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I like someone
Ok i like this girl and shes soo freekin fine..i want to ask her out but i dont have the balls to...cause i dont even think she likes me..i mean were friends and all but i think that if i do and she says no that, that could mess up our relationship...what should i do?
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Be like "I'm not saying I am going to but if I was ever to ask you out what would you say"
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Charmed-Cherry21
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i think you should talk to one of her friends find out who she likes .. n if she likes you ask her out you could just talk to her yourself ask her who she likes and then just be a flirty and cute and you should just go for it u never know how she is gunna answer without asking.
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Don't be so scared, the worse she could say would be no.
I doubt it will ruin the relationship if she says no, most of the time the girl feels really bad if they have to turn a good guy friend down, and will try hard to keep the friendship stable.
I say ask her out, but don't just come out of no where with it. Make sure to try and drop hints, and maybe flirt a little, to give her some clues as to your feelings. This way there won't be any surprises for her.
Good luck,
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ASK her out, if she says no oh well too bad for her!
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i think you should tell her how you feel ALWAYS EXPRESS YOUR FEELINGS and if it does mess up your relationship then its her fault not yours
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Well you either get some balls or you don't.
If you are too worried about ruining a friendship, don't do it. Things being awkward between you would be a natural outgrowth of a rejection, and you either take that risk or you don't. Also, keep in mind that if you do go out and then break up, you will lose a friend. It's a scary proposition but one that you have to think about.
If all that is worth it to you, then suck it up and do it. Ask her in a casual and non-threatening way to go out sometime. Tell her what you like about her (and come up with something better than "you're soo freaking fine, girl!" please!!) and that you want to date her. She says no, don't freak out. Just take it graciously and deal with your feelings later. Nobody likes saying no and she probably will feel bad about it too.
If she says yes, then consider yourself lucky!
One final word: girls like to be pursued. (in a nice, healthy, non-obsessive way) If you want to be with her bad enough, you have to have the confidence to ask her out. If you can't, you're wimping out to the possibility of rejection. Don't let that stop you. A confident guy is a sexy guy, and messing around because you're scared doesn't send her confident, "macho" vibes. Do it or don't.
Good luck!
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The question you need to ask yourself is that do you like her because she's fine or does she have more to offer. If it is more than you as a friend are obligated to show her that and make her realize that you are the right guy. Don't be afarid because fear can make you lose self-confidence. Let her know how you feel and give her reasons why you think you would be good together. Flowers and candy are sometimes good initatives to add to the conversation when you make her feel like it's worth it.
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