im brooke .. im an all around nice girl and love to give advice so dont feel like you cant ask me for advice cause if i wasnt willing to give it i wouldnt have this in the first place lol
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my boyfriend is really sweet and thoughtful of what he does. so before he kissed me, he asked if it would be ok. and i said it would. so now he wants to kiss me. but the only thing is...it's my first kiss and i don't know how. please help. it might sound kinda stupid but i need to know how. thanks in advance! (link)
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well it is natural and he can teach without you askin him lol but yeah it isnt hard dont worry you wont mess up or nothing =)
hope i helped
tell me how it goes
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Okay. I went out with this one guy, like 3 times. And every single time, I thought he changed, but he hasn't. I used to think that I loved him.. But then everytime we go out, he acts like a jerk. At first he would just completly ignore me.. Then he would go on to throwing rocks at me and other stuff like that.
What should i do? Every time i try to talk to him..He says he will change, but he doesnt.How can i help? And he told me that IM the reason HE chews. Im about to go cut myself! Plez help! (link)
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i think you should tell him you say your gunna change everytime but you never do i mean what kind of guy goes and acts like he likes you and then he goes and throws rocks at you that happend to me before but i just found someone new that is actually nice and better and now we've been goin out for like 3months.. soo i think you should just find someone new because he wont change guys like that never change(sorry if i sound like a bitch lol )
hope i helped hun
tell mehow it goes
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Ok i like this girl and shes soo freekin fine..i want to ask her out but i dont have the balls to...cause i dont even think she likes me..i mean were friends and all but i think that if i do and she says no that, that could mess up our relationship...what should i do? (link)
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i think you should talk to one of her friends find out who she likes .. n if she likes you ask her out you could just talk to her yourself ask her who she likes and then just be a flirty and cute and you should just go for it u never know how she is gunna answer without asking.
hope i helped
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xl h0ll0w li3s lx
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hey...well i go out with this kid(Eric) and like i really do like hima real lot...we went out before but his so called "Best Friend"(Kevin) started spreading rumors and he kind of messed up our realationship...he wouldnt beleave me when i told him it wasnt true and he said he was going to beleave his best friend so i dumped him because i dont want to goout with someone who doesnt trust me...well i went out with him a while ago so i think he likes me still because if he doesnt then why would he start rumors to make us breake up? thats gay but o well it was his fault he cheated on me and then he goes and dumps me...anywayz after me and eric broke up we kind of started talking a lot more because likke before he never called me and everytime i called him he could only talk for about 10 mins and then he would be like i have to go...we never hang out either...so i guess he didnt really like him like he said...well teh other day i was walking after school with dome friends and we saw him so he came up to us and walked with us...my friend(Cesar) always walks homw with me so i dont have to walk alone but that day he stayed home because he was sick i think...so Eric walked me home and he hugged me before he left and stuff...pretty weird lol he never did before...anyways taht same day i went online and he asked me out and he said he was sorry for not believing me when he should have and that it wont happen again because now he trustes me...everything was going great until he went over Kevins house and he told him that we go out acyually it was yesterday well teh thing is i went online and he was away and rigth when i tried talking to him he signed off...and i dont know if he didnt on purpose because he had to go...theres thsi girl too she was like my sister...she doesnt live in town...but after me and eric broke up teh first time she all started flirting with him i mean what a friend who does that to a friend...i mean i love that girl to death but she is a slut seriously im srry but she is...she loves everyone and goes out with people she hasnt never seen before and i really think thats so fucked up but anywayz her life none of my business...wel when they were flirting i know he was too but his friends say he did flirt but he dont like her, HE DOESNT EVEN KNOW HER!...i kind of think he likes her he talked to her yesterday but no he wouldnt talk to me...i really dont know whatto do all i know is that i love him and dont want to lose him...but what if he did signed off on purpose and if he doe like her(even tho he sayd he doesnt)???...ugh!!...i hate this so thing called love lol is so complicated...I NEED HELP!!...lol...thanx for everything...much love... (link)
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well i think you should talk to him about it or ask her if he told her he liked her or just see if he flirts with her go with him when they talk to each other n that happend to me only im still with eric lol but it didnt happen with eric it happend with kevin he would always dump me cuz of rumors and then he would flirt with my bestfriend and she would flirt with him too .. it got me mad and then he wwould beg me to go back out with him.. but yeahh but finally one day i just went and flipped out on him because he kept doing this on a weekly bases soo i think you should talk to him before he thinks you will run back to him no matter what he does.. and i think you should just tell him that your not gunna run back for ever..
hope i helped tell me how it goes hunn ..
