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wow ok I just got side sweep bangs and they are aweful... the lady that cut them must have been drunk or something!! Does anyone know how I could fix them?... I don't really want to wait until they grow out
Well go to some 1 else they could prlly fix them .. or you just have to let them grow out!!
kaitlyn jO
Umm. hey. Well, I have this problem.. well yeah duh because thats why im writing this. lol. Anyway,My name is Katelyn..I'm fifteen years old&well im a girl. My boyfriend & i have been going out on and off for a pretty good while now. About 2 years. I'm like in love with this boy & i would NEVER EVER wana do anything to hurt him. I just wish he could say the same about me. See, i have this friend she used to be my best friend but we kinda grew apart & we arent as close as we used to be.well my boyfriend is supposedly "best friends" with her now. He calls her everyday&they hang out and it kind of makes me feel bad. I've asked them both before if they had somethin goin on. But they both said no. I should trust them.. but its kinda hard to do that yah know? Its like one minute i think he really likes me just as much as i like him & then its somethin else that makes me think he doesnt. I just really dont know what to do.. i dont know how to let them know i feel like this without them thinkin' that im just accusing.Plus i dont want my boyfriend to think im keeping him from his friends.I dont wana lose my friend or boyfriend..i feel like a jealous girlfriend..am i over-reacting? Can you please help me out? thanks a lot*
you arent over reacting mostly all girlfriends do it but atleast you kno the grl that he hangs out with .. but if you arent datin him then you cant really do anything about it .. sorry buts thats all i really kno to tell ya .. !!
kaitlyn jO *
Alright theres this guy i like and he likes me and he wants to have sex with me but hes datin my best friend and like he keeps tellin me ohh she wont find out but i dont know what to do can u help me
I would tell him NO ! you wouldnt do that to your best friend and you could even get pregnant !! I dont kno what else to tell you !!
kaitlyn jO *
ok i love giving advice and i was wondering if anyone knew another website like this where i can sign up to be a columnist and give advice on both websites?
thanks
No .. .. .. but you could try a search on google !! i havent seen any other advice site at all or as good as this one !!
kaitlyn jO
ok so last summer i got a haircut rite? it came out HORRIBLE, too WAY TOO short! i was so embaressed. so i went to a professional place and it got even worse. i was ALWAYS getting made fun of and i hated it. well the past school year i whore my hair up every single day! now i want my hair to grow really long but since the last haircut i got was a year ago, i dont think my hair will grow. i dont want to "get a trim" cause i want it to grow! should i just snip a tiny bit of hair off myself? please help!
Dont cut your hair yourself .. you can go to a drug store or sumwhere and they will have some kind of a vitamin or something that makes your hair grow or if you have ur mom or a professional cut less than a half an inch off and that usually helps !! Hope i helped !!
kaitlyn jO
ok..so there was this girl and she was like my best friend all thro 8th grade...then my b/f broke up with me and she went out with him a DAY later. how horrible is that?! well..he is so mean to her and he talks so bad about me and my other friends..but she wont stick up for us..AT ALL! she sits there and laughs about it. she said she was sorry and i was like.ok..and i have forgiven her and everything but now its like evrything she does gets on my nerves i cant stand this girl. and its hard because she still thinks we are best friends and i dont know how to just tell her..Hey girl..we arent friends...i thought it would be easier to forgive her but it keeps getting harder cause she is like the fakest person in the world. idk what i should do because now we are in a huge fight and she is making it seem like its MYYY fault.and ignoring her doest work because she is good friends with another one of my best friends so its like everywhere i go with my friends she is there too..ughhh please help!
I would tell her that you need to have a talk and tell her that you've tried forgiving her and everything and putting it behind you but i cant take it anymore .. and that it is soo wrong that she is dating your ex. like some people say "bestfriends dont date best friends exes"
but thats basicly all that i can tell you!!
kaitlyn jO
I am 13 and I want to start making my own money instead of having to rely on my parents so much. I'm pretty sure I can't get a REAL job anywhere yet, but I was wondering if there are any other ways. I already know mowing lawns and babysitting but it hasn't worked so well... thanx!
You could go to a daycare and ask if you could help out and get paid .. but thats kinda like babysitting .. umm ... i really dont kno anything !! lol
kaitlyn jO
i feel like i should exercise more but i don't know what to do, i'm really bad at sports and i'm not into running, got any ideas?
