If you have sex, you're eligible to be pregnant. But only if you're a female,of course.There's no set age to lose your virginity, chances are you'll end up regretting it sooner or later. I don't know if he or she likes you. I can't tell from where I live. If you need to lose some weight, run, excerise and eat right, but you can't lose 30 pounds in a week. Please don't ask me questions like that, I've answered them all in the paragraph you just read. Thank you.
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arite..well when i was about 5 or 6 or maybe even younger ihad a best friend and he was a boy..he lived around the block frum me but directly behind my house!! i juss used to hop the wall and go walk in his house...our parents wer good friends too....i went EVERYWHERE with them and we wer best friends...we did karate together, we juss went eveywhre...swimming lessons, soccer, erything...we wer best friends...and i had a lil brother who we never really liked to play with wed hide frum him, lock him out, nvr invite him newhere etc....and then one day we wer about 7 or 8 i think idk...but my brother n *chris* the guy friend...got in a fight about POKEMON...how dumb...and it juss caused a big argument!! i wasnt allowed to see chris and r parents stopped talking...but now r parents talk alot over the wall and chris mom juss had a baby so id use that as an excuse to go see chris but we nvr really would talk...wed say hi...but nothin else.,..and he is shy around gurls so hes nvr really had a gf...and i was his best gurl friend!!!!! and he was my best guy friend it wuld b s0o0o awesum if it was like that now...and hes s0o0 hott now and im not bad lookin either...and his mom always says she wants us to b friends agen n stuff bc we nvr really got in a fight but it messed ery thing up...it wuld b s00o awesum to hav a best friend thats a guy...who i could talk to...who lives s0o0 close wat shuld i do?...im goin over ther to see the baby tonite i think....wat shuld i say?? hes really shy...and hott...but wat shuld i do?/ plzz help!!!! i miss him!!! it wuld b awesum!! omg plz help me on sumthing i shuld say to him (link)
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Tell him that the bullshit fight you had was stupid. Tell him that you like him and that you know he's shy. Since he's shy,you have to take the initiative. If he doesn't like you,so what? You have nothing to lose. If you're hott,then I know he's thought about banging you. I mean you live right next door. Yeah,just say you like him and go with it. Hell makeout with him,too. Betcha never thought you'd do that when you were 5 huh?
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guys im worried.. ok so this guy im dating, we dont talk about EVERYTHING yet; weve only been goin out 4 3 weeks, and hes told me that his parents dont want him dating right now because of some wrong decisions he made in the past..but he never comes right out and says what those decisions were, and iv never asked because im scared he might not be a virgin anymore, and im a lil more prude than him, i know that for sure.. im 14, almost 15, and hes 16, almost 17... and whenever i tell people that im dating him, they're like "girl what are you thinking, ive heard so many stories about him" ive never asked 2 hear those stories either,cuz im scared of the truth, but i know he went out with this "slut" last year that was a grade older than him, and a girl 2 grades older than him which is who he made the bad choices with.. do u think hes jus datin me cuz im a grade younger, so his parents might let him date again? im also scared he might not be a virgin, which means he might try something i dont wanna do with him, although i made it clear in the beginning im takin it slow n im not a slut... eeek hes at work camp this week with his church which is where he hooked up with his g/f he made bad decisions with (but that was last year @ camp).. i hope shes not there again.. and i dont really doubt the fact that he'll try 2 put the moves on other girls... hit me up ladies~ im worried about this one.. (link)
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You have every right to know if your guy is a V or not. You need to ask him and don't be afraid of the truth. Ask your friends what they've heard and then ask your bf. If you heard stuff he doesn't say,ask him about that too. He probably fucked her. I can tell you that one right now. I don't think he's dating you just so he can go out again. But find out what the hell he did.
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-- well this guy i like is really sweet! he makes me laugh and its as if i fell in love w/ him in less than a month! but he is going off 2 college and he found out that he might be having a baby!? he broke up w/ me bc of it and im really mad! i guess im just bein selfish! bc tha babi should come first!..let me know wat i should do? and it i should try and help him out or just give him space? (link)
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Get away from this situation,NOW. If you're involved,then eventually you'll be the one having to care for his kid. His baby should come first yes. But if he's gunna have a kid,shouldn't he try to build something with the mother? You should forget him and find somebody who isn't going to be a father.
