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has anyone actually lost belly fat from their stomachs by doing crunches or does it just make u look like u have a 6 pack or w/e

i think it'll just turn your stomach more muscular and tighten it up so it doesn't look fat, but that doesn't mean you'll have a slim waste

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okay ive had discharge for a while now and i styll havin gotn mah period where the hell is it? ... im turn 14 in april! what the fuckin hell! help me out people
thanx bye
-wtf-

i didn't get my period til a good 2 + years after that (and i was 15)

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I have a really good friend (thats a guy) and well we have gone out a couple times. And i like him again and he told one of my friends he kinda likes me. i wanna just grab him and kiss him one day but im scared he'll push me away. what should i do.


*female 15*

i always thought it would be really cute to get your message through in a song, but i've never tried it haha like start playing "kiss the girl" from little mermaid next time you're alone! lol *smooch* gl

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at school once, i farted really loud on accident...see...i sneezed and it popped out! no one will let me live it down...what do i say to them?

laugh it off - and if they see that it doesn't bother you, then they might not make such a big deal out of it...i have a guy friend who did that and he takes pride in it haha nd my friend's bro farted really loud in church once when it was quiet...everybody farts and let's face it - farting is funny! lol

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Alright guys.. I dont want you to think i'm some kind of hoe.. or pervert.. But.. here goes.. I'm starting to have feelings for this kid... I won't mention a name.. But.. hes 15 I think. He's a friend of my sisters. I know he likes me... and I'm 17.. I dont know what to do! someone! Please help me!!

i knew a guy who went out w/ a senior when we are freshman so that was an even bigger difference - i suggest spending more time with him before you make ne moves just to make sure that you do like him instead of worrying about it being an issue beofre you have to...but if you like him then go for it (as long as he's not one of those delayed 15 yr olds who just started puberty lol) ~ just think, in 10 yrs that age difference will be practically nothing

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During your first year of h.s. do u hang out with new friends or friends from ur grammar school cause idont have many friends from my grammar school and im worried that i wont have nayone to hang out with if i dont make friends ritee away?

i'd say that it depends on the school - some high schools join middle schools together for high school, so if that's tru in your case then you'll definitely meet new ppl...in most high schools, you'll meet ppl who rn't in the same grade as you that you have stuff in common with 2 so don't stress...one word of advice tho (well, this whole thing is supposed to be advice haha) - get involved in sports and clubs and stuff like that cuz it's a great way to meet ppl with similar interests to you

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if someone asked u if u evr had an orgasm , and u hav . wuld it b weird to say yes? wuld they like make fun of u or sumthing.

i think you'd have to base that on who's asking you...like if it's someone who's experience with stuff like that, then you shouldn't be embarrassed to tell them, but if it's someone who's more innocent than you they might think you're dirty or something unless they're just curious...also, if it's a guy asking you then make sure he's not just asking you to find out things about you like that cuz it turns him on or nething like that lol

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hey well...im skinny im 14 and i weigh 85 pounds..and its so wierd...lyk my stomach its skinny but then lyk right undermy belly button i have this lyk little "pooch" thing.it s not lyk that big where people would think im fat but sitll it wierd...what is it? and no, its not something lyk medically wrong with me...its just the way my stomach is. but lyk i dunno its so wierd cuz im real skinny and then theres lyk this little pooch thing under my belly button..does anyone else whos skinny have this..?

i kno exactly what you're talking about and it may just be the way your body is - wear your pants low cuz i think it looks better that way...but if it ever goes down then maybe you're just bloated?? lol

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i dont really know what is goin on w/ me but here is the deal. i have this thing for like a back massager but i put it to my private(this is kinda weird but...)and it like massages it and makes me feel really weird, what am i doin?

pleasuring yourself lol it feels good/weird because that's the area on your body that gets sexually stimulated

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Today i went to the doctors and i do not know why but my moms says ive gotten really skinny and it turns out that im antirexic and i dont think i look skinny i think i look fat but they say im really skinny what do i do!

a lot of people with this disorder don't realize that they are doing it to themselves, and it is often a control issue...you probably don't see yourself how other people do, so trust them!! i think that once you get healthier, then you'll be able to notice the change

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what are some good ideas for gifts for my boyfriend (of 5 months) birthday?

nething related to inside jokes you guys have, clothes from a store he likes, hats if he wears them, a watch if you have some dough lol, cd's he wants ........