I would do crunches or go out and walk every night it helps alot !! or you can prolly find a book or something online that tells you how or gives you exercises to do .. Hope i helped!!
kaitlyn jO
Okay so i go to a small high school i'll be a senior, and i hang out with this group of people and i mean we're all really close, and it's really weird cause theres i'd say about.. 50-60 of us, but we all hang out at school at lunch together and take up this big spot and everything. Anyways there's guys and girls. I really want to have a birthday party this year i'll be turning 17. because i didn't do anything for my 16th really and i haven't ad one since like 6th grade. but i was just wondering if anyone had any ideas on what to do with so many people. my friend had her 16th bday at this big hotel room thing..like whats downstairs..and there was a dance floor and a dj and food and stuff. so i dont really want that. i would just feel bad if i didn't invite some people cause we're all like best friends..and thats what makes it hard. 50 best friends? whaatt.. i mean i have ONE BEST BEST friends, but everyone else is pretty much the same. any ideas?
oh and my bdays in november.
Well what i would do is like have it in a gym at like a reckcenter or something like that but i would have a house party or find someplace that is BIG that is near where you live !!
Hope i helped !!
kaitlyn jO
My boyfried & I were good friends before we developed feelings for eachother. Our relationship started slow, like he'd just put his arm around me in movies & we'd talk. Then things are getting closer & by only the third or fourth date, we make out most of the movie. I love showinnng my affection for him & he's a really sweet guy I just don't want things to get touchy-feely & nothing else. How can I make sure we don't base our relationship on lust?
Talk to him and tell him that you dont want your relationship to be based on just LUST !! but if he cant except that or anything that you say then the guy isnt worth it !! Hope i helped !!
kaitlyn jO
Okay so i`m 17 and i was goin out with this 20 yr old boy for about 7 months..but we've been hookin up for almost a year. Then he cheated on me with his ex. so we seperated. Lets pretend this boys name is Bob. So while me and bob were broken up, we still talked and hooked up every once in a while. but not much. So i had a lot of free time for once. Durin the free time i met this other 20 yr old boy. he was so sweet and everything. so we started talkin. We`ll call this boy Joe. So later on, i come to find out that Bob and Joe are like worst enemies. they`ve been beefin` with eachother for YEARS! So then they find out about eachother, which isnt that big of a deal bc im not goin out with either one. but still they were mad and wanted to fight eachother. so Joe got locked up almost 2 weeks ago. And everyone wants me to help get him out. But i currently go out with Bob again, so he doesnt want me to. I mean some times i think i love bob, but i find myself constantly thinkin about Joe. and i miss him a lot. I dont know who would be a better choice for me? and i dont wanna make the wrong one.. I really need help. I dont wanna be lyin to them, so i just want one... plzzzz help .. thanxx
Okay .. well "BOB" cheated on you .. and if you think that "joe" is soo sweet and everything then i would stick with him .. i would give bob another chance .. sooooo i would go with joe .. I'm really sorry that i couldnt give you anymore help !!!!!
kaitlyn jO
okay, even though i give out advice i need it for my room,
my room is being painted blue, and chesnut stained floor, and a mission kind of furnitur, its all dark, like everything, now i neeed things liike a bedspread or something like so, does anyone know here to get things like that??
x0o
brok3n
You could try PB Teen .. Target .. JCPenny .. Sears and places like that have really kool bedspreads !! Hope that i helped !!
kaitlyn jO
ok..if this is the second time i wrote this sry. it says i didnt ask a question and i need some advice. well i am 14 years old and there is this guy. we have been talking for about a month and a half now. he tells me he loves me and we almost had sex. everyone always asks me if we go out, i never know what to tell them so then i just asked him what were we?..were we just talkin or do we go out?..and he said we are just talking. i mean i like u but i want to talk to other girls.
should i keep talkin to him to see if things get better. or shut him outta my life? i just dont wanna get hurt. yah kno?
