Question Posted Wednesday January 26 2005, 11:35 am
hey...well i go out with this kid(Eric) and like i really do like hima real lot...we went out before but his so called "Best Friend"(Kevin) started spreading rumors and he kind of messed up our realationship...he wouldnt beleave me when i told him it wasnt true and he said he was going to beleave his best friend so i dumped him because i dont want to goout with someone who doesnt trust me...well i went out with him a while ago so i think he likes me still because if he doesnt then why would he start rumors to make us breake up? thats gay but o well it was his fault he cheated on me and then he goes and dumps me...anywayz after me and eric broke up we kind of started talking a lot more because likke before he never called me and everytime i called him he could only talk for about 10 mins and then he would be like i have to go...we never hang out either...so i guess he didnt really like him like he said...well teh other day i was walking after school with dome friends and we saw him so he came up to us and walked with us...my friend(Cesar) always walks homw with me so i dont have to walk alone but that day he stayed home because he was sick i think...so Eric walked me home and he hugged me before he left and stuff...pretty weird lol he never did before...anyways taht same day i went online and he asked me out and he said he was sorry for not believing me when he should have and that it wont happen again because now he trustes me...everything was going great until he went over Kevins house and he told him that we go out acyually it was yesterday well teh thing is i went online and he was away and rigth when i tried talking to him he signed off...and i dont know if he didnt on purpose because he had to go...theres thsi girl too she was like my sister...she doesnt live in town...but after me and eric broke up teh first time she all started flirting with him i mean what a friend who does that to a friend...i mean i love that girl to death but she is a slut seriously im srry but she is...she loves everyone and goes out with people she hasnt never seen before and i really think thats so fucked up but anywayz her life none of my business...wel when they were flirting i know he was too but his friends say he did flirt but he dont like her, HE DOESNT EVEN KNOW HER!...i kind of think he likes her he talked to her yesterday but no he wouldnt talk to me...i really dont know whatto do all i know is that i love him and dont want to lose him...but what if he did signed off on purpose and if he doe like her(even tho he sayd he doesnt)???...ugh!!...i hate this so thing called love lol is so complicated...I NEED HELP!!...lol...thanx for everything...much love...
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Manulo answered Wednesday January 26 2005, 1:36 pm: First of all why go out with somebody who listens to their friends and can't make up their own mind. Second a rumor is just a rumor. If you want the truth than go to the source itself and get the truth. Your true friends will back you up. Everyone else won't because they think their "cool." If you love this boy, tell him. Stop playing games on both your ends. If it happens, it happens. If it doesn't, then move on and find somebody who can appreciate you. Stop putting yourself back to the same situation. Your going nowhere with it. If your smart you two won't let any friends dictate your relationship. [ Manulo's advice column | Ask Manulo A Question ]
xl_h0ll0w_Li3s_lx answered Wednesday January 26 2005, 11:51 am: well i think you should talk to him about it or ask her if he told her he liked her or just see if he flirts with her go with him when they talk to each other n that happend to me only im still with eric lol but it didnt happen with eric it happend with kevin he would always dump me cuz of rumors and then he would flirt with my bestfriend and she would flirt with him too .. it got me mad and then he wwould beg me to go back out with him.. but yeahh but finally one day i just went and flipped out on him because he kept doing this on a weekly bases soo i think you should talk to him before he thinks you will run back to him no matter what he does.. and i think you should just tell him that your not gunna run back for ever..
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