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Hello! My name is Paige. I have been through plenty of experiences, so i think i give good advice. You can ask me anything from family stuff to sex. If i dont know the answer to something, i will try my hardest to find the information. I will NEVER reject questions people leave in my inbox, in fact i LOVE getting them! IF YOU SEND ME AN INBOX MESSAGE PLEASE LEAVE YOUR EMAIL IF YOU ARE AN UNREGISTERED USER! I wont sugar coat anything, i will be straight forward and truthful with you.

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Does anyone know any good sappy teenage romance novels? I need something good to read. =D

The notebook =]

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I've heard a lot of things about the pill and I wanted to know if they were true.

Does It make your periods more regular?
Does it make your periods lighter/not as painful?
Does it make you gain weight or lose weight?
Does it help clean acne?

Thanks

Yes, i heard it does all of these. But, it can either make you lose or gain weight. That just depends.

Good luck

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Hi, i was wondering if anyone had any interesting ideas on how to celebrate me nad my boyfriends six month anniversary. I wanted to do something really special for him, since he has been so great, any ideas? It is also my birthday the day before that as well, so if that helps to get better ideas i dont know. He is 16 and i will be 15 the day before our 6 month.

Thanks

Hmm, you can make him dinner and desert. You can also make a little photo album of you and him. If you dont have photos, you can write on a piece of paper exactly how much he means to you.
You could also, sit and watch the stars or something romantic like that.

Good luck

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Okay, i dont usually do this, but i cant trust my friends with this one. I have a boyfriend who ive been dating for 13 months. in the last four months, ive started to fall for a guy i work with and have been working with for two years, we are jokingly refered to as the work couple. lately my boyfriend and i have been fighting a lot, and i spend more time at work (im working full time this summer) i dont think that i will be truly happy with either relationship, but the situation im in right now isnt appealing either. i feel like im losing interest in my boyfriend, yet i love him just as much.

what do i do?

Well, if youre not happy in youre current relationship, then i think you should end it. You arent being fair to youre bf or to yourself. But, if you think there is something there, take a breather and sit somewhere you like to go and think about what you should do. The right answwer will come to you. And remember everything happens for a reason.

You could also tell youre bf that you want to take a break and see other people, then you can date the guy from work and seee how you like that. The only bad thing about that is that ure bf will be able to date anybody he wants as well.

Good luck

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Can you pee with a tampon in?? also...is it ok to wear a tampon even if you dont have your pieriod?? and does it hurt more to take out a "dry" tampon???

Well, My aunt says she pee's with a tampon in, but i dont think you should. Its probably bad for you.

&& if you wear a tampon without your period then it will hurt very badly when you try to take it out, this is because their is no moisture so it wont just slide out like it would if there was blood in it.

Yes, it does hurt more to take a dry tampon out. Believe me. ouchies

Good luck

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ok well...sorry if this is too long but..... i have been gettin these strong feelings....first i thought....no sex before marriage.......then i thought.... you know sex before marriage is not that bad....then now i am thinking it is great to have sex AFTER marriage, but then i am asking all these questions in my head..what if he doesnt like my body? what if...this happens what if that... i have been thiking alot ...and i have been lusting....ye lol...and i have been having these ideas maybe a month ago..children? my ass i am adopting..now i think it would be cool to have a baby..just a life and all the beauty..and since i am getting these ideas to be married of course i will have a baby IN marriage.....and then i am getting these thoughts it would be a beautiful thing to do this...and then i am thinking oh i wanna have a child and get married at 19..then i am like what am i thinking? then i am thinking 20..no 26.....and i am all copnfused and THINKING A LOT .. i have just layed on my bad and thought......and i think about sex.... yup..and i really feell i need to do something about this...please help!!!!!!!!!!

hah, That is normal. You just want to make the right decision. When the time come, it will come to you of what youre meant to do and you will just know it.

If you want to talk, feel free to leave me a message

Good luck

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what if your married....and the guy you love doesnt like your body? it would be totally foolish if you got divorced the night after?? plz tell me.. i am really curious

Ha. When somebody loves you they love everything about you, even if its not perfect. You shouldnt change your body image for a guy. That is foolish. If he really loved you, he wouldnt care what you look like on the outside. It is the inside that really matters.

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I hate stereotyping! And people are always calling me goth or emo, (im considered emo). But I hate it when I'm called gothic. They don't know whether I'm with God or not! I wish they'd all just stop judging! I don't know what else to do. I always just get a deep voice and say "be careful what you wish for", gothics seek revenge". LOL. j/k. But what could I say to get them to stop???

Thanx
~KAYLA~

Dont let them see that it bothers you. When they say that just ignore them. If you tell them to stop, they will know its bothering you and keep doing it.

Just ignore them!

Good luck

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ok..just wodering.....how can you suck a *u know what* and not hurt him with your teeth like if it is big or something?

Make your teeth go behind your lips. And just Suck it by moving up and down and using your tongue to lick the top. Go slow then fast and keep varying the speed.

Once you do it a couple times, try to give head and give a handjob at the same time. You have to multi task. But, it is pretty self explanatory.