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ok me and my bf have been going out for like 2 months and it seems like were like best friends instead of boyfriend and girlfriend... is that a good thing? (link)
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Your boyfriend should be your best friend. It's fine.
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--i have a friend who i seriously think is in love with her best friend! hez really sweet and treats her like gold! the only reason nothing hasnt went down between them yet is the fact that he is *20* and she is *15* i know that is a big age difference! but i was just thinkin if maybe they should try something in the future of course!? (link)
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Yeah tell her to wait about three years. At 15 and 20,that's way too much. He's in college,she starting her sophomore year in high school. Yeah they can try whatever they want in the future.
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What would you do if things in your life were always downhill and uphill like big time. I have delt with it all...family in jail family getting divorced rape drugs sex everything in the book ive been through it, and im 14! Ok so I have always had trouble getting through anything and I always feel that i need an adult to talk to..but theres no way i could talk to my mom. So i have 3 people who have helped me in the past. One was my moms friend, one was a teacher and currentley one is my cousin and godmother. Yeah well it seems that everything just got better. Good right? No wrong becuase now shes moving away to south carolina and i live in michigan. I am afraid that everything is going to go back downhill. I have recentley decided to keep my life up and look at the good side of things and take control of what i can. But now i fear i will slip back and go into a deep depression once again. I dont kno what to do im confused..someone please help me. (link)
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It won't because there are still people you can talk to. What about the teacher and your mom's friend? These people care about you. Your guidance counselor at school? You may even meet someone at school,a close friend,that you can talk to. You won't fall back into depression.
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Hey Should i break up with my P.A. relationship i haven't see her yet and i m really confused and i like this girl erica and samantha but erica is to young for me and samantha is like 2 years what should i dunno
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Hell yes. Long distance ties you down. Make up some reason to do it,and just do it ASAP. Distance kills EVERY relationship.
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I had it good for a while. I guess most of us dont realize when to appreciate what you have. I had it so good id do just anything to back on the past. But lets forget me... my sister used to be average wieght.. NOT fat at all just not as skinny as everyone else. I used to call her fat tho just in spite of her when i wanted something and she wouldnt give me something or if we were fighting. I regret that in every way shape or form. PLEASE if you've been calling some1 fat dont do it, you will hospitilize some1 no joke it gets to people. So anyway shes been away at camp for 5 weeks.. and shes not the same. She wont let herself touch a hamburger, or anything besides salad and yogurts and rice cakes and such. She wont let herself have even a rootbeer float.. its so wierd. But worst of all shes not anything like she used to be. She used to be happy. Shes really homesick right now and she admits when she comes back shes going to need therapy because she even KNOWS that her lifestyles are messed up. Its not that she doesnt want to eat all those foods she CANT. She always feels so compared her whole life she has and now im fearing for her and wishing things were back to normal. Nothing has ever been this screwed up in my life i have never been asked to handle this 1nce before in my life and now its my own sister... and i just dont know what to do. Its like no1 cares... my aunt only has mean things to say like shes starving herself and she yells at my sister. Yelling wont help her any! My mom understands and so does my dad and they care but it hurts to see them so worried. I cant take it! This could all be my fault.. i should have never called her names.... what do i do to keep myself from getting overly sick at myself. Im not about to go anerexic or cut myself or anything lame like that im too full of life and i could never stoop down to that level but i always feel like i just want to stay in bed all day. I want my life to be normal, but i cant have that...
for a person thats going to be sensitive to my feelings... *PLEASE* answer asap
and 2 the rest of u.. never say anything you could regret
XoxOO-
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Ouch. Bet you'll never do THAT again will ya? No,but the way to make things right with your sister is to sit down with her and apologize for what you said. Say you were being a total bitch(which you were)and that she wasn't really fat. Tell her you'd like it to go back to before when she was much more relaxed about her food. Say that she's not fat and if necessary get her counseling. This isn't entirely your fault,it probably would have happened anyway if she was this obsessed to begin with,but you didn't help the situation.
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i was in two carwrecks with my mom. i am now in a
wheelchair. i go to the doctor alot so i miss school alot. but i still have a 3.5 . anyways,
i can't go and be in sports anymore and i can't ride the rides at the fair and i can't do all of the stuff i used to. is it wrong for me to cry when all of that stuff gets to me? am i just being selfish and a cry baby? if you could please help. signed,
feelin blu (link)
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No,you have every right to be bitter and sad. I'd be sad if that happened to me,too. You were robbed of your legs and I'm really sorry. I can't relate to you obviously,but you have my sympathies.
