Okay so i`m 17 and i was goin out with this 20 yr old boy for about 7 months..but we've been hookin up for almost a year. Then he cheated on me with his ex. so we seperated. Lets pretend this boys name is Bob. So while me and bob were broken up, we still talked and hooked up every once in a while. but not much. So i had a lot of free time for once. Durin the free time i met this other 20 yr old boy. he was so sweet and everything. so we started talkin. We`ll call this boy Joe. So later on, i come to find out that Bob and Joe are like worst enemies. they`ve been beefin` with eachother for YEARS! So then they find out about eachother, which isnt that big of a deal bc im not goin out with either one. but still they were mad and wanted to fight eachother. so Joe got locked up almost 2 weeks ago. And everyone wants me to help get him out. But i currently go out with Bob again, so he doesnt want me to. I mean some times i think i love bob, but i find myself constantly thinkin about Joe. and i miss him a lot. I dont know who would be a better choice for me? and i dont wanna make the wrong one.. I really need help. I dont wanna be lyin to them, so i just want one... plzzzz help .. thanxx
xoxoemiliexoxo answered Wednesday July 13 2005, 8:12 pm: well if joe is locked up all the time hes not going to have anytime for you...and if bob doesnt let you do want you want to do then i think you should do some more looking around then have to pick just one guy when there is more guys out there [ xoxoemiliexoxo's advice column | Ask xoxoemiliexoxo A Question ]
VixenDark answered Wednesday July 13 2005, 1:44 pm: I say ditch them both. If they are fighting like that, then they are probably the jealous types.
Rebecca answered Tuesday July 12 2005, 3:59 pm: These are both thugs if they are always fighting and 'beefin' as you say and what's up with that? I mean you are desperately wanting a guy in jail? Come on - Bob already cheated on you and the other one is in jail - they probably just fought over you because of who the other guy was - not because of you. So let them both go and call it a day! You can do much better than that - I'm sure! I do wonder how you didn't know this guy was 'bob's worst enemy' and you two dated for 7 months...no mention of that huh? Well, what I can tell you is that the future with these two looks grim. [ Rebecca's advice column | Ask Rebecca A Question ]
shortone09 answered Tuesday July 12 2005, 2:20 pm: wow... you are in a difficult position. So did this guy get locked up from fighting for you? If you are stuck in the middle of their games and they want to fight eachother this might result in violence. So I think bob should go because he has cheated on you before and he won't even let you have interaction with Joe. So bob seems to me like he is untrustworthy. And you find yourself thinking about Joe all of the time which in my opinion means you are over Bob. So joe. Good Luck hope i helped. [ shortone09's advice column | Ask shortone09 A Question ]
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