im 14. one boobs bigger than the other. normal?
yes it's normal.
it's still developing and that can happen sometimes.
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I've searched the whole site over and can't find these one pair of shoes that I want. So, I'm hoping somebody can tell me what brand they are.
http://shop.ccs.com/browse.do?categoryKey=girls&_QQ=400-171892
Thats the site, I'm looking for the black ones on the bottom. Please let me know, I really want them. Thanks :]
Doesn't it say Circa?
So isn't that the brand?
If it's not.. then I'll say it looks a bit like Etnies?
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What does Bite Me mean?
"fuck off" "kiss my ass" or just.. well "bite me"
It really depends on what the conversation was about and how they said it.
Usually it just means.. I don't care blah.
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i called the boy i liked when i was drunk and i told him to pick me up because i was so drunk and that i loved him. i told him it was my friend, because i thought it was, but then i found out it was me. should i tell him it was me or no?
It depends if you want him to know.
You can always say.. "Hey sorry about calling you that one night" or something.. then he would know it's you.
If not, then stick with the "it was my friend."
But if you want him to know, then you should go for it.
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When i ask him out should i be like" hey i was wondering if you would like to go see a movie with me?" or what should i say. Please help
13/f
Well I don't know if I've seen your part 1.
But if you're a friend ...I think asking him to a movie would be okay... but make sure it's a group sort of thing. Then you could make ask him to go with you and only you.
If you really don't know him.. then starting off small like what the other columnist said. It would get you somewhere with him.
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Im 15 and my boyfriend is 17 we have been dating since the 6th grade and he will be 18 in a couple of weeks! Are we going to have to brake up because he will be legal. I really love this guy and we have been together for 4ever! Whats a girl to do?
You dont have to break up.
Just don't let anyone know about your sex life. Or maybe don't have sex at all?
Besides that, you would be okay.
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I'm thinking of getting a new hairstyle but I don't really know if I can explain it to the barber well. I want to have my hair staight up and spikey with red stipes. Does that certain style have any kind of name or something?
Find a picture and show them.
There's an online community about hair..
http://community.livejournal.com/madradhair/profile
If you go scroll down to the photobucket albums and browse through pictures, I'm sure you can find something similar to it
You could always draw a picture.
You should say "red streaks" :]
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sixteen/female.
what happens when a girl gets off by being fingered? my boyfriend did this to me twice, once just "feeling around" and the next actually trying to accomplish what's supposed to happen, haha. but neither of us knew what happens when a girl does get off, so we stopped. this may be a rediculous question, but i never masturbated and we're both inexperienced because our realtionship has never been about "doing stuff". help pleaseee.
Well if he's doing it right, he might be able to hit your clit or something. I think it's best if he gets your aroused before doing that. If he's able to turn you on.. you'll get an orgasm. There's 2 types of orgasms. One vaginal and one.. that you feel throughout you're whole body. Since he's fingering you, I'll say you might get the first one.
It just depends if he's hitting your G-spot.
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So today i was at play practice and i tried to throw up after i ate like 3 or 4 times but i couldnt do it. But after i tried my stomach just hurt like no other. I dont want to do it but i cant help it. I feel like its the only thing i can control
Why do you feel like you don't control anything else?
Of course you have control of things. You have control of your decisions and that's not the way to go.
Throwing up doesn't even help. You're controlling yourself from not throwing up, that's what you're doing.
So you'll rather control what hurts you?
Call a hotline.
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what does it mean to say that someone wears their heart on their sleeve? thank.
To 'wear your heart on your sleeve' is to show your feelings openly, to be easily read by others.
everyone would know your feelings/emotions.
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what is the song Milkshake by Kelis actually about???
This is what I think:
"The human male has some milkish fluid that a female can usually "shake" out of him. Clear enough? And if someone were to steal her recipe by watching her make it, they would be violating a lot more than just her patent! "
http://www.songcrossfire.com/kelis-milkshake.php
So yeah people understood that that song had a sexual reference... that's why people hate it when little girls sing it. Eh, it's kind of disgusting.
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hi i was wondering im 13 and i have acne..does it go away when you get older? If it does what age does it stop growing and go away?
Thanks!
I greatly appreciate it!
It depends on the person.
You may notice some kids don't have it. They probably won't get it until their 20s or something.
Acne could go away when you're older. When you find a good acne product or it just does, because of age.. You should always drink lots of water and eat healthly foods.
I had horrible acne when I was 13.. Now I'm 15 and it's only 3 pimples.
You may need an acne medication/wash. I had bad acne because of stress and I was allergic to some products I put on my face.
Acne.. doesn't really grow. It's a blocked pore.. So keep washing your face. You open your pores with hot water.. clean your face then you close your pores with cold water.
I really hope it goes away in a few years. I'm like one of the few girls in highschool that has acne. It's making me angry. It's like my generation.. only has acne. The older people don't have it or the younger ones!
If you're body(inside) is healthy then it will show on your face. Maybe you're eating a wrong food or something.. so change up the foods you eat.
But you can always turn to Proactive.. most people use it. (It usually works) In one week.. my acne was gone.
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Well theses this girl that i meant at the being of the school year and her name os Halie and i really like her but she has this boyfriend that keeps making her mad but she says with him cause she likes him so much and as long as she is happy im happy...but really the only for me to be really happy is to be going out with her!! Any advice!!
I'm not sure if there's anything for you to do.
Maybe just wait. Some girls are stubborn and they don't want to leave their boyfriend despite how he treats her.