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i have a blood blister on my pinky toe, and it looks liek a little brown dot under my skin, how do i get rid of it?

if it's brown, then it may be a blood blister, but it's not a big deal - from my experience, they heal faster when you let them be, but if you REALLY want to pop it then do it with a sterilized needle and just let the insides ooze out and then you can put vitamin E on it or neosporin...but i suggest just letting it heal itself

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ok i have a long distance g/f im talkin outastate ne way i call her alota and she means the world to me i could go on and on about her but there is 1 prob i have only seen 1 pic of her and im not even sure thats her and i prob wont ever see her in person what do i do???

plz get back to me

how can you NEVER plan on seeing someone you are crazy about?? how old are you?? if you're young, then i think you need to stop with the online romance - it's okay to have friends online, but don't let yourself get caught up in it because you'll be missing out on opportunities for g/fs that live near you!!...and if you're older, then don't necessary rule out the thought of ever meeting, it can be done (and should if you are serious about her)

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I just started using tampons. And when i wear them they hurt like heck. Did i not have it in all the way or what? please help!

if you can feel it when you sit down then it isn't in deep enough

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My so called friend i think is only my friend cuz he likes my girlfriend and he even said so, i think there is a chance that she likes him, should i see if she really wants to go with him, or let her know that he really is a jerk or what...?? help please!!

don't encourage your g/f to go out with someone else!! that's crazy lol, if you want to bring the issue up with her, then do it in a way so that she knos you don't want to lose her -- tell him that your friend has his on her, but that you don't want it to come between the two of you....if she wants to break up with you for him, then she will! but don't make her feel like it's okay to do that!

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My parents payed for me and my brother to go to a private school. It was really expensive but thank god we got insurance so some of the money will come back to us if we deside not to go. Well my brother and i ended up going to public school where it's free, the thing is that the private school won't let us get the money back unless we go there for 15 school days. I have been arguing with my parents saying that i just started to make friends at the public school, and things are really going my way. Going to the private school for 15 days will make it really hard to go back to the public school. I really dont know what to do cause it's a lot of money we will get back, yet i am really startin to fit in at the public school.

since this is long I will rate high!!!!!!!!!!

wow! that's really weird, i've never heard of that! i think that you should go to the private school or else you'll probably feel guilty about the waste of money - i understand that it's gonna be really odd to leave one school and go to another one with a bunch of new ppl that you have to tell you won't be staying, but I think that the 15 days might go faster than you kno it!! just keep up to date on the schoolwork at the public school so that you aren't overwhelmed when you get back

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hey..i'm headed to High School in a week..9th grade..in a few advanced classes..bio,geometry..spansish..etc..anyways..
what are some things that are a must have for high school? like as far as notebooks,folders..?stuff like that..
also..i'm very unorganized when it comes to my school papers and such..so plz keep that in mind when thinking of things i should buy..
thanx a bunch..

ur teachers will tell you what they want - normally folders and notebooks, some teachers want composition books..pencils nd pens are always good, and i think white out's a necessity haah, an agenda to keep on top of things...and if you're in geometry, you might be required to buy a graphing calculator (don't buy it until u kno for sure tho cuz they r expensive)

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Okay my best friend just told me shes bi..And im a girl to.I dont know what to do, should I still be her friend or should I like not be..Im kinda creeped out cause I dont want her to like hit on me or nething.What should I do? Im only 14 to what should I do

if your friend got up enough courage to tell you, then she probably needs your support right now, and her personality hasn't changed just because you found this out! also, not to sound rude but look at it from this perspective ~ isn't it a little cocky to think she'll like you just because you're a girl? i mean, you don't like every guy you're friends with, right?? just let her kno that you are okay with her being that way but that you aren't !

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Hey Everybody!!
Well...I'm engaged now, and I'm starting to plan my wedding. I'm not sure of my color theme yet...but I know that it'll most likely be on the beach, in the summer...mainly around July or Aug. My dress will be either off white or white. My question is...does anybody have an suggestions about colors on bridesmaids or..other things such as decoration. Thank ya'll soo much.

i saw a wedding at the beach, and the men had little colored starfish (orange) pinned onto their tuxes instead of flowers and it was the cutest thing ever!!

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http://www.journeys.com/catalog_detail.aspx?id=23819

the pink and blue roos


or ... the pink and gray vans

http://www.zappos.com/n/p/dp/1560623/c/12819.html

or this??

http://www.zappos.com/n/p/dp/2086937/c/12820.html


PLEASE GIVE ME AN OPINION ASAP PLEASE PLEASE MODERATOR DONT DELETE I NEED THE OPINION

i think the roos are more unique and would probably be harder to match with unless you have a lot of pink clothes! personally, i like the last blue ones just cuz the pink and gray vans kind of depress me but you'd have to kind of match things to the baby blue, too...so i suggest picking based on your wardrobe

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