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I'm danika :) i'm 17 and i've been an advice columnist for almost 2 years i'm not on here a lot anymore but feel free to leave me and inbox and i'll get back to you asap

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I;m 13 f, and I've been having a lot of different thoughts about things. I have a little of OCD, if that might be a conclusion of whats going on..
Okay, it started just maybe a month or 2 back, and I've been having thoughts about sucicide, like overdosing on pills and stuff. That's all I think of, and it wont stop! What can i do to help this?

you need to think of the positives... like why you want to live you cna't keep drowding yourself with the negative but i know you can't help it so when you do think of negatives think aout the positives with it think of why you want to live and why you don't want to die!... hope you get over it in peace! :-(

ps. your friends love you ... and don't want anything to happen to you.. think of that.. and all the peopel that will miss you entirly!

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i like lots of guys and i don't know why... i just thnk so many are hot!! ugh it sucks not knowing which one to choose!! please help

narrow it down.. make a list of pros and cons and see witch one has the most pros and the less cons... they have to be nice and your type... think of who will treat you better ... etc. plus pick some one that is in your league and someone that wouldn't go out with you because then your just going to be falling over people to try and get him to like you...

ps. okay also you are not a slut.. you are just caught up in so many guys! lucky you that you have so many hott guys in your school!

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hey i wanna know where to get short shorts for not alot of money.. dont suggest hollister american eagel or any places like that.. that isnt my style and i also want some tight shirts.. i want low prices cause i dont have much money til next month and i need em now.. i wear mainly clothing like rocawear,babyphat,ecko..gunit..thanks bunches if you can help

okay well bonton boscovs and the deb always have sales.. plus they have most stuff like that... you can also look off of ebay but you may not get the best quality but some of the stuff is new and cheap plus you can get rocawear babyphat ecko and gunit stuff on there for lower prices then you would in the store... hope it helped !

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me adn my friend brooke spend an auwfull lota time together.. and people are starting to call us twins... we look nothing alike.. well kinda i guesss tall and blond hair... we both hate it so much and always say no we don't!! but people just keep saying it !! ugh ..what should we do~!

tell them to please stop... or maybe one of you could change your look like wear diffent makeup or color your hair or even cut it a different way... hopefully that will work if not you need to stop telling them that it gets on your nerves and if they care about you guys and they don't want you to flipp on them then they will stop it now

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Ok i know im kidna old but I had a babysitter kind of coem ovr after school till my dad comes home. Shews was 21 and really cool, im 13. Last week she left and i was really sad i cried, i know this is wierd but do you guys think im over reacting. She came everyday for 2 years.

absolutly not!... she was your babysitter and you loved her... not at all were you overreacting!!... she was like almost part of your family and another mom because she took care of you... hopefully she will come again soon and you will get to hang out with her!

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I just bought a Lacoste shirt off ebay and it arrived in the mail today. I'm having doubts to whether it is truely authentic or not. The seller confirmed that it was authentic with Devenlay on the wash tag- it doesn't. It has two pearly-type buttons..It looks plastic but it also looks shiny and pearly. The alligator is kind of big. There is not care label..on one of the labels, though, it says "Designed in France. Made in Peru. Hecho en peru. RN 87551-CA 15998. The tag says that it is the caiman style. Can anyone give me more info to wether it is authentic or not? Thanks

you could always go to a store that sells them and ask...

ps. if they say it's not or even if you odn't liek it .. send it back and get your money back!

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could someone let me know of a site for cursors.i'm looking for a magenta or bright orange one...please dont say soup-faerie.com because i dont feel like searchin 100 more pages...thanks everyone!

http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=xquizit_442

i usually get mine there... what you do is go down to goodies and click on cursors by xquizit then another page should come up and there you go! but im not exactly sure they have the exact one you want but hopefully they do!