She said she likes him so much...
but if you are really nice around her and maybe give her a present every once and a while.
She might get the hint that you like her (if she doesn't know already)
Don't get your hopes up though.. remember there's more fish in the sea (I hate that line but it's true)
Don't try to break them up or anything like that.
Just be there for her.
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I used to hang out with these people.The used to gang up and bug me.I fought with the leader.Big mistake.They ganged up agaist me and fought.I miss being in their group.When I hear them having yelling and fun from my house i feel left out.I try to make excuses and pass by them but I rarely have any.I want to be a part of their group again but I do not want to look to desperate.I get really bored at home alone.What should I do.
You want to be friends with people that ganged up on you?
Were they joking or did they..like physically gang up on you?
You shouldn't be in a gang. It takes away your individuality and the next thing you'll do.. is probably listen to what the leader tells you to do, right?
If you want to be in the group again, just ask or try to hang out with them.
They might think you have guts and whatnot.
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I need some help, i have herd alot that starveing yourself to lose weight doesn't work, but i have also herd that thats how the celeberties stay so skinny.I already know that starving yourself is vary bad for your body, so don't bother telling how dangerouse it is.I just want a yes, or no answer on wether or not it works, also i have been dieting for a wile, i run of the tredmeal every day for a hour and i have been eating healthy foods.But i haven't lost eny weight and i still look the same, i have been doing this for 3 weeks, what am i doing wrong?
Starving yourself works. Just look at all the models.
You actually gain weight before losing it though.
I know you think you haven't lost any weight.. and you haven't. It takes a couple of months to see a difference in the hard run.
If people could lose weight in 3 weeks.. everyone would be skinny.
But keep on excerising, it would be worth it.
You should go see your nutrientist (spell?) and they might pick out a good diet plan for you.
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Hey, ive been going out with this guy for a lil over 2 months, and he is awesome..i love him soo much. He's 15 but with christmas coming up i have no idea what to get him!! Please HelP!
Be careful what you give him.
Sometimes they overanalyze gifts.
Like.. cologne. He could think you're saying he stinks.
Here's a list.
A book
Video game.
A CD
Art supplies
Sports equipment
New shoes he wanted
His favorite candy and a card?
But really, gift cards aren't a thing to do.
You can always ask his friends.. what they think he wants or ask them about his favorite music artist (to get a cd)
But it shouldn't be something pricey/big because the relationship isn't like a year.
And if you buy something pricey and he gets you something like $20 ish.. He might feel bad.
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How can you tell if your boyfriend is cheating on you? Are these signs for sure to prove he's cheating? Thanks in advance.
If he's always away from you. When he says he's busy or he has work. (If you know where he works, go check up on him or something.. Ask a co-worker if he has been there)
Don't go overboard and check his email, text messages or anything like that. Because if you don't have any proof of him cheating then it will come out wrong as.. you don't trust him.
Maybe he's not cheating.. but if he won't hang out with you or anything, then I think there's a problem.
And the thing about public affection. If he doesn't do that anymore.. then yeah.
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A girl at school just found out who i liked. She went( right in front of me) and told the schools Big Mouth who and he shouted it! I'm afraid that she went up and told him. I really want to ask him out but i'm afraid that he'll laugh at me. What should I do? Please Help!!!! I am 13.
How can i get him to notice me???
You need to get to know this guy.
If he laughs at you, he's not worth it.
Unless it's his way of showing you.. he likes you too?
I don't know.. guys are weird.
But if you aren't really friends.. then you should go up to him and try to hang out with him. It might take some time to do that.. but if you could do that.. maybe you could go on a date?
And see where that goes.
If he makes fun of you or anything, don't take it to heart. Guys at that age are usually immature and have a habit of breaking hearts.
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My dog was just killed by three other dogs. When i go outside i have a strange feeling that she is still here. an unrested soul. Do you think that she is still trying to protect me?
Yes sometimes you feel like that. Especially when something didn't die naturally.. but killed by three other dogs? I'm sure her memory is still with/around you. So it gives you a feeling of protection.
You may even feel like she's around you or you may hear her bark.
A family member of mine died. I thought he was still around.. I could hear him talking.. and it felt like his presence was there.
So I'm sure its the same way with your dog.
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hey! i have a really big problem. so i dated this guy jake over a year ago now for almost 2 months. he dated thisgirl i knew and then they broke up after 2 years and me n him dated. which was quite crazy. anyways, we ended up breaking up bcz he cheated on me with her and they got back 2gether n have been on n off for almost a year. well, now he is dating sum other girl that idont know n the other day i messaged him on myspace, i havent talked 2 him since last year n i asked him for directions 2 get this oneplace we went 2 last year when we dated. he messaged back sayin he has nothing againts me n he knows he did some bogus shit n to give him a call ormessage when we wanna hangout for old times sake... so idont know if im taking this too overboard but he was my first realll bf that i reallylikedn my friend's birthday is coming up this weekend, and he knew her, thats how we met n began dating bcz his x was friends with my best friend n because of allthis she hated us... well i really do have feelings 4 him n want to ask him 2 come by but is it 2 weird?? but thing is... he never said sorry... what should i write back? thank you somuch
You still have feelings for a guy that hurt you? When a guy cheats.. he will most likely do it again. You should try to forget this dude.
But it's your decision, if you want to hang out with him and get attached, and more hurt.. then go ahead.
But he doesn't seem worth trying to get close to with again. He didn't even say sorry, that doesn't seem like a nice guy.
But if it's what you want to do, then nobody is really stopping you.
I wouldn't really trust this guy or anything.
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