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Question Posted Tuesday January 25 2005, 7:19 pm

theres this kid and he told me he wants to have sex with me. this is so gross to me! i cant stop thinking about it. i heard over and over in my head"i wanna have sex with you" its so gross i dont even like his the least bit! theres no way i can get this outta my head! please help!

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xl_h0ll0w_Li3s_lx answered Wednesday January 26 2005, 11:42 am:
well he was probably being an asshole n just kidding around but it is nothing to worry about i mean there will be atleast 5 more guys saying that to you n atleast one of them will mean it that doesnt mean you have to either .. but just talk to him tell him u aint into that type of stuff soo dont kid around about that.
hope i helped
tell me how it goes hunn

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Melanie4981 answered Wednesday January 26 2005, 8:51 am:
Best thing you can do is just ignore him.

Silly little boys say that to me all the time and I'm 23!!!!

They just never grow up!!

Seriously though if he is really bugging you over it then speak to your school counsellor/teacher ar even your parents and they will be able to do things to make it stop.

Take care!

Mel

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AKSherma answered Wednesday January 26 2005, 7:27 am:
Edit: I hope that you do read this. I'm sorry that my adviced wasn't very helpful to you, but I know what you mean by what you had written in my feedback. I have/am going through the same thing right now. I''m just older and no one really likes me, at least not as a friend, and I live a fairly lonely life. I'm sorry that I wasn't more of a help.

Yours,
Arun





That is an incredibly inappropriate thing to say, even if it was in jest. I hate to say it but probably when you're older you're going to have to deal with arses like him, especially at parties, clubs what have you.

Unfortunately this is one of the things that you have to just let slide off of you. If you want to get him trouble, you can tell a teacher about it, because there may be something underneath his comment. You may not be able to completely get it out of your head- but you can skew it to make it feel like that you're very "sexy" or something like that (ie an attractive girl). Other than that, you may not be able to get out of it. I will warn you though, you'll probably hear more of it as you grow older.

Best of luck,
Arun

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XxXHyperGirlXxX answered Tuesday January 25 2005, 10:04 pm:
The only possible way to get it out of your head is to just give him wat he wants....Have sex with him.

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happytohelp05 answered Tuesday January 25 2005, 9:17 pm:
Well, I'm sorry it bugs you, that happens to me sometimes, but I think you just have to keep waiting until it leaves, sometimes when I get a song stuck in my head, I have to listen to it again and that makes it leave. So maybe you should try to keep seeing that kid, not like have sex with him, but just be rude to him like he was to you. Or joke around with him, but not all minds wok the same so maybe ignoring the thought, which is hard, and it MIGHT go away. Or you can repeat the phrase all silly like goofy, or donald duck or funny sounds until you can't rememeber how it was originally said. I hope that helped, lol. and I hope it goes away.

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TheTeenGirl answered Tuesday January 25 2005, 9:11 pm:
ok, I did not copy that girl, she copied me, look at the time differences, mine was 8:11, hers was 8:17, so I did not copy her! and you need to appreciate advice even if it doesn;t work, don't be ungreatful and rate people 1 just because it didn't work, or nobody will wanna even help you.

-TheTeenGirl

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