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theres this kid and he told me he wants to have sex with me. this is so gross to me! i cant stop thinking about it. i heard over and over in my head"i wanna have sex with you" its so gross i dont even like his the least bit! theres no way i can get this outta my head! please help! (link)
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well he was probably being an asshole n just kidding around but it is nothing to worry about i mean there will be atleast 5 more guys saying that to you n atleast one of them will mean it that doesnt mean you have to either .. but just talk to him tell him u aint into that type of stuff soo dont kid around about that.
hope i helped
tell me how it goes hunn
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Me and my boyfriend have been dating for like 2 months,and he wants to kiss me, but I'm not sure if I should. My mom would freak out, but i really like him. What should I do? (link)
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well if you have been goin out for 2months i think you should kiss not near your parents or anything just dont let your parents find out..
hope i helped tell me how it goes
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My exboyfriend who im still in love w, broke up w. his girlfriend. He called me nd told me that he wanted to be friends and that he missed talking to me nd having me around. When we hang out or were around each other there's always that special bond between us, were always flirting and attracted to each other. But a few days ago he told me that he we really wanted to be friends,nd that he didn't want me to get attached to him because he really didn't know what was going to happen and he didn't want to me to get hurt.He says the reason he stoped talking to me was because his girlfriend made him, nd he told me that when he was her sometimes he just wanted to pick up the phone nd call me just too see how i was doing. But now i don't know how to handle this, this kid will always have my heart nd i couldn't picture myself w. any1 else but him. But i don't know what i should do. Im so worried that he may go back to her nd then here i am alone again, without him even as a friend. Please help me figure out what nd how i should act on this. (link)
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That happend to me before .. but yeah i just got to the point that i told him .. that i want to be friends and that girl cant get in between us because that is stupid i mean i liked him soo much i would do anything for him .. but he just didnt feel the same he acted like it but he didnt but yeahh .. just tell him how you feel and if he goes back to that girl then just tell her you guys can still be friends even if they are together!
hope i helped babe .. tell me how it goes ..
--brooke--
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OK i had a boyfriend but he was a geek and i think i am pritty good looking but none of the guys i know think that i am . and i never get anything from the guys from school and i have blond hiar (long dirty blond) i have blie eyes and i am athletic and i love animals i have some and i just need some advise. how can i get guys to like me? (link)
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Well if guys dont like you for who you are then they arent worth the time i mean .. what kind of guy is it if they only want you for the looks .. i think you should go up n talk to them and just .. get them to know you better and if they dont want you then their a waste try to find the guy who wants you for who you are not what you look like
hope i helped tell me how it goes babe ..
--brooke--
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A bunch of my friends cut themselves..but for no reason..they just do it because they want attention and they want people to feel sorry for them. They always talk about how depressed they are and how much life sucks for them, and it's not true at all. Because one friend started to cut herself, the other friend started too as well, and now another one is on the verge of cutting herself. They all do it for attention and I'm positive of that, and they drive everyone crazy. I'd like to just not be friends with them anymore but I don't want to see them get hurt, and they won't listen to anyone when theyre told to stop. What should I do to make them realize how stupid they're being without actually giving them the attention that they're cutting themselves for? If they're given the attention they're cutitng themselves for, then they'll just do it again. If we all just ignore them, they could seriously hurt themselves.. please help. Thanks. (link)
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I think you should just sit and talk with them because if you dont it could get a little too far i mean they could go and cutt so bad and deep that the cut a vein or something and tell them that is unhealthy to do it and if their mom or dad found out they would have to go to a mental hospital and wont be able to use pens,pencils,or be able to go to the bathroom without people watching them .. pretty much on suicide watch !
hope i helped .. tell me how it goes babe...
--brooke--
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