. But please don't get an abortion. Live with your choice and put the kid up for adoption. Maybe you'll be careful next time. Your parents won't kill you,but you have no right to kill that kid.
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I'll start from the beginning....
When I was little, i used to live in washington state, but then we moved when i was 8 years old.
this other family with this boy that had been in my 2nd and 3rd grade class moved to the same part of florida the same time we did, and we ended up going to the same school.
our families became close friends(my sister is about the same age as his little brother)
and we'd go over to each others houses a lot, and when we were little we used to come up w/ these little plays (some romantic, we'd "marry" each other...), and well, we got a little older. last year, he moved to orlando, and we spread apart a little. we saw them, and we were playing around and like fake kissing each other in this little "play" we made up (my little sister is only 8, and she really wanted to do a "play")
and now he's moving back to where we live. i dont kno if he likes me, but i kind of think i like him. what should i do?
signed,
confused love (link)
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Tell him that you're interested. I mean,if you two are just gunna happen to move from Washington to the same part of a pretty big state like Florida,yeah you may just be destined to be with the guy. And I never say stuff like that. He may like you too,ya never know.
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My boyfriend & I never spend any alone time, just the 2 of us. I guess it's mostly my fault, because it just freaks me out a little being alone with him, I don't know why. Anyways, I would like to go down the shore with him, along with my older brother & his friends. Everyone there is really responsible & my mom is not letting me. She doesn't think its right for me to go down the shore with a boy! I don't get, I'm going to be with my own brother and older, responsible people! What could happen & whats the problem?? (link)
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What COULD happen? Well everything. But your mom is still being a little out of line here. You shouldn't freak out being alone with your guy. Just relax. This depends how old you are. If you're 13 and he's 18,then hell no, I wouldn't let you go anywhere with this guy. Ask her why she's not letting you go down to the shore with him. Tell her you've always been responsible(which you have been, right?)and that she can trust you. Remind her that your bro will be along and that everything will be ok. If she still doesn't let you go,then your mom has Bitch Syndrome.
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hey - my best friend has this boyfriend .. and like i KNOW shes to good for him and whenever the THREE of us chill something goes down and she gets mad at me .. because i "flirt" with him .. like i try not to and shes such a bitch sometimes i just cant take it and then .. she goes and chooses him over me .. how can i tell her hes no good without hurting her .. and this is something that totally bugs me .. you have NOO CLUE .. and maybe if it was 2 guys and 2 girls i wouldnt get into a fite with her .. and you know what i cant help that i like her boyfriend a lil cause he is really really HOT .. help me please !! (link)
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You're contradicting yourself. From what I read,this is what I know. First your friend has a boyfriend that you "know" isn't good enough for her. Then she accuses you of supposedly flirting with the guy. Then you tell me that you like him too. Well wait a minute. If he's not good enough for her,then why do you say he's good enough for you? Maybe your friend's claim that you're flirting has some merit. She's taking his side because she's hurt that you'd think about trying to screw her over. She also knows it's only a matter of time before he dumps her for you. Not too cool babe.
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i'm going into high school and im really scared and nervous..what if i dont know anyone during lunch and i have to sit by myself?! i dont know what to do..how can i be more brave and not be so scared? (link)
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Well,you're going to meet a few people in your classes,right? Talk to them about girl stuff(I'm obviously assuming you are one) and just be yourself. If you see them at lunch,ask them if you can sit there. You won't sit alone. In high school,there's a group for everyone.
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Hey, just wondering...what is 'moonshine'? I know its some kind of really strong alcohol, but does anyone know exactly what it is? My boyfriend wants to try it & I'm worried what will happen if he drinks too much of it! (link)
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It's pretty much PURE alcohol. Which will drop your ass in a second. Don't try it.
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i love running! but i hear its bad on your joints in your knees...what else can i do isntead of running? (link)
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Biking,swimming,and walking are a few. But running is only bad on concrete,not on a track surface.
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See i liek this girl but she lieks another guy and i always try to tell her but she never liek answers wat do I do?
signed,
confused (link)
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Not much you can do,man. If she likes another guy and she never answers you,then she's not interested. I'm sorry she's not into you. Move on and find a girl who is.
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send me a pic (link)
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Ok,get on aim one day and im me at sevendustfan04 and I'll give you one. Why is this such a big deal anyway?
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Hi, I'm 14 years old. And I weigh around 115 pounds. I don't exactly have a flat stomach but I'm not fat at the same time. I'm 5'2 and I think that I should loose some weight. I've been trying not to eat so much (I don't anyway) But I get light headed when I don't eat. What I'm asking is, is 115 pounds for a 5'2" 14 year old too much to weigh? I also don't feel good about myself because I don't have a flat stomach. Is there anyway I can get a flat stomach? I used to have one when I danced and did gymnastics, but I've quit those so I don't do any excersie anymore and It's hard to keep in shape that way. Also my parent's don't own any excersie equitment and I don't go to the gym. Thanks..*Love Annoyomous* (link)
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If you feel you're overweight,try running. But you don't sound like you are at all. 115 is not fat.