I would keep talkin to him if you really like him .. but if you would ever go out with him he could cheat on you if he wants to always talk to other grls when hes [ talkinq ] to you !! i'm really sorry that i dont kno what else to tell you but i hope that i helped some !!
kaitlyn jO
heyy do any of you know any cute summer screen names
i looking for a new one im 13/f
please answer asap
i rate high
I dont kno to many but you can try :
tRoPiCaL x3 kIsS
sUmMeR o5 bAbiI
x iN pArAdIsE x
pInK x0o sUnSeT
tRoPiCaLxbRe3ze
tHose are some ideas that i would use as a screename !! hope that i helped you out !!
kaitlyn jO ,3
Hi My Name Troy And my Brother Freddy Is 19 And Smoking Weed. He Gets Really High And I Live With Him Because Our Parents Died Of A Drug Over Dose ! He Does This All Day And i Sit There And Watch Him Do This And It Hurts. And Then Later At Night EVERY Night He Has This Guy Come Over And They Start Making Out In The Doorway. Then They Take Me Into my Room And Me Me Watch Themm Do "Yah know" ! Well I Can't Take This Anymore Please Gimme ADVICE !!
Signed,
- Sad Little Brother..:-(~
i seriously dont kno wwhat to tell you !! you should like go find a friends house to stay at or a family members .. you could call a place around you that your brother could get help at but you cant help him for being gay .. hope thati help you some !!
kaitlyn jO
Hi..My Name Is Amanda And I Have A Huge Problem And I'm Looking For Help. I'm 17 Years Old And I had A Baby A Few Months Ago..My Mom Kicked Me Out Of My House When I Told Her I Was Pregnant With My Little Baby Girl, Jenna. I'm At My Grandmothers House But She Says I Have To move Out Asap..I Don't know Why..I Just Need Some Help On How To Raise Jenna. Like How To Find A House And get Started on Living.. I Wanted To Go To College And Get A Good Job..But My Boyfriend Is Umm Well Gay..And He Said That He Can't Take Care Of Jenna..So I'm Just Gonna Have To Raise Her On My Own Right?? BUT HOW !? Help Me !
--*Mother At 17..
Hey .. I've seen alot of grls kicked out of their house like that ... what i would do is see if one of my friends or my aunt or just some1 would babysit jenna for you and go find a job .. i understand that your boyfriend is gay and all but he does need to help you !! I'm really sorry but i dont kno what else i should tell you but i hope that you can use this advice !!
kaitlyn jO
Hello. My name Is Andy. I Have A Girlfriend And Her Name Is Amanda. She Just had A Baby At A Few Months Ago..SHE'S 17! Well my Supposivley Daughter Jenna, Well I Can't Raise Her Because I Have To Go To College And get on With my Life. I'm Gay You Should know. And So Like I Need Help Trying To Tell Amanda I Can't Be Involved in Jenna's Life Because I'm Gay And I Just Don't Belong With A Daughter Yet ! I'm Only 17 Too! Well Please Help !!
Signed
-- Too Young For Fatherhood..
Well your gonna have to deel with it any way you have a daughter so i think that you should try and help her .. .. i cant really help you with trying and tell her that you cant be involved with her and your daughter but you still should support her even if your gay !! i'm really sorry that i cant help you but i really wish i could!!
kaitlyn jO
I made the cheerleading squad this year and i love it.. but our coach said any girls that argued or talked about each other behind their baQs or caused drama were going to be kicked off the squad.. and there is a girl on the squad that is so mean to me.. she makes fun of me but says she is just pickin but it bothers me and she says rude stuff that makes me mad.. but i havent said anything to her about it because i'm afraid it will make her mad and start a fight but i'm rele tired of being treated like that... wut should i do?!?
I would just talk to the coach and let him kno that your not tryin to start drama and then tell ur coach about the grl. Let the coach kno that you really like the sqad and want to stay on it but this grl is really making it not fun !!
Hope that i helped !!
kaitlyn jO
I have a rat. And i was wondering from anyone who knows anything about them. What can be done or given to a rat to keep it amused. I open the cage everyday and let him run up my bookcase(where his cage is situated) but I don't know if this is efficient enough? Anything would be appreciated.
Thanks a lot,
Anthony
You can go to a pet store, they will have stuff for your rat like little weels taht they can run on in their cage and they have little balls that they can run around in .. Hope i helped you !!
kaitlyn jO
I wrecked my dad's car this morning, and he's out of town until tomorrow morning. I haven't got the guts to call him and tell him about it, cause there's a huge dent in it and the garage door is messed up. I also pulled the bike racks off the walls. I know that I'll be in big trouble if I wait til he finds out, but I really don't know what to tell him on the phone. I feel so bad. HELP ME!
~stupid driver
I would get real calm and just tell him not to get mad .. tell him what happened and make and offer to do something willing to do anything just so that you wont get in deep trouble .. sry that i didnt really help that bad but hope i gave you an idea !!
kaitlyn jO