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Okay, so there's this guy that's been my really good friend for a long time. Last October, I got a crush on him. Then in December, he had a girlfriend, but he told me that he'd liked me since October too, and a week later, he broke up with his girlfriend. But he didn't ask me out until a month later, because he 'didn't want people to think he liked me when he liked his other girlfriend'. So we were 'sort of' going out for about a month, but we never actually went on a date. He asked me out to a carnival, but then he ditched me. Then...worst of all...the school dance. He danced with me once, and then went back to his ex girlfriend and was dancing with HER for the rest of the time. I talked to him and he told me he didn't like me anymore, but we decided to stay friends anyways.
Now, about 3 months later...I think I still like him, but I'm not sure. We're still very good friends. I want him to be happy with whatever girl he goes out with, but I'm jealous at the same time. My heart jumps when I had to kiss him on the cheek for this school performance..and when I fell asleep on his shoulder in the movie theater (with other friends there)...and I feel crap when I see the girl he likes sleeping on his other shoulder, or sitting super close to him. What should I do? How do I get over him? Please help!

many of people go threw the same thing that you are so your not alone!!! it will be really hard for you to get over this guy.. believe me... it's goign to be really hard ... your can't really tell yourself to get over him because it is so hard so what you can do is try and like move away from him slowly and not talk to him a lot because if you don't talk to him it will be hard for you not to liek him anymore.. another thing you could do is try and get to now another boy that you think that you would like or get to be close friends with .. this way you could take your mind off of this other boy... but it is goign to take some time.. it is goign to take at least 1 month or longer depending how much you like him.. it took me 3 months!! good luck and i hope i helped!

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okay well i recently became muslim. i speak english and sometimes it's hard to remember the arabic sayings of the prayer. is there anywhere i can learn on the web about the pronunciations? thanks in advance if you are being serious

http://www.gradebook.org/foreignlanguage.htm

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Where could i buy a treadmill? and approximately how much do they cost?

you can buy one from any department store or like any fitness store with like weights and all that.. it depends what kind of treadmill you get they can cost liek up to about 3 thousand dollars mid price is about 1,000 - 1,500 some where around there!

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Just recently, a man apparently came to my school. I don't really know who he is but they've been calling him Prophet Murphy. He's this guy that predicted the 9/11 fiasco and now he's like, come to my school and talked to the principal. I go to a high school in Vermont and he told the principal that there was going to be a shooting at the school this friday, the 13th of May. I'm a little bit confused because I don't know if the guy even came. It could all be just a rumor that some idot circulated. One of my best friends ex-boyfriend had told her that he planned on shooting up the school. I told her to tell the principal but I don't think she's going to. My other friend told her mom about the rumor and now she's not going to come to school because her mom's not letting her. Kristin's dad doesn't believe her and neither does mine. I just don't really know what to do. Should I take this seriously and cut school or something or is it nothing?

~scared to be shot in the head~

now you gotta look at your self... are you a threat to someone.. would someone want to hurt you or no? in my opinion you need to tell your mom that you don't want to go to school because this may be real because if it turns out to be real then something bad might happen to you... it is friday the 13th too.. :o which is kinda weird.. but if you are having a gut feelign that something bad is goign to happen don't put yourself in risk and go to school... just to be safe even if it doesn't happen because it may and if it does and you do go to school your going to be screwed!!!

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you really helped but we go to different schools and he made me promise not to bring any body into it cause he doesn't want people he doesn't know in his personal life. but thanks anyways i got him out of killing himself but i'm afraid he'll still do other things like drugs but i'll try to get him out of those too. but thanks you really helped.

lol n.p if you need anything else let me know!

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oky so i no itz stupid n stuff..but how do you make out/french..i hav dis party comin up n i dont wana make a fool of muiself!

well.. what you have to do is sortof tongue wrestle!! lol it sound weird yes i know here is a website to go off of it has some techniques etc. http://www.theromantic.com/kissing/frenchkiss.htm

hope i helped!!