Good luck

Heading is giving a blow job

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im 16/f and there is a guy that is 2 years younger than me. i know age difference sucks but who cares. well you see we always use to flirt nonstop when we saw each other but we never kissed or anything! i dont think he sees me as that way?! i just dont know but now he has a girlfriend and i still see him alot but he always starts flirting with me. i love it and do it back and he always grabs me and holds me from behind and is like you cant get out! or just like pushes me..anything he can do to flirt with me. one time i wore white shorts and they were see-through and i guesss he told his friend that he didnt mind or whatever lol and that he was looking at my ass and also when i wore a skirt i guess my butt was accidently showing and he was looking at it and was like why cant more girls be like her (me)? trust me im not a slut though i have never had a boyfriend and only madeout with one guy so far! but now im thinking does he like me? or does he just like flirting with me. because what about his girlfriend i know he likes her! we always have such great talks though! and he is so adorable and sweet its unbelievaeble. he looks so much older also. but the whole girlfriend thing throws me off..everytime i see him he just gets me though. i'll probably see him tomorrow or sometime soon this week so do you think i should like just keep doin what im doin..if he flirts then flirt back? im not gonna try and steal him away or anything but i just love flirting with him and im kinda crushin on him =p and im not gonna stop talking or seeing him either..just not gonna happen

well thanks for taking your time!

Well, you dont want to steal him because that will be chaos between you and his gf and you and him. So, i guess just keep flirting and wait until him and his gf break up. Thats about all you can do, for now.

Good luck

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i've heard different things. i was just wondering what the best and most effective method(s) are.
thanks in advance!

Here i googled it and a lot of stuff came up. You can search though it and see if you find anything helpful.

http://search.yahoo.com/search?fr=slv2-&ei=UTF-8&p=methods+to+dreadlock+hair

Goodluck!

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yesi know one meaning for 'planned parenthood' as in like you plan for a child ..but i heaer other meanings for it..can someone explain?

For example, at wal mart it has a sign "Planned Parenthood. That is where the condoms,pregnancy tests, and massage oil is. Its just basically stuff relating to sex.

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God, I have a real problem. When I first came to Jr. High last year I was myself 100%. I didn't give a care what people thought about me, or who my friends were. Then in the middle I started changing my looks and the way I talked, and I found myself ditching my old friends (who were kind of geeky) to be friends with newer and more popular ones. And it worked! Some of the popular people hang out with me now. But I feel really bad now. Now that im friends w/ the popular kids, I feel like I dont even need my old friends. I even LIKE my new friends more than my old ones. So tell me... am I a total selfesh jerk for ditching my friends? And am I weird for changing myself?

Its not weird. But, it is a little bit wrong. You changed yourself so you could be cool and youre old friends already liked you for who you were, not how you dress or even talk. And also, ask yourself if you would want youre friends to do this to you. It's like youre saying, your better than them.

But, in the end usually people go back to their original friends, because they are the true friends. And that is all you need. Ones that wont stab you in the back.

good luck

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Alright so in the middle of like May I got birth control. I started it right when I got it because I had just finished my period and that's when you're suppossed to start. Anyways, the last week in June I got my period (a little late but that's normal i guess) but it was EXTRMEMLY heavy and I honestly thought I was having a miscarrage (im a virgin so i knew i wasnt but thats how bad it was) and I even had to leave work early. Anyways, on Friday (today's Sunday) I noticed that I was getting my period AGAIN. After only a week. It's extrememly light this time and it's more of a brown color (sorry if that's too graphic) and I can get away with a light tampon all day.

Is this normal for being on birth control or should I be worried?

15/f if that helps.

Well, i would image it is normal because when you take birth control it messes with your hormones. The brown blood is simply the old blood, and your body needed to get rid of it. If it keeps happening, consult a doctor about it.

Good luck.

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does anyone know some good sites to find some 50x50 avatars?

Here's a site


http://www.avatarhell.com

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Ok at my camp there is a dance. Is in 2 weeks. I really wanna go with this guy that i was dating last summer. I think he likes me but I am not sure. My friend asked him and i think he said yes but she really does not want to go with him. She wants to go with this guy named Jacob (Chico). Should I ask the guy first or should I wait and see if he asks me? PlEaSe HeLp..DANCE IN 2 WEEKS AND NEED A DATE! If you have any other ideas..PLEASE TELL ME! thxx


I would wait a week to see if he asks you, but if he doesnt then ask him.

But, just bring it up and mention it to him.

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this is somewhat of a stupid question, but i really need to know... does anyone know where i can buy bags of potpourri? because i want to make potpourri soap for gift bags... does anyone know if target or any specific stores sell them? i sort of need to know by tomorrow. thank you so much in advance.

I am sure they have them at wal mart,target,and Michaels.

At least they should

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People tell me I have a reasonabley good voice but I want to make it really good. What exercises can I do to make it stronger cos at the moment I hit a high note and my voice sort of totally disappears. It's real weird!

Sing. "i like bubble gum" and as youre singing it keep getting higher.
And once you go the highest you can, sing "i like double bubble gum" as high as you can go.

I used to do that in choir. :)

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ok well first it is so funny how people show affection by HURTING their partners neck (LOL) but....anyway how do u give one..really? bite....suck? what?

You can bite(gently) you suck and lick and just have fun and experiment!

Good luck

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ok well.... i cant wear a ring right... i mean i can only wear them on my pinkys...its so weird i mean what am i going to do...when it is my wedding day and like the ring sucks me and two of my friends have always had this prob...please help or give me any ideas...i think i cracked them when i was little cuase my cousin did it to shut me up...she took me and my hand them pushe back my fingers...so please give me any help

Just get a ring to fit youre size, they have plenty! Or you can get it resized.

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