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what is the normal/ideal weight for a girl that is 5'8 and is 14 years old? (link)
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About 130. That's tall for a girl.
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okay, im a bit confused at the moment. see there's this girl that i am in love with, i swear it was "love at first site" no joke, b/c i didnt even know her name and i fell in love. IDK i just got the right kind of vibe from her.Immediatly i was attracted, but see Im the shy kind of type, and like i go speechless and my heart pumps so hard when she is near me or says hi...i cant say anything back. Im so freakin in love with her but she doesnt know.
PS:Im a girl too, she's straight, and idk what i am, b/c shes the only girl i actually feel this way about, if i think about any other girl im totally grossed out...im just confused. (link)
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Yeah the P.S. really helps out a lot here. You gave me no indication you were another chick. If you've never talked to her,how do you know she's straight? You may just be having your first bisexual fantasy. You're not in love with a person who you go speechless around. Don't act out this fantasy,it's probably just a phase you'll pass through.
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i'm 17 and never kissed anyone, how pathetic is that? the thing is, it's not like i'm ugly or anything because i know many people who have liked me or would've kissed me, but i don't want to make things weird between my guy friends by doing anything with them and the other guys who have liked me are not exactly top rate...another thing is that i never even tell people who i like cuz i don't want to be embarrassed...i don't know what i'm waiting for - someone who i feel comfortable with?? the perfect person who doesn't exist? i'm not the kind of person who would do things just to make myself appear cooler but as i get older it just gets more embarrassing to say i've never kissed anyone (link)
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Don't worry if you're 17 and never kissed anybody. I had only kissed one girl by 17. But your problem lies more in your fear of getting embarrassed if you let the cat out of the bag on who you like. You probably are waiting on somebody perfect,but you'll be waiting forever. Guys,let me assure you,are not perfect. But you're not either and we learn to love the little imperfections. Don't say you've never kissed anyone,say no one's kissed you. I say forget about being embarrassed and just ask the guy out. And then,plant one on the boy. Just don't be real obnoxious.
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omg ok i know school is about to start and all but i REALLY want a boyfriend...i mean all my friends have had um n stuff but me. and its very intemidating when they do and talk about them and stuff...i mean this past summer it seems like guys look at me n stuff and seem to like me but never ask me out or n e thing. and i mean im deffiantly not the type to just go up to someone and just ask um whats there name or w/e so someone pleae tell me a way! (link)
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Why do you want a boyfriend so bad? I've never understood this. You talk about how bad we are,but then you can't get enough of us. If you want to strike it up with a guy,this is no problem. Guys are naturally gunna be interested anyway,so just find some bullshit thing to compliment them on. Show mild interest in what they're saying and act like you know what you're doing. Guys love their egos boosted,but when you compliment,make it sound sincere. If the idiot still doesn't get the point,ask,very calmly,if they'd like to go to the movies to see.... See girls are much harder to notice if they're interested in us or not,you're often too shy to say anything and we have big egos and hate getting rejected,so we also don't say anything.
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my little sister i always a pain. everday i would say hi to her and she would just give me a nasty look and go to her room. i am nice to her most of the time. we get a long once in a while, but rarely...ahh what do i do to win her over? (link)
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You wait until she gets older and grows up. From now until then,she's gunna be a royal pain in the ass. Don't be nice,as you can see this doesn't work. Be a real jerk back and establish that you're in charge.
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are you hot? (link)
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I don't know. I'm ok,I guess.
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I'm addicted to taking pictures of myself, i have lyke over 400 recent pics. All of my friends lyke always say that I'm lyke conceited or that I'm in love with myself, but I honestly think their just jealous!...what should i lyke do?!@#$^&!? (link)
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You should lyke ask yourself why you're so in love with your body that you have 400 pictures of yourself lying around. They're not jealous,you're just being a little strange. I mean,do you know anybody else that has that many pics of themselves in their house?
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I have this friend *Amy*, right? Well, before me and my boyfriend started going out she used to be obsessed with him. All she would ever talk about was him and she literally *stalked* him. Well, me and my boyfriend started going out and she backed off a little bit. She got a boyfriend and he just recently dumped her for another girl. Now she keeps trying to talk to my boyfriend on AIM, asks ME for his screen names, his email addresses, and where we're going for our dates. This is really starting to annoy me and I don't know what to do. How should I tell her how I feel without EXPLODING in her face? (link)
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I can see why the other guy dumped her. She's way too clingy and nuts. Don't tell her any of the places you're going or his email addresses. If you've seen Fatal Attraction,then this chick sounds like Glenn Close. In case you don't know,FA is a much better version of Swimfan.
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