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he flirts with me first...
im 16/f and there is a guy that is 2 years younger than me. i know age difference sucks but who cares. well you see we always use to flirt nonstop when we saw each other but we never kissed or anything! i dont think he sees me as that way?! i just dont know but now he has a girlfriend and i still see him alot but he always starts flirting with me. i love it and do it back and he always grabs me and holds me from behind and is like you cant get out! or just like pushes me..anything he can do to flirt with me. one time i wore white shorts and they were see-through and i guesss he told his friend that he didnt mind or whatever lol and that he was looking at my ass and also when i wore a skirt i guess my butt was accidently showing and he was looking at it and was like why cant more girls be like her (me)? trust me im not a slut though i have never had a boyfriend and only madeout with one guy so far! but now im thinking does he like me? or does he just like flirting with me. because what about his girlfriend i know he likes her! we always have such great talks though! and he is so adorable and sweet its unbelievaeble. he looks so much older also. but the whole girlfriend thing throws me off..everytime i see him he just gets me though. i'll probably see him tomorrow or sometime soon this week so do you think i should like just keep doin what im doin..if he flirts then flirt back? im not gonna try and steal him away or anything but i just love flirting with him and im kinda crushin on him =p and im not gonna stop talking or seeing him either..just not gonna happen
well thanks for taking your time!
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Darling,
Your mind seems made up but if i could help you,
He is just in it for a booty call.
If he was serious the girlfriend wouldn't be there but she is so he isn't willing to stop what he has going for you. Also he odviously doesn't respect you if hes making remarks about you ass hanging out he just wants a part of it. I know your not going to stop talking to him but your gonna get yourself either hurt or in trouble with this situation if you dont stad up to yourself to him. Tell him you dont appriciate him all over you and remarks when he has a girl but you like him you just like him better single. Let him know he can't have both of you. Believe me they love the chase anyway but hintyour intrested. Ok Love good luck.
Sincerly,
Vennessa.
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Hi, it sounds as though he likes you or is attracted to you because if he wasn't then he wouldn't be flirting now would he? He sounds as though he's interested and you are starting to like him to. Just be aware that he has a girlfriend but yeah keep flirting with him if you want to. If his girlfriend finds out then it will be him that would get the cold shoulder. Just be careful though. Daniel.
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Don't worry about the age difference, you two are attracted to eachother! Lots of guys have that problem, they have a gf, but they like some one else! You arent doing anything wrong by flirting with him, after all you are crushin' on him! He IS crushin' back, but he is problably confused at the moment. Keep flirting and when the time is right, you can bring up the fact that you two are into eachother, but he needs to do something about that girl! lol. So just dont worry and everything will fall into place!!
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Wow. First off, I wouldn't worry about the age difference, because hearing this- it sounds as if you both are on the same maturity level. To be honest, this reminds me of my middle school days.
Secondly, why are you asking a question if you aren't going to change anything about what you're doing anyway?
Third. This site, is currently being overused with stupid questions about the same situation over and over.
If he liked you, he would break up with his girlfriend.
Flirting is fun. And- like the great postal service song "everything looks better from far away".
Just get over it. And stop being stupid.
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Well, you dont want to steal him because that will be chaos between you and his gf and you and him. So, i guess just keep flirting and wait until him and his gf break up. Thats about all you can do, for now.
Good luck
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Flirting is a natrual thing and people do it without even noticing. I do think that he has a thing for you even though he has a girl friend or maybe it's just that he is a major flirt. A lot of guys are like that. They love all kinds of attention. You shoulnd't just stop flirting. I personaly think it would be hard for the two of you since you're so into each other. I don't know what else to tell you though. Once you guys are having a conversation, bring up the subject of you and him and just talk. He is attracted to you & there is a possibility that he likes you but it's hard to tell because he's giving you mixed signals. Just talk and flirt and have a good time.
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