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i am 15 f and i really like this guy 15 m and he like me back we just dont ever talk about it and i think we will end up goin out i just dont know if i should tell him that i have never even kissed someone and i know he had done stuff with girls so should i just go with it and not tell him or do u think he can tell? (link)
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He's not gunna care if he likes you too. Why would he? Just go with the flow babe.
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i got this huge pimple that just showed up overnight, does anyone know how to get rid of it fast? (link)
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Yeah. Pop that bitch. If it's just like a big bump that has no clear head on it,these are harder. Wet it with some warm water and get a kleenex. After that just squeeze.
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I just turned 14. I'm about 5'5 and weigh about 105 lbs. I feel I am fat for some reason even though I wear extra smalls and zero's in clothing and everything. Everyone thinks I am very tiny but I don't see myself that way. Because I feel I am fat I try to do 200 crunches a day along with running for about a half hour. Is there anything else I can do to loose weight and just tone up more? I also don't eat much. Like for maybe a couple days a month I'll eat like breakfast, lunch, and dinner. But all the rest of the time I usually only eat a small breakfast and that's it. Am I over doing the whole weight loss thing? Everyone has been yelling at me and saying I am overdoing it and I really want to know if I am. Please help and answer. Is my weight ok for my height and age? I both cheerlead and run track and want to make sure I am skinny cause for some reason I feel people won't like me otherwise. Can someone please give me some advise and help on the situation? Thanks. *Love Always Annonomous*
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Yes,you're fine. I really have no clue why you're so insecure about your weight. You run track and cheerlead so you're in good shape. Quit worrying about your weight. That should be the least of your problems. Another thing is when you don't eat your metabolism slows down. So by not eating,you're just slowing your bodily functions down.
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i've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now, in 18 and hes 19, we have sex often. im a 34b adn he thinks that i should get implants. should i do it just to please him?!?! i really think that he might be the one, adn we've talked about our future.
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No. Don't do it just to please him. Do it only if you want to.
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what is wrong with being a lesbian i mean everyone is always making a big deal what is it? (link)
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Nothing. What is a lesbian? Well,a woman that likes only other women.
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i sweat a lot when ever i am working out. so in team practice it gets a little annoying and embarsing...what do i do? (link)
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Eat foods with less salt. Cut out the caffeine. But some people just naturally sweat more than others.
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okay so i was watchin this soccer game and there was this really really really hottie hot hot guy there! and i really wanted to meet him but me..being the stupid shy person i am didn't have the guts to approch him. so will you please give me some tips on how i can break the ice with a guy? please help me asap (link)
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Yeah tell him how he great he played. Flirt with him and if he's interested,then he'll ask you out. Boost his ego.
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wut do i do?!?!?! i have a huge pimple!! how can i get rid of it soon!?!?! ah!! help!! (link)
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Pop that sucker.
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ok..theres a gurl iv known for like 8 months and im pretty dure she has no intrest in me but i cant get her off my mind and shes like totally perfect. like anytime i hear a song or nething i think of her i cant get her outta my head.and iv tryed to forget about her but evertime i talk to her or see her it starts all over agian. idk if i should just keep trying to forget her or keep likeing her and see if sumething will happen. (link)
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At least you're being realistic. Just ask her out,dude. What have you got to lose? You've got a good attitude about it. She'll probably say no,but so what? You're just back to square 1.
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okay this is prolly really dumb but im just wondering when you have sex is the guys penis supposed to go all the way into a gurls vagina? and when you firt have sex does it hurt alot?
as you can tell im not really experienced.
please help me asap
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It doesn't hurt me,but it will hurt you. It's not supposed to go in all the way the first time. You'll feel like a tree trunk is going in you even if he's only 4 inches. You'll figure it out. Everybody else on the face of the earth does.
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i am a 13 year old female with a 34-36B bra size. i have stretch marks and everything. they seem to keep continuously growing and i dont know what to do about them. do you think that is too big of a size for a girl my age, and what can i do to keep them from growing? (link)
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This isn't a problem. Most girls are worried that their tits are are too small. That's not too big at all. You can do nothing about how big your breasts get.
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