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this name is old and stupid....well first off my name is stephanie.dont judge me before you know me.im pretty nice.i like meeting new people,so im open to friends, but im extremely shy, so yeah. i dont give that good of advice so i'll help you as much as i can













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hey there's this guy that's new and he goes to my middle school now. he's really cute and nice and funny and talented, and i really like him. a lot of other people in my grade like him too, but i've never talked to him before because i have no classes with him, and during lunch he usually goes to a club. i want to get to know him more, and i want to be able to talk to him. my x wanted to know who i liked, and i told him, and he said he would hook me up with him for me, but i told him not to. the next day my x told me he asked the guy that i like if he likes me, and he said no. i was really sad about that. is there anything i can do so that he'll start to like me? and is there anything i can say to him if i ever have the chance to see him? im really shy, and i'm not so good at talking to people that i like and i've never even talked to before.
please help!!!!! i rate high for good answers!!

your ex probably likes you and said that the guy doent like you because he wanted to go out with you again..this is going to sound stupid but stay away from him because since you said other people like him and he will think you are the mysterious kind of person and will want to get to know you more.. or you can just say hi to him or ask him for help on something

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How can i lose weight really really quickly? i need to lost about 3-4l lbs in a week or so...if u have ne suggestions, please tell me. Thanks!

~Cassie

eat right, exercise, and drink a lot of water

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Everytime i have made a myspace account it never works! I'll try to login and it will say that i entered the password wrong or somthing! Only i enter it right! I dont know whats going on but i really want a myspace! Has this ever happend to anyone else?


~melissa~

check if you have the wrong password or you have the '@yahoo.com 'or something like that.the right numbers capitalization or puncuation(sp)

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hi. i never excericise. i don*t play sports, i don*t run or walk much, and i don*t work out. but i realized that i really want nice abs, so i*m trying to come up with a plan for me to do a number of crunches a day for 2 months to get nice abs. so far i*ve decided to do 50 crunches every night and 40 every morning. do you think that i*ll have abs in 2 months? if not how many should i do then?

truthfully no..i dont want to be mean though..but eat a lot of protein but dont eliminate other food groups and do 100 crunches every other day..because you gain muscle because it tears and then 're builds' itself so you have to rest in between.. and also run so you lose some weight so you can see the muscle and stuff

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ok, well my friends are SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO close to getting a record deal, and i've been going into chatroom trying to get people to help them, but no one will do it! so i thought maybe thoughtful people on here could do it, all you have to do is go to www.buzzplay.com , register *it's quick and easy and they dont send you stuff after* and then you have to go to artists, click "O" and rate 10 for the band and leave a short comment like "rock on!" or whatever for the band "Off Peak Fare" and also 10 for their songs, and try to tell your friends about them. They are awesome, and i really need your help. Thanx a lot! i'll rate 5's for everyone who does it!!!

*Jill*

ill do that but on that site do they have a sample or something that we can hear

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does anybody have any good workouts for abbs butt and love handles?? i really need to start working out! but i dont know any work outs that work....

first you should put running in your working out..because its sheds pounds all over do crunches for your abs..and squats for your butt..for the love handles you lay on your back and have your hand parallel with your should and dont lift it. then you do crunches but go to the sides instead of the middle..hard to explain but if you need more just leave one in my inbox

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does anybody know how to make destroyed jeans?! how?? plz help me...thank you so much!

i heard a cheese gradder works..ha umm nail filer

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umm.. well first of all. i cut.. second of all.. ppl keep telling me that its really bad and unhealthy but i seriously dont understand why?