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I am still In love with my ex-bf and my friend is going out with him, but i don't want to ruin them because then I will feel bad I am best friends with my ex his name is james. but my friend told me i make her feel werid when i am hanging out with him and all our friends which include her. How do i stop making her feel this way?

you can't really get her to stop feelign that you you know what i mean..? only she can stop.. what you should do is talk to her and ask her why you make her feel weird.. and ask her what you can do to change that! hope i helped

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there's this guy that i love more than anything in the world one problem...he's in soo much trouble and I can't help him with it...he says if anyone helps him it HAS to be me well i don't know how to help him but he seriously needs it. He's tried to kill himself and he thinks that no one will help him because he hasn't done anything for anybody ( I went out with him and he did a lot for me whether he knows it or not) but it's been a week or so since we broke up and he's now into all this he's been high all day since god knows when and it's not a good thing I need help and councelors who can help him in ways that i can't!!

i think you should go to your councelors at school.. they always now exactly what to do... you need to let the conclelors how much you care for him and you don't want him getting into trouble with the law or anything ... etc. hope i helped..

ps. if you want him to im me or if you want to im me here is my sn toxicbarbie1369 , i have a cousin who does that and i can let him know about the trouble that he got into and what he went threw if you want me to!

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my entire forehead is acne scars, what can i get for cheap that will get rid of them? and does anyone know cheap face washes or anything to prevent acne without drying out my face really bad?
thanks!

i use clearasile .. some other good ones is olay it is guarenteed to work the daily face mask thing that is.. and then there is also pro active that is guarentteed to... olay is cheap i wouldn't get pro active tho.. because it costs about 30$ if you think that that is a lot .. clearasill only costs about 5-10 but i don't know how much olay costs.. hope this helps!

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Hey... I dont know what to do... But here it goes...

Ok i am a boy, 13, lets call me Steve... Ok well in school i have a lot of friends who are close to me, and a lot of them are Girls... And i think i like one of them... And the thing is that i am not the guy to walk around and go out with girls... I am not no prince charming.... So lets call this girl Kelli... and I have started to like her over time... and she is one of my Close friends who is a girl... On top of that there is this girl i liked for a long long time like about 2 and a half to 3 years... i dont know if i should try to move on from her and try to go after kelli or if i should still keep going for her... Please help... i need someone to hear me out....

okay well... have you ever tried telling this other girl that you likeds for 2-3 years that you liked her? if you didn't then you shoudln't move on.. you need to tell her how you feel becaus eif you just move on with out telling her you never know if she had felt the same way about you that you did about her.. know kelli.. if it doesn't work out with you and the 2-3 year girl then move on to kelli but stick with the 2-3 year girl unless if you already told her how you feel and asked her out and all that good stuff.. so keep kelli in mind but deffidently go after the 2-3 year girl first before you more onto kelli!.. hope i helped!! any more questions .. feel free to ask!!

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Ok this guy really likes me. He asked me out today. I didnt want to hurt his feelings by sayin no so I said I dont know. And he started crying. I felt soo bad. What should i do?? He's 15/m and im 13/f. Please help. I rate high.

if you go out with him.. and you don't like him it will just hurt him even more.. just let him now that maybe your not ready for a b/f yet... or that you just want to be friends because you don't want it to destroy your friendship... just let it down to him easily.. just don't sya it to his face because if he crys again you might feel really bad.. so let him know on the computer or the phone!

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I'm thinking about buying a Lacoste on ebay..for those of you who don't know what it is, it's a really expensive polo retailing for $72-$79 in stores like Saks, Nordstroms, etc..The problem is, I don't want to get scammed and be sold a fake one. How do I know if it's real? The one I am currently bidding on has a $0.99 starting bid. The seller states that it has two mother of pearl buttons. She has a feedback of 99.7%. Is this a scam? How do I spot the real ones?

well she doesn't sound like soemone to scam.. but you could send it back if it is not real remeber and she has to give you your total refund! you could go into a jewerly place to ask... they will tell you free of charge... hope i helped

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I wasnt really sure what to put this under, sorry. I need people to give me alot of ideas for fundraisers because my church is trying to raise money for our teen group to go to church camp. We need to make alot of money in a short amount of time. thank you very much.

tupperwear is always good! or gerture hawks... (that is a chocolate one) anything like that... or ask for donations or something.. tell them what your doing etc. usually a lot of peopel would like to give you donations.!

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