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I am still In love with my ex-bf and my friend is going out
I am still In love with my ex-bf and my friend is going out with him, but i don't want to ruin them because then I will feel bad I am best friends with my ex his name is james. but my friend told me i make her feel werid when i am hanging out with him and all our friends which include her. How do i stop making her feel this way?
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Why did you two split up? Does your friend know you feel this way? Perhaps she might think you still have feelings or that he might as there is some tension around you guys when you are all together. What you have to say to her is that you know that you and her boyfriend have a history but that you are not the kind of person to go behind someones back and cheat especially being your best friend. You have to tell her that you don't have feelings anymore for this guy even though you don't mean it. By telling your friend this she will become more relaxed and not mind you all being together again. It's natural for a friend to feel this way when they start going out with an ex of a friend so don't worry. As long as you talk to her things will get much easier. Hop I have helped a little
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if she does say somthing about it then you should tell her that she needs to stop worrying and if she does tell her to take a chill pill. if you are worried about something happening tell him how you feel and that you dont want anything to happen and if he really cares about you and your friend then hell back off till you tell him other wise.
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well your friend needs to understand that the two of you are friends and that you are not going stop being friends with people because it makes her feel weird. You should explain this too her and tell her that you too, feel uncomfortable.
good luck!
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you can't really get her to stop feelign that you you know what i mean..? only she can stop.. what you should do is talk to her and ask her why you make her feel weird.. and ask her what you can do to change that! hope i helped
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