*me*

its bad because you can die from it and its unhealthy because sometimes you get to the point where theres something mentally wrong..you should really stop..it was really hard for me to do it but i did i only do it now and then but atleast i dont do it every day or month

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what would i have to do each day to get a six pack?? aww i really want a six pack but idk what to do to get it?? please please help me! ill rate high!

eat a lot of protien..but dont cut out your daily value of other food groups..and do crunches

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If my guy isnt making the first move, do I do it??

yeah.. if you want to.. or you can ask if you can make the move i know stupid but he might not want to

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Ok you see my best friend in the whole world has really REALLY bad breath! Wich I really don't care but when sge smells it (her breath) She always says OMG Brittany you breath smells so so bad! I mean I always brush my teeth and always chew gum and eat ice brackers (I have 0 cavities) So what should I say to her? Uesally I just say "Oh I do?" So what should I start saying?

you get bad breath from the bacteria in your mouth, at the end of your tongue(the part where your throat is) and your probably not going to believe me when i say this but when you hold in you umm body gas mouth or umm below waist you get bad breath.. i got that from my uncle because he had to learn about it and yeah gross but its the truth..you should just say that she has bad breath i know mean but it could chase off other people

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okay, theres this guy i like we just started talking online today.. but anyway he suddenly just imed me out of the blue and was just talking! I didnt understand why all of a sudden he wanted to talk to me.. but yeah. At school tuesday I want to say something to him but I dont know what.. what should i say?

that kind of happened to me too...this guy that i know started talking to me when i havent talked to him on AIM in like a year and hes like who do you like? and stuff like that and then after that hes like i like you..something like that and then there was this really big fight with him and his girlfriend and yeah you doint really need to know that..but maybe he wants to get to know you or something like that...in school you should just talk to him and say 'hey, was your summer good?' something like that and stuff

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There this new guy in Early childhood class and he is the only guy in it and he lives next to me.I REALLY like him and I told my friend that and she is all over him.Then I asked her if she liked him and she said ewww no!!! I cant get my mind off of him.I think he likes my friend because no doubt she is really pretty.But everytime we see each at home he says hi in a really hot way and smiles and then he goes hola to me.He is soo hot.Should I make the first move or should I try to forget about him.I rate high!!!

well since you live next to him you can ask him if he wants to do anything..this will probably all sound corny to you, but ask him if he wants to play basketball,hang out something like that so you can get to know him.

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Hi I am a 17 year old boy and my girlfriend wants to have unprotected sex
with me, but i'm not sure i want to have unprotected sex.

We have had protected sex before. Please Help me?.

in a way you already answered it..your questioning yourself whether you want to or not and it seems to me that your really not ready for the consequences...you have to make your own decion..

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wow who else thought the VMA's
rocked?

mcr didnt win anything.....but it was ok

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Ok, so there's this girl who I REALLY love (real love, not "is she hot"), and she knows I like her, and I want to ask her out in a special way... not just "Hey, will you go out with me?" No. No way. I want something special like they did in Bye Bye Birdie (except her name has no rhymes or puns, and I'm the worst songwriter in existence). If it helps, it's my first time asking someone out, I can't do it in person because all the classes we have together, we're on opposite sides of the room, and I'm an insanely shy person. Are there any cute & special ways to do it on the interweb? That looks like my best bet right now... please, I really need help!!!!

i know you want to ask on the internet thing but i think the best way is to ask in person but thats my oppinion so you should do whatever you want..this is stupid but you can make a sigh asking her with you on the side of it holding it and send it to her

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hi i'm 15,male,ohio and there is this girl that i like but shes really popular and i'm not i'm hated by everyone popular and i'm not sure if she hates me and i'd really like to get to know her shes gave me her number but never sits by me on the bus and jus says hi.

maybe she likes you but doesnt really want everyone to know..like she'll become less popular..well since you have your number then call her and just talk to her..

sorry for the stupid answer

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whats your favorite song??

this question is so we can all learn new and different songs just for the fun of it.

I Caught Fire - The Used its amazing so are their other songs too

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13/m Ever since I tried to show my crush how much I loved her, she's had something to do whenever I try to talk to her. Like just now. We were both on AIM, but she had her Away Message on. After a while, she turns off her Away Message, and so I say hi, and all of a sudden her little brother wants to go ride bikes. This has happened about two or three times. Is she ignoring me? Is she trying to give me the slip? I really need advice here...

she might not know how to react, if she knows that you like her...just try to pull her aside and talk to her in school and so she wont really have an excuse(sp) to not talk to you..good luck

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does anyone know where i can get the click fives "just the girl" music code for myspace?
will rate 5's if you can help me out...

www.hotcodez.com

if you want to get other ones you can just go on google and type in something like 'just the girl music video code' and it should go to something that has